chaircover: Though this concept sometimes works in arranged marriages it is not advisable

What if she never loves him? Marriage is supposed to be one of the best experiences that happens in ones live. How then can you sacrifice 60 years of your life to being unhappy and unfulfilled

The parents forget that if their daughter isnt happy, they too wont have peace because she will be running to then every 5 minutes reporting her husband to them.

If parents want peace, they should let their children marry who they love.

chaircover: Well since most of the Cabal are married women anyway, and tolerance and undersrtanding is what is needed to sustain these same marriages that we choose to remain in, then we must all suffer from low esteem ourselves.

stepo707: loving the one you marry.

jennykadrry:

But CC you know that we only tell the fools on this forum that we are married so they won't laugh at us. Gosh can you imagine if they found out that we never had husbands. Yeah, a few did have but the guys ran once they got to know us, so they don't count.

stepo707: loving the one you marry.

sauer:
I rarely come to this forum. I come mostly from the front page. But when I do and I see a comment from you, I am never surprised to see terrible, bad words!

Johndoe100: On the surface this looks reasonable, but the kicker is in the next line which goes like this:
"parents should allow their children to marry who they love think they love, so that if the men misbehave the women can promptly get divorced." With parental aproval "understanding and tolorance" are key. As everyone on this board knows, the cabal and their leader chaircover consider tolerance and understanding in mariage to be a manifestation of low self esteem.
You just gotta love these hags and their coven.

bukatyne: sir, y can't u leave chaircover n d 'cabal' alone n give ur advice? ur advice might have helped one or 2 pple but now u have ruined it al.

richeyy: A female friend is getting married to a man she doesn't love but approved by her parents. Her mum keeps telling her: don't worry, you will get to love him, that was how I met your father and now I can't do without you father. Please help her with your comments.

brightmon: Marry he/she that loves you not he/she you think you love.

chaircover: Well since most of the Cabal are married women anyway, and tolerance and undersrtanding is what is needed to sustain these same marriages that we choose to remain in, then we must all suffer from low esteem ourselves.

jennykadrry:

But CC you know that we only tell the fools on this forum that we are married so they won't laugh at us. Gosh can you imagine if they found out that we never had husbands. Yeah, a few did have but the guys ran once they got to know us, so they don't count.

Fhemmmy:

How do you know the one that loves you . . .

brightmon: Marry he/she that loves you not he/she you think you love.

brightmon:
he/she is simple, honest and just want to be ther for you, not to impress but just ther.
Dont be selective and remeber He/she is not always what you expect.

kalufelix:
in other words let d love come 2 u...dont u tink u contracdicted ur sef because A must b takin d love 2 B or vice versa...so u re sayin dat B shud recieve and A shud nat give at d same time. Dats equal 2 zero man

brightmon:
he/she is simple, honest and just want to be ther for you, not to impress but just ther.
Dont be selective and remeber He/she is not always what you expect.