Reasons Why Guys Avoid Commitment.

* A guy love his freedom to the fullest and he doesn't always want to be accountable and always explain his every move and activities. Ladies known to be generally domineering always try to control their partners (knowingly and unknowling).

* Guys easily get bored doing the same routine over and over. While the schedules of ladies are some worth predictable. A guy doesn't always be told to sit forcefully and watch E!, Style or African Magic with his girlfriend, help her in the kitchen or go and sit with her at the saloon while she does her hair. A guy would rather doze off instead of caught repeating the same routine over and over.

* Guys don't always want to be obliged to carry out some certain responsibilities for a particular girl. They love being adventurous with different personalities. Doing the same lovy-dovy tricks might just be sickening to a guy.

* Guys love their privacy at all times. This traits in a guy is what so many ladies have failed to realize. A Guy doesn't want a lady feel she owns him to the extent of checking his phone, tablet, laptop, wallet and pocket. A guy want to throw his phones and other gadgets around without a snooping hand and eye trying to find incriminating items on him to nail him as a cheat.

* Fear of loss of freedom is one of the major reasons why most guys don't want to commit. A guy wants to hangout with his friends at whatever time of the day without being called by a lady to come home early because theirs no fuel in the gen or cooking gas. Guys are totally freedom craving species.

* Guys are dependent species who always want someone to do their laundary, cooking, cleaning for them and they are scared of losing such privilege when they finall settle down with a partner as they will now have someone (people) dependent on them.

* Guys are careless, stubborn and forgetful. They always avoid being corrected on every single mistake they do and as such avoid a partner who they think has some dominering traits.

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Good write up but generalization is a falacy.

190: i wish all 7 of my gurlfriends would read this and stop bugging me with their endless wahalas


so true!!

Guy, you be monkey.
I think I should come up with a title "possible reasons why 7 girls keep chasing 190".
Those girls must sure be on crack.

vb0mb: Good write up but generalization is a falacy.

Well sir you are free to throw up your own possible reasons. Its an open ground for all to learn something.

so dat's why u never marry, abi? @ acidtalk.
Oga u berra be fast and invite us to come drink wine, else!
#runaway#

Wislet: so dat's why u never marry, abi? @ acidtalk.
Oga u berra be fast and invite us to come drink wine, else!
#runaway#

Sweet heart, I don marry oh! I married during the civil war (1964).
I just want to have my own share of this new generation chicks.


*down on knees* Will you marry me Wislet?

Simply '' NOT EASY''

vb0mb: Good write up but generalization is a falacy.

Are you with your senses? what the poster wrote are all correct.

Nice write up

miteolu: Simply '' NOT EASY''

What is not easy?
Your pocket or the women?

gboss4sure: Nice write up

Thanks sir.

chuksme: Are you with your senses? what the poster wrote are all correct.

Abeg help us tell him sir.

may I add one more reason though I'm a woman?

sex is for free nowadays. men don't have to marry to have sex.

i dey waka pass

I disagree

carefreewannabe: may I add one more reason though I'm a woman?

sex is for free nowadays. men don't have to marry to have sex.

God bless you.
Variety is the spice of life.
Different holes, different excitment.

2 bottles of Gulder for you.

deeplo: i dey waka pass

No sha waka enter canal.
Look ground well well.

carefreewannabe: may I add one more reason though I'm a woman?

sex is for free nowadays. men don't have to marry to have sex.

Why buy the cow when you have gotten them milk for free

AmBeautiful: I disagree

Then share your reasons with us.
We are all ears.

carefreewannabe: may I add one more reason though I'm a woman?

sex is for free nowadays. men don't have to marry to have sex.

Bitter truth.

I think I hit the nail

guys, I'm starting to understand you more and more.

so what are we women gonna do? should do? start to think the same way?

and if we do, what will happen to family life and children?

Who is this 190? He should rather change his id 2 nairaland-clown! Nice write-up there...got me nodding in affirmation!

carefreewannabe: I think I hit the nail

guys, I'm starting to understand you more and more.

so what are we women gonna do? should do? start to think the same way?

and if we do, what will happen to family life and children?

Women can do absolutely nothing. The poverty and laziness amongst the female youths of today have made them believe the easy way out of starvation is to throw apart their two legs for every dude to enter and pay the charges after satisfying his urge.

Women can't give up Blackberry, ipad, designer bags and perfs or can they?

Yield:

by the way, I love the picture in your post. and your text inspired me a great deal. thank you and keep ya head up even when the truth seems to be sad and bitter. at the end it's not that bad. I promise you

Yield:

by the way, I love the picture in your post. and your text inspired me a great deal. thank you and keep ya head up even when the truth seems to be sad and bitter. at the end it's not that bad. I promise you

acidtalk:

Sweet heart, I don marry oh! I married during the civil war (1964).
I just want to have my own share of this new generation chicks.


*down on knees* Will you marry me Wislet?

achaic toasting line.
No wonder u dey complain.
U berra go for lessons- u know say war don finish Grandpa
.

Or u wan do like dis guy? LMAO

chuksme: Are you with your senses? what the poster wrote are all correct.

In as much as i shud agree wit d Op & u...bt its nt really true for every guy.

acidtalk:


Women can do absolutely nothing. The poverty and laziness amongst the female youths of today have made them believe the easy way out of starvation is to throw apart their two legs for every dude to enter and pay the charges after satisfying his urge.

Women can't give up Blackberry, ipad, designer bags and perfs or can they?

not only lazy and / or poor women have sex before marriage. and material things like blackberries, ipads etc are not the only reason why women have sex with men.
women are very different. also hard working and rich women can be promiscious. there are different reasons why women stopped waiting to have sex after marriage. however, it's not only women who play a part in this. guys don't mind to sleep with prostitutes. at the end f the day: society's values changed. on both sides, the male and the female side. it's up to you if you label tis development good or bad

Remember, not everyone is like that.

http://www.mynewhitmanwrites.com/2011/09/are-there-husbands-and-wives-in-nigeria.html

Are people getting married everyday in Nigeria? Yes.

The truth is some guys that scared of commitment need to work on themselves first.