₦airaland Forum

MASTAkiLLAh:
your entire op was an insult on my culture yet you're still talking nonsense. If at your big age you don't know that an Ijaw bride is not expected to smile until she has been sprayed a lot of money by the groom and his family then there's something wrong with you and you shouldn't be making reports on other people's culture talk less of insulting them the way you did in your post. You insulted sotey, you insult bride wey no do you anything. Rubbish

It seems your wife is giving you trouble and you are looking for a nairalander to pour ur insults on. Sorry ooo my bro.
At your age, do you know my culture? I address the lady not u.. I dont want to say anything abt u bc u re frustrated. Sorry oo my bro. Am not the cause of ur misery. Is ur wife and Tinubu

IconicR:
Maybe they just had a fight a day before the wedding . E no go pass say the man was caught cheating a day before the wedding, Nigerian men's penis are the most uncontrollable in the whole world.

If Nigerian men are what you said then your husband to be is most likely going to be so.

IconicR:
Maybe they just had a fight a day before the wedding . E no go pass say the man was caught cheating a day before the wedding, Nigerian men's penis are the most uncontrollable in the whole world.

Closed mouth. This is a real red flag. This kind woman can never be pleased. Narcissistic behavior

CaseSensitive:
I find it strange masquerading happiness with a sulky face and blasé demeanour but hey you learn something new everyday. With the bolded, do the men drink that too? Or you're trying to say she will later be wild for the husband and open like Kai's kitchen?

I imply the latter 😂

Make una go marry and stop peeping how brides or grooms behaves in their marriages.

I laugh..

Nsogbu001:
It seems your wife is giving you trouble and you are looking for a nairalander to pour ur insults on. Sorry ooo my bro.
At your age, do you know my culture? I address the lady not u.. I dont want to say anything abt u bc u re frustrated. Sorry oo my bro. Am not the cause of ur misery. Is ur wife and Tinubu

What's he spraying money for now? The bride is even motionless.

N3TRAL:
Read wider!

Just educate people here on this and leave with this your read wider talk abeg.

There are things he knows that you don't, vice versa.

So, of all important things to know or read about in life with his time here on earth, na one archaic, us€le$$ and m€aningless culture practice him go dey read about up and down.

Please what is the marital importance of this practice if I may ask?
Of what importance is it to marriage life?


PS: I used those words because I don't think they are useful in marriage.

IconicR:
If e reach to be a traditional man now your narrative go change and you'll be shouting 50-50 . Who go worship you when you Dy advocate for 50-50? No woman will disrespect a full traditional man but where wahala will come is when you ask your woman to bring something to the table while cutting from the table to service another woman outside. Before you think of gathering women around you make sure you have plenty money kos your wife cannot be relieving you at home while you go out to enjoy the relieve with another woman, na there wahala Dy start and divorce go enter

Dem get money, dem dey look for women wey go cater for them , only one woman dem never fit take care of the woman

Dem do olosho pass woman..

isabi2lof:
Dem get money, dem dey look for women wey go cater for them , only one woman dem never fit take care of the woman

Dem do olosho pass woman..

😂😂😂

IconicR:
If e reach to be a traditional man now your narrative go change and you'll be shouting 50-50 . Who go worship you when you Dy advocate for 50-50? No woman will disrespect a full traditional man but where wahala will come is when you ask your woman to bring something to the table while cutting from the table to service another woman outside. Before you think of gathering women around you make sure you have plenty money kos your wife cannot be relieving you at home while you go out to enjoy the relieve with another woman, na there wahala Dy start and divorce go enter

You should know that our forefathers marry their wives as virgins. Nowadays, ladies will jump from one dick to the other, using cucumber to expand their fishy smelly punna only to be expecting we holymen to treat them as Queen. It can never happen

DestinyNigga:
You should know that our forefathers marry their wives as virgins. Nowadays, ladies will jump from one dick to the other, using cucumber to expand their fishy smelly punna only to be expecting we holymen to treat them as Queen. It can never happen

Who are these ladies sleeping with? Men are responsible for all that is happening today, when they started buying sex what were they expecting? Men think they can be sexually loose and settles for virgin abi? E no kuku pain me, virgin scarce more than rainbow. Only disciplined men deserves virgin women

chris51:
It's Ijaw culture. She will smile when her people are satisfied that enough money has been sprayed

What if they can't afford to spray much?

No, it's not a forced marriage.its part of izon traditional marriage rite. The groom has to make the bride laugh. The bride go frown make the money plenty,then she will smile.
Proudly Izon ebe
Proudly Nigeria Delta
Citizen of the creeks

Nsogbu001:
Marriage is not by force and no one would force you to marry who you dont want to marry.
Why would you come to the public and make it seem that you were forced into the marriage?

Age doesn't make you mature in marriage. This marriage is not a day something. This is someone you will be seeing everyday. If you start like this from the first day, I wonder what will happen as time goes on. Nawaoo oo
Take a look.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FudrhMUJPH4

It's our unique culture. He and his people would have to make her laugh. It's part of the fun of the occasion.

didisky:
It's our unique culture. He and his people would have to make her laugh. It's part of the fun of the occasion.

Okay, ah grab

IconicR:
Maybe they just had a fight a day before the wedding . E no go pass say the man was caught cheating a day before the wedding, Nigerian men's penis are the most uncontrollable in the whole world.

It's their Tradition. Brides don't smile during the Traditional wedding.

Are you serious for real....as man speaketh so he is

Nsogbu001:
Marriage is not by force and no one would force you to marry who you dont want to marry.
Why would you come to the public and make it seem that you were forced into the marriage?

Age doesn't make you mature in marriage. This marriage is not a day something. This is someone you will be seeing everyday. If you start like this from the first day, I wonder what will happen as time goes on. Nawaoo oo
Take a look.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FudrhMUJPH4

Nsogbu001 It's one of the bride's rites in the traditional wedding.
If you had attended a traditional wedding of the Ijaws, you won't type/post the above.

N3TRAL:
It's their tradition for a bride to frown for an extended period while she's sprayed with money by the groom, his family and friends.

The proper display of the custom during their traditional weddings is to appear unhappy as long as possible until she's satisfied with the money showered on her.

When she's satisfied, she will smile.

That's a very happy bride whose husband will be drunk with her pvssy juice during honeymoon.

A lovely couple.

You nailed it
You understand the cultural rites.

I feel so sorry for the guy.. This is not a good sign.. I wish them well sha..

IconicR:
Who are these ladies sleeping with? Men are responsible for all that is happening today, when they started buying sex what were they expecting? Men think they can be sexually loose and settles for virgin abi? E no kuku pain me, virgin scarce more than rainbow. Only disciplined men deserves virgin women

Many of we men are holy. Not only holy but virgin. I use myself as example. Am purely virgin If I lie make Thiefinubu lose at tribunal

IconicR:
Maybe they just had a fight a day before the wedding . E no go pass say the man was caught cheating a day before the wedding, Nigerian men's penis are the most uncontrollable in the whole world.

You can't completely blame the man,although you may be right, but I think she misses her x

madridguy:
Bless Jah we are blessed with active joy stick that is ready to attack at any point in time

Lol 🤣

Yk1506:
No, it's not a forced marriage.its part of izon traditional marriage rite. The groom has to make the bride laugh. The bride go frown make the money plenty,then she will smile.
Proudly Izon ebe
Proudly Nigeria Delta
Citizen of the creeks

But if the man no get money nko so that means she no go smile or laugh 😂. Man made culture

sageb:
Nsogbu001 It's one of the bride's rites in the traditional wedding.
If you had attended a traditional wedding of the Ijaws, you won't type/post the above.

I have been told already. Thank u for the info. We learn everyday

N3TRAL:
How are you?

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