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Confirm4real:
Please this is a serious case she happens to be my younger sister I'm putting this up on her behalf.

1. The husband doesn't give her money for upkeep.

2. Most times he beat her up mercilessly.

3. Disgraced her in the compound by telling a mechanic that she doesn't wear pants.

4. Treat her like rag.

5. Doesn't have regard for my family.

6. Monitor her everywhere and accuse her wrongly of following men, this is someone that they've been married for more than 15yrs and have 4kids together.

7. Always accuse her wrongly of stealing his money.

8. Follow her to the market and pays for any food items she buys.

9. The little money my sister earns as a teacher he will make sure she spends all the money at home.

10. Locks his phone but told my sister to always unlock her own so he will be seeing all her messages and calls. Even put tracker on her phone to monitor her calls.

11. Smells my sister's undies atimes to know if she went to meet a man.

12. There was a time my sister was into restaurant business the husband didn't allow the business to last, he told her customers should not sit down to eat they can only buy and go.

13. He now bought a Sienna he still put tracker to monitor the car and inner tracker to monitor calls inside the car. If he noticed some conversation in the car he will start calling my sister, if she doesn't pick while driving he will start insulting her.

14. He pays the children school fees and house rent with complains. They're living at Ajah.

Although I have reported the case to Human Rights. Please what advice can you give if she's your sister.

Note: They dated long before marriage almost 5yrs, but I wonder why she didn't see those red flags then.

Women should be careful in their choice of selection, most men pretends to be nice during dating but not knowing they're beast in human form.

I hate stories like this! Your sister na mumu abi the man use juju tie am down? Sorry to say na your sister foolish pass, spare me the talk of "love and because of the children" Rubbish!

If e sure for you are your family, call your sister to return home. You and your people should allow the family to breath.
The only valid point you have is that he beats her, if that is true, report him to his family, if he doesn't take correction take your sister back before we hear bad news, as for stalking her and all other things, they will get used to each other.

Confirm4real:
Please this is a serious case she happens to be my younger sister I'm putting this up on her behalf.

1. The husband doesn't give her money for upkeep.

2. Most times he beat her up mercilessly.

3. Disgraced her in the compound by telling a mechanic that she doesn't wear pants.

4. Treat her like rag.

5. Doesn't have regard for my family.

6. Monitor her everywhere and accuse her wrongly of following men, this is someone that they've been married for more than 15yrs and have 4kids together.

7. Always accuse her wrongly of stealing his money.

8. Follow her to the market and pays for any food items she buys.

9. The little money my sister earns as a teacher he will make sure she spends all the money at home.

10. Locks his phone but told my sister to always unlock her own so he will be seeing all her messages and calls. Even put tracker on her phone to monitor her calls.

11. Smells my sister's undies atimes to know if she went to meet a man.

12. There was a time my sister was into restaurant business the husband didn't allow the business to last, he told her customers should not sit down to eat they can only buy and go.

13. He now bought a Sienna he still put tracker to monitor the car and inner tracker to monitor calls inside the car. If he noticed some conversation in the car he will start calling my sister, if she doesn't pick while driving he will start insulting her.

14. He pays the children school fees and house rent with complains. They're living at Ajah.

Although I have reported the case to Human Rights. Please what advice can you give if she's your sister.

Note: They dated long before marriage almost 5yrs, but I wonder why she didn't see those red flags then.

Women should be careful in their choice of selection, most men pretends to be nice during dating but not knowing they're beast in human form.

This is your sister's side of the story, let's not judge until we hear from her husband.

Taylor90:
Is your sister cripple?

Abi she no know the address of her fathers house

Because I don’t understand while she’s still with him if all you said here is true

Anyways I won’t jump into conclusions yet because something must have prompted this man’s insecurities and the reason why your sister doesn’t want to leave justifies it all

Maybe your sister don cheap woto woto in the past

All of you saying the man is rich yen yen yen I disagree with that he might be an average guy

If he was rich he won’t allow his wife be a teacher( obviously nursery or primary school teacher)

He wouldn’t allow his wife run a buka restaurant

He won’t buy Sienna

For once someone knows that the man described cannot be a rich man. He is average or poor.

Why do you think he bought her a car?

Rokiat:
Is she in jail serving a prison sentence under federal law that she can’t get out at her free will?

Is her self esteem so law that she don’t know her self worth because make it make sense this ridiculous to say the less.

I have never been slapped by a man before in my life, try it and I am out the door.

What sort of bullshiiit is this? Is this story even real? Why do women allow themselves to be treated like shiiit by men I mean why oooh why?


You birthed these men for God sake, never allow yourself to be tricked or treated like shit by them ever!

My sister I am a man but this is pure rubbish! The woman family self including the OP no get head!

What’s wicked about a man that wishes to smell his wife’s pant ?

tctrills:
This is your sister's side of the story, let's not judge until we hear from her husband.

One of the most abused lines on this forum.

Is there anything that justifies battering your wife and starving your children, instead of divorcing her and going your own way? Don't judge. Not even when he kills her. Still ask for his side of the story and sympathize with him.

Confirm4real:
Please this is a serious case she happens to be my younger sister I'm putting this up on her behalf.

1. The husband doesn't give her money for upkeep.

2. Most times he beat her up mercilessly.

3. Disgraced her in the compound by telling a mechanic that she doesn't wear pants.

4. Treat her like rag.

5. Doesn't have regard for my family.

6. Monitor her everywhere and accuse her wrongly of following men, this is someone that they've been married for more than 15yrs and have 4kids together.

7. Always accuse her wrongly of stealing his money.

8. Follow her to the market and pays for any food items she buys.

9. The little money my sister earns as a teacher he will make sure she spends all the money at home.

10. Locks his phone but told my sister to always unlock her own so he will be seeing all her messages and calls. Even put tracker on her phone to monitor her calls.

11. Smells my sister's undies atimes to know if she went to meet a man.

12. There was a time my sister was into restaurant business the husband didn't allow the business to last, he told her customers should not sit down to eat they can only buy and go.

13. He now bought a Sienna he still put tracker to monitor the car and inner tracker to monitor calls inside the car. If he noticed some conversation in the car he will start calling my sister, if she doesn't pick while driving he will start insulting her.

14. He pays the children school fees and house rent with complains. They're living at Ajah.

Although I have reported the case to Human Rights. Please what advice can you give if she's your sister.

Note: They dated long before marriage almost 5yrs, but I wonder why she didn't see those red flags then.

Women should be careful in their choice of selection, most men pretends to be nice during dating but not knowing they're beast in human form.

Narcissist profile. He can't change... He's mad man

tctrills:
This is your sister's side of the story, let's not judge until we hear from her husband.

Yes you have a point but what story will the man tell IF he did all that. The highest sin my wife can commit is adultery and I will simply divorce her.

please leave your sister marriage alone, how come you know all this thing if you are a not poke noser and a busy body? let her be, once she is tired she would file for divorce but for now allow her marry in peace.

Your sister get wetin she dey enjoy for the marriage wey she no tell you.


Ruth abokoku for Bible no go tolerate this kind thing sef

A simple but a bitter advice from here, she should end that marriage before it end her. Point. Blank. Period.

assholemods:
I hate stories like this! Your sister na mumu abi the man use juju tie am down? Sorry to say na your sister foolish pass, spare me the talk of "love and because of the children" Rubbish!

The sister sounds like a sock puppet, right? I doubt it's even a real human being we're contemplating here. How could she enjoy such a lifestyle for years so that it is the sibling coming here for help? Stockholm syndrome? Juju? She likes it but he's at the brink of killing her and she doesn't want that to happen?

Their family is scared of the man or believe she's now his problem, otherwise they would've rescued her since.

DaTruths:
Confirm4real

The chances are that Your Sister must have cheated on him, either before marriage or in marriage, hence his insecurities.

That's why it's good to break up with a girl that cheated, if you know you don't have the emotional and mental wherewithal to let bygones be bygones, else, you will end up living with insecurities.

I don't think a man would be grossly insecure like this if his woman has never cheated or shown any tendency to cheat.

Aside from that, your sister might not find all these things he does as offensive as you finds it.

But my problem is that he shouldn't beat her for any reason, if he beats her again, call human rights on him.

You'd be surprised she didn't.

BRATISLAVA:
Can you blame them? In Nigerian men's thinking the woman is always the cause of maritial problems. The man is always a saint.

Your brother-in-law is an evil man, but whether it is due to mental illness or the red pill is what she doesn't need to stay to figure out. Why don't you house her if she's willing to leave him?

After the outcome of Human Rights I will know the next action to take. Thanks.

He what now??! Smells kini?!!

I'm going to puke!

Very insecured MEN are the greatest Cheat...

With everything you mentioned and you are asking questions,it shows you don't love your sister enough.if she lacks the boldness to walk away,you guys should build her confidence.let her know she has more to achieve in this life than allowing a low life horseband treat her like rag.

Omashey o
Nairaland don turn ‘Koootu Ashipa’ and that transgender siddon for Sango Otta de sip burukutu.

Shior

Truly unfortunate

U can't just come here and rubbish a man expecting us to swallow it like indomie.. busy body. Na ur type worse pass.

Confirm4real:
Please this is a serious case she happens to be my younger sister I'm putting this up on her behalf.

1. The husband doesn't give her money for upkeep.

2. Most times he beat her up mercilessly.

3. Disgraced her in the compound by telling a mechanic that she doesn't wear pants.

4. Treat her like rag.

5. Doesn't have regard for my family.

6. Monitor her everywhere and accuse her wrongly of following men, this is someone that they've been married for more than 15yrs and have 4kids together.

7. Always accuse her wrongly of stealing his money.

8. Follow her to the market and pays for any food items she buys.

9. The little money my sister earns as a teacher he will make sure she spends all the money at home.

10. Locks his phone but told my sister to always unlock her own so he will be seeing all her messages and calls. Even put tracker on her phone to monitor her calls.

11. Smells my sister's undies atimes to know if she went to meet a man.

12. There was a time my sister was into restaurant business the husband didn't allow the business to last, he told her customers should not sit down to eat they can only buy and go.

13. He now bought a Sienna he still put tracker to monitor the car and inner tracker to monitor calls inside the car. If he noticed some conversation in the car he will start calling my sister, if she doesn't pick while driving he will start insulting her.

14. He pays the children school fees and house rent with complains. They're living at Ajah.

Although I have reported the case to Human Rights. Please what advice can you give if she's your sister.

Note: They dated long before marriage almost 5yrs, but I wonder why she didn't see those red flags then.

Women should be careful in their choice of selection, most men pretends to be nice during dating but not knowing they're beast in human form.

Something has possessed the husband if he wasn't like this in the first fifteen years

Confirm4real:
Please this is a serious case she happens to be my younger sister I'm putting this up on her behalf.

1. The husband doesn't give her money for upkeep.

2. Most times he beat her up mercilessly.

3. Disgraced her in the compound by telling a mechanic that she doesn't wear pants.

4. Treat her like rag.

5. Doesn't have regard for my family.

6. Monitor her everywhere and accuse her wrongly of following men, this is someone that they've been married for more than 15yrs and have 4kids together.

7. Always accuse her wrongly of stealing his money.

8. Follow her to the market and pays for any food items she buys.

9. The little money my sister earns as a teacher he will make sure she spends all the money at home.

10. Locks his phone but told my sister to always unlock her own so he will be seeing all her messages and calls. Even put tracker on her phone to monitor her calls.

11. Smells my sister's undies atimes to know if she went to meet a man.

12. There was a time my sister was into restaurant business the husband didn't allow the business to last, he told her customers should not sit down to eat they can only buy and go.

13. He now bought a Sienna he still put tracker to monitor the car and inner tracker to monitor calls inside the car. If he noticed some conversation in the car he will start calling my sister, if she doesn't pick while driving he will start insulting her.

14. He pays the children school fees and house rent with complains. They're living at Ajah.

Although I have reported the case to Human Rights. Please what advice can you give if she's your sister.

Note: They dated long before marriage almost 5yrs, but I wonder why she didn't see those red flags then.

Women should be careful in their choice of selection, most men pretends to be nice during dating but not knowing they're beast in human form.

The truth is that she noticed it during courtship days but she was just hell bent on becoming "Mrs" ahead of her peers.

Most women knew everything that is currently happening but their quest to answer married woman always leads them to their present situation.

I blame you the family members for giving your daughter out for marriage to a mad man

obayendo1010:
please leave your sister marriage alone, how come you know all this thing if you are a not poke noser and a busy body? let her be, once she is tired she would file for divorce but for now allow her marry in peace.

She has been hiding it for years thinking the husband would change. So she decided to open up to my family and I tried to know what the problem is from her husband, this is a man that is always right and always paint my sister black to everybody and his family members.

I know you will post this on nairaland...yes go back and ask your sister to tell you what you don't know ...she's not a Saint ....I will keep dealing with her untill she confess to the family what she did ...for your information I am the one who needs help ,not her ..

oneeast:
What’s wicked about a man that wishes to smell his wife’s pant ?

Lmao 🤣😂🤣😂 Did you read the whole story at all?

Confirm4real:
Please this is a serious case she happens to be my younger sister I'm putting this up on her behalf.

1. The husband doesn't give her money for upkeep.

2. Most times he beat her up mercilessly.

3. Disgraced her in the compound by telling a mechanic that she doesn't wear pants.

4. Treat her like rag.

5. Doesn't have regard for my family.

6. Monitor her everywhere and accuse her wrongly of following men, this is someone that they've been married for more than 15yrs and have 4kids together.

7. Always accuse her wrongly of stealing his money.

8. Follow her to the market and pays for any food items she buys.

9. The little money my sister earns as a teacher he will make sure she spends all the money at home.

10. Locks his phone but told my sister to always unlock her own so he will be seeing all her messages and calls. Even put tracker on her phone to monitor her calls.

11. Smells my sister's undies atimes to know if she went to meet a man.

12. There was a time my sister was into restaurant business the husband didn't allow the business to last, he told her customers should not sit down to eat they can only buy and go.

13. He now bought a Sienna he still put tracker to monitor the car and inner tracker to monitor calls inside the car. If he noticed some conversation in the car he will start calling my sister, if she doesn't pick while driving he will start insulting her.

14. He pays the children school fees and house rent with complains. They're living at Ajah.

Although I have reported the case to Human Rights. Please what advice can you give if she's your sister.

Note: They dated long before marriage almost 5yrs, but I wonder why she didn't see those red flags then.

Women should be careful in their choice of selection, most men pretends to be nice during dating but not knowing they're beast in human form.

Your sister must be an angel while your in-law is lucifer.

She is such a good woman that she reports all the evil that her husband does to her while she is just sitting innocently minding her business.

If I did not know the antics and manipulations of women, I would have joined fools to condemn your in law without hearing his own side of the story.

Well, I wish your sister well!

Lemme hear the his side of the story... Can't trust skirt people

You're making serious efforts to end your sisters marriage.

Hope you're ready for the consequences if you succeed.