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Re: Why Is Cheating Considered Normal For Men? by Beverlyjean(f): 4:25pm On Aug 01, 2023
Just like being broke is normal.for women
Re: Why Is Cheating Considered Normal For Men? by JuicyStar: 4:26pm On Aug 01, 2023
MEN DON’T CHEAT
Re: Why Is Cheating Considered Normal For Men? by Oluwadare316(m): 4:26pm On Aug 01, 2023
Oya wait, let me ask Ai.
Re: Why Is Cheating Considered Normal For Men? by Kobojunkie: 4:26pm On Aug 01, 2023
Spaxon:
some things are best left the way they are
You are kidding, right? undecided

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Re: Why Is Cheating Considered Normal For Men? by Beverlyjean(f): 4:27pm On Aug 01, 2023
adebayo987:
Tradition caused it. Women are treated like properties such that a man must buy her in the guise of dowry. Why wouldn't men see cheating as normal when they paid for their wives?

Why do most Nigerian women divorce their Nigerian husbands once they get to the Europe or America? It's simply because they're treated equally as men. Here, a woman is seen as a house maid whose duties lies in the kitchen and the other room. This is the bitter truth. I love Korean and Japanese people so much because they're so honourable, their women honour their bodies and are in charge of their homes more than their men as they're respected, which made cheating almost impossible in those countries.

U are a learner
Re: Why Is Cheating Considered Normal For Men? by Slynation(m): 4:28pm On Aug 01, 2023
blessingnenye:
Why Is Cheating Considered Normal In Men? But For A Woman, Hell Will Let Loose?
Even in Animal kingdom, it's like that...!! The head of the buffalo gets to mate with any cow amongs the herds, same thing applicable in the Lion kingdom...

It's even in the bible, that a man should go into the world and multiply, Abraham dealt with so many pussies, King Solomon was the king of pussies, David has the choice to go for any pussy in the world but was told to stay away from Bathsheba own, but Baba still knack am...

But e reach my generation turn, una come wise wan come dey monopolize our preeq...!! πŸ™„πŸ™„ To be very frank with you, e no-go work oO...

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Re: Why Is Cheating Considered Normal For Men? by Gboom: 4:28pm On Aug 01, 2023
Beverlyjean:


U are a learner
A bi o
Re: Why Is Cheating Considered Normal For Men? by debinson: 4:29pm On Aug 01, 2023
My own view about this topic, men alone can't cheat, if man will cheat he has to do it with another woman. So ur acquirement is inconsequential.

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Re: Why Is Cheating Considered Normal For Men? by davillian(m): 4:30pm On Aug 01, 2023
When a woman cheats
The husband loses his value and respect...

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Re: Why Is Cheating Considered Normal For Men? by 1Sharon(f): 4:32pm On Aug 01, 2023
talented321:
1. He house u
2. He paid ur pride price
3. He feed's u
4. He pay all bills
5. He feed the children
6. He pays the children's school fees.
7. When your mother/father dies he is the one to spend money also when his mother/father dies he is the still the one to make all expenses
8. He walk all day to make sure u and the kids live a better life.
9. He sells his happiness for the family
10. He will be only regard as man when he produces something' but you as a woman can go into marriage without nothing
11. He know the worst u can do is to leave his house.
12. I don't like cheating but there is a different between cheating in men and cheating in woman'' the earlier u accept it the better for u
13. WITH MY HANDSOME WEED'' WHILE LUCKY DUBE KEEP THE VIBE CALLED '' IT IS NOT EASY''' GOING

Are you now trying to imply that if a man isn't the breadwinner. The woman is free to cheat on him?

You guys need to think before making comments!

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Re: Why Is Cheating Considered Normal For Men? by Nonexisting1: 4:33pm On Aug 01, 2023
Adam chose Eve and not vice versa. Men always have choices but women should stick to the one that chose them. My comment is logical, one without brain will find it difficult to understand it.

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Re: Why Is Cheating Considered Normal For Men? by saphiere(f): 4:34pm On Aug 01, 2023
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talented321:
1. He house u
2. He paid ur pride price
3. He feed's u
4. He pay all bills
5. He feed the children
6. He pays the children's school fees.
7. When your mother/father dies he is the one to spend money also when his mother/father dies he is the still the one to make all expenses
8. He walk all day to make sure u and the kids live a better life.
9. He sells his happiness for the family
10. He will be only regard as man when he produces something' but you as a woman can go into marriage without nothing
11. He know the worst u can do is to leave his house.
12. I don't like cheating but there is a different between cheating in men and cheating in woman'' the earlier u accept it the better for u
13. WITH MY HANDSOME WEED'' WHILE LUCKY DUBE KEEP THE VIBE CALLED '' IT IS NOT EASY''' GOING
[/s] Rubbish
Re: Why Is Cheating Considered Normal For Men? by Kobojunkie: 4:34pm On Aug 01, 2023
Nonexisting1:
Adam chose Eve and not vice versa. Men always have choices but women should stick to the one that chose them. My comment is logical, one without brain will find it difficult to understand it.
Correction.. Adam did not choose Eve. Rather, Adam was given no other choice but Eve, his clone. undecided

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Re: Why Is Cheating Considered Normal For Men? by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 4:34pm On Aug 01, 2023
1Sharon:


Are you now trying to imply that if a man isn't the breadwinner. The woman is free to cheat on him?

You guys need to think before making comments!
In their culture that is how their parents trained them in their upbringing

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Re: Why Is Cheating Considered Normal For Men? by 1Sharon(f): 4:35pm On Aug 01, 2023
VeeVeeMyLuv:

In their culture that is how they trained them in their upbringing

In what culture and trained who?

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Re: Why Is Cheating Considered Normal For Men? by DenreleDave(m): 4:35pm On Aug 01, 2023
1Sharon:


Are you now trying to imply that if a man isn't the breadwinner. The woman is free to cheat on him?

You guys need to think before making comments!

Women are padlocks πŸ”’... They are supposed to be secured and not let any key πŸ— open them.

Men are the key πŸ— while some men are the master key πŸ—

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Re: Why Is Cheating Considered Normal For Men? by 1Sharon(f): 4:36pm On Aug 01, 2023
Kobojunkie:
Correction.. Adam did not choose Eve. Rather, Adam was given no other choice but Eve, his clone. undecided

If she is female, how is she his clone.
Re: Why Is Cheating Considered Normal For Men? by Kobojunkie: 4:36pm On Aug 01, 2023
1Sharon:
β–  In what culture and trained who?
The problem, as he listed, comes from Nigerian culture. undecided
Re: Why Is Cheating Considered Normal For Men? by Kobojunkie: 4:36pm On Aug 01, 2023
1Sharon:
β–  If she is female, how is she his clone.
What rule is there that a clone can only be of same gender as the master copy abeg? undecided
Re: Why Is Cheating Considered Normal For Men? by Symbal: 4:36pm On Aug 01, 2023
It is a very wrong conclusion from the male side. Some use the scripture to say all manner of conclusion. If it is right for a Man to cheat then I see it equal for the Female to cheat. We all have one heart and one soul. Everyone has an emotion to battle with why then do men see women as a gender born to suffer and accept anything that comes their way?

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Re: Why Is Cheating Considered Normal For Men? by Elxandre(m): 4:37pm On Aug 01, 2023
Evolution is your short answer.
Re: Why Is Cheating Considered Normal For Men? by Nobody: 4:38pm On Aug 01, 2023
Angelfrost:


How many people of today consider cheating normal for men anywhere in the world?!!

Why such poorly-researched generalization?!!

If it were considered normal, why do most men (if not all) hide to cheat?!!
To me this is a very dishonest stance to pretend that cheating is not normalized in men.

I can agree with your stance if the case study was world-wide and not African men.

For real Angel? When young guys are already repeating the mantra "when I make money nobody will dictate the number of women I have", young guys in their 20s have this mindset

Or "I can't guarantee my wife faithfulness if she wasn't a virgin"

And the rest
Yet you believe this is just generalization?

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Re: Why Is Cheating Considered Normal For Men? by 1Sharon(f): 4:38pm On Aug 01, 2023
Kobojunkie:
What rule is there that a clone can only be of same gender abeg? undecided

Do you know what a clone means?

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Re: Why Is Cheating Considered Normal For Men? by franchasofficia: 4:38pm On Aug 01, 2023
blessingnenye:
Why Is Cheating Considered Normal In Men? But For A Woman, Hell Will Let Loose?
Aside the reasons @ talented321 already gave above, another natural reason is because nature bestowed the virtue of sexual sanity in women.


Naturally, women have more self control towards sex than men just as men have more natural control over emotional outburst than women.



Women get pregnant, men don't get pregnant. Women are exposed to more risk of vulnerabilities when they sleep around than when a man sleeps around.


A man can have sex with a stranger and go home having fun without worries, but the woman will be the one to worry about unwanted pregnancy or not.



Before a woman opens her legs for a man to have sex, she must stand to gain something; either money, material things, emotional commitment, promise of marriage or love, to have a baby, to grow her business or career, to help her family or to bail herself out of a tight situation, but a man can have sex with just any woman without any reason or hope of getting any other gain other than the sexual satisfaction.



Men and women are wired differently when it comes to sex and intimacy, we need to embrace this and stop looking for what didn't loss



Another biological reason below
1c3JaY:
I think it's our biology...

For example: A lion ( most animals as well) mates with so many lioness together, but a lioness mates with one male at a time.

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Re: Why Is Cheating Considered Normal For Men? by ExudeLoveToAll: 4:38pm On Aug 01, 2023
1c3JaY:
I think it's our biology...

For example: A lion ( most animals as well) mates with so many lioness together, but a lioness mates with one male at a time.

You seem closest to the answer than any I have read.

The laws that pop up, is there to cage that natural instinct to mate randomly with different women. This as well as economic conditions has over the centuries tried to make one man mate with one woman.

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Re: Why Is Cheating Considered Normal For Men? by Kobojunkie: 4:39pm On Aug 01, 2023
1Sharon:
β–  Do you know what a clone means?
I would need to ask you same. undecided
Re: Why Is Cheating Considered Normal For Men? by Beolly(m): 4:39pm On Aug 01, 2023
talented321:
1. He house u
2. He paid ur pride price
3. He feed's u
4. He pay all bills
5. He feed the children
6. He pays the children's school fees.
7. When your mother/father dies he is the one to spend money also when his mother/father dies he is the still the one to make all expenses
8. He walk all day to make sure u and the kids live a better life.
9. He sells his happiness for the family
10. He will be only regard as man when he produces something' but you as a woman can go into marriage without nothing
11. He know the worst u can do is to leave his house.
12. I don't like cheating but there is a different between cheating in men and cheating in woman'' the earlier u accept it the better for u
13. WITH MY HANDSOME WEED'' WHILE LUCKY DUBE KEEP THE VIBE CALLED '' IT IS NOT EASY''' GOING

May God bless you for this.

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Re: Why Is Cheating Considered Normal For Men? by 1Sharon(f): 4:40pm On Aug 01, 2023
DenreleDave:


Women are padlocks πŸ”’... They are supposed to be secured and not let any key πŸ— open them.

Men are the key πŸ— while some men are the master key πŸ—

This is a better response than what that idiot said.

By his logic, women that are breadwinners and pay their own bride price are free to cheat.

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Re: Why Is Cheating Considered Normal For Men? by Nobody: 4:40pm On Aug 01, 2023
@angelfrost it was an intention to quote you but an error popped up,so I will just "@" you.
To me this is a very dishonest stance to pretend that cheating is not normalized in men.

I can agree with your stance if the case study was world-wide and not African men.

For real Angel? When young guys are already repeating the mantra "when I make money nobody will dictate the number of women I have", young guys in their 20s have this mindset

Or "I can't guarantee my wife faithfulness if she wasn't a virgin"

And the rest
Yet you believe this is just generalization?
Re: Why Is Cheating Considered Normal For Men? by Godwin4444: 4:40pm On Aug 01, 2023
adebayo987:
Tradition caused it. Women are treated like properties such that a man must buy her in the guise of dowry. Why wouldn't men see cheating as normal when they paid for their wives?

Why do most Nigerian women divorce their Nigerian husbands once they get to the Europe or America? It's simply because they're treated equally as men. Here, a woman is seen as a house maid whose duties lies in the kitchen and the other room. This is the bitter truth. I love Korean and Japanese people so much because they're so honourable, their women honour their bodies and are in charge of their homes more than their men as they're respected, which made cheating almost impossible in those countries.
the reality is once women go for d highest bidder they will always b seen as properties

See d case of ned nwoko n regina
Re: Why Is Cheating Considered Normal For Men? by 1Sharon(f): 4:40pm On Aug 01, 2023
Kobojunkie:
I would need to ask you same. undecided

A clone is an organism with the exact same genetic material.

Identical twins are clones.

Tell me how that applies to Adam and Eve??

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Re: Why Is Cheating Considered Normal For Men? by chipower: 4:42pm On Aug 01, 2023
blessingnenye:
Why Is Cheating Considered Normal In Men? But For A Woman, Hell Will Let Loose?
Cheating is not considered normal for men. I don't know if I'm misunderstanding you.

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