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Is asking for money and favors compulsory in relationship?

Oyindamolah:
I'll summarise.

Anita is a virgin and wants to remain so until her wedding night like most ladies.

James wants to marry a virgin as a wife. He thinks they fall from the sky on their wedding day like most men.

James can't date a lady without wanting to smash her like most men.

If all men act like James and most women don't act like Anita, no man will marry a virgin wife.

Ceteris paribus.

No not really,

If you don’t live off a guys earning and hard work, then you owe him nothing - Fact 101.

If you do then start paying small small.

Love nova hold you, all this your English go end.

siofra:
She has the right to do whatever she wants with her body


Fūck you and your stupid thread

so does the guy

BoboNogoDie:
It's not compulsory and dating couples shouldn't engage in it, BECAUSE IT'S A SIN!

UNLESS YOU DON'T MIND BEING A SINNER...
UNLESS YOU'RE DATING A GIRL WHO'S NO LONGER A VIRGIN.
THE MOMENT GIRLS LOOSE THEIR VIRGINITY, THEY SEE SEX AS A TOOL TO USE TO GET WHAT THEY WANT...
A guy who practices no-sex with a SLÚT (girls with bodycount more 2) is the greatest fool of the century.

This your talk should extend to the men too. Women also want and deserve virtuous and faithful men.

IamKizzbrown10:
Many people have happy, fulfilling, healthy
romantic relationships without having sex
with their partners.

It ultimately depends on
your personal beliefs, physical desires, and
the nature of your relationship.

There are many reasons why people don’t want to, or don’t, have sex. However, this doesn’tmean that the relationship will be unhealthy.

And it certainly isn’t a sign that your partner
doesn’t love or value you!

This is my humble opinion though, tell us what you think nairalanders?

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Billing and Sex are like Siamese twins. You can't have one without the other. Abolish sex. Abolish billing.

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Kemadealadire:
This your talk should extend to the men too. Women also want and deserve virtuous and faithful men.

I did.
Read my first sentence again.

It is not compulsory but it is required.

YES

siofra:
She has the right to do whatever she wants with her body


Fūck you and your stupid thread

Just make sure that after doing what you want with your body.... That me or anybody i know cannot marry you💯

As a girl you're a fucking commodity, and if you reduce your value yourself with multiple abortions, many STDs, loss of womb and ultimately with dreaded HIV... Don't come with the gospel of 'my past doesn't matter', because even though it might not matter in your eyes, it wouldn't still change the fact that you're now useless⚠️⚠️⚠️

Comrades please remain single until you meet a virgin girl🎯

siofra:
She has the right to do whatever she wants with her body


Fūck you and your stupid thread

Just make sure that after doing what you want with your body.... That me or anybody i know cannot marry you💯

As a girl you're a fucking commodity, and if you're reduce your value yourself with multiple abortions, many STDs, loss of womb and ultimately dreaded HIV... Don't come with the gospel of 'my past doesn't matter', because even though it might not matter in your eyes, it wouldn't still change the fact that you're now useless⚠️⚠️⚠️

Comrades please remain single until you meet a virgin girl🎯

💯% compulsory,if you want us to date be ready for steady sex

If it is a relationship of lovers then it is relevant especially if marriage is not imminent. Otherwise they might each get it from others with potential to break their relationship

Sonnobax15:

Every Nigha has his own choice.....

Back then ,I didn't see it as a MUST............

But, something really changed me...

Then again,I just remembered how I kept my cool with my ex for over 7 years, maintaining the NO-SEX type of relationship.... But las las,na another guyman help me deflower the banny for free of charge.....

So these days,once you cross my path as a banny,you should expect steady wiping and banging

Omo iyami I sight you...

Not at all. You can never have access to my body cuz we are not married. The reason why most girls have sex with their boyfriend now, is because of material things.. and I ain't need your money am only dating cuz you said you love me. So let's leave it as that. Until we are married no sex.

Its simple, replace sex with any other element that forms a part of relationships and ask the same question.

Can you have happy, fulfilling, healthy romantic relationships without (love, respect, empathy, money, time, loyalty, mutual interests, trust, communication)?

If you come up with the answer as no, then certainly, sex being an integral part of healthy romantic relationships is 1000% necessary.

IamKizzbrown10:
Many people have happy, fulfilling, healthy
romantic relationships without having sex
with their partners.

It ultimately depends on
your personal beliefs, physical desires, and
the nature of your relationship.

There are many reasons why people don’t want to, or don’t, have sex. However, this doesn’tmean that the relationship will be unhealthy.

And it certainly isn’t a sign that your partner
doesn’t love or value you!

This is my humble opinion though, tell us what you think nairalanders?

If sex nor dey wetin I con dey date for

BoboNogoDie:
It's not compulsory and dating couples shouldn't engage in it, BECAUSE IT'S A SIN!

UNLESS YOU DON'T MIND BEING A SINNER...
UNLESS YOU'RE DATING A GIRL WHO'S NO LONGER A VIRGIN.
THE MOMENT GIRLS LOOSE THEIR VIRGINITY, THEY SEE SEX AS A TOOL TO USE TO GET WHAT THEY WANT...
A guy who practices no-sex with a SLÚT (girls with bodycount more 2) is the greatest fool of the century.

99.9% of times, while you're respecting yourself, respecting her request not to engage in sex and While you're keeping her for marriage, SOME OTHER DUDES WILL BE DIGGING HER BACK TO BACK. Girls with ex and multiple ex are the most wasteful, senseless and stressful to dating. You can NEVER trust them.

A girl who's no longer a virgin don't have a right to set rules of no sex in this relationship or no sex before marriage.

If you want your choice of no sex to be respected, KEEP YOUR VIRTUOUS! KEEP YOURSELF A VIRGIN UNTIL MARRIAGE.

Virginity is the greatest and the most valuable gift a girl can give to any guy but unfortunately, most girls of this generation have lost it to:
Indomie and fanta
Netflix and chills
Ice and pizza
Birthday gift
Valentine gift etc.
You can give a lot of men your Love, children, marriages etc, BUT YOU CAN ONLY GIVE ONE MAN YOUR VIRGINITY.

The decision to be a virgin or not is simply a woman's right, and we do not require your opinion or lectures on this matter. According to Biblical teachings, both men and women are expected to preserve their virginity till marriage.

Your comment is not only bias, it is also illogical. What special gift would a woman receive in return for her prolonged wait to present herself as a gift to her husband? Many non-virgins are married to responsible and successful men. Virginity is not a top priority for men; take a look at some of the most successful men, how many of them married a virgin? Most ladies preserve their virginity majorly for religious reasons not for their future husband.

Merry100:
The decision to be a virgin or not is simply a woman's right, and we do not require your opinion or lectures on this matter. According to Biblical teachings, both men and women are expected to preserve their virginity till marriage.

Your comment is not only bias, it is also illogical. What special gift would a woman receive in return for her prolonged wait to present herself as a gift to her husband? Many non-virgins are married to responsible and successful men. Virginity is not a top priority for men; take a look at some of the most successful men, how many of them married a virgin? Most ladies preserve their virginity majorly for religious reasons not for their future husband.

What's causing your pains and frustration on this topic? Am I the one who took your virginity wastefully and free?

From your comment, I can SENSE pain and regrets...
Don't you wish to have kept it for your husband and the person some you want to share the rest of your life with?
Are you proud of yourself?
The decision to prefer a virgin and encourage young girls to not be a shameless loose whórë with multiple bodycount lies with me and it's my business. I want what I want.
It's not everyone that can settle for less and accept you as you are.
I JUDGE PEOPLE BASED ON THEIR PAST AND IT'S THE RIGHT THING FOR EVERY RIGHT-THINKING PERSON TO ALWAYS DO.

BoboNogoDie:
What's causing your pains and frustration on this topic? Am I the one who took your virginity wastefully and free?

From your comment, I can SENSE pain and regrets...
Don't you wish to have kept it for your husband and the person some you want to share the rest of your life with?
Are you proud of yourself?
The decision to prefer a virgin and encourage young girls to not be a shameless loose whórë with multiple bodycount lies with me and it's my business. I want what I want.
It's not everyone that can settle for less and accept you as you are.
I JUDGE PEOPLE BASED ON THEIR PAST AND IT'S THE RIGHT THING FOR EVERY RIGHT-THINKING PERSON TO ALWAYS DO.

I can speak boldly on this matter and expose lies about virginity because I am a virgin myself. Non-virgins have nothing to regret, as there is no physical gain in being a virgin. God is able to forgive all sins, and non-virgins can also decide to become celibate until marriage.

Mr man, you and your types are not the only guys in the world. Many non-virgins are getting married to responsible and successful men every weekend.

I am not preserving my virginity because I want to please my future husband, most guys I have dated don't even care about virginity. Virginity is overhyped majorly online. I would even specifically advise virgins to be super careful, plan properly for the future, not to be rigid and to marry wisely.

Merry100:
I can speak boldly on this matter and expose lies about virginity because I am a virgin myself. Non-virgins have nothing to regret, as there is no physical gain in being a virgin. God is able to forgive all sins, and non-virgins can also decide to become celibate until marriage.

Mr man, you and types are not the only guys in the world. Many non-virgins are getting married to responsible and successful men every weekend.

I am not preserving my virginity because I want to please my future husband, most guys I have dated don't even care about virginity. Virginity is overhyped majorly online. I would even specifically advise virgins to be super careful, plan properly for the future, not be rigid and marry wisely.

Keep FOOLING yourself
Anybody can be anything on the internet...

BoboNogoDie:
Keep FOOLING yourself
Anybody can be anything on the internet...

Brother Bernard, I understand that you are only use to dealing with naive virgins, the my husband will cherish me and treat me like a queen type of virgin 😂🤣🤣

I will not make an attempt to prove myself to you. The important thing is that you grasp my points.

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Merry100:
Brother Bernard, I understand that you are only use to dealing with naive virgins, the my husband will cherish me and treat me like a queen, virgins 😂🤣🤣

I will not make an attempt to prove myself to you. The important thing is that you grasp my points.

Your have no reasonable point to make. I find you too dull, small and emotional to engage with in an intelligent debate.
Everything I stated are FACTS AND REALITY, and I'm absolutely sure that you're not a virgin but guilt and regret won't make you admit it I understand your pain
There's absolutely no culture in the world that doesn't value and cherish sexual purity, chastity and integrity. Even in the Bible, God loves it.
In the ancient times, a girl might be killed or banished if found not to be a virgin on her wedding night.
God himself didn't choose a whóre to birth Jesus for a reason, HE CHOSE A VIRGIN.

BoboNogoDie:
Your have no reasonable point to make. I find you too dull, small and emotional to engage with in an intelligent debate.
Everything I stated are FACTS AND REALITY, and I'm absolutely sure that you're not a virgin but guilt and regret won't make you admit it I understand your pain
There's absolutely no culture in the world that doesn't value and cherish sexual purity, chastity and integrity. Even in the Bible, God loves it.
In the ancient times, a girl might be killed or banished if found not to be a virgin on her wedding night.
God himself didn't choose a whóre to birth Jesus for a reason, HE CHOSE A VIRGIN.

We were all sinners in the eyes of God; Roman 3:23 says "For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God", this includes both virgins and non-virgins. But God offered His grace equally to everyone.

If you are a Christian, you should know that the virgin birth of Jesus holds great significance. Don't try to use religion to cover up your ignorance. Only women that made significant impacts are recorded in the Bible. Can you mention a woman in the Bible who was specifically praised solely for being a virgin? Let me remind you that even Mary Magdalene, a former prostitute, is also recorded for the impact she made.

Let me also educate you about virginity a bit: we were all born as virgins, and anyone can choose to remain a virgin. My dear, you cannot determine who is a virgin and who is not—it is not written on the forehead. Even some eighty-year-old oracle priestesses are still virgins. If you like cry from now till tomorrow, it won't change the fact that I'm still a virgin.

You don't know me so you don't have to believe me but stop using denial as an excuse. You just keep beating around the bush, you still haven't highlighted one physical benefit of virginity, no culture will do this and that, what concern me with no culture? Free me jor, you just feel like arguing, you've got no point.

Merry100:
We were all sinners in the eyes of God; Roman 3:23 says "For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God", this includes both virgins and non-virgins. But God offered His grace equally to everyone.

If you are a Christian, you should know that the virgin birth of Jesus holds great significance. Don't try to use religion to cover up your ignorance. Only women that made significant impacts are recorded in the Bible. Can you mention a woman in the Bible who was specifically praised solely for being a virgin? Let me remind you that even Mary Magdalene, a former prostitute, is also recorded for the impact she made.

Let me also educate you about virginity a bit: we were all born as virgins, and anyone can choose to remain a virgin. My dear, you cannot determine who is a virgin and who is not—it is not written on the forehead. Even some eighty-year-old oracle priestesses are still virgins. If you like cry from now till tomorrow, it won't change the fact that I'm still a virgin.

You don't know me so you don't have to believe me but stop using denial as an excuse. You just keep beating around the bush, you still haven't highlighted one physical benefit of virginity, no culture will do this and that, what concern me with no culture? Free me jor, you just feel like arguing, you've got no point.

Lol
You're too dull to educate me.
If virginity wasn't important, why did God choose a virgin woman to birth Jesus?
Virginity signifies purity. Sex is more than just the physical, so IT'S A VERY BIG DEAL TO BE A VIRGIN, and common sense should tell you that being a virgin doesn't mean you can't be a sinner...
The problem with most of you that have loosely given out your virginity to insignificant people due to GREED and stupidity is, you also find topics and opinions like this very triggering and annoying
Again, I understand your pains

Is air required to breathe ?
Which kain Jamb Question is this ?
How do you prove your love to each other. ?

BoboNogoDie:
Lol
You're too dull to educate me.
If virginity wasn't important, why did God choose a virgin woman to birth Jesus?
Virginity signifies purity. Sex is more than just the physical, so IT'S A VERY BIG DEAL TO BE A VIRGIN, and common sense should tell you that being a virgin doesn't mean you can't be a sinner...
The problem with most of you that have loosely given out your virginity to insignificant people due to GREED and stupidity is, you also find topics and opinions like this very triggering and annoying
Again, I understand your pains

You said I'm dull but you are the one beating around the bush and using denial as an excuse to cover up your ignorance. Anyway, as an about-to-be twenty-eight-years-old virgin, I know there is no physical benefit of virginity because I have not seen any.

This is just one platform o, I plan to spread the truth about virginity on different platforms and TV stations. My dear, you will cry more o because this is just the beginning.

Virginity is not the greatest and most valuable gift a woman can give her husband; there are many hardworking virgins who have more to offer than just virginity. Virginity should be preserved for good reasons. A virgin doesn't need to expect praises or special treatments, in fact, virginity is solely to honour God's word.

Some of my friends, who were virgins before marriage, are regretting today because they were naive and ignorant prior to getting married. They listened to lies and deceit from some relationship speakers and ignorant fellows like you. Instead of shining their eyes properly to select a good, caring and responsible husband, they carried their virginity on their heads and wore it on their faces expecting that they would be pampered by the irresponsible husbands that they married. I almost fell victim also but thank God I didn't. Praise the Lord!

Virgins, let us ask ourselves this question: What will be our benefit if we choose to preserve our virginity solely to marry a guy similar to this ignorant fellow that feels he is the benefit. 😂🤣🤣

Merry100:
You said I'm dull but you are the one beating around the bush and using denial as an excuse to cover up your ignorance. Anyway, as an about-to-be twenty-eight-years-old virgin, I know there is no physical benefit of virginity because I have not seen any.

This is just one platform o, I plan to spread the truth about virginity on different platforms and TV stations. My dear, you will cry more o because this is just the beginning.

Virginity is not the greatest and most valuable gift a woman can give her husband; there are many hardworking virgins who have more to offer than just virginity. Virginity should be preserved for good reasons. A virgin doesn't need to expect praises or special treatments, in fact, virginity is solely to honour God's word.

Some of my friends, who were virgins before marriage, are regretting today because they were naive and ignorant prior to getting married. They listened to lies and deceit from some relationship speakers and ignorant fellows like you. Instead of shining their eyes properly to select a good, caring and responsible husband, they carried their virginity on their heads and wore it on their faces expecting that they would be pampered by the irresponsible husbands that they married. I almost fell victim also but thank God I didn't. Praise the Lord!

Virgins, let us ask ourselves this question: What will be our benefit if we choose to preserve our virginity solely to marry a guy similar to this ignorant fellow that feels he is the benefit. 😂🤣🤣

I'll be a fool to read all the rubbish you typed.
I'm the last person on earth someone like you can school You and I are definitely not on the same pedigree...
One thing I'm sure of is that YOU'RE NOT A VIRGIN AND YOU LACK KNOWLEDGE ABOUT VIRGINITY.
Any frustrated whóre can claim to be a virgin so, I don't blame you.

BoboNogoDie:
I'll be a fool to read all the rubbish you typed.
I'm the last person on earth someone like you can school You and I are definitely not on the same pedigree...
One thing I'm sure of is that YOU'RE NOT A VIRGIN AND YOU LACK KNOWLEDGE ABOUT VIRGINITY.
Any frustrated whóre can claim to be a virgin so, I don't blame you.

😂🤣🤣

Fairview1:
Hmmm. Your signature doesn't connect with your views about this topic.

Yes because the topic is not related to my signature.

Peace ✌️