Op remember to update us about this case, we are following keenly, we are talking about human being here not a goat, Meanwhile which state did this happen?

To be blunt, Either she died or something

Chizzy7890:
I traveled to Togo against my parents wish in the year 2021 for a greener pasture I left behind my 3 years old daughter with my parents , although the reality I have seen in Togo was not as expected, but I was at least working and sending something home to my parents.

Communication was less because I couldn't afford to calls more often. I returned back home this august the 7th and my daughter was nowhere to be found.

My parents first lied to me that she was with my mum's sister that they will send someone to pick her up but to no avail. So myself I went to my mum sister house and my daughter wasn't there and she doesn't know where she was.

I asked my parents over and over again all I could get is insults from my dad , he is angry whenever i bring the subject and my siblings are not cooperating and they've refusing to tell me the truth.

I am sick and tired of asking and no getting any answers I am trying to be calm to avoid disrespecting my parents but I am loosing patience.

So many things is going throught my head I will have no option but to take things into my own hands and hurt my dad the outcome may be deadly ,

Please no insult how do I handle the situation without disrespecting my parents or do you think I should take the matter to the police ?

lol,go and all police now why would they keep a human being from you ?

Timoleon:
And human trafficking.

Abi oo!

Like say you know Sabi d ethnic group wey U come...dem don use her for money rituals cook d other parts of her body chop

decatalyst:
Hmmm...seems you are irresponsible and simply want to free yourself of the little girl at age 3...you travelled and abandoned her.


However, they owe you accountability. They need to show you the child you abandoned, dead or alive. They owe you that.

I would suggest you calm down, meet the most respected man/woman in your extended family, to come into the situation.

If this doesn't work out as expected, you can get them arrested.

Note: I hope you have concrete evidence that you 'abandoned' your child with them. Otherwise, they can turn the table and have you rot in jail for false accusations.

you first line is just the truth.. Her parents know where the kids is but they are angry with her... Las las everything dey okay no need of police they just need to talk...

End time family. But you sef just japa leave small baby girl like that. Well you and your family will settle it. I just hope the little girl is alive

phemmyfour:
She was sending money home and calling them. What manner beats that

Which money? The place was not palatable for her. She said she could not communicate regularly. Where would she get money to send home. She is economical with the truth.

phemmyfour:
But she left her with her grandparents. That should be a safe place under ideal situation

If they have other 3rd parties living with them, I doubt it's safe.

Another possible super-story?

I have learnt to first check the comments and if OP is not engaging people there, it is likely a fictional super-story.

Chizzy7890:
I traveled to Togo against my parents wish in the year 2021 for a greener pasture I left behind my 3 years old daughter with my parents , although the reality I have seen in Togo was not as expected, but I was at least working and sending something home to my parents.

Communication was less because I couldn't afford to calls more often. I returned back home this august the 7th and my daughter was nowhere to be found.

My parents first lied to me that she was with my mum's sister that they will send someone to pick her up but to no avail. So myself I went to my mum sister house and my daughter wasn't there and she doesn't know where she was.

I asked my parents over and over again all I could get is insults from my dad , he is angry whenever i bring the subject and my siblings are not cooperating and they've refusing to tell me the truth.

I am sick and tired of asking and no getting any answers I am trying to be calm to avoid disrespecting my parents but I am loosing patience.

So many things is going throught my head I will have no option but to take things into my own hands and hurt my dad the outcome may be deadly ,

Please no insult how do I handle the situation without disrespecting my parents or do you think I should take the matter to the police ?

Involve law enforcement agencies

Do not lay hands on anyone as it can be used against u as the case progresses.

TemplarLandry:
Involve the law enforcement agents.
Dad and mum will start singing like a canary.
But please, don't lay hands on your parents.

It's like you don't know Nigerians and nairalanders. They will say why didn't you ask your parents repeatedly, why did you have to involve police in family affairs

Though fuel is costly, buy on can of fuel and start pouring it around the house saying that you will burn down everywhere if they fail to produce your daughter,remember na their legs you de pull,you go see result immediately

Olopa ma ko everybody!!!
Back of Hilux , na there everybody go sleep.

poporinwa:
Though fuel is costly, buy on can of fuel and start pouring it around the house saying that you will burn down everywhere if they fail to produce your daughter,remember na their legs you de pull,you go see result immediately

I like this option too.
Dem go see crazƴ!!

You abandoned your daughter and went for Olosho in Togo and yet you have the audacity to challenge your parents about her whereabouts as if you have the moral rights.

If they didn't keep her will you be taking of knowing her whereabouts. I'm sure they didn't approve your journey to Togo, if not why will every member of the family against you.

Intergrated:
Which kind nonsense story be this? Did dey kill and eat the girl? Strange family.

Na Ipob people, Dem don sell the poor innocent girl.

No mother, no father.

Ipob are evil.

Is it just me that is having the feeling that she may be late?

Now I know a lot of Nairalanders seem not to be okay at all. Lots of crazy people roaming about SM these days.



How can ones parents not have a concrete answer to the whereabouts of their grandchild left in their care, if this is not absolute madness I don't know what it is.

Dead or alive they should tell you where she is.

Bennysam:

Involved police on a child she abandoned?

Are you stupid? You expect her to keep shut when her child is missing in her parents custody? If you kept your child with your parents and coming back you cant find her, are you going to keep shut like a fool and do nothing? A human life? Are you okay in the head?

decatalyst:
Hmmm...seems you are irresponsible and simply want to free yourself of the little girl at age 3...you travelled and abandoned her.


However, they owe you accountability. They need to show you the child you abandoned, dead or alive. They owe you that.

I would suggest you calm down, meet the most respected man/woman in your extended family, to come into the situation.

If this doesn't work out as expected, you can get them arrested.

Note: I hope you have concrete evidence that you 'abandoned' your child with them. Otherwise, they can turn the table and have you rot in jail for false accusations.

So leaving her child with her parents is abandonment? Someone that sends money for upkeep how exactly is she irresponsible? Are you okay? She should meet extended family members when her child, a human life, is missing instead of the police? Are you normal at all?

get them arrested and ensure you tell us what happen to her

Contact IFY OBINABO and boom 💥 the case is solved

DenreleDave:


Shud she have taken her daughter to a place uncertain about and probably she will be doing olosho


It's better she left the daughter with her parents....

Far far better than the kids watching different men sleeps with her mom and so on

Are you okay?

Did Op personally tell you she went for olosho business?

duro4chang:
There are other things she is keeping away from us

Does it matter? A child is missing, a human life

duro4chang:
Which money? The place was not palatable for her. She said she could not communicate regularly. Where would she get money to send home. She is economical with the truth.

O gor gan

You will just stay in your 2 by 2 and assume nonsense, she said she sends money, who are you to conclude otherwise?

I suspect yahoo

Consult the elders in ur family

Oboys12:
You abandoned your daughter and went for Olosho in Togo and yet you have the audacity to challenge your parents about her whereabouts as if you have the moral rights.

If they didn't keep her will you be taking of knowing her whereabouts. I'm sure they didn't approve your journey to Togo, if not why will every member of the family against you.

You are sick in the head, keeping her child with the grandparents is abandonment? How the hell do you know she went for olosho business? Even at that, why wouldn't she have the moral right to ask of her child that has been missing for close to a month? Why the fvck wouldn't she ask her parents of her child, her flesh and blood, is that how they do in your family? People get missing in your family and all of you keep shut like fools?

Chizzy7890:
I traveled to Togo against my parents wish in the year 2021 for a greener pasture I left behind my 3 years old daughter with my parents , although the reality I have seen in Togo was not as expected, but I was at least working and sending something home to my parents.

Communication was less because I couldn't afford to calls more often. I returned back home this august the 7th and my daughter was nowhere to be found.

My parents first lied to me that she was with my mum's sister that they will send someone to pick her up but to no avail. So myself I went to my mum sister house and my daughter wasn't there and she doesn't know where she was.

I asked my parents over and over again all I could get is insults from my dad , he is angry whenever i bring the subject and my siblings are not cooperating and they've refusing to tell me the truth.

I am sick and tired of asking and no getting any answers I am trying to be calm to avoid disrespecting my parents but I am loosing patience.

So many things is going throught my head I will have no option but to take things into my own hands and hurt my dad the outcome may be deadly ,

Please no insult how do I handle the situation without disrespecting my parents or do you think I should take the matter to the police ?

No background story.
Local man cannot CAN

So for all those years you were away,you never asked your mom,dad or sister to give the little girl the phone to talk to her?