₦airaland Forum

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APOPTOSIS:
I deeply sympathetise with her family over this avoidable carnage & death . People should be taught to know when to run way with their lives intact.
Leaving your marriage is not a recipe for disaster.
No one on this planet has ever been reported to have died as a result of being SINGLE.
Avoid any form of Toxic Relationship, not even the one coming from your spouse or sibling.

By the way, she is not a Medical Doctor...
She's an Optometrist
An optometrist is completely different from an ophthalmologist who happens to be the Medical Doctor.
Optometrist acquired an O.D.
Ophthalmologist acquired MD, M.B.,B.S, or M.B.,B.Ch
Nigerians should learn the right terminologies & observe the distinguishing features especially when paramedics & allied medical staff come close to try deceiving them.

Same goes to Nigerian Optometrists who always want to be addressed as surgeons. Please stop distorting an already distorted nation only to continue blaming Buhari/Tinubu.

Again, people should be proud of their courses of study. After all, no single Medical Doctor has made it to the Aso Villa as President or the table of world's Billionaires meanwhile, others have.

too many olodos on this nairaland sha. Common sense should tell you to ask questions. anyone who has a Phd whether the person studied medicine or not is called Dr as a title. Chai

youll be talking like yarimo

The marriage institution needs a total overhaul,it is an institution that is becoming less attractive everyday.

A toxic and abusive marriage is not just about the physical beating of a husband or wife,so many other factors make that list.

May she rest peacefully.

jconsulting:
This one has allowed devil to use him, if your wife provokes you to the extreme just leave the house and camp with your side chick......

I lie?

"Bad boy".
It is against the scripture to camp with side chick.
What about those of us without side chicks?

This is very sad na. As a man if your wife is misbehaving to you, kindly talk to her or better still wear your clothes and go to see a friend to calm down then you can come back to the house. Fighting is not an option. Think about your kids and the good things your have done and been doing. I feel very sad. Say no domestic violatence.

jconsulting:
This one has allowed devil to use him, if your wife provokes you to the extreme just leave the house and camp with your side chick......

I lie?

Camp for like 3 weeks.
blessings to all the reasonable side chicks that always come to the rescue to calm the tensions.
Your soothing words & comfort has helped to keep things in shape & properly.

why are these Osus so Wicked ? HANG the bEAST sharp sharp

AmotekunSW:
Leftovers like that Sheoma without future wey siddon put for davido house.

Or the Shewendu wey FFK dey beat like drum.

Or the Adahoebi wey wan pin bastard for Tunde Ayeni neck.

Spits.

Tomorrow your people will still be running after them like mad dogs.

I guess all these are happening because of this popular saying that Yoruba women are too dirty for comfort.

Husband should face maximum punishment if indeed he killed his own wife but how does this killing become an association issue,'toriOlorun? Are these associations not getting themselves dragged into domestic issues unconnected to their professions? Did the husband murder the wife, presumably, because she was an optometrist? I think lines need to be drawn on some of these issues before associations find themselves fighting off a side chick on behalf of their female member o! 🙄

Once again, I condemn in strongest terms possible the homicide performed by the husband against his own wife, if indeed he did it! 😕🤨😐

I don't like to read news like this. I just kept doing Hmmmn! Hmmmn! I looked at the pictures, they speak volumes. This kinda death is avoidable. Another female doctor felled! This sect is going to extinction. Why didn't the woman leave the marriage? We don't even know the real circumstances of her death.....scuffle with husband...that suggests violence of some kind....

Women, please know when to back out when it isn't working, please. I always carry in my head a traumatising image of a heavily-pregnant young lady in my big sister's office. As advanced as the pregnancy was, she never carried it to term. Her husband killed her!
Leave so you can Live.

God be with the deceased family. The husband will get his comeuppance.

UbongCR7:
May her soul rest in peace and may the perpetrators be brought to book.

To the poster, optometrists are not medical doctors, same way a PhD does not also translate to being a medical doctor.

You're missing the point. They found a way to award themselves 'O.D' qualification because they cherish the title of 'Doctor So-and-so' they feel it confers on them. It's a whimsy most Nigerians suffer from. Some of them go to USA and target the 'J.D.' degree of lawyers in that clime, because they wanna come back to Nigeria & be addressed as 'Doctor'; meanwhile, holders of that qualification out there are not addressed as such,it's simply a professional qualification

And it's super-ironical that even here in naija, our medical doctors (whome we address as 'Doctor', actually posseess double Bachelors' in medicine and surgery respectively, as opposed to an M.D.

But now, pharmacists even are swinging for a basic professional degree of Pharm.D as opposed to B.Sc Pharm, just so they can be addressed as 'Doctor', just like these optometrists. No Nigerian feels safe in their own skin without a bombastic-sounding professional title anymore. These things wont stop until the focuse is more on actual value-added as opposed to how successful one is at gaming the system😄

u never see the ones wey lock and say to you we die here

jconsulting:
This one has allowed devil to use him, if your wife provokes you to the extreme just leave the house and camp with your side chick......

I lie?

This is sad

. Its all the devils handiwork who placed misundanstanding and strife between husband and wife.. who prior to now, used to love and care for each other very much . Rip to the dead.

May God sha dey help person... And the issue fit be one small thing wey no make sense... It's not easy may God just give person patience to dey bear

SalamRushdie:
Just look at her and the man , a total mis match , that man is a womanizer

From looking at his face, u already know he's a womanizer? Haa

Hear the other side! The world these days is full of foolish career and non career women who are locked in battle for superiority with men at the workplace and their husbands at home and still expect to be treated as “the weaker sex”🤔🧐. It doesn’t add up when a wife squares up to her husband in an equality poise and still expects him to treat and perceive her as the “weaker sex”. However, that scenario will in no way justify domestic violence from either party to a marriage.
Meanwhile, truth is, respect is the number one need a man has! Doubtful that it is one of the aims and objectives of the Association to look into members’ domestic affairs.

Obviously the marriage has been toxic from either party because I was not there.

Women, If you are totally out of love for reasons best known to you please pack out , continue staying in the marriage will do you more harm

Men, if she's frustrating you and is becoming unbearable biko send her packing immediately. Hand her back to the parents. Na dat one dey shameful pass sef.

To both Men& Women: if you are not in good terms with your in-laws and is that bad please end the marriage o. See Life is full of uncertainties if anything happens to either party even if it's a natural cause the family will nail on you for murder. A word is enough for the---

Beverlyjean:
U lie...the one that has their life at risk if it starts should leave the house ... now she is dead ... the man will be released one day and he will move on with his life... women need to start becoming wise ... if u are angry, walk away... don't expect him to do so... you are the one at risk of dying and not him

Most of the time it is the man who needs to walk away from the quarrel. A mature man will do just that! A woman will follow a quarrel through if you let her but don’t! The result can be disastrous. It could ruin your life, home, children and destiny!

jconsulting:
This one has allowed devil to use him, if your wife provokes you to the extreme just leave the house and camp with your side chick......

I lie?

Supposing is the woman that Jack the husband's shirt thereby not giving him the opportunity to leave the house leading to a scuffle why trying to extricate himself?

jconsulting:
This one has allowed devil to use him, if your wife provokes you to the extreme just leave the house and camp with your side chick......

I lie?

Nigga!

jconsulting:
This one has allowed devil to use him, if your wife provokes you to the extreme just leave the house and camp with your side chick......

I lie?

Which will still be used against you by the women folk. Ask Yul Edochie. If your wife does no longer cooperate with you or respects you, chances are that she no longer vibes. The way forward should be to let her go to avoid occasions like this. QED

Chimarto:
That organisation just concluded that she was killed without telling us what happened.

I reason with you bro. By the time we hear the full story we'd be shocked. See as emotions dey fly up and down .

SalamRushdie:
Just look at her and the man , a total mis match , that man is a womanizer

How does the ones with good match looks? Couple who appear beautiful together on social media dey deceive una .. many of them are going through hell. Just pray God helps u o.. no be by face.

immortalcrown:
Domestic violence is always deadly. RIP to the deceased. May the man get the legal treatment he deserves.

Sometimes I wonder how most men still beat up their women in this modern days.

The one that wonder me most is how 2 adults that called themselves couple can't sit down and discuss their challenges and how to manage themselves so that they can run a lovely and peaceful home

Sad.

Its unacceptable killing anybody.

Dont fight, just walk away.
Divorce is an option.

Not in my lifetime will I ever raise my hands on my future wife no matter the provocation..

FireUpNow:
This is very sad na. As a man if your wife is misbehaving to you, kindly talk to her or better still wear your clothes and go to see a friend to calm down then you can come back to the house. Fighting is not an option. Think about your kids and the good things your have done and been doing. I feel very sad. Say no domestic violatence.

Bro let me sound more firm. If your wife is misbehaving hand her back over to the parents. Trust me, her brain go reset

Tofax:
Camp for like 3 weeks.
blessings to all the reasonable side chicks that always come to the rescue to calm the tensions.
Your soothing words & comfort has helped to keep things in shape & properly.

bad guy

libertyfather:
u never see the ones wey lock and say to you we die here

Bro then I file for divorce.. die here wetin? Abeg o.

placeofallure:
I don't like to read news like this. I just kept doing Hmmmn! Hmmmn! I looked at the pictures, they speak volumes. This kinda death is avoidable. Another female doctor felled! This sect is going to extinction. Why didn't the woman leave the marriage? We don't even know the real circumstances of her death.....scuffle with husband...that suggests violence of some kind....

Women, please know when to back out when it isn't working, please. I always carry in my head a traumatising image of a heavily-pregnant young lady in my big sister's office. As advanced as the pregnancy was, she never carried it to term. Her husband killed her!
Leave so you can Live.

God be with the deceased family. The husband will get his comeuppance.

The husband killed her was the result. What was the process that started that? Think woman, think!!! It's the root cause we should investigate, so we can profer solutions.

I am a Man, who knows just how toxic some people(men and women) can be. In a marriage,with kids involved, such toxicity is not easily assuaged as one or both parties wanna stay for the kids' sakes!!! But sooner or later, things escalate and both parents kill each other. Upbringing, environmental influences, voodoo, even mental issues...all can be root causes of domestic violence(mental and physical types)

FireUpNow:
This is very sad na. As a man if your wife is misbehaving to you, kindly talk to her or better still wear your clothes and go to see a friend to calm down then you can come back to the house. Fighting is not an option. Think about your kids and the good things your have done and been doing. I feel very sad. Say no domestic violatence.

And if she continues misbehaving you keep going up and down to and fro your friend's house. What if that your friend also leaves his own house because of his wife's misbehaviour, whose house will you go to when next she turns the heat on you?