flokii:
King Charles should please do something about the annoying female centric laws in the UK to save men from extinction.. these wicked laws are capable of making grown men think of suicide which we do not want in the UK.

Men rights should be protected too.. men are humans too not some pets to be treated shabbily in order to please cheating women.

It's a western world plan, not just the UK.

There are 4 major western countries championing this, they are the US, UK, Canada and Germany.

Others are Netherlands, Denmark, France, Belgium and some other names.

OP some questions:
how long have they been married?
do they have kids?
has there been infidelity in the marriage before now?

the man has a very slim chance of winning this battle, he should have consulted wide before taking the step to confront the wife as a dependant in the UK

Skyview01:
I always have a back up plan and expect the worst and plan accordingly.

At this stage in my life, its hard to surprise me.

You are a Man of Wisdom

BigDawsNet:
He should apologise

Guy
He should apologise for wetin?😂😂

gaby:
This is evil.

Anything wey the woman she make she take.

A man as destroyed as this with no self-control can wreck havoc.

Abi the woman pack all her family members with her for the UK?

At some point, some people just say "eff it" and go on a murder-suicide spree.

This is evil.

I have one very close to me who's wife is messing around and is frustrated that the man is still keeping calm even with all her misbehaviors. She doesn't even hide it anymore.

Brother gentle dey swallow sheet because of him 4 properties.

The guy sabi.

Acidosis:
The truth of the matter is that Nigerian women in the UK will always have an edge over their husbands. This is not about the UK laws but the fact that most japa trips from Nigerian families were initiated by the madam of the house (wives). They will do anything and everything to remain in that country, including destroying the marriage.

Spot on!

🙆‍♂️ My gosh...

Folks, Marriage isn't for the frail of heart.

I just pity those youngsters who are coerced into marriage by family or society.

Lmao. Una no know Nigerian women.
Hypergamy does not care about male idealistic expectations of love.

Sorry Man.

It's funny how just recently, I encouraged some men to also take advantage of this "Japa Syndrome" as principal applicants. You can't be a dependant all the time and give your wife the keys to everything which can vanish in a twinkle of an eye.

Men you can also be smart and wise. Take advantage of our IELTS package. Kindly contact us via the numbers on our signature.

Whatsapp also available. Cheers ! Happy Weekend .

Aaaaarghmed:
Lol..Mumu man.The thing that has saved me in all my dealings with ladies is having a backup plan always.As a man this will help u always.The biggest rule..never let a woman know all the source of your income.Your leg never strong for UK and u see say your wife dey cheat, you go confront am.lol.obviously she is ahead of the game.you are supposed to be ahead always

Once a woman gets caught she becomes ruthless

Skyview01:
I always have a back up plan and expect the worst and plan accordingly.

At this stage in my life, its hard to surprise me.

7 weeks is enough time for him to get a UK girl convinced to marry him, and activate his citizenship

Good, it is an abberration for a man to be dependent on the product of his rib in what ever way or means.

He should come back and reset his priorities....He is even lucky the current Nigeria shege will help him catalyse his reset process.

gaby:
This is evil.

Anything wey the woman she make she take.

A man as destroyed as this with no self-control can wreck havoc.

Abi the woman pack all her family members with her for the UK?

At some point, some people just say "eff it" and go on a murder-suicide spree.

This is evil.

I have one very close to me who's wife is messing around and is frustrated that the man is still keeping calm even with all her misbehaviors. She doesn't even hide it anymore.

Brother gentle dey swallow sheet because of him 4 properties.

Eventually she will confront him and even file for divorce

This shit is getting to much , shey we no Dey get shame at all , why do we gotta copy copy their culture , imagine the marriage of how many years and due to obodo oyibo land flenjo marriage haff crumble like cookies

Aaaaarghmed:
Lol..Mumu man.The thing that has saved me in all my dealings with ladies is having a backup plan always.As a man this will help u always.The biggest rule..never let a woman know all the source of your income.Your leg never strong for UK and u see say your wife dey cheat, you go confront am.lol.obviously she is ahead of the game.you are supposed to be ahead always

In as much as your comment is brutal...

It resonates with some truth...

He shouldn't have confronted her. A woman bold enough to cheat on you gives no rats ass about you. The baba suppose don know this...

You caught her, yes. Then start prepping countermeasures, then let her go. But if you're as crazy as my royal self, una two go still dey run things, no strings attached.

Smh

Mahone05:


7 weeks is enough time for him to get a UK girl convinced to marry him, and activate his citizenship

I dunno about UK but if na US e for sure

So a dependent visa can be cancelled by a partner?

I saw it on Facebook video yesterday

Skyview01:
I always have a back up plan and expect the worst and plan accordingly.

At this stage in my life, its hard to surprise me.

As in ehn 🤣🤣

Aaaaarghmed:
Lol..Mumu man.The thing that has saved me in all my dealings with ladies is having a backup plan always.As a man this will help u always.The biggest rule..never let a woman know all the source of your income.Your leg never strong for UK and u see say your wife dey cheat, you go confront am.lol.obviously she is ahead of the game.you are supposed to be ahead always

This post in was obviously made by an unmarried very young, naive man.

I know of one goat through his wife. He’s the one sponsoring the lady to school in the United Kingdom while being the dependent. They both traveling upper week to the UK. The other day I was on call with the wife who happens to be my friend, she was crying bitterly saying the guy had cheating recklessly on her and vow to divorce him once they get to the UK. In the real sense, the man ought to have being the main applicant not the dependent and that’s one mistake I wouldn’t advise my enemy to make.

Men need to be 10 steps ahead of their wives.

motymop:
If i was the man.

I will come back to Nigeria, block every contact about her and be the best version of myself.

It's not that easy, Nigeria is a very difficult country to survive compared to the UK

U dey follow woman chop money wey she hustle, she bring u come UK! U still dey claim right!
Home office deal with u 😜

EDOSBROWN:
Women can go extra mile to save a man, they can also go extra mile to bring a man down..
FEAR WOMEN

mention one MAN, woman have saved.

Foodqueen:
UK law be dealing with men from 1800.

No be small o...

The last place I would let my guards down is living abroad with a woman as my spouse.

I no go even think am. I never give room to things that I wouldn't want to see happen ( things I know have possibilities of occurring) to happen.

I like to learn from the mistakes of others. Women matter don reach most men for throat. Nothing fit surprise me again. I don see everything finish.

The way Britons look at Africans, I wonder what Nigerians are doing in UK

That woman will not end well. I have seen a ton of them that made such similar decisions and they ended up in bitter regret. As you know today you know tomorrow? Foolish women everywhere. When they go overseas they lose their heads.

missjekyll:
Shrugs.
Get a sponsored job

It won't be that easy for him except he had planned ahead by having substantial savings that could help him get such job in a sector that sponsors easily and immediately. He probably should have played low prior. Make him return to naija then, it's not the end of life!

Food don land!

The first rule of thumb remains sacrosanct - never be at the mercy of a small-minded woman (or man) - unless you don't value your dominion and dignity. But if you must be, let it be deliberate and with an ability to show them that they've only been a figurehead all along by your making.

Neo enslavement

We need your seed to populate our lands, and your energy and skills, but not you, lol