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As An Introverted Guy How Can I Get A Good Lady by Thisisa: 7:18pm On Aug 06, 2023
I am so bored and lonely.

I have tried dating a lady in the past but it didn't last up to 3months. That's the closest I have been to a relationship.

I approached another lady... Tho i wasn't bold enough to ask her out when at the initial stage of meeting her(because of fear of reject)... She got tired and she friendzoned. Later asked her out the but she rejected me.

The problem is I haven't found any lady I can date. Most decent ladies are already in a relationship. Those not in a relationship I am not attracted to them.
Re: As An Introverted Guy How Can I Get A Good Lady by sleek214(m): 7:20pm On Aug 06, 2023
Go to the church and tell your pastor to give you one

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Re: As An Introverted Guy How Can I Get A Good Lady by Ayofestarts1: 7:20pm On Aug 06, 2023
Boss
Why do you want to date,won't you survive without being in a relationship? 🤲

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Re: As An Introverted Guy How Can I Get A Good Lady by talented321: 7:22pm On Aug 06, 2023
Being introvert doesn't mean you can't date girls'' your problem is you have low self esteem' whoever engages in bleeping is never afraid of rejection.
When u begin to date one or two girls this mindset will change'' and after two or three breakfast you will understand everything.
Thisisa:
I am so bored and lonely.

I have tried dating a lady in the past but it didn't last up to 3months. That's the closest I have been to a relationship.

I approached another lady... Tho i wasn't bold enough to ask her out when at the initial stage of meeting her(because of fear of reject)... She got tired and she friendzoned. Later asked her out the but she rejected me.

The problem is I haven't found any lady I can date. Most decent ladies are already in a relationship. Those not in a relationship I am not attracted to them.


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Re: As An Introverted Guy How Can I Get A Good Lady by talented321: 7:22pm On Aug 06, 2023
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Re: As An Introverted Guy How Can I Get A Good Lady by SHIVA001: 7:37pm On Aug 06, 2023
Don’t Create Unnecessary stress within Yourself, the Question is Are you the Good Guy. I will advice you to go for the Bad Girl, because No good girl Anywhere. If you put your heart Bad girl may turn good.
Re: As An Introverted Guy How Can I Get A Good Lady by Fugazy2023: 7:38pm On Aug 06, 2023
Sha don't come to Lagos

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Re: As An Introverted Guy How Can I Get A Good Lady by hylyne(m): 7:48pm On Aug 06, 2023
Be careful you don't end up with someone you don't love. God forbid!!! Then you would understand the real meaning of loneliness..

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Re: As An Introverted Guy How Can I Get A Good Lady by ashewoboy(m): 8:14pm On Aug 06, 2023
Thisisa:
I am so bored and lonely.

I have tried dating a lady in the past but it didn't last up to 3months. That's the closest I have been to a relationship.

I approached another lady... Tho i wasn't bold enough to ask her out when at the initial stage of meeting her(because of fear of reject)... She got tired and she friendzoned. Later asked her out the but she rejected me.

The problem is I haven't found any lady I can date. Most decent ladies are already in a relationship. Those not in a relationship I am not attracted to them.





Na friendzone them dey friendzone introvert. They will not phvck you🙂. Just focus on girls that genuinely desire you.

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Re: As An Introverted Guy How Can I Get A Good Lady by Blitzking: 8:20pm On Aug 06, 2023
Thisisa:
I am so bored and lonely.

I have tried dating a lady in the past but it didn't last up to 3months. That's the closest I have been to a relationship.

I approached another lady... Tho i wasn't bold enough to ask her out when at the initial stage of meeting her(because of fear of reject)... She got tired and she friendzoned. Later asked her out the but she rejected me.

The problem is I haven't found any lady I can date. Most decent ladies are already in a relationship. Those not in a relationship I am not attracted to them.


You see a girl you like talk to her..
Re: As An Introverted Guy How Can I Get A Good Lady by SocialJustice: 8:23pm On Aug 06, 2023
Thisisa:
I am so bored and lonely.

I have tried dating a lady in the past but it didn't last up to 3months. That's the closest I have been to a relationship.

I approached another lady... Tho i wasn't bold enough to ask her out when at the initial stage of meeting her(because of fear of reject)... She got tired and she friendzoned. Later asked her out the but she rejected me.

The problem is I haven't found any lady I can date. Most decent ladies are already in a relationship. Those not in a relationship I am not attracted to them.


You're not an introvert, maybe socially awkward. Talk to more girls, you will find one that suits you eventually.

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Re: As An Introverted Guy How Can I Get A Good Lady by Quality20(m): 8:59pm On Aug 06, 2023
Check bado
Re: As An Introverted Guy How Can I Get A Good Lady by IbrahimSkiba(f): 9:00pm On Aug 06, 2023
Thisisa:
I am so bored and lonely.

I have tried dating a lady in the past but it didn't last up to 3months. That's the closest I have been to a relationship.

I approached another lady... Tho i wasn't bold enough to ask her out when at the initial stage of meeting her(because of fear of reject)... She got tired and she friendzoned. Later asked her out the but she rejected me.

The problem is I haven't found any lady I can date. Most decent ladies are already in a relationship. Those not in a relationship I am not attracted to them.





Just carry clay and mold the lady of your choice
Re: As An Introverted Guy How Can I Get A Good Lady by Ikpunnegi01: 9:50pm On Aug 06, 2023
Upon all the problems in your country, its getting an entitlement mentality girl is your own issue. Continue...
Re: As An Introverted Guy How Can I Get A Good Lady by Eyinju112(f): 9:55pm On Aug 06, 2023
The church is like a hospital, some patient are not responding to treatment
sleek214:
Go to the church and tell your pastor to give you one
Re: As An Introverted Guy How Can I Get A Good Lady by DenreleDave(m): 9:57pm On Aug 06, 2023
undecided
Eyinju112:
The church is like a hospital, some patient are not responding to treatment

You are right
Re: As An Introverted Guy How Can I Get A Good Lady by Enny2013(f): 10:12pm On Aug 06, 2023
Laslas, u will be alright,bro.
It's a matter of time.
Re: As An Introverted Guy How Can I Get A Good Lady by Edipet(m): 10:30pm On Aug 06, 2023
It's very hard to find good girl or even bad ones as an introvert. If I say you should try social media, if you are not a type that upload good pictures often, them no go answer you because girls there need a Guy with fake life that upload pictures.
Just dey on your own like me, na only you your papa and Mama Born, relationship with anyone is not a do or die affair, it is called relationship ( relate) or you can discide not to relate (un-relate) 😂. Stay on your own and press your phone, get up and eat food, hit the gym and be happy.

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Re: As An Introverted Guy How Can I Get A Good Lady by jegaxe(m): 10:34pm On Aug 06, 2023
Thisisa:
I am so bored and lonely.

I have tried dating a lady in the past but it didn't last up to 3months. That's the closest I have been to a relationship.

I approached another lady... Tho i wasn't bold enough to ask her out when at the initial stage of meeting her(because of fear of reject)... She got tired and she friendzoned. Later asked her out the but she rejected me.

The problem is I haven't found any lady I can date. Most decent ladies are already in a relationship. Those not in a relationship I am not attracted to them.


don't force it, try to be yourself. You should maybe start hanging out with friends on weekends definitely it will start easing a little bit, the introverted side of u.
Re: As An Introverted Guy How Can I Get A Good Lady by Goodlady(f): 10:52pm On Aug 06, 2023
Thisisa:
I am so bored and lonely.

I have tried dating a lady in the past but it didn't last up to 3months. That's the closest I have been to a relationship.

I approached another lady... Tho i wasn't bold enough to ask her out when at the initial stage of meeting her(because of fear of reject)... She got tired and she friendzoned. Later asked her out the but she rejected me.

The problem is I haven't found any lady I can date. Most decent ladies are already in a relationship. Those not in a relationship I am not attracted to them.


Be interesting to be with
Re: As An Introverted Guy How Can I Get A Good Lady by WeirdAlien: 11:53pm On Aug 06, 2023
Eyinju112:
The church is like a hospital, some patient are not responding to treatment

Most patients don't respond to treatment. That's the bitter truth.
Re: As An Introverted Guy How Can I Get A Good Lady by Eyinju112(f): 12:02am On Aug 07, 2023
WeirdAlien:


Most patients don't respond to treatment. That's the bitter truth.
Na wicked people full church 🤣🤣🤣🤣 God have mercy
Re: As An Introverted Guy How Can I Get A Good Lady by WeirdAlien: 12:11am On Aug 07, 2023
Thisisa:
I am so bored and lonely.

I have tried dating a lady in the past but it didn't last up to 3months. That's the closest I have been to a relationship.

I approached another lady... Tho i wasn't bold enough to ask her out when at the initial stage of meeting her(because of fear of reject)... She got tired and she friendzoned. Later asked her out the but she rejected me.

The problem is I haven't found any lady I can date. Most decent ladies are already in a relationship. Those not in a relationship I am not attracted to them.


I don't know your age bracket. But I assume you're late teenage or young adult.
The ones you're attracted to are probably attractive because some guy(s) dated her in her crude form and refined her (physically and/or emotionally), or that relationship experience just refined her. This is usually the case at your age bracket. Seriously consider this.

The day a fox touches the red comb on a rooster's head, and realises it's not fire, and his fear of it was unwarranted, that day it will have the rooster for dinner.
Don't be afraid of rejection. It's part of the stuff. Just like the rooster's comb. Any guy that has never been rejected has never asked a "normal" girl out.
Ask a girl out anyhow you can say your feelings. There's no best way to express it, and there's no best words to say.

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Re: As An Introverted Guy How Can I Get A Good Lady by Purvan(m): 7:22am On Aug 07, 2023
They're in the cemetery


Go and dig up their graves and bleep them
Re: As An Introverted Guy How Can I Get A Good Lady by BigBlackPreek(m): 8:52am On Aug 07, 2023
sleek214:
Go to the church and tell your pastor to give you one
this is actually the best way


recommendations is okay and will be less stressful for you
Re: As An Introverted Guy How Can I Get A Good Lady by bdsm: 10:38am On Aug 07, 2023
Thisisa:
I am so bored and lonely.

I have tried dating a lady in the past but it didn't last up to 3months. That's the closest I have been to a relationship.

I approached another lady... Tho i wasn't bold enough to ask her out when at the initial stage of meeting her(because of fear of reject)... She got tired and she friendzoned. Later asked her out the but she rejected me.

The problem is I haven't found any lady I can date. Most decent ladies are already in a relationship. Those not in a relationship I am not attracted to them.


Nothing wrong being an introvert. Do what I tell u and succeed.

You must look for an extroverted girl since u are introverted.
If u are dark in complexion look for a light skin girl(not bleached).
If u are muscularly bulky look for a slim girl.
If u are tall or average ensure she's very short.

Start with the simple 4 points above. Stop going after girls that look like u.

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Re: As An Introverted Guy How Can I Get A Good Lady by Goldynfavour(f): 1:22pm On Aug 07, 2023
Purvan:
They're in the cemetery

Go and dig up their graves and bleep them
Jesus christ!!! What kind of human being are you

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Re: As An Introverted Guy How Can I Get A Good Lady by skj1377(m): 5:31pm On Aug 07, 2023
Ask your sister to give you one of her friends. Ask a good friend to help you out. Tell your aunt your looking for a wife. Many ladies are free it's just that it's not written in a way you can see you have to find out.

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Re: As An Introverted Guy How Can I Get A Good Lady by Thisisa: 8:03pm On Aug 07, 2023
WeirdAlien:


I don't know your age bracket. But I assume you're late teenage or young adult.
The ones you're attracted to are probably attractive because some guy(s) dated her in her crude form and refined her (physically and/or emotionally), or that relationship experience just refined her. This is usually the case at your age bracket. Seriously consider this.

The day a fox touches the red comb on a rooster's head, and realises it's not fire, and his fear of it was unwarranted, that day it will have the rooster for dinner.
Don't be afraid of rejection. It's part of the stuff. Just like the rooster's comb. Any guy that has never been rejected has never asked a "normal" girl out.
Ask a girl out anyhow you can say your feelings. There's no best way to express it, and there's no best words to say.
Thanks.

Tho I am edging towards my 30
Re: As An Introverted Guy How Can I Get A Good Lady by Albertone(m): 8:50pm On Aug 07, 2023
Edipet:
It's very hard to find good girl or even bad ones as an introvert. If I say you should try social media, if you are not a type that upload good pictures often, them no go answer you because girls there need a Guy with fake life that upload pictures.
Just dey on your own like me, na only you your papa and Mama Born, relationship with anyone is not a do or die affair, it is called relationship ( relate) or you can discide not to relate (un-relate) 😂. Stay on your own and press your phone, get up and eat food, hit the gym and be happy.

Konji oo
Re: As An Introverted Guy How Can I Get A Good Lady by Nonexisting1: 8:57pm On Aug 07, 2023
Looking for a good "lady" as you called them in today's Nigeria? Go to the cemetery. The grandmas are all dead.

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Re: As An Introverted Guy How Can I Get A Good Lady by Nobody: 11:38pm On Aug 07, 2023
skj1377:
Ask your sister to give you one of her friends. Ask a good friend to help you out. Tell your aunt your looking for a wife. Many ladies are free it's just that it's not written in a way you can see you have to find out.
very funny coment cant stop laughing . Are u a comedian ?

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