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Jennyclay:
Send the naughty boy to Nigeria to come and learn some respect and manners

That was how my elder sister’s child in this same UK was misbehaving. He mingles with bad gang and if my sister yells at him or try to spank him he won’t hesitate to call the cops on her.

She explained everything to us and My mother told my elder sister to bundle the boy to Nigeria, that she would reset his head.
When he came to Nigeria my mother sent him to Command secondary school Ipaja Lagos state.

Every time we visits him during visiting day, he would cry and beg saying Grand ma please I won’t be stubborn again, I wanna go join my fam in the UK.

He spent 2 years (J.S.S 2 - 3) in command secondary school before he went back to UK. Now he’s a well behaved boy.

Nazgul:
From what I've understood and witness about flogging, most parents flog their children out of frustration and not to discipline them.

Take a walk around remote neighborhoods and you'll see first hand wickedness. The way parents there flog their kids, you'll think we're still in the slave era.

You don't have to flog a human being in order to make him/her have a good character. Your life is already a mirror for them. If you train them well, they'll be good. If they see hypocrisy in you and your life doesn't reflect what you're telling them to do, they'll live their lives however they want and become wayward.

This is the 21st century flogging should be banned.

Jennyclay:
Send the naughty boy to Nigeria to come and learn some respect and manners

That was how my elder sister’s child in this same UK was misbehaving. He mingles with bad gang and if my sister yells at him or try to spank him he won’t hesitate to call the cops on her.

She explained everything to us and My mother told my elder sister to bundle the boy to Nigeria, that she would reset his head.
When he came to Nigeria my mother sent him to Command secondary school Ipaja Lagos state.

Every time we visits him during visiting day, he would cry and beg saying Grand ma please I won’t be stubborn again, I wanna go join my fam in the UK.

He spent 2 years (J.S.S 2 - 3) in command secondary school before he went back to UK. Now he’s a well behaved boy.

felong:
Flogging a human being is wrong. What if the child dies.

felong:
Flogging a human being is wrong. What if the child dies.

inoki247:
Lol make the Govt hold the pikin now nd be feeding him and take care of him...

airsaylongcome:
All he needed to do was reach out to the British High Commission by any means and your sister would have been in a lot of trouble

felong:
Flogging a human being is wrong. What if the child dies.

aycorporat:
Training a child in the Western world is by God's grace.

There was a boy of ours who grew up in the UK and had the bad traits of disobedience. His dad lured him to Nigeria to come have a good taste of culture.

The moment he landed at MMIA, he was whisked to a remote village where his dad gave him a daily dosage of strokes of cane. At first he proved resistant, later he cooperated.

In the long run, he feigned remorse but was secretly taking shots of the wounds he sustained. After sometimes, his dad seeing his calmness, decided that he had learnt his lessons and it was time to go back to the USA.

Believe me, when they got to the UK, the boy tendered all evidences to the security agencies. How the dad escaped prison sentence and deportation is what I didn't know.

African culture still remains topnotch

Nazgul:
From what I've understood and witness about flogging, most parents flog their children out of frustration and not to discipline them.

Take a walk around remote neighborhoods and you'll see first hand wickedness. The way parents there flog their kids, you'll think we're still in the slave era.

You don't have to flog a human being in order to make him/her have a good character. Your life is already a mirror for them. If you train them well, they'll be good. If they see hypocrisy in you and your life doesn't reflect what you're telling them to do, they'll live their lives however they want and become wayward.

This is the 21st century flogging should be banned.

felong:
Flogging a human being is wrong. What if the child dies.

officialwdhtv:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RoMt5eBPyYw

UK based Nigerian doctor's 16yr old son taken from him because he flogged the boy with a belt after catching him watching an inappropriate video with his 2 friends

Take a listen!!!

#wetindeyhappentv

felong:
Flogging a human being is wrong. What if the child dies.

Jennyclay:
Send the naughty boy to Nigeria to come and learn some respect and manners

That was how my elder sister’s child in this same UK was misbehaving. He mingles with bad gang and if my sister yells at him or try to spank him he won’t hesitate to call the cops on her.

She explained everything to us and My mother told my elder sister to bundle the boy to Nigeria, that she would reset his head.
When he came to Nigeria my mother sent him to Command secondary school Ipaja Lagos state.

Every time we visits him during visiting day, he would cry and beg saying Grand ma please I won’t be stubborn again, I wanna go join my fam in the UK.

He spent 2 years (J.S.S 2 - 3) in command secondary school before he went back to UK. Now he’s a well behaved boy.

IconicR:
Boy child is always war to train.

Padipadi:
I think it's very good to understand the hypocrisy of UK in cases of first to report. And the demonic teen friends that lied against their friends that in order to further indulge in their life spoiling practices like watching pôrn and not studying well.
If only the father had contained his anger and make a video evidence of those crooks. Then reporting his child formerly to the govt that how do you want me to handle this boy cos I don't want to beat him to the point your govt ll say I beat him with anger.
UK is a theoretical place where you can pretend like you swallow all their bullshits but hypocritically go behind the scene to scheme things to your taste .

Chai, my Nigeria. That father ll trash both the son and friends together. In fact if it's one woman I know, she ll craftly lure those kids, lock herself and those kids up in a store, apply fresh pepper in their eyes, buttocks, armpits, ear and nose, carry 3 brand new koboko and flog the hell out of those kids. That store ll be a mess! They ll see them the next day and ask if they were caught stealing at the market.
UK dey fall my hands when they don't farabale hand civil cases. It's not all first to report that are innocent. They v used this to give wrong judgements especially on issues of husband and wife's issues where wife ll be the first to rush and lie against her husband cos they know the law there is sympathetic to women.
In all, may we not be unlucky in this life, amen.

Lamba. Lambadowsky from a fake female. Your story is fallacious. We know sending stubborn abroad kids to Nigeria resets their brain. But as you can see, this story fit no work that way cos he's already taken away from his dad. In all, you cooked up your write up to gather share and likes for your coconut 🥥 head ego.
Wail, I ll drink you tears cos I just want tackle you today. I get your time. Don't call me agbaya, I just want to drink the tears of this shim (he/she)!

Nazgul:
From what I've understood and witness about flogging, most parents flog their children out of frustration and not to discipline them.

Take a walk around remote neighborhoods and you'll see first hand wickedness. The way parents there flog their kids, you'll think we're still in the slave era.

You don't have to flog a human being in order to make him/her have a good character. Your life is already a mirror for them. If you train them well, they'll be good. If they see hypocrisy in you and your life doesn't reflect what you're telling them to do, they'll live their lives however they want and become wayward.

This is the 21st century flogging should be banned.

IconicR:
Boy child is always war to train.

felong:
Flogging a human being is wrong. What if the child dies.

OboOlora:
They tell you to JAPA so you can explain Tiffnubu and be sending pounds home to build houses all around but nobody tells you the real facts:

You can’t beat or even scold or shout at your kids
Your kids are a target for being black as they will be stereotyped as being susceptible to assault by the parents
Men are the last on the scale of women, kids, animals, plants and then men
You will work like your life revolves around that and only be considered moderately rich if you convert the untaxed income to naira

I can go on and on.

As per the person that said they took the boy to Nigeria for two years and then back to the UK, the boy is gonna be worse than Naira Marley at the end cos the PTSD of the horror at Command school will haunt him for life and he will use joining a gang as a coping mechanism

Stay in Nigeria and beat ur kids well o😁

Padipadi:
I think it's very good to understand the hypocrisy of UK in cases of first to report. And the demonic teen friends that lied against their friends that in order to further indulge in their life spoiling practices like watching pôrn and not studying well.
If only the father had contained his anger and make a video evidence of those crooks. Then reporting his child formerly to the govt that how do you want me to handle this boy cos I don't want to beat him to the point your govt ll say I beat him with anger.
UK is a theoretical place where you can pretend like you swallow all their bullshits but hypocritically go behind the scene to scheme things to your taste.
Chai, my Nigeria. That father ll trash both the son and friends together. In fact if it's one woman I know, she ll craftly lure those kids, lock herself and those kids up in a store, apply fresh pepper in their eyes, buttocks, armpits, ear and nose, carry 3 brand new koboko and flog the hell out of those kids. That store ll be a mess! They ll see them the next day and ask if they were caught stealing at the market.
UK dey fall my hands when they don't farabale hand civil cases. It's not all first to report that are innocent. They v used this to give wrong judgements especially on issues of husband and wife's issues where wife ll be the first to rush and lie against her husband cos they know the law there is sympathetic to women.
In all, may we not be unlucky in this life, amen.

Lamba. Lambadowsky from a fake female. Your story is fallacious. We know sending stubborn abroad kids to Nigeria resets their brain. But as you can see, this story fit no work that way cos he's already taken away from his dad. In all, you cooked up your write up to gather share and likes for your coconut 🥥 head ego.
Wail, I ll drink you tears cos I just want tackle you today. I get your time. Don't call me agbaya, I just want to drink the tears of this shim (he/she)!

djseanjohn77:
Even God says in the bible, flog them to correct them....buy y'all prefer oyibo's advice to God's. We have seen what kind of children they raise. junkies, shooters etc.

aycorporat:
Training a child in the Western world is by God's grace.

There was a boy of ours who grew up in the UK and had the bad traits of disobedience. His dad lured him to Nigeria to come have a good taste of culture.

The moment he landed at MMIA, he was whisked to a remote village where his dad gave him a daily dosage of strokes of cane. At first he proved resistant, later he cooperated.

In the long run, he feigned remorse but was secretly taking shots of the wounds he sustained. After sometimes, his dad seeing his calmness, decided that he had learnt his lessons and it was time to go back to the USA.

Believe me, when they got to the UK, the boy tendered all evidences to the security agencies. How the dad escaped prison sentence and deportation is what I didn't know.

African culture still remains topnotch

ceejayluv:
Good riddance.. no be UK? He'll Come Back begging.

greatestdestiny:
Hmm I swear down. Do you know what my 3.6 years old son does. As in it is funny and not funny. When I discipline him at home he tells me he is sorry. Hmmmm but na trick O. Once we get into were proper crowd dey, like malls, he gives me a dirty slap 🤣🤣🤣🤣😂 and punch me in the chest.. if I pinch am, the guy go roll for floor scream his life out. I just weak! 😄😄😄😄😄😄😄 And once he notices we're heading home, he will hold my hands and call me dad in a very sympathetic way... Hmmmmmmn not easy at all.