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Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by ideamonster: 8:17pm On Aug 16, 2023
The potential threat the career of a woman can cause to her marriage especially if her husband isn’t as successful as she is has always been a point of discussion. Moreover, some single men are even afraid to marry a woman who is successful in their chosen career than them. Some believe that the norm is husbands “should” hold higher job status relative to their wives. When this norm is violated, and wives hold the higher status job, negative consequences can follow: Women are more likely to be targets of husbands’ aggression, and the risk for divorce increases.

Question
is it a crime for a woman to succeed in her chosen field or earn more?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eUrng-mfZpQ

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Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by talented321: 8:20pm On Aug 16, 2023
When starting mariage don't start with a woman who is richer than you''

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Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by Zigzagman: 8:26pm On Aug 16, 2023
talented321:
When starting mariage don't start with a woman who is richer than you''

so all men should marry poorer women?

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Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by talented321: 8:36pm On Aug 16, 2023
It is choice'
Zigzagman:


so all men should marry poorer women?
there are 80% chances that a woman who is doing well more than you will take advantage of you except the matured ones''

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Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by pansophist(m): 9:03pm On Aug 16, 2023
When it comes to romantic relationships, always go with biological reality, instead of social reality.

Biological reality would be a man marrying a woman he can take care of, he is taller than and younger than him, a woman that will appreciate the experience he can give her, etc.

If you are a vulcanizer man shooting for a wealthy female banker, then you're conforming to social reality, and it hardly works.

For example, if you have 5k naira and want to feed for the whole day, it's foolish to go and eat in KFC. Buying something to cook or a roadside buka will give you more value for your money.

Let the richer women be with men that are richer than them, and you should be with a woman that in her reality, you're a catch. It's the law of relativity.

No de do pass yourself.

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Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by Nobody: 9:36pm On Aug 16, 2023
The problem isn't always with the women but the men. grin

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Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by Kobojunkie: 11:34pm On Aug 16, 2023
ideamonster:
The potential threat the career of a woman can cause to her marriage especially if her husband isn’t as successful as she is has always been a point of discussion. Moreover, some single men are even afraid to marry a woman who is successful in their chosen career than them. Some believe that the norm is husbands “should” hold higher job status relative to their wives. When this norm is violated, and wives hold the higher status job, negative consequences can follow: Women are more likely to be targets of husbands’ aggression, and the risk for divorce increases.

Question
is it a crime for a woman to succeed in her chosen field or earn more
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A question I would like to direct at these particular women is why do they marry these insecure men to begin with? undecided

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Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by Zupay: 2:50am On Aug 17, 2023
And those in the trenches are happily married?

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Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by ideamonster: 10:21am On Aug 21, 2023
Zupay:
And those in the trenches are happily married?

Iam not following

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Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by darkmarky(m): 10:27am On Aug 21, 2023
Persephone1:
The problem isn't always with the women but the men. grin
are we going to do this now? How about differentiating gender bias from one's character?


We still have women who have money and yet are loyal. Its just not about gender but how one is able to manage people and emotional intelligence.

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Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by Day169: 11:06pm On Aug 21, 2023
ideamonster:
The potential threat the career of a woman can cause to her marriage especially if her husband isn’t as successful as she is has always been a point of discussion. Moreover, some single men are even afraid to marry a woman who is successful in their chosen career than them. Some believe that the norm is husbands “should” hold higher job status relative to their wives. When this norm is violated, and wives hold the higher status job, negative consequences can follow: Women are more likely to be targets of husbands’ aggression, and the risk for divorce increases.

Question
is it a crime for a woman to succeed in her chosen field or earn more?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eUrng-mfZpQ
The answer my friend, is blowing in the wind.. tongue
Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by Nobody: 12:52pm On Aug 22, 2023
Women really need to stop marrying insecure men, they will want to diminish you any way they can.

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Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by Brendaniel: 1:15pm On Aug 22, 2023
For me I feel it is pride and misunderstanding on one or both the man and the woman...

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Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by BuildGreat: 1:16pm On Aug 22, 2023

Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by Angelfrost(m): 1:16pm On Aug 22, 2023
Maybe you are asking the question wrongly...

The more honest and practical or realistic question might be:

Why do most husbands of high-status and more successful career women have problems with their wives' successes?!!!

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Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by sylve11: 1:17pm On Aug 22, 2023
Well, that question is not for me. I am in no competition with no one.

If my partner like make she become president of Nigeria, it won't do any issues on me.

I go even happy for her sef. undecided cool

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Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by OyeofIkoTuN(m): 1:17pm On Aug 22, 2023
From 1970....all bunch of losers and ediots
Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by thesicilian: 1:17pm On Aug 22, 2023
They usually do, not because of the stress of balancing career and family, but because of their attitudes

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Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by Exceed15: 1:17pm On Aug 22, 2023
I do not have issue with my wife richer than me. We are not in a competition. What I have problem with is when she's trying to be the man in the marriage.

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Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by iampeterben(m): 1:17pm On Aug 22, 2023
Pride is the thing for most of them.

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Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by Leggodeals(f): 1:17pm On Aug 22, 2023
Myth
Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by judecares1(m): 1:18pm On Aug 22, 2023
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Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by Kingosytex(m): 1:18pm On Aug 22, 2023
Go for your type.
Every man has his type and vice versa. This life easy, na we dey make am unnecessarily difficult for ourselves undecided

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Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by FreeStuffsNG: 1:18pm On Aug 22, 2023
Most of them do and it's unfortunate. It's common with the men too but that of the men is less prominent. Canada PM just lost his marriage, same was for then Prince Charles. Check my signature for free stuffs!

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Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by seanwilliam(m): 1:19pm On Aug 22, 2023
Lol women wey u Dey feed , house and cloth , wey never see 10% of your net worth self Dey hard to control how much more the one that earns more than you do . No try am abeg

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Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by strictly4data: 1:19pm On Aug 22, 2023
Nop
Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by erai30(m): 1:19pm On Aug 22, 2023
If a woman truly loves you her money will be yours in the marriage, just make her happy and comfortable with you.

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Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by Spaxon(f): 1:19pm On Aug 22, 2023
why is that ever a problem?


its the individual not the career or what ever

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Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by TINUBUISMAD: 1:20pm On Aug 22, 2023
grin
Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by Daslim180(m): 1:21pm On Aug 22, 2023
Not really especially if she doesn't disrespect her husband.

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