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Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by macfish101(m): 7:07pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Persephone1:explain please |
Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by ItisWell22(f): 7:18pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
PrimadonnaO: I love your sincerity! 𫶠1 Like |
Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by Jeferious: 7:34pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Exceed15:For me, whether the woman is rich or not is not an issue. So far as I can take care of my own bills and sh!t, I don't give a f##k. For me, I'd rather marry a promiscuous richer woman than a "decent" leech. My money is my life. I don't play with it at all . The mistake some men make is to kill their own career in order to join hands to push their richer and seemingly brighter wife's ambitions. It is from that day that the man loses his footing as the head. Even if your hustle no too bright, keep grinding. If anything like a misunderstanding should occur, you'd still have your own business to mind. On a final note, when you're sure that as a man, you bring much more to the table than just money, you won't be insecure with a richer woman, as you have other things to offer |
Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by Jeferious: 7:50pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
cococandy:I'm with you on this one. See how people are subtly encouraging women not to make progress in life. For what That is the very height of insecurity. This is part of the reason why I must marry a rich lady, Inshallah. Someone who can take care of herself with her OWN resources. If you're a mad woman, I would love to see the madness on time. I don't want to be with a pretender "humbled" by poverty. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by Jeferious: 8:03pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Ferrous:If you sense a competition, embrace it. Develop your own ambitions and follow it through and through. Madness only understand madness |
Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by eteebanky: 8:12pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
To me, I'm averagely okay I can't settle for less anytime I want to marry My wife must be rich/career lady |
Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by cococandy(f): 8:16pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
When Chimamanda said it they almost came for her head. But she was right. They want women to be successful but not too successful. Always threading a thin line below which youâre a liability and beyond which your success starts to piss people off because now you canât be âcontrolledâ. Itâs exhausting Jeferious: 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by isabi2lof: 8:21pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Those in trenches are not happy either , if my mama get money wella , I bet you , I no go dey this country now , she fit give you her last card .., even now with the little she get , the money dey go long way for the family.. Nothing sweet inside poverty, I wan born all my pikin inside wealth by God's grace.. |
Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by BRATISLAVA: 8:21pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Zigzagman: And later whine endlessly that they are being used and that they are being leeched on. Boys don't know what they want. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by Jeferious: 8:38pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
cococandy:That's their problem. Truth be told, I'm a misogynist too, but not this insecure type. If I'm better than a woman, I have to prove it with "hard evidence", not unnecessary explanations , nor with unnecessary envy. If as a man, money is the only tangible thing you can offer, then a richer woman should intimidate you |
Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by cococandy(f): 8:44pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Jeferious: Well your self awareness is top notch.đđŸ I personally prefer to know what Iâm dealing with than those who âdonât hate womenâ but day in day out everything they say indicates otherwise 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by Jeferious: 9:01pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
cococandy:Don't mind them. They want to control the other gender, but some of them are not in control of their own lives . All the same, I have my own convictions, and one of them is that I can't marry a girl of lower social class. I'm too much of a blessing for that kind of person |
Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by PrimadonnaO(f): 9:06pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
IamMobisola: Beyonce isn't richer than Jay Z, though. |
Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by jeromestarks: 9:14pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
talented321:I dey chief. I dey see how you dey give dem back-to-back. Carry on man. |
Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by Advancedman(m): 10:11pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
ideamonster: Marriage no dey respect status good or bad. It's just that brats tend to abuse status in order to manipulate. |
Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by IamMobisola(f): 10:17pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
PrimadonnaO:Dey play |
Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by Ferrous(m): 11:26pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:I call her often times. Sometimes, when I call her, she would ask me to cut it for her to pick up another call, unlike before. |
Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by Ferrous(m): 11:29pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Jeferious: Though, I'm going towards the end of my programme, but, I will think about this. However, I'm into secular politics. |
Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by pansophist(m): 11:51pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
hansomb: Then he should marry a woman shorter than him, or supplement his lack of height with a deep pocket, and an admirable social status. Men's values are not solely on their looks. 6 Likes |
Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by pansophist(m): 12:00am On Aug 23, 2023 |
EconomistXplain: It is true a lot of time, but not always. I was watching a relationship match show on youtube recently, and one tall girl (about 6.2 feet) was among the participant, desiring to be matched to a man. All the men that came out were shorter than her, even though some were at least six feet tall. I just felt sorry for her. Even worse, she has high taste (which she confuses with class). Her human hair was 500k, her phone iPhone 14 pro max and she talks about how she is looking for a caring man that will treat her like a princess I just shake my head and concluded that this particular girl does not live in reality. I mean, most men in Nigeria are not up to six feet, Nigeria does not feature in the list of very tall men. And if she luckily finds a man taller than her, will he want her, and if he does, will he be wealthy to afford her standard? For women, going high in status simply means their attraction to men gets smaller and smaller. Her status becomes a punishment to any man that is with her since her satisfaction can only be achieved by his ability to measure up to the so-called standards she thinks she deserves. It doesn't matter if the minimum wage is not up to 50 dollars, that's his problem, not hers. Hypergamy is not static, it is incremental. Then it seems like considerations about a man's character are considered last after the social scores have been met. I pray she met her perfect man, but living, in reality, will help her meet him faster. This is how delusions and hypergamy punish women. Since the more they earn, the more they prize themselves out of the reach of most men. Female celebrities find it hard to marry compared to male celebrities, and it is the same dynamic. So yes, women of today mostly marry class, not the man. A wealthy ritualist will get the best of girls than a hardworking uber driver that is a church choir. 13 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by Cromagnon: 5:50am On Aug 23, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:rich man scarce |
Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by Emodeee: 6:22am On Aug 23, 2023 |
erai30: Dey play. |
Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by hansomb: 8:47am On Aug 23, 2023 |
pansophist:yea , the deep pocket works like magic and the social status is an icing on the cake |
Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by AntiTerrorist: 9:00am On Aug 23, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: 1. Would you like it if your wife is the head of your family and you being submissive to the woman you paid for her bride price? 2. Your level of understanding though Did that means women who have money don't get married? |
Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by Farfalla(f): 9:40am On Aug 23, 2023 |
folake4u: That's why I encourage you to either japa from that cave or minimize your interaction with the neanderthals. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by folake4u(f): 10:41am On Aug 23, 2023 |
Farfalla: I'm telling you oh because what is this weird obsession with women's lives all time!!! 1 Like |
Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by Kobojunkiee: 11:48am On Aug 23, 2023 |
AntiTerrorist:1. So, by virtue of paying that bride price, you take it to mean you outright own the "head of family" title over her, even if she makes much more money than you do? She can never attempt to buy her freedom from that bondage, is it? I hope you also won't complain in the case that she decides to keep all her money to herself too in the marriage. 2. I asked that question because some other suggested that rich women have attitude problems that are not suited for marriage. Next time, try to read up the follow up to the question before you jump in to respond. |
Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by AntiTerrorist: 12:20pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
Kobojunkiee: Yes She can never attempt to buy her freedom from that bondage, is it? I hope you also won't complain in the case that she decides to keep all her money to herself too in the marriageWhat do you mean by bondage? Do you mean being submissive one's husband means living in bondage? Most rich women have attitudinal problems that are not suited for marriage. They are mostly divorcees. |
Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by Kobojunkiee: 12:24pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
AntiTerrorist:1. The following is your own post. AntiTerrorist:You are more than aware that the bride price you paid is a form of bondage your wife is bound to. So why the silly pretense given that you don't think yourself capable of living under same terms. 2. Assumptions don't facts make. |
Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by Kenechukwu98: 12:37pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
For me I won't settle with a woman than have more than me ooo đ instead make we keep friendship level o na contact me I need only. Excel more make me I dey excel join. |
Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by BItt: 1:34pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
cococandy: the hate starts and ends online |
Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by BItt: 1:35pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
Kenechukwu98:There is nothing bad in having a woman that earns better than you. It will help your kids grow ad you both will be able to excel CONVINIENTLY |
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