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Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by Nobody: 6:22pm On Aug 16, 2023
yinkeys:

A rich African can opt for this if he wishes to
Not until he seeks his wife's agreement

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Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by yinkeys(m): 6:24pm On Aug 16, 2023
IconicR:
Not until he seeks his wife's agreement
A woman’s consent isn’t needed
Is this the first time you’re hearing a second wife is married without the consent of the first
A man capable of every financial burden would do as his tradition permits
European religion is deceiving people
Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by Nobody: 6:26pm On Aug 16, 2023
yinkeys:

A woman’s consent isn’t needed
Is this the first time you’re hearing a second wife is married without the consent of the first
Even if some men do it, it's not the best.
You don't hurt your wife and act like she doesn't have blood running through her veins
Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by Lama70(m): 6:27pm On Aug 16, 2023
IconicR:
It's ojukokoro

It's not ojukokoro. But to let them know that we are capable to add even more when they start to do anyhow. Lol
Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by Teymanhenry(f): 6:28pm On Aug 16, 2023
talented321:
Normally i like the idea of polygamy but on second thought, what are the reason for engaging in polygamy? because
1. The target is to born 2 to 6 children'' and i think one woman can born such amount of children except life circumstances.
* And i think one understanding woman is better than two troublesome wives''
* And i don't think sex is am enough reason to take another wife, except your present woman is giving a tough time for D sex
Pls experience elders in the house what are the benefits of polygamy when somebody has an understanding woman.
Pls is for men''

Ask God why he created more women
Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by DMerciful(m): 6:29pm On Aug 16, 2023
Is it also possible that two good wives are better than one troublesome wife?

Most Nigerian men a technically polygamous because even though they have one wife they have several gfs who they rent or buy houses for and visit often
talented321:
Normally i like the idea of polygamy but on second thought, what are the reason for engaging in polygamy? because
1. The target is to born 2 to 6 children'' and i think one woman can born such amount of children except life circumstances.
* And i think one understanding woman is better than two troublesome wives''
* And i don't think sex is am enough reason to take another wife, except your present woman is giving a tough time for D sex
Pls experience elders in the house what are the benefits of polygamy when somebody has an understanding woman.
Pls is for men''
Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by Almunjid(m): 6:30pm On Aug 16, 2023
Puss360:

What are you even saying We are talking of Polygamy here and I'm talking of its effect on a country's economy...
I gave a point that those countries with GDP PPP, don't allow polygamy, and they aren't even populated....
USA is the only country among whose population exceeds 300m... And "Some " of these countries despite their little population, they are still LGBTQ friendly...to show that they really don't even want to increase their current population...

Instead of you to counter my claim by giving Ur points, you are just laughing rubbish...

Is that how you show Ur maturity?? Too bad...
Sorry to say this, but you're not making sense at all. Just say that you're against polygamy as a woman because u can't stand sharing ur man with another woman. Some women don't care as long as the man has the means and wherewithal to cater for their needs.

Polygamy has no negative impact on economy and population as u believed. It's people's mentality and mindset towards life and procreation that play significant role in economy and population of a nation not polygamy. An educated man with good mentality and mindset can have 2 wives, each wife having 2 kids each (4 kids in total), and a poor man with poor perception towards life and procreation may have one wife with 8 children. Go to Northern Nigeria and see where one woman give birth to more than 8 children. Most of them know nothing about family planning. That's why government is creating awareness and educating them on the importance of family planning. Once women are given proper orientation polygamy or monogamy won't count. One can have 3 educated wives, each of them having 2 kids (6 kids) and take good care of them without overpopulating the world unnecessarily. After all, marriage or no marriage the 3 women will still give birth to children. Moreover, men are into polygamy for different reasons, some it's because their first wives were unable to bear them children or give them the peace of mind they crave for.

Finally, the lifestyle men live today doesn't support monogamy unless we want to keep deceiving ourselves (by having one wife with numerous side-chicks and baby mamas). Number of men that are ready for marriage is always lower compare to the number of women ready for marriage. Birth rate, survival and death rate of men and women aren't the same either. If we're to practice strict monogamy, majority of women will die single. Polygamists are rendering great service to "womanity". grin


Peace!

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Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by yinkeys(m): 6:30pm On Aug 16, 2023
IconicR:
Even if some men do it, it's not the best.
You don't hurt your wife and act like she doesn't have blood running through her veins
Women do worse
You will not see many women treat a poor man well the way she will pretend and treat a rich man
You make it seem like women are angels.
They’re more realist when it comes to survival than men are
You won’t see women taking a bullet for a man but the reverse is the case
I said most not all
Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by HELLASJ(m): 6:32pm On Aug 16, 2023
Whatever your reasons are, I'll marry more than one wife.
I can't be in my own home and one woman be dictating when and when not have peace. If one misbehaves ai switch to the other, I don't have time for drama.
Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by Nobody: 6:35pm On Aug 16, 2023
yinkeys:

Women do worse
You will not see many women treat a poor man well the way she will pretend and treat a rich man
You make it seem like women are angels.
They’re more realist when it comes to survival than men are
You won’t see women taking a bullet for a man but the reverse is the case
I said most not all
Are you a Muslim
Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by abdullahi45: 6:37pm On Aug 16, 2023
Puss360:
Psychologically, Humans are the most difficult species to understand...
Benefits of Polygamy heavily lies on the mentality of the Man... Not the woman...
There are many reasons men go into polygamy... Some are for sex, some are for children, some are for love generally....
But the most absurd is those who marry "to help some women avoid being a spinster"....

Years back when the earth isn't so populated and technologically advanced,we can encourage polygamy to have more children to increase agricultural production...
But now, this 21st century, Polygamy is an "Economic weigh down" on any country that allows polygamy...
We might not agree, but top 20 richest countries in terms of GDP PPP, doesn't support polygamy, infact most sef are LGBTQ friendly so as to reduce population and increase production and wealth to share among available citizens ...

Don't quote me blindly, do your research and think....

In addition; it's easier for a single man to have 6 kids and train to maximum 18yrs, but it's a heavy burden to the government to provide social amenities to all those kids...
6 kids from one man, uses government road, government electricity, government hospital, occupy government school...
All of dem from one man... Lol...
Now imagine 50 men having 6 kids each... And only like 35 of the men are working...
Isn't it a heavy burden

Have you heard of Qatar, UAE, Saudi Arabia, Bahrain, Brunei? They all make the list, don't they?

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Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by MightySparrow: 6:45pm On Aug 16, 2023
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Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by Puss360(f): 6:46pm On Aug 16, 2023
abdullahi45:


Have you heard of Qatar, UAE, Saudi Arabia, Bahrain, Brunei? They all make the list, don't they?
60% of thos living in Qatar are foreigners mainly from Western world.
Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by beardedboy(m): 6:50pm On Aug 16, 2023
Puss360:

What are you even saying We are talking of Polygamy here and I'm talking of its effect on a country's economy...
I gave a point that those countries with GDP PPP, don't allow polygamy, and they aren't even populated....
USA is the only country among whose population exceeds 300m... And "Some " of these countries despite their little population, they are still LGBTQ friendly...to show that they really don't even want to increase their current population...

Instead of you to counter my claim by giving Ur points, you are just laughing rubbish...

Is that how you show Ur maturity?? Too bad...
Obviously you skipped statistics classes.
Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by Puss360(f): 6:52pm On Aug 16, 2023
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Personally I don't prefer anyone... But if I were to be in legislator making laws, I prefer LGBT.. because that one doesn't pull out economy down... And growing economy is meant to be my aim as a legislator...
But you see polygamy, longterm problem
Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by Puss360(f): 6:53pm On Aug 16, 2023
beardedboy:

Obviously you skipped statistics classes.
You dat didn't skip, prove me wrong....
With educational reasons...
Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by Alade2005: 6:54pm On Aug 16, 2023
Men are promiscuous in nature,either one is polygamous or adulterous.which one is the best?

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Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by DaddyGngeess(m): 6:55pm On Aug 16, 2023
IconicR:
It's ojukokoro





Hahahahaha, this made me laugh out loud shall
Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by beardedboy(m): 6:56pm On Aug 16, 2023
Puss360:

You dat didn't skip, prove me wrong....
With educational reasons...
He already did na. He said you committed a statistical fallacy when you made correlation the same as causation. That's a huge uppercut. You can't recover from it.
Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by Puss360(f): 6:57pm On Aug 16, 2023
beardedboy:

He already did na. He said you committed a statistical fallacy when you made correlation the same as causation. That's a huge uppercut. You can't recover from it.
You sef are blowing heavy grammer...
If I commited a statistical fallacy then he ought to come and correct me.. or remain silent for ever...
And you that is supporting him, can you prove me wrong??
Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by happney65: 7:00pm On Aug 16, 2023
Because we cannot eat one pussy for the rest of our lives.. undecided

We can keep on deceiving ourselves of that mantra of one Man one woman,all na wash. The Men wey no dey cheat for this country I don't think them reach one thousand Men. Even so called clergy Men fuccck other women and have secret wives

Women can fucck one dick for the rest of their lives. They do not have any problem with sleeping with one Man because except you are an Ashawo,most women prefer to stay with one guy alone. But Men, Biologically are not wired that way. We can keep on deceiving ourselves

The truth of the matter is there is nothing wrong with Polygamy. Absolutely nothing. The only thing that is wrong with it is you not having money and being a polygamist.

It should be condemed in all totality.

Polygamy should be the exclusive right of the RICH!
Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by beardedboy(m): 7:02pm On Aug 16, 2023
Puss360:

You sef are blowing heavy grammer...
If I commited a statistical fallacy then he ought to come and correct me.. or remain silent for ever...
And you that is supporting him, can you prove me wrong??
So it's my fault that you don't understand basic statistics? Please leave me ooo. I can't laugh.
Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by Puss360(f): 7:06pm On Aug 16, 2023
beardedboy:

So it's my fault that you don't understand basic statistics? Please leave me ooo. I can't laugh.
Wahala... Chai.. too bad we have lots of half baked educated elites here ....
It's easy to condemn someone points, but very hard to prove your own...
Now to someone reading this on the net, don't you think the person will want to know why you rule out my points?
Worse, you come online, take one side, attack the other side and run..
It is well ....

And no, it's not your fault that I don't understand Basic statistics... .
All of us no Sabi the thing ..
Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by talented321: 7:21pm On Aug 16, 2023
And u think one man is not boring to a woman?
Omoawoke:


They come in different shapes and sizes. Why do you buy one car and want another if the car can fulfill your needs of mobility. Why will you buy Lexus and be eying Benz, why will you have Benz and start eying BMW? You get the car and want the SUV then want a Masarati
They come tall, big ass, big front, yellow skin, dark skin… you will now jam half caste.
If it’s possible to marry all of them, I will

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Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by talented321: 7:23pm On Aug 16, 2023
maduxs:
when the first didn't give birth you go for second one if you are not the fault of childlessness
what about the woman is giving birth and don't give u problem?
Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by talented321: 7:29pm On Aug 16, 2023
That is the africa man problem'' how can somebody that doesn't feed his one woman will look for another woman or girlfriend'' those are the things affecting the nation' we just born children we can't take care for.
DMerciful:
Is it also possible that two good wives are better than one troublesome wife?

Most Nigerian men a technically polygamous because even though they have one wives, they have several gfs whom the rent or buy houses for and visit often

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Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by talented321: 7:33pm On Aug 16, 2023
Polygamy is not to benefit women rather it is men selfishness''
casualobserver:


The benefit in polygamy is for women who would otherwise be single and their children that would have been bastards or raised in single mother homes. Our brainwashed women would rather be baby mamas and side chicks praying for the monogamous husband that will never come.

We men will continue to help misguided womenfolk to promote monogamy so we can have all the benefits of polygamy without the commitment.

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Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by abdullahi45: 7:39pm On Aug 16, 2023
Puss360:

60% of thos living in Qatar are foreigners mainly from Western world.

Trying very hard to fulfill your one-sided argument, huh. How about the other countries that support polygamy and still make the list?
Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by Hydriss(m): 7:48pm On Aug 16, 2023
Funny thing is until a lady is past marriageable age and isn't married before she realizes polygamy isn't a bad thing in the first place. Many people miss the point, one of the major essence of polygamy is to curb the number of single women out there. Check the population of both genders and you'll understand monogamy means many of the women out there will never get married and have kids in this lifetime. In the end, polygamy is a choice, I for one might not be in support, but in the end you can't wave aside the major advantage
Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by BoboNogoDie: 7:49pm On Aug 16, 2023
IconicR:
It's ojukokoro
The same ojúkòkòrò that makes MOST ladies have numerous bodycount before marriage.
Dated and double dated NUMEROUS GUYS.

Some will have even done abortions and have will slept with numerous MARRIED MEN.

HOW MANY OF YOU STILL MARRY AS VIRGINS
Yet, they want to get married and enjoy their own husbands to themselves. Dey play...

YOU WANT TO EAT YOUR CAKES AND HAVE IT...


IMPOSSIBLE
WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND.


ANY GIRL WITH MULTIPLE BODYCOUNT AND HAVE DATED MARRIED MAN OR MEN BEFORE MARRIAGE DON'T DESERVE A HAPPY HOME. DON'T DESERVE TO ENJOY THEIR OWN HUSBAND TO THEMSELVES ALONE.
Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by Expanse2020(m): 7:53pm On Aug 16, 2023
IconicR:
It's ojukokoro
It's not ojukokoro...the population of weman is around 65 to 70% out of 100% if 30% of weman marries 30% of men so the remaining 40% you want to kill them or you will forcefully make them sister.. so it's has to balance when a man take 3women the equation will be balance..
Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by Nobody: 7:55pm On Aug 16, 2023
Expanse2020:

It's not ojukokoro...the population of weman is around 65 to 70% out of 100% if 30% of weman marries 30% of men so the remaining 40% you want to kill them or you will forcefully make them sister.. so it's has to balance when a man take 3women the equation will be balance..
So how many are you currently married to?

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