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I am so bored and lonely.

I have tried dating a lady in the past but it didn't last up to 3months. That's the closest I have been to a relationship.

I approached another lady... Tho i wasn't bold enough to ask her out when at the initial stage of meeting her(because of fear of reject)... She got tired and she friendzoned. Later asked her out the but she rejected me.

The problem is I haven't found any lady I can date. Most decent ladies are already in a relationship. Those not in a relationship I am not attracted to them.

Go to the church and tell your pastor to give you one

Boss
Why do you want to date,won't you survive without being in a relationship? 🤲

Being introvert doesn't mean you can't date girls'' your problem is you have low self esteem' whoever engages in bleeping is never afraid of rejection.
When u begin to date one or two girls this mindset will change'' and after two or three breakfast you will understand everything.

Thisisa:
I am so bored and lonely.

I have tried dating a lady in the past but it didn't last up to 3months. That's the closest I have been to a relationship.

I approached another lady... Tho i wasn't bold enough to ask her out when at the initial stage of meeting her(because of fear of reject)... She got tired and she friendzoned. Later asked her out the but she rejected me.

The problem is I haven't found any lady I can date. Most decent ladies are already in a relationship. Those not in a relationship I am not attracted to them.

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Normal

Don’t Create Unnecessary stress within Yourself, the Question is Are you the Good Guy. I will advice you to go for the Bad Girl, because No good girl Anywhere. If you put your heart Bad girl may turn good.

Sha don't come to Lagos

Be careful you don't end up with someone you don't love. God forbid!!! Then you would understand the real meaning of loneliness..

Thisisa:
I am so bored and lonely.

I have tried dating a lady in the past but it didn't last up to 3months. That's the closest I have been to a relationship.

I approached another lady... Tho i wasn't bold enough to ask her out when at the initial stage of meeting her(because of fear of reject)... She got tired and she friendzoned. Later asked her out the but she rejected me.

The problem is I haven't found any lady I can date. Most decent ladies are already in a relationship. Those not in a relationship I am not attracted to them.

Na friendzone them dey friendzone introvert. They will not phvck you🙂. Just focus on girls that genuinely desire you.

Thisisa:
I am so bored and lonely.

I have tried dating a lady in the past but it didn't last up to 3months. That's the closest I have been to a relationship.

I approached another lady... Tho i wasn't bold enough to ask her out when at the initial stage of meeting her(because of fear of reject)... She got tired and she friendzoned. Later asked her out the but she rejected me.

The problem is I haven't found any lady I can date. Most decent ladies are already in a relationship. Those not in a relationship I am not attracted to them.

You see a girl you like talk to her..

Thisisa:
I am so bored and lonely.

I have tried dating a lady in the past but it didn't last up to 3months. That's the closest I have been to a relationship.

I approached another lady... Tho i wasn't bold enough to ask her out when at the initial stage of meeting her(because of fear of reject)... She got tired and she friendzoned. Later asked her out the but she rejected me.

The problem is I haven't found any lady I can date. Most decent ladies are already in a relationship. Those not in a relationship I am not attracted to them.

You're not an introvert, maybe socially awkward. Talk to more girls, you will find one that suits you eventually.

Check bado

Thisisa:
I am so bored and lonely.

I have tried dating a lady in the past but it didn't last up to 3months. That's the closest I have been to a relationship.

I approached another lady... Tho i wasn't bold enough to ask her out when at the initial stage of meeting her(because of fear of reject)... She got tired and she friendzoned. Later asked her out the but she rejected me.

The problem is I haven't found any lady I can date. Most decent ladies are already in a relationship. Those not in a relationship I am not attracted to them.

Just carry clay and mold the lady of your choice

Upon all the problems in your country, its getting an entitlement mentality girl is your own issue. Continue...

The church is like a hospital, some patient are not responding to treatment

sleek214:
Go to the church and tell your pastor to give you one

Eyinju112:
The church is like a hospital, some patient are not responding to treatment

You are right

Laslas, u will be alright,bro.
It's a matter of time.

It's very hard to find good girl or even bad ones as an introvert. If I say you should try social media, if you are not a type that upload good pictures often, them no go answer you because girls there need a Guy with fake life that upload pictures.
Just dey on your own like me, na only you your papa and Mama Born, relationship with anyone is not a do or die affair, it is called relationship ( relate) or you can discide not to relate (un-relate) 😂. Stay on your own and press your phone, get up and eat food, hit the gym and be happy.

Thisisa:
I am so bored and lonely.

I have tried dating a lady in the past but it didn't last up to 3months. That's the closest I have been to a relationship.

I approached another lady... Tho i wasn't bold enough to ask her out when at the initial stage of meeting her(because of fear of reject)... She got tired and she friendzoned. Later asked her out the but she rejected me.

The problem is I haven't found any lady I can date. Most decent ladies are already in a relationship. Those not in a relationship I am not attracted to them.

don't force it, try to be yourself. You should maybe start hanging out with friends on weekends definitely it will start easing a little bit, the introverted side of u.

Thisisa:
I am so bored and lonely.

I have tried dating a lady in the past but it didn't last up to 3months. That's the closest I have been to a relationship.

I approached another lady... Tho i wasn't bold enough to ask her out when at the initial stage of meeting her(because of fear of reject)... She got tired and she friendzoned. Later asked her out the but she rejected me.

The problem is I haven't found any lady I can date. Most decent ladies are already in a relationship. Those not in a relationship I am not attracted to them.

Be interesting to be with

Eyinju112:
The church is like a hospital, some patient are not responding to treatment

Most patients don't respond to treatment. That's the bitter truth.

WeirdAlien:
Most patients don't respond to treatment. That's the bitter truth.

Na wicked people full church 🤣🤣🤣🤣 God have mercy

Thisisa:
I am so bored and lonely.

I have tried dating a lady in the past but it didn't last up to 3months. That's the closest I have been to a relationship.

I approached another lady... Tho i wasn't bold enough to ask her out when at the initial stage of meeting her(because of fear of reject)... She got tired and she friendzoned. Later asked her out the but she rejected me.

The problem is I haven't found any lady I can date. Most decent ladies are already in a relationship. Those not in a relationship I am not attracted to them.

I don't know your age bracket. But I assume you're late teenage or young adult.
The ones you're attracted to are probably attractive because some guy(s) dated her in her crude form and refined her (physically and/or emotionally), or that relationship experience just refined her. This is usually the case at your age bracket. Seriously consider this.

The day a fox touches the red comb on a rooster's head, and realises it's not fire, and his fear of it was unwarranted, that day it will have the rooster for dinner.
Don't be afraid of rejection. It's part of the stuff. Just like the rooster's comb. Any guy that has never been rejected has never asked a "normal" girl out.
Ask a girl out anyhow you can say your feelings. There's no best way to express it, and there's no best words to say.

They're in the cemetery


Go and dig up their graves and bleep them

sleek214:
Go to the church and tell your pastor to give you one

this is actually the best way


recommendations is okay and will be less stressful for you

Thisisa:
I am so bored and lonely.

I have tried dating a lady in the past but it didn't last up to 3months. That's the closest I have been to a relationship.

I approached another lady... Tho i wasn't bold enough to ask her out when at the initial stage of meeting her(because of fear of reject)... She got tired and she friendzoned. Later asked her out the but she rejected me.

The problem is I haven't found any lady I can date. Most decent ladies are already in a relationship. Those not in a relationship I am not attracted to them.

Nothing wrong being an introvert. Do what I tell u and succeed.

You must look for an extroverted girl since u are introverted.
If u are dark in complexion look for a light skin girl(not bleached).
If u are muscularly bulky look for a slim girl.
If u are tall or average ensure she's very short.

Start with the simple 4 points above. Stop going after girls that look like u.

Purvan:
They're in the cemetery

Go and dig up their graves and bleep them

Jesus christ!!! What kind of human being are you

Ask your sister to give you one of her friends. Ask a good friend to help you out. Tell your aunt your looking for a wife. Many ladies are free it's just that it's not written in a way you can see you have to find out.

WeirdAlien:
I don't know your age bracket. But I assume you're late teenage or young adult.
The ones you're attracted to are probably attractive because some guy(s) dated her in her crude form and refined her (physically and/or emotionally), or that relationship experience just refined her. This is usually the case at your age bracket. Seriously consider this.

The day a fox touches the red comb on a rooster's head, and realises it's not fire, and his fear of it was unwarranted, that day it will have the rooster for dinner.
Don't be afraid of rejection. It's part of the stuff. Just like the rooster's comb. Any guy that has never been rejected has never asked a "normal" girl out.
Ask a girl out anyhow you can say your feelings. There's no best way to express it, and there's no best words to say.

Thanks.

Tho I am edging towards my 30

Edipet:
It's very hard to find good girl or even bad ones as an introvert. If I say you should try social media, if you are not a type that upload good pictures often, them no go answer you because girls there need a Guy with fake life that upload pictures.
Just dey on your own like me, na only you your papa and Mama Born, relationship with anyone is not a do or die affair, it is called relationship ( relate) or you can discide not to relate (un-relate) 😂. Stay on your own and press your phone, get up and eat food, hit the gym and be happy.

Konji oo

Looking for a good "lady" as you called them in today's Nigeria? Go to the cemetery. The grandmas are all dead.

skj1377:
Ask your sister to give you one of her friends. Ask a good friend to help you out. Tell your aunt your looking for a wife. Many ladies are free it's just that it's not written in a way you can see you have to find out.

very funny coment cant stop laughing . Are u a comedian ?