UnfairLife7:
but you believe she went there for prostitution? You're truly sick.

Did you see any place where I mentioned such?

MySolace:

She should first b arrested for dumping a daughter of 3yrs.

Lol. When did putting your kid under the care of your parents become synonymous with "dumping"?

Who is she even asking about her daughter, did she entrust her into anyone's care?

Yes, her parents. She stated it clearly in her post. They just didn't want her to travel, not like she just disappeared now. Because that's the vibe I'm getting from you.
There is a difference between "don't travel" and "don't leave your kid with us".

She's supposed to b taken straight to a psychiatric hospital cos her mental state needs to b ascertained.
And probably take along people da support her actions too, cos their brains need to b checked too...

Even after that, her parents still need to produce her kid.

My dear police is your friend

pizapato:


Your comment shows how dumb you are.
Do you know how many people grew up with their grandparents?
If not for globalization that is breaking family bonds, grandparents are in the best position to baby sit their grandchildren while the parents go out to hustle.

Na she dey slack, she ought to have involved the police. It is a crime to hide the whereabouts of the child

No point arguing, you are dumb!

Of course it is obvious from the way you are swayed by emotion. Such a senile being!

Most of you fail to read between the lines and largely clouded by emotions.

If all was well, why was her trip to the barren land not approved by the parents?

Where is the father of the kid in this whole hullabaloo?

Where is the father of the child's family?

Even if the kid is dead, why wasn't she informed?

She said she visited a relative she thought her parents could drop the kid with, the relative said she didn't know her kid is even in the country! Why?

We are talking about her biological father and mother here. Why are they withholding information or her kid from her?

Everything points to the fact that it's a dysfunction relationship/family and the lady is hiding something she is not willing to let you online relative know😂

She just tactfully wants you to see her parents as bad and evil.

shantti:


Entrusting your daughter to somebody who you trust so much is now abandonment. Wow, we learn everyday. Thanks


I just went back to the story to see that he was even sending money to cater for the upkeep of this abandoned child , wow, never know it was possible to cater for a child while you have already abandoned him, we learn everyday. Thanks

Most of you fail to read between the lines and largely clouded by emotions.

If all was well, why was her trip to the barren land not approved by the parents?

Where is the father of the kid in this whole hullabaloo?

Where is the father of the child's family?

Even if the kid is dead, why wasn't she informed?

She said she visited a relative she thought her parents could drop the kid with, the relative said she didn't know her kid is even in the country! Why?

We are talking about her biological father and mother here. Why are they withholding information or her kid from her?

Everything points to the fact that it's a dysfunction relationship/family and the lady is hiding something she is not willing to let you online relative know😂

Out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh. Can you point out where I mentioned she went for prostitution.
Waywardness does not mean that. A man or boy could be wayward too. You assuming that is a case of pot calling kettle black.
She might have made a mistake having a child out of wedlock and that is forgivable. But abandoning that toddler child without the consent of the hapless parents to seek greener pastures is deliberate and not a mistake. Her family surely know what they are doing,that child is not missing.

UnfairLife7:
you're truly senseless to have assume she went there for prostitution without any evidence. I don't blame you anyway i blame OP bringing her personal issues to social media for Insane people saying trash at her instead of her to have done the needful to her family

sylve11:


The question annoy you abi? 😆

People don't read these days.

As in ehn. Very annoying

Thank you for the advice , I didn't abandoned my daughter since when leaving a child with her grandparents as become abandonment or a crime , they are so many children who are leaving with grandparents when their parents are away working hard to secure their future I did the same for my daughter's sake , I didn't go there for fun or to sleep with men I went there for work and to secure my daughter's future just like any other parent would do and I don't know why some people are judging me and criticise me like I am the first person who as left a child under the care of grandparents, they are my parents they are not strangers , neighbours or friends that I left her with , I left her with my parents because I knew she was in good hands and I can closed my eyes and sleep at night knowing that she is safe my daughter is not dead I strongly believed my dad was angry with me for leaving so he punished me was by selling her , I agreed that I had disobey him but he didn't have any right to sold my daughter no way and he as to provide her or else .........

Communication was less because my dad doesn't have android phone, I couldn't call them with whatsapp which is cheaper than normal calls , normal calls is veru expensive in a different country

decatalyst:


Most of you fail to read between the lines and largely clouded by emotions.

If all was well, why was her trip to the barren land not approved by the parents?

Where is the father of the kid in this whole hullabaloo?

Where is the father of the child's family?

Even if the kid is dead, why wasn't she informed?

She said she visited a relative she thought her parents could drop the kid with, the relative said she didn't know her kid is even in the country! Why?

We are talking about her biological father and mother here. Why are they withholding information or her kid from her?

Everything points to the fact that it's a dysfunction relationship/family and the lady is hiding something she is not willing to let you online relative know😂

Am the one with the emotion and yet you are the one with the outburst. Between the line reader, well done oh, you know her so well to know that she is hiding something, like you've met her. Olodo

shantti:


Am the one with the emotion and yet you are the one with the outburst. Between the line reader, well done oh, you know her so well to know that she is hiding something, like you've met her. Olodo

Omowe.

You no wan learn anything. Facts and figures would be rearranged in front of you, you would still not be able to decipher.

It's alright though.

decatalyst:


Omowe.

You no wan learn anything. Facts and figures would be rearranged in front of you, you would still not be able to decipher.

It's alright though.

Fool
Stop projecting your emptiness towards people, mgbeke feeling funky

Beverlyjean:
Why would u leave ur child behind...u are a very irresponsible person... u certainly got pregnant out of Wedlock and that was not enough for u hurting ur parents...u now dumped the baby on them and fled despite telling u not to leave

Na who swear for Nigerians like this . Now that you have insulted her now ... provide solution too abi . Many of you are just brainlessly emotional. Gosh!

Kobojunkie:
So because he abandoned the child, he has no right to ask after it's welfare? Basically all should simply move on like it never existed?

Nigerians are very sick people . I don't even understand how we are like this .

Kobojunkie:
That one no suppose be your concern since you seem to have spun a separate reality for yourself of OP's story. A child is missing, according to OP, meaning the authorities should be called in.

The guy you quoted is a well known troll in the politics section.

kestolove95:
Like say you know Sabi d ethnic group wey U come...dem don use her for money rituals cook d other parts of her body chop

Why are you always so stupid and insensitive just for nairaland likes. Dem swear for you ni ? Can't you just pretend to atleast have sense on a topic as sensitive as this?

Chizzy7890:
Thank you for the advice , I didn't abandoned my daughter since when leaving a child with her grandparents as become abandonment or a crime , they are so many children who are leaving with grandparents when their parents are away working hard to secure their future I did the same for my daughter's sake , I didn't go there for fun or to sleep with men I went there for work and to secure my daughter's future just like any other parent would do and I don't know why some people are judging me and criticise me like I am the first person who as left a child under the care of grandparents, they are my parents they are not strangers , neighbours or friends that I left her with , I left her with my parents because I knew she was in good hands and I can closed my eyes and sleep at night knowing that she is safe my daughter is not dead I strongly believed my dad was angry with me for leaving so he punished me was by selling her , I agreed that I had disobey him but he didn't have any right to sold my daughter no way and he as to provide her or else .........

Did you say, he sold her

How did you know this

Chizzy7890:
Thank you for the advice , I didn't abandoned my daughter since when leaving a child with her grandparents as become abandonment or a crime , they are so many children who are leaving with grandparents when their parents are away working hard to secure their future I did the same for my daughter's sake , I didn't go there for fun or to sleep with men I went there for work and to secure my daughter's future just like any other parent would do and I don't know why some people are judging me and criticise me like I am the first person who as left a child under the care of grandparents, they are my parents they are not strangers , neighbours or friends that I left her with , I left her with my parents because I knew she was in good hands and I can closed my eyes and sleep at night knowing that she is safe my daughter is not dead I strongly believed my dad was angry with me for leaving so he punished me was by selling her , I agreed that I had disobey him but he didn't have any right to sold my daughter no way and he as to provide her or else .........

So did you end up getting the waitressing job in Togo, or you did something else?

Report the matter to police. Don't sugar coat it. Let them spill the beans

Foodqueen:


Did you say, he sold her

How did you know this

I don't have any concrete evidence of what I am saying but I have a feeling that he as sold her and she is out somewhere with a new family

1Sharon:


So did you end up getting the waitressing job in Togo, or you did something else?

Yes I worked in the beer parlour it was temporary, my latest job was househelp

galantjoe:
Report the matter to police. Don't sugar coat it. Let them spill the beans

Ok thanks

Chizzy7890:



I don't have any concrete evidence of what I am saying but I have a feeling that he as sold her and she is out somewhere with a new family

For you to even think about this, it means you av seen them do it before.

Your parents are human traffickers

Foodqueen:


For you to even think about this, it means you av seen them do it before.

Your parents are human traffickers

Yes my dad is , not my mum

Chizzy7890:



Yes my dad is , not my mum

Waoh!!! Involve the police today.

Foodqueen:


Waoh!!! Involve the police today.

Ok thanks

Chizzy7890:



Yes my dad is , not my mum

What da hell 😳

Chizzy7890:
Thank you for the advice , I didn't abandoned my daughter since when leaving a child with her grandparents as become abandonment or a crime , they are so many children who are leaving with grandparents when their parents are away working hard to secure their future I did the same for my daughter's sake , I didn't go there for fun or to sleep with men I went there for work and to secure my daughter's future just like any other parent would do and I don't know why some people are judging me and criticise me like I am the first person who as left a child under the care of grandparents, they are my parents they are not strangers , neighbours or friends that I left her with , I left her with my parents because I knew she was in good hands and I can closed my eyes and sleep at night knowing that she is safe my daughter is not dead I strongly believed my dad was angry with me for leaving so he punished me was by selling her , I agreed that I had disobey him but he didn't have any right to sold my daughter no way and he as to provide her or else .........

Have you informed the police yet? What has been done so far about this? Has the information on the location of your child been released to you??

Chizzy7890:
■ Yes my dad is , not my mum

Your dad is a human trafficker and you never informed the police about this before? God have mercy!

Chizzy7890:



Yes I worked in the beer parlour it was temporary, my latest job was househelp

How is going all the way to Togo better than doing the same thing back home?

Report to Brekette family you will get justice.

1Sharon:
■ How is going all the way to Togo better than doing the same thing back home?

You give am the same job for home do im refuse? Come on now... you and I know that no be everybody get job for Nigeria as we speak.