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Should Non-educational Background be the reason not to choose Him/her? by Hdanny(m): 9:00pm On Jul 31, 2023
I believe we all have standards when it comes to choosing our life partner, most especially men that have hustled hard to make it and finally want to settle down and you want the best mother/father for your unborn kids. So if you find love in someone that has no educational background (only primary school) would you still go ahead and accept him/her to be your life partner or you just use them for the moment till when you finally meet someone of your standard?

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Re: Should Non-educational Background be the reason not to choose Him/her? by Dimaya: 10:43pm On Jul 31, 2023
this is dangerous
Re: Should Non-educational Background be the reason not to choose Him/her? by Hdanny(m): 11:05pm On Jul 31, 2023
Dimaya:
this is dangerous
How is it dangerous?

Please explain
Re: Should Non-educational Background be the reason not to choose Him/her? by ArmedArmada: 6:29am On Aug 01, 2023
It is said that a child's height comes from his dad and intelligence is gotten from his mom.

It is goes beyond being able to conceive. If, as a man, you're the breadwinner of the family, in all likelihood, your woman would have more contact with the kids than you would.

Imagine your hear your wife teaching your child, K for Kabbage.

Can a person who's not educated and exposed enough stand for you as a man when you're not there?

Imagine you have a Masters in Petroleum Engineering and you have some colleagues over for dinner and they try to engage such a wife in conversation?

It's gonna be a disaster of epic proportions.

Apart from that, how do you engage your wife in conversation? It means that a large chunk of the common ground education would have provided won't be available for you guys to connect on.

How can share stories about adventures in school, friends you made, wicked lecturers, difficult courses, and the like?

I could love someone from a distance. But wifing a lady... hmm, that's a big, lifetime decision that I won't take very lightly. Of course, her education has to come into play.

I'm not a fan of using people. If I know I don't have you in mind long term, I'll clear you from the get-go. No use getting someone's hopes up.

But God forbid, if I'm forced to marry someone like that, she's going to continue her education in my house, as a distance learning, part-time student until she gets all her degrees in order.

If she doesn't like this plan, then we're definitely not compatible at all.

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Re: Should Non-educational Background be the reason not to choose Him/her? by helinues: 6:51am On Aug 01, 2023
That question should be unnecessary only if one has love map
Re: Should Non-educational Background be the reason not to choose Him/her? by Hdanny(m): 9:34am On Aug 01, 2023
ArmedArmada:
It is said that a child's height comes from his dad and intelligence is gotten from his mom.

It is goes beyond being able to conceive. If, as a man, you're the breadwinner of the family, in all likelihood, your woman would have more contact with the kids than you would.

Imagine your hear your wife teaching your child, K for Kabbage.


Can a person who's not educated and exposed enough stand for you as a man when you're not there?

Imagine you have a Masters in Petroleum Engineering and you have some colleagues over for dinner and they try to engage such a wife in conversation?

It's gonna be a disaster of epic proportions.

Apart from that, how do you engage your wife in conversation? It means that a large chunk of the common ground education would have provided won't be available for you guys to connect on.

How can share stories about adventures in school, friends you made, wicked lecturers, difficult courses, and the like?

I could love someone from a distance. But wifing a lady... hmm, that's a big, lifetime decision that I won't take very lightly. Of course, her education has to come into play.

I'm not a fan of using people. If I know I don't have you in mind long term, I'll clear you from the get-go. No use getting someone's hopes up.

But God forbid, if I'm forced to marry someone like that, she's going to continue her education in my house, as a distance learning, part-time student until she gets all her degrees in order.

If she doesn't like this plan, then we're definitely not compatible at all.
Well understood….
Re: Should Non-educational Background be the reason not to choose Him/her? by Hdanny(m): 9:40am On Aug 01, 2023
Hdanny:
I believe we all have standards when it comes to choosing our life partner, most especially men that have hustled hard to make it and finally want to settle down and you want the best mother/father for your unborn kids. So if you find love in someone that has no educational background (only primary school) would you still go ahead and accept him/her to be your life partner or you just use them for the moment till when you finally meet someone of your standard?
Re: Should Non-educational Background be the reason not to choose Him/her? by pryme(m): 10:23am On Aug 01, 2023
We were all born uneducated,
And I believe to be educated is a choice.
Re: Should Non-educational Background be the reason not to choose Him/her? by Solofresh2: 10:35am On Aug 01, 2023
For a woman, it's a yes as long as you have money.They don't really care as long as money dey
As for me,it is a no
Re: Should Non-educational Background be the reason not to choose Him/her? by Hdanny(m): 4:05pm On Aug 01, 2023
Solofresh2:
For a woman, it's a yes as long as you have money.They don't really care as long as money dey
As for me,it is a no
May I know your reason sir?

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