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Re: Why Do Married Men Do This? by ChristianMuslim: 1:59pm On Aug 31, 2023
Typical example of myself, i marry thick ibo girl, use slim yoruba babes dey drink trophy and pepper soup once in a while
Re: Why Do Married Men Do This? by nairamaniac: 2:02pm On Aug 31, 2023
Samantha124:
I think it's because they have this assumption that most men don't find thick women desirable, therefore, they think no other man would bother stepping into their marriage.

Some men would go to the extent of telling their thick wives of how they did them a favour by marrying them because no other man would find them desirable.

Thick women can be easily manipulated because of their looks.

Most men desire slim women, but are afraid that those slim women might not be faithful because they'll be having lots of suitors constantly disturbing them.
This is entirely true.

Let also add that most men that go for thick ladies were somehow being freely fed with foods by the thick ladies.

Cos most thick ladies actually for thick by foods they have convenient access to.

So the men just get carried away with the dishes that came in their ways during courtship.

Add some GOLD DIGGING TENDENCIES behind this too.
Re: Why Do Married Men Do This? by correctguy101(m): 2:04pm On Aug 31, 2023
Shedrack777:
thick ladies are hard working while slim ladies are lazy. thick ladies are for marriage, while slim ones are for chop and clean mouth (best used for side chick).
Hahahaha...

Na dis kain mouth make dem troway ya namesake and Meshach and Abednego inside fiery furnace.... grin
Re: Why Do Married Men Do This? by NNEWIsuper: 2:06pm On Aug 31, 2023
sylve11:
Not true to an extent.

I have seen a lot of men who worship thick women and I have also seen some men who see slim girls as men. They avoid slim girls as if they are plagues. cool
Lies, slim women are more feminine. Thick women always look older than men. Which man see slim women like Beyonce, kim kardeshian, Rihanna and co as men. Keep deceiving yourself. No go lose weight.
Re: Why Do Married Men Do This? by masseratti: 2:08pm On Aug 31, 2023
Shedrack777:
thick ladies are hard working while slim ladies are lazy. thick ladies are for marriage, while slim ones are for chop and clean mouth (best used for side chick).
ur opinion.. One man's food is another man's poison... Thick kò lazy ni.. Lépa Shandi with figure 8 for life.. I no want blomblom... Am just joking guys.. But to be honest OP is suppose to know what they call specs men have it and women have it too.. Everyone likes different things thick, slim, tall, short, dark light skin.. It goes both ways for all men ad women.
Re: Why Do Married Men Do This? by djon78(m): 2:12pm On Aug 31, 2023
Samantha124:
I think it's because they have this assumption that most men don't find thick women desirable, therefore, they think no other man would bother stepping into their marriage.

Some men would go to the extent of telling their thick wives of how they did them a favour by marrying them because no other man would find them desirable.

Thick women can be easily manipulated because of their looks.

Most men desire slim women, but are afraid that those slim women might not be faithful because they'll be having lots of suitors constantly disturbing them.
Actually not all men like slim women for the keeps

They will marry a thick woman or one with propensity to get thick after birthing children

But they will keep slim women as side chicks or mistress where they will try out all there lustings on
For those that keep side chick and Mistresses

Men are actually wired differently
Only very few men that are not polygamous in nature

Most Men can't be satisfied by only one woman

Except those with strong religious beliefs, even those ones still Fall
Re: Why Do Married Men Do This? by Nobody: 2:26pm On Aug 31, 2023
But come to think of it, some women are also polyandrous in nature... That's why some men are unknowingly raising children that are not theirs.

The sooner you guys accept that women can also be polyandrous like you men can be polygamous, the better.. cheesy cheesy cheesy
djon78:
Actually not all men like slim women for the keeps

They will marry a thick woman or one with propensity to get thick after birthing children

But they will keep slim women as side chicks or mistress where they will try out all there lustings on
For those that keep side chick and Mistresses

Men are actually wired differently
Only very few men that are not polygamous in nature

Most Men can't be satisfied by only one woman

Except those with strong religious beliefs, even those ones still Fall
Re: Why Do Married Men Do This? by tachia406: 2:28pm On Aug 31, 2023
Answer no hard na. After eating ogbono for a long time, one needs to eat okoro. Think with these few points of mine, you are fully convinced but not confused that men always need to change soup.
Re: Why Do Married Men Do This? by MisterKennedy(m): 2:33pm On Aug 31, 2023
Animegirl:
I don't understand men at all. Before you guys get married, you always seem to love women with thick bodies, even ending up with them. But after marriage, you all want slim girls to be your side chics. Why is that?
Hi Animegirl
Re: Why Do Married Men Do This? by Bashirkareem31: 2:46pm On Aug 31, 2023
Are u thick?Talk the truth
Re: Why Do Married Men Do This? by djon78(m): 3:07pm On Aug 31, 2023
Samantha124:
But come to think of it, some women are also polyandrous in nature... That's why some men are unknowingly raising children that are not theirs.

The sooner you guys accept that women can also be polyandrous like you men can be polygamous, the better.. cheesy cheesy cheesy
Aunty look through the history of these our world

Men used to Marry plenty women
From time immemorial

In the past
Kings, rulers, emperor's used to have harem of women.
Sometimes over 100 women

Go through history

Roman emperors, Greek rulers, Chinese and Asian dynasty's, even medieval Europe all had harems of women
Our African fore fathers also did likewise


It's even in this modern times that women were given privileges

Before women were just relegated to the background

Even in the US and Europe women didn't even have the right to vote till around 130 years ago


So when I say Men are polygamous in nature
That's how it had been

Just modernization and our modern world made men to be with one wives

Even still today
In this our modern world
Muslims, Arabs and many traditional Africans still marry plenty wives

But women being with more than one man is called LovePeddler right from time immemorial

History is there
Re: Why Do Married Men Do This? by NairaMaster1(m): 3:12pm On Aug 31, 2023
Animegirl:
I don't understand men at all. Before you guys get married, you always seem to love women with thick bodies, even ending up with them. But after marriage, you all want slim girls to be your side chics. Why is that?
Few men love fat women. It's very difficult to make love to them. Maneuvering is extremely difficult.

Slim girls all the way.
Re: Why Do Married Men Do This? by BRATISLAVA: 3:14pm On Aug 31, 2023
ruffhandu:
Lol, thick may not.neccessqrily be fat. But ma thick ma fat, I know like
The thick they must refer to that irritates some husbands must be fat. Never really liked sitting long haul next to these "thick" people.
Re: Why Do Married Men Do This? by NairaMaster1(m): 3:15pm On Aug 31, 2023
Samantha124:
I think it's because they have this assumption that most men don't find thick women desirable, therefore, they think no other man would bother stepping into their marriage.

Some men would go to the extent of telling their thick wives of how they did them a favour by marrying them because no other man would find them desirable.

Thick women can be easily manipulated because of their looks.

Most men desire slim women, but are afraid that those slim women might not be faithful because they'll be having lots of suitors constantly disturbing them.
Just like my neighbours (Ladi and Jennifer) loves thick men until the slim me bleeped Ladi. When she told Jennifer she blocked me in the office and I finished the discussion. From that day they hate fat guys.

If you Bleep a slim girl you won't go for a fat girl.
Re: Why Do Married Men Do This? by NairaMaster1(m): 3:17pm On Aug 31, 2023
aQUINandmore:
Men generally love slim and sexy women like me.
But lately I have been attracting the poor ones amongst them abi there are no rich married men in Benin city huh huh

God please bless me with a rich sugar daddy like buhari and Tinubu.

You set. If I were in Benin I would Bleep you twice in a day and spoil you with cash. You are pretty. I Hope to meet you.
I love tinubu kiss kiss
Re: Why Do Married Men Do This? by NairaMaster1(m): 3:19pm On Aug 31, 2023
aQUINandmore:
Men generally love slim and sexy women like me.
But lately I have been attracting the poor ones amongst them abi there are no rich married men in Benin city huh huh

God please bless me with a rich sugar daddy like buhari and Tinubu.
I love tinubu kiss kiss
You set. If I were in Benin I would Bleep you twice in a day and spoil you with cash. You are pretty. I Hope to meet you
Re: Why Do Married Men Do This? by Mountbatten: 3:21pm On Aug 31, 2023
Rahkman:
shut up faģgot
Omo…

Re: Why Do Married Men Do This? by Nobody: 3:21pm On Aug 31, 2023
You're telling me about history, but I'm telling you about the present day.

If you want to live in the past, then go back in the past because some of us are in the present and moving forward, focusing on the future.

While you'll be out enjoying your side chick, your fellow man that's also polygamous in nature will step into your matrimonial home and enjoy your wife, making her polyandrous... grin grin grin
djon78:
Aunty look through the history of these our world

Men used to Marry plenty women
From time immemorial

In the past
Kings, rulers, emperor's used to have harem of women.
Sometimes over 100 women

Go through history

Roman emperors, Greek rulers, Chinese and Asian dynasty's, even medieval Europe all had harems of women
Our African fore fathers also did likewise


It's even in this modern times that women were given privileges

Before women were just relegated to the background

Even in the US and Europe women didn't even have the right to vote till around 130 years ago


So when I say Men are polygamous in nature
That's how it had been

Just modernization and our modern world made men to be with one wives

Even still today
In this our modern world
Muslims, Arabs and many traditional Africans still marry plenty wives

But women being with more than one man is called LovePeddler right from time immemorial

History is there
Re: Why Do Married Men Do This? by litusaint(m): 3:23pm On Aug 31, 2023
Its personal
Re: Why Do Married Men Do This? by Nobody: 3:25pm On Aug 31, 2023
I'm curious... Is a vagina of a slim girl different from that of a fat girl for you men?
NairaMaster1:
Just like my neighbours (Ladi and Jennifer) loves thick men until the slim me bleeped Ladi. When she told Jennifer she blocked me in the office and I finished the discussion. From that day they hate fat guys.

If you Bleep a slim girl you won't go for a fat girl.
Re: Why Do Married Men Do This? by Speedition: 3:27pm On Aug 31, 2023
Animegirl:
I don't understand men at all. Before you guys get married, you always seem to love women with thick bodies, even ending up with them. But after marriage, you all want slim girls to be your side chics. Why is that?
Just to balance the equation
Re: Why Do Married Men Do This? by djon78(m): 3:30pm On Aug 31, 2023
Samantha124:
You're telling me about history, but I'm telling you about the present day.

If you want to live in the past, then go back in the past because some of us are in the present and moving forward, focusing on the future.

While you'll be out enjoying your side chick, your fellow man that's also polygamous in nature will step into your matrimonial home and enjoy your wife, making her polyandrous... grin grin grin
We can't forget the past

Well people still sleep with people's wives from time immemorial

Even during the time of Christ a woman was caught in the very act of adultery

Presently a married woman can still sleep with another man
But she does it codedly
but if she is caught
She is sent packing
Re: Why Do Married Men Do This? by achimendy(m): 3:42pm On Aug 31, 2023
Animegirl:
I don't understand men at all. Before you guys get married, you always seem to love women with thick bodies, even ending up with them. But after marriage, you all want slim girls to be your side chics. Why is that?
I never like fat or thick ladies, I prefer not too fat and not too slim, just normal is ok for me.
Re: Why Do Married Men Do This? by Fairview1(m): 3:43pm On Aug 31, 2023
okoroemeka:
even if I marry Beyonce I may still be tempted to sample the ugly Bolande or ngozi, variety is the spice of life
Okoroemeka!

Tufikwa.
Re: Why Do Married Men Do This? by winner37(m): 3:44pm On Aug 31, 2023
Animegirl:
I don't understand men at all. Before you guys get married, you always seem to love women with thick bodies, even ending up with them. But after marriage, you all want slim girls to be your side chics. Why is that?
Is like eating watery soup and later you feel like eating something more thicker
Re: Why Do Married Men Do This? by Nobody: 3:51pm On Aug 31, 2023
But many of those women don't get caught and you men end up raising children that are not biologically yours.

By the time some men find out, the children would already be in their late teens or adults.

The more you men keep justifying this thing of saying men are polygamous in nature, the more your fellow men are going to sleep with your wives because why not? They are polygamous at the end of the day.. grin grin grin

And in most cases, it's always the men that are close to the husband that'll be sleeping with his wife... They'll encourage the husband to get a side chick just so they can enjoy the wife while he's busy galavanting with the side chick that'll later dump him after enjoying his money.

Even if she's sent packing, she'll leave with the kids that'll later take good care of her and there's no guarantee that things will be rosy in the man's next marriage, he may end up getting married to a fire breathing dragon that'll give him no peace... cheesy cheesy cheesy
djon78:
We can't forget the past

Well people still sleep with people's wives from time immemorial

Even during the time of Christ a woman was caught in the very act of adultery

Presently a married woman can still sleep with another man
But she does it codedly
but if she is caught
She is sent packing
Re: Why Do Married Men Do This? by achimendy(m): 3:51pm On Aug 31, 2023
aQUINandmore:
Men generally love slim and sexy women like me.
But lately I have been attracting the poor ones amongst them abi there are no rich married men in Benin city huh huh

God please bless me with a rich sugar daddy like buhari and Tinubu.
I love tinubu kiss kiss
Pray for God to bless your skill or business, instead of sitting there waiting for a rich man to come give you food to eat.

That's why majority of African women , more especially Nigerian women dont achieve anything in life because they ignore their potentials while they spend so much energy, time and resources to package and wait for a rich man to come give them a flashy lifestyle.
Re: Why Do Married Men Do This? by djon78(m): 4:04pm On Aug 31, 2023
Samantha124:
But many of those women don't get caught and you men end up raising children that are not biologically yours.

By the time some men find out, the children would already be in their late teens or adults.

The more you men keep justifying this thing of saying men are polygamous in nature, the more your fellow men are going to sleep with your wives because why not? They are polygamous at the end of the day.. grin grin grin

And in most cases, it's always the men that are close to the husband that'll be sleeping with his wife... They'll encourage the husband to get a side chick just so they can enjoy the wife while he's busy galavanting with the side chick that'll later dump him after enjoying his money.

Even if she's sent packing, she'll leave with the kids that'll later take good care of her and there's no guarantee that things will be rosy in the man's next marriage, he may end up getting married to a fire breathing dragon that'll give him no peace... cheesy cheesy cheesy
Na only a Jew/unsmart man that his woman will born children not his

When there are DNA centres everywhere now

A woman that sleeps around is already a very bad Omen
Which men don't tolerate

I know of a big man that sent his wife away
Since 25 years ago because of infidelity although it was not proven

He set up his children Financially well
He just lived with them till they grew up he didn't remarry

Two of his children lives in the US
They recently brought there mother to the US to babysit for them
After 25 years away

Infidelity does women no good
Be it proven and unproven one

Especially in this our clime
Re: Why Do Married Men Do This? by sylve11: 4:16pm On Aug 31, 2023
NNEWIsuper:
Lies, slim women are more feminine. Thick women always look older than men. Which man see slim women like Beyonce, kim kardeshian, Rihanna and co as men. Keep deceiving yourself. No go lose weight.
😆 🤣 😂 cool
Re: Why Do Married Men Do This? by luluman: 4:20pm On Aug 31, 2023
Animegirl:
I don't understand men at all. Before you guys get married, you always seem to love women with thick bodies, even ending up with them. But after marriage, you all want slim girls to be your side chics. Why is that?
Variety is the spice of life.
Re: Why Do Married Men Do This? by Nobody: 4:25pm On Aug 31, 2023
But that doesn't change the fact that immediately you neglect your wife by stepping outside of your marriage, another man that's also polygamous in nature will step in because he can't just sit back and watch you neglect your wife's sexual needs just like that.

And in most cases, that man would be your friend because he'll be knowing your every movement.

Since the infidelity was not proven, then we can't say the wife was cheating, he was probably just tired of her and needed a way out... I'm sure the kids were sending their mother some money while in the US... Them bringing her to the US just shows that they have a close relationship with her and they were already taking care of her even though they might've not lived with her.
djon78:
Na only a Jew/unsmart man that his woman will born children not his

When there are DNA centres everywhere now

A woman that sleeps around is already a very bad Omen
Which men don't tolerate

I know of a big man that sent his wife away
Since 25 years ago because of infidelity although it was not proven

He set up his children Financially well
He just lived with them till they grew up he didn't remarry

Two of his children lives in the US
They recently brought there mother to the US to babysit for them
After 25 years away

Infidelity does women no good
Be it proven and unproven one

Especially in this our clime
Re: Why Do Married Men Do This? by Myer(m): 4:36pm On Aug 31, 2023
Animegirl:
I don't understand men at all. Before you guys get married, you always seem to love women with thick bodies, even ending up with them. But after marriage, you all want slim girls to be your side chics. Why is that?
A man simply wants some one who gives him peace of mind.
Fat ladies usually give less drama than slim ladies.
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