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Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by thesilentman(m): 1:30pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
No matter how palatable and nutritious a food is,you still get tired of it if you don't eat other types of food. Variety is the spice of life. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by free2ryhme: 1:31pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
Truvelisback: almost all the people responding to your thread are single. some of them are just clueless regurgitating fears from their instagram role model 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by omoadeleye(m): 1:34pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
Truvelisback: During courtship, y'all only was just pretending with eachother by doing the good good behaviour, faking everything in order not to lose eachother. Some of y'all was in a relationship with someone else before marriage, but just ended it in the name of "small stress, I'm away from the relationship." Since y'all are marriage, that's the time to be free from those fake attitudes y'all have been keeping together before marriage. Because no one will want to leave eachother easily again. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by illuminutty: 1:35pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
See finish... 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by BePrepared: 1:35pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
UnusualEmissary: Your words are sweet and beautiful No truer word here 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by marvellous2222: 1:41pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
See immediately children and responsibilities set in , the love will not be strong like before, because what is going on in man heart is too much 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by Chironks: 1:43pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
Assumptions Over familiarity Not making time for each other. Not engaging in meaningful conversations. Thinking the marriage will make itself work. Not knowing each other’s goals. Not having meaningful friendships outside of your marriage. Truvelisback: 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by Bigchristo: 1:47pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
TemplarLandry:There’s nothing like over familiarity in marriages except you got married to a very disrespectful person, regardless of how much you both know each other the respect both people give to each other shouldn’t be reduced. But for the other factors you mentioned those are actually correct, me as a man I hate dirtiness and I can’t really feel myself as a man if I am broke so I don’t expect others to even feel me at such bad times 🤣😂 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by blesdman(m): 1:48pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
Truvelisback:Spice it up by going together to the hotel. Boredoms occur mainly with marriages with children. For those with children, sneak out and have quiet time in a hotel with ur spouse...it has a way of spicing it up 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by Damzee5: 1:49pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
ahnie:e bad gan 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by nkemjacob2(m): 1:50pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
Marriage is not bed of roses. If it goes boring, wake it up 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by pussyphilia(m): 1:51pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
ahnie:If you're not married yet, then marry me let's live that lifestyle together. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by Omoawoke: 1:51pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
TemplarLandry: Ladies becoming unkempt is number one reason. Men love girls looking spicy. But madam once marries starts to look unattractive and unkempt. Chai 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by Damzee5: 1:52pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
[quote author=thesilentman post=125306560]No matter how palatable and nutritious a food is,you still get tired of it if you don't eat other types of food. This shud be coming from a guy.what about the lady? Do u suggest this too? Let ur marriage work shikena 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by mbaise1000: 1:52pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
If we will accept that there are people who still enjoy their marriage no matter how long they have been in it, we will know that The number one factor which the woke generation will not want to accept is that love is not the number one priority when people are looking for a wife or husband, people will always go for the wrong reasons, what the majority call love is mere infatuation, when what you are looking in a wife is beauty, the woman will surely fade and more beautiful ones will come out, and the one who married you for beauty will look for them, there is something that doesn't fade, a good heart and TRUE love. when a woman is looking for a trophy as a husband, she must accept that trophies are contested for yearly and there are many willing to register and contest, When you marry for TRUE love, we all know that TRUE love never dies, even if you are dirty like some have mentioned, it will never stop your spouse who love you back from lonlving you, when you go and Marty another man's wife or another woman's husband, you shouldn't expect happiness there after, when the ribs doesn't fit, the results are clear, so people the only reason your marriage will crash it not desirable again is because yiuvare with the wrong wife or husband. And bros op, you must find a way to at least make your marriage manageable, I know you are asking for a friend but, God hates divorce, talking about the God of the CHRISTIANS. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by lexyclasy: 1:54pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
Truvelisback:In the first place, are you a married person. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by PrettyRX: 1:57pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
You should have gotten enough ladies from your hookup post darkmarky: 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by olamike02: 2:04pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
I've been married for over 23years , although there are occasions that you just want to be alone,but I've not regret marrying my wife. She's Ebira and I'm Yoruba,I will marry her again and again. If yours become unattractive,check yourself.😍 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by Dybala11(m): 2:06pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
ahnie:Rice with fish or meat?? |
Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by finallybusy: 2:07pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
Abeg, I would answer, but past experience with children on Nairaland has taught me to hold my peace. Good afternoon. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by Onyiiobi7735(m): 2:08pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
Marriages are not supposed to become boring,but there are factors and actions of the parties involved that cause it to be which include, negligence,lack of or inadequate communication, infidelity, nagging, intolerance, laziness, domineering attitude,overprotectiveness especially on the man's part,lack of submission on the woman's part, arrogance,temper issues, emotional aloofness and so on. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by Fryx: 2:10pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
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Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by Gentleswift(m): 2:13pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
Nazgul:dey play, you go explain tire. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by Deepspirituals: 2:15pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
Those Reasons are right but the most IMPORTANT ONE IS THIS : DO NOT MARRY A MAN OR WOMAN WITHOUT MAKING A SPIRITUAL INVESTIGATION OR FINDINGS ABOUT HIM OR HER . IT IS NOT BECAUSE I'M A SPIRITUALIST,IT IS THE FACTS MANY THA THRASHES THIS ADVISE I REPEAT MANY TODAY REGRETS IT AND UNDERSTAND THE IMPORTANCE . THERE ARE SPIRITUAL ELEMENTS. IF YOUR ELEMENTS AS A MAN IS FIRE AND YOU MARRY A WOMAN WITH WATER ELEMENTS NO MATTER WHO YOU ARE ,YOU WILL FIND IT DIFFICULT TO ATTAIN GREAT HEIGHT IN LIFE. I REMAIN SPIRITUALIST ADE. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by famology(m): 2:17pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
Because you got married for the wrong reason |
Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by Waffarianman(m): 2:19pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
Truvelisback: No marriage gets boring except you don't love your wife/husband. For me oo I love my wife anyday anytime 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by Vogec01: 2:19pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
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Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by Manofsteel2013(m): 2:20pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
Na money oo |
Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by Tremple8v: 2:21pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
Insufficient fund |
Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by DonXavi(m): 2:22pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
Truvelisback:This is not my case. I have been married for years and I love my wife more each day that passes by. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by Opanka44(m): 2:24pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
Truvelisback: Everything in life is subject to the Law of Diminishing Returns. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by Bennysam: 2:28pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
Truvelisback:That's when you know partners that really love each other 1 Like |
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