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I think you're very stupid, leave that girl and move on.

You don send free money X2 😂

You enter their trap. Man, why na ?

Manipulative people have one trick under their sleeves. Which is, they will provoke you, and when you react, they then justify their bad actions with your reactions, therefore, absorbing their bad behaviors.

Is like a girl giving you a dirty slap, when you slap her back, she tells the world you were abusive, meanwhile, deleting the aggressive beginnings when they slapped you first.

Next time, don't react harshly, so you won't have to apologize, and also so that it would be clear that they are the ones that forks up. Well, you have learned your lesson.

By the way, you are in a relationship with yourself. Just in case you don't know.

Bradford111:
Is been long me and my girlfriend saw in our 8 months relationship we haven’t seen for 5 months despite staying the same state due to issues always coming up


Last week I sent her tp to come but due to network issues she wasn’t credited and the day was running out so I told her to go to a POs so I will send again so she can come she told me she doesn’t have that strength




Minutes later she called and told me her bestie is around that I can send to her besties OPay account so she withdraw it and come her bestie even took the phone and talk to me for some minutes and later sent her bank details for me to send to


After sending the money I discovered her bestie blocked me on WhatsApp I tried calling my girl she wasn’t responding I thought they were playing with Me


After some time my girl called back I exploded in anger and said a lot of things insulting her and stuffs


After some time I got my self and apologized for how I reacted now she is giving me attitude not picking my calls replying my texts on WhatsApp


Please I’m stuck what should I do?

sorry o. First, na you dey in love, the banny no dey in love. You too check am na. 8 months for relationship, 5 months no see, same state. U don fire am before? May be no. Once a girl says, send the money to my friend's account and the account no be normal traditional bank, otilo!

I don’t give relationship advise to foools anymore
You’ll learn the hard way.

Bradford111:
Is been long me and my girlfriend saw in our 8 months relationship we haven’t seen for 5 months despite staying the same state due to issues always coming up


Last week I sent her tp to come but due to network issues she wasn’t credited and the day was running out so I told her to go to a POs so I will send again so she can come she told me she doesn’t have that strength




Minutes later she called and told me her bestie is around that I can send to her besties OPay account so she withdraw it and come her bestie even took the phone and talk to me for some minutes and later sent her bank details for me to send to


After sending the money I discovered her bestie blocked me on WhatsApp I tried calling my girl she wasn’t responding I thought they were playing with Me


After some time my girl called back I exploded in anger and said a lot of things insulting her and stuffs


After some time I got my self and apologized for how I reacted now she is giving me attitude not picking my calls replying my texts on WhatsApp


Please I’m stuck what should I do?

are you new in the game?

jackmrandy:
are you new in the game?

No

Bradford111:
Is been long me and my girlfriend saw in our 8 months relationship we haven’t seen for 5 months despite staying the same state due to issues always coming up


Last week I sent her tp to come but due to network issues she wasn’t credited and the day was running out so I told her to go to a POs so I will send again so she can come she told me she doesn’t have that strength




Minutes later she called and told me her bestie is around that I can send to her besties OPay account so she withdraw it and come her bestie even took the phone and talk to me for some minutes and later sent her bank details for me to send to


After sending the money I discovered her bestie blocked me on WhatsApp I tried calling my girl she wasn’t responding I thought they were playing with Me


After some time my girl called back I exploded in anger and said a lot of things insulting her and stuffs


After some time I got my self and apologized for how I reacted now she is giving me attitude not picking my calls replying my texts on WhatsApp


Please I’m stuck what should I do?

same state. same state oh.. same state oh and you both have not seen in months. same state highest tp won't be more than 2k. chai. be like say this one is just new in the game.....

Spoilt at your age.

Congratulations, you are going to be a father soon.

Bradford111:
Is been long me and my girlfriend saw in our 8 months relationship we haven’t seen for 5 months despite staying the same state due to issues always coming up


Last week I sent her tp to come but due to network issues she wasn’t credited and the day was running out so I told her to go to a POs so I will send again so she can come she told me she doesn’t have that strength




Minutes later she called and told me her bestie is around that I can send to her besties OPay account so she withdraw it and come her bestie even took the phone and talk to me for some minutes and later sent her bank details for me to send to


After sending the money I discovered her bestie blocked me on WhatsApp I tried calling my girl she wasn’t responding I thought they were playing with Me


After some time my girl called back I exploded in anger and said a lot of things insulting her and stuffs


After some time I got my self and apologized for how I reacted now she is giving me attitude not picking my calls replying my texts on WhatsApp


Please I’m stuck what should I do?

A lady that truly loves you and want to spend time with you will use her last Naira to pay her transportation to ur place. And courtesy demands you double that to while she heads back.

Oga, stop selling your self short. You even had to run the transfer twice? Double simping. You are the only one in that relationship.

Bradford111:
Is been long me and my girlfriend saw in our 8 months relationship we haven’t seen for 5 months despite staying the same state due to issues always coming up


Last week I sent her tp to come but due to network issues she wasn’t credited and the day was running out so I told her to go to a POs so I will send again so she can come she told me she doesn’t have that strength




Minutes later she called and told me her bestie is around that I can send to her besties OPay account so she withdraw it and come her bestie even took the phone and talk to me for some minutes and later sent her bank details for me to send to


After sending the money I discovered her bestie blocked me on WhatsApp I tried calling my girl she wasn’t responding I thought they were playing with Me


After some time my girl called back I exploded in anger and said a lot of things insulting her and stuffs


After some time I got my self and apologized for how I reacted now she is giving me attitude not picking my calls replying my texts on WhatsApp


Please I’m stuck what should I do?

Nwanne i bu onye eri li eri .

She loves you

Bradford111:
Is been long me and my girlfriend saw in our 8 months relationship we haven’t seen for 5 months despite staying the same state due to issues always coming up


Last week I sent her tp to come but due to network issues she wasn’t credited and the day was running out so I told her to go to a POs so I will send again so she can come she told me she doesn’t have that strength




Minutes later she called and told me her bestie is around that I can send to her besties OPay account so she withdraw it and come her bestie even took the phone and talk to me for some minutes and later sent her bank details for me to send to


After sending the money I discovered her bestie blocked me on WhatsApp I tried calling my girl she wasn’t responding I thought they were playing with Me


After some time my girl called back I exploded in anger and said a lot of things insulting her and stuffs


After some time I got my self and apologized for how I reacted now she is giving me attitude not picking my calls replying my texts on WhatsApp


Please I’m stuck what should I do?

U HV gotten the treatment u deserve as a Simp

Collins4u1:
Bro Jee chuba ego.

no be ego matter. He shld cease being a simp

Nonywendy:
no be ego matter. He shld cease being a simp

oga ọ chuba ego, time rubbish no go dey.

Watch her keep you as an option to fall back to when she needs you.

She go soon come back come dey blame you.

Bradford111:
You mean your dad

A smelly ass girl scammed you of your hard earned money, but instead of you to be a man and ignore her for life, you still have the mind to insult a fellow guy.
You're dating yourself and your money don enter voicemail.