. .in addition, marriage was never for quitters, intelligent people...
No, only stupid, patient people stay in a marriage till the end
......the 20+ years experienced know this

Its not boring, it is when you take your spouse to be an entertainment instead of a real human that they are.

Marriage is a waste of time and energy. Marriage will fail you in every single thing it promises you, including loneliness alleviation.

lack of money and no relationship wit the Holy Spirit

HE is perfect at keeping marraiage sweet and helping you overcome challenges

You lose your job, instead of you to join watsapp group - https:///EXhnJQawnUZ6PuYlul8qIp so you can get another, u will carry the frustration on ur partner,..why wont it be boring?.

Truvelisback:
Good day, fellas. Why do marriages get boring after sometime? 🤔 I.e The love or feelings begin to wax cold or boring unlike when you both started.

You guys don’t marry based on true compatibility. For Nigerian men, they marry cos they feel she is wife material. For the women, they marry based on who has the most resources to take care of a family.

You people expect too much from this marriage of a thing...

Even, dating sometimes gets boring, same as carrying olosho...

But the energy comes back when your balls are restored with the bullets after a while...

Truvelisback:
Good day, fellas. Why do marriages get boring after sometime? 🤔 I.e The love or feelings begin to wax cold or boring unlike when you both started.

Faulty foundations!
1.NACKING based
2. MONEY based
a lot more.
Once these become lacking, inadequate or lost, problems begin
These two contribute more than 75% of the problems of modern day marriages

More often than not, it's the lack of space...!

Not everyone can thrive in constant or daily contact with someone, no matter how much they love that person.

In addition, a lot of people marry for the wrong reasons or without clearly defining what they need in matrimony...

For instance, people who marry largely out of physical attraction and sexual needs will seriously get bored of their unions faster than those who marry for more deeper and varied reasons.

Because most married the wrong partners or someone that was recommended for them!

It's a scam

Na money be koko

I rest my case

Marriage was never an amusement park na. It’s human nature to get bored over time

Truvelisback:
Good day, fellas. Why do marriages get boring after sometime? 🤔 I.e The love or feelings begin to wax cold or boring unlike when you both started.

Give yourself space or go on vacation to a foreign land..let your woman maintain her cleanliness..sexiness and the man his fitness and cleanliness. I have realised that women who play hard to get na them men dey quick tire for expecially when the men eyes open seeing say nothing really dey those women na packaging

novia22:
Marriage is not for the weak at heart oo. But it's a whole lot easier if you marry A kind person who sincerely loves God and is your true friend.


Make sure you marry a KIND person cos when you begin see all these stages Ahnie mention eeh, if your spouse is kind, it will make it easier to heal and forgive from alot of downtimes.

God no go shame us last last.

are you kind

Truvelisback:
Good day, fellas. Why do marriages get boring after sometime? 🤔 I.e The love or feelings begin to wax cold or boring unlike when you both started.

Ask marriage/marriages, or asks from marriage and marriages...; you don't need to asks from THE ROCK of AGES,let alone hears or receives answers BY or FROM THE ROCK of AGES... Did you wants to asks from marriage or marriage & marriages agencies...?...

Truvelisback:
You have a point. After a while, the feelings will just consciously or unconsciously begin to fade away. Sadly, this is someone you were madly in love with. 😔

What do you need love for when you've got logic?

Were they meant to be interesting? You assume say na movie or na video game?

I get tired with woman who doesn't know how to manage,who's mentality is bring it let's blow it,go and bring another one

PrettyRX:
See finish syndrome is a natural phenomenon.
Just that you treat your partner with respect and intentionality

so true. You smart. Lets get to know each other

Truvelisback:
Good day, fellas. Why do marriages get boring after sometime? 🤔 I.e The love or feelings begin to wax cold or boring unlike when you both started.

That happens when you married for fantasy then reality set in afterwards. Don't marry for money, benefits , gains , romance , affection but marry for tangible reasons to work together and form a partnership .

Truvelisback:
Good day, fellas. Why do marriages get boring after sometime? 🤔 I.e The love or feelings begin to wax cold or boring unlike when you both started.

Most men got attracted to a lady firstly, based on look secondly based on character. Along the line the woman real self start to reveal itself. Make will no longer be their, her character will start showing up.

For the guys , If his finances reduces otilo and if he stops loving her or giving her attention

While dating you were doing everything to please your partner

Dates, movies, gifts, flowers, anniversaries, dressing well, smelling well, bathing regularly, grooming etc
But you stop after marriage or reduce or stop being innovative

A good wife can't be boring. You will always be drawn to her even when you have the chance to misbehave. If you truly love her and she does same to you then neither of you will be boring to each other because love wins over everything.
It's all depends on the purpose she was drawn to you that led to the marriage in the first place. Some men have one reason or other they want to marry their wives. What is yours?
Take time and a find a good wife that will love you in your ups and downs and make sure you are also loveable too. The wife is also a human who desires a good man too.

You are two individuals who never grew up together, shared a womb , or household.
To add to it - we are in a microwave era where nobody courts the other. 6months dating , let’s get married.
Even sibling quarrel and they share the above.
Talkless of 2 unique individuals who were brought up differently. Love will only take you so far . Marriage takes work . What I find is that people marry and expect things to work out !
Love doesn’t pay bills.
Money does that .
Money doesn’t raise kids - love does that.
Compatibility - affection or love for most things will help sustain the relationship.
If one loves Jazz and the other can’t stand it !
Or one loves to travel and the other loves a quiet life - things will not work out well.
What I am saying is - marriage is work ! So when you leave your 9-5job, you have another work at home . The secret is if you love your job … you’ll never work a day in your life cause you both understand each other and it’s natural.

Always travel from home for sometimes... Far away from your wife. Then come back after six months. The normalcy will be returned

Sharing the same space with a woman over an extended period of time breeds contempt and disdain. This troubling anomaly is called “see finish” in local parlance. Little wonder our fathers from the old days had a separate hut “Obi” from the wives and each wife theirs to contain this pathogen tearing up marriages. By having different huts, the man maintains his dominance, dignity and respect while the woman upholds her privacy, exclusivity and emotional incongruity.

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Truvelisback:
Good day, fellas. Why do marriages get boring after sometime? 🤔 I.e The love or feelings begin to wax cold or boring unlike when you both started.

Which marriages?

How many marriages are you in that you claim that marriages are getting boring after sometime?

How were you relating with your wife before marriage?

Timetravel88:
Sharing the same space with a woman over an extended period of time breeds contempt and disdain. This troubling anomaly is called “see finish” in local parlance. Little wonder our fathers from the old days had a separate hut “Obi” from the wives and each wife theirs to contain this pathogen tearing up marriages. By having different huts, the man maintains his dominance, dignity and respect while the woman upholds her privacy, exclusivity and emotional incongruity.

Is that your experience as a husband?

Even the situation in Nigeria this days would make relationships and marriages grows weary


Fuel 600
Rice 43k
Dollar 800 plus.

All this are enough to make marriages and relationships crashed off.

TemplarLandry:
Many factors could be responsible.
1. Overfamiliarity
2. Insufficient finance
3. Dirtiness
4. Etc.

No friendship.