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Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Nobody: 6:25pm On Sep 05, 2023
Interesting conversations going on here, all hope may not be lost after all grin grin cheesy grin

Eating sugarcane, I don't have energy to argue or call a donkey a donkey grin grin grin

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Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by thesilentman(m): 6:26pm On Sep 05, 2023
Offpointng:


All the time... my innocent cute boys, my beautiful daughter bla bla shouldn't make you keep suffering in silence. Look for a Lawyer. he'd tell you what to do
This is really offpoint!

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Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Nonexisting1: 6:28pm On Sep 05, 2023
Brother, it seems you overdosed on redpill and it backfired. Every medication has dosage. Well, nothing spoil yet. It's like your wife saw the overdose and took advantage of it immediately she "arrived" by birthing two kings for you. Redpill should not be mistaken for toughness. Now that you're at crossroads, be calm. Silent treatment will work more for you now than redpill. It seems she can now predict your actions so be calm and channel your energy into something else like football but still be there for your sons. Make her see your love and care for her from afar but don't let her feel it, she will come begging for them. If she was once good, she is always good. Something may have triggered her new attitude so it's not time to talk divorce yet. By the way, enjoy the beer.

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Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by BlissGod: 6:28pm On Sep 05, 2023
harizonal123:

People react to stress in different ways. He didn't really mean that. Child birth is not always easy for struggling men. Frustrating dey always join

I understand bro, the anger I had is the fact he said she was submissive. If she changed it could be depression or trauma of the csection done on her: I had a friend that lost 8pints of blood a safe delivery almost turned fatal but God be praised sheโ€™s alive today, and she was traumatized for months not talking even to her husband only her child and mum she found safety in.

Imagine if the husband come dey vex because of the 700k wey he spend without consideration of the fact that the wife almost saw her life flash severally before her eyes.and this idiot spent only 300k with safe delivery and he wants the special accolade for his own wife and child. He must be a wicked man for considering divorce.

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Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by BlissGod: 6:31pm On Sep 05, 2023
Nonexisting1:
Brother, it seems you overdosed on redpill and it backfired. Every medication has dosage. Well, nothing spoil yet. It's like your wife saw the overdose and took advantage of it immediately she "arrived" by birthing two kings for you. Redpill should not be mistaken for toughness. Now that you're at crossroads, be calm. Silent treatment will work more for you now than redpill. It seems she can now predict your actions so be calm and channel your energy into something else like football but still be there for your sons. Make her see your love and care for her from afar but don't let her feel it, she will come begging for them. If she was once good, she is always good. Something may have triggered her new attitude so it's not time to talk divorce yet. By the way, enjoy the beer.
Either youโ€™re a child or a very immature young man. Every man wants a loving home your advise is from the pit of hell.

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Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Offpointng: 6:35pm On Sep 05, 2023
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Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by elipheleh(m): 6:38pm On Sep 05, 2023
oz4real83:
you are the one that is being st.upid, you think because a man spent money in his own home and family, then he must be respected only because of that? How about when the woman spends on the family, should the man then be kneeling to greet the wife as a sign of respect and appreciation? You are daft.


You lack simple sense and logic.

Do you think it is wrong to respect and honour the head of your home?

More so, a responsible man at that.

I see in your home, you people are full of ingratitude. You are free to act as you would.

Let me lecture you, every member of a home deserves respect, especially, first respect your father, then mother, then older siblings and so on...

If you have mental issues keep it in check. Don't go about ranting on a public space

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Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Acidosis(m): 6:41pm On Sep 05, 2023
thesilentman:


I just parted with over 300k unplanned fund for her C.S.

Na this part dey vex you like this? What do you even mean by unplanned C.S? Why would any man not plan for C.S? Why would you want your wife to push so hard in the name of labour or against your doctor's advice? Do you know the consequences of forcing a woman to deliver naturally?? Some died in the process. Some babies became permanently deformed due to trauma.

Go and talk to your wife, Mr. Man. No let frustration hook you.

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Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by leroi01(m): 6:45pm On Sep 05, 2023
Ogbeni, you better calm the F down.

That babe has been through a lot. Put yourself in her shoes , THINK.

Empathize.

She's yours and you are hers.

Never ignore the power of communication.

Una go dey alright last last.

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Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Evilstorm: 6:48pm On Sep 05, 2023
oz4real83:
how I go mock you? What you emphasized so much on was the 300k you paid for the CS and you also used the word "tamed" about your wife, such word is used for wild animalsembarassed. there is bound to be chaos at home if you do these things embarassed, that was why I wanted more details undecided

U are a good reader
Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by DMechyy: 7:05pm On Sep 05, 2023
thesilentman:
My blood is burning now as i write.My wife has now
folks.

Brother, your wife just gave birth... Some people, their wives are taken to the psychiatrist hospital a week after delivery.

Relax...

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Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by thesilentman(m): 7:15pm On Sep 05, 2023
DMechyy:


Brother, your wife just gave birth... Some people, their wives are taken to the psychiatrist hospital a week after delivery.

Relax...
This is true.I saw that happened at the hospital.

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Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Chibuzoripob: 7:34pm On Sep 05, 2023
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Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by bewla(m): 7:35pm On Sep 05, 2023
thesilentman:
My blood is burning now as I write.My wife has now completely changed for bad, a few days after our second child.

An erstwhile submissive woman that i thought i had tamed for life has now become a thorn in the flesh to me. I just parted with over 300k unplanned fund for her C.S. I thought she'd be more respectful to me now but no,she has changed completely!

She dares me to do my worst,she cries over small issues that i wonder if it's witchcraft.Or she thinks I can't quit cos she's got two boys for me? The mind boggles. Am just mad and gobsmacked at the same time as all my Red pill O.T have failed and am even considering divorce right now.

I'm at a bar drinking my sorry ass away, brainstorming the best option for me. What could be outta place?

I need candid advice,folks.
Drink today come back tomorrow and next


You never see nothing you go see something

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Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by DARLINGTON869(m): 7:35pm On Sep 05, 2023
Sorry to hear that. Brother. Just be calm and have a hearty conversation to know whatever the issue is. Also I hope it's not the pain of spending 300k that's graduating into annoyance.

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Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by iamtardey: 7:36pm On Sep 05, 2023
Maybe she don go collect winch and wizard
Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Omowale2023(m): 7:36pm On Sep 05, 2023
Normal thing. They do it all time. Get used to it.

Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Nobody: 7:37pm On Sep 05, 2023
thesilentman:
My blood is burning now as I write.My wife has now completely changed for bad, a few days after our second child.

An erstwhile submissive woman that i thought i had tamed for life has now become a thorn in the flesh to me. I just parted with over 300k unplanned fund for her C.S. I thought she'd be more respectful to me now but no,she has changed completely!

She dares me to do my worst,she cries over small issues that i wonder if it's witchcraft.Or she thinks I can't quit cos she's got two boys for me? The mind boggles. Am just mad and gobsmacked at the same time as all my Red pill O.T have failed and am even considering divorce right now.

I'm at a bar drinking my sorry ass away, brainstorming the best option for me. What could be outta place?

I need candid advice,folks.
What do you always do that provokes her and have successfully turned your once submissive good wife to what she has become?

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Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Enugupikin: 7:37pm On Sep 05, 2023
oz4real83:
how I go mock you? What you emphasized so much on was the 300k you paid for the CS and you also used the word "tamed" about your wife, such word is used for wild animalsembarassed. there is bound to be chaos at home if you do these things embarassed, that was why I wanted more details undecided
Sounds like Kobojunkie cheesy grin
Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by pocohantas(f): 7:38pm On Sep 05, 2023
Acidosis:


Na this part dey vex you like this? What do you even mean by unplanned C.S? Why would any man not plan for C.S? Why would you want your wife to push so hard in the name of labour or against your doctor's advice? Do you know the consequences of forcing a woman to deliver naturally?? Some died in the process. Some babies became permanently deformed due to trauma.

Go and talk to your wife, Mr. Man. No let frustration hook you.

Most men and women do not plan for CS. It is a last and emergency resort for many. Doesn't change the fact that the OP is a brown ๐Ÿ๐Ÿ.

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Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by CJStarz: 7:38pm On Sep 05, 2023
Someone you thought you've 'tamed' for life,you said? Was she some wild animal or something? U gat no regard for your wife and you feel so entitled.

#alleyesonthejudiciary

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Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by ComptonGee: 7:38pm On Sep 05, 2023
You said you thought you had tamed for life. That alone shows you're the problem here. She probably have been tolerating your inhumane treatment. You treat your wife like an animal all on the name of being a red piller

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Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Basicend: 7:40pm On Sep 05, 2023
thesilentman:
My blood is burning now as I write.My wife has now completely changed for bad, a few days after our second child.

An erstwhile submissive woman that i thought i had tamed for life has now become a thorn in the flesh to me. I just parted with over 300k unplanned fund for her C.S. I thought she'd be more respectful to me now but no,she has changed completely!

She dares me to do my worst,she cries over small issues that i wonder if it's witchcraft.Or she thinks I can't quit cos she's got two boys for me? The mind boggles. Am just mad and gobsmacked at the same time as all my Red pill O.T have failed and am even considering divorce right now.

I'm at a bar drinking my sorry ass away, brainstorming the best option for me. What could be outta place?

I need candid advice,folks.

It's a one sided story yet, sir.

We need to hear from her perspective before we can grant a viable counsel.

Nonetheless, women

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Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Jomonix: 7:41pm On Sep 05, 2023
It's is not all about you. Make sure she recovers fully from her CS operation. Tend and show her lots of love. Women don't forget.

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Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Ybholy(m): 7:41pm On Sep 05, 2023
Use ur name.

Be the silent man in the house.

She will know where she went wrong and make amends ๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿ‘Œ
Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by DARLINGTON869(m): 7:42pm On Sep 05, 2023
Hello everyone, for anyone on TIKTOK, kindly visit "X SHOP" and checkout the CHEAPEST and UNBEATABLE prices of neatly used household items, gadgets and numerous properties. Thanks and God bless as you do so. ALSO DON'T FORGET TO FOLLOW ME

Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by cutesharon(f): 7:42pm On Sep 05, 2023
Sorry o. You give am belle and paid for CS because it was necessary and you are calling it sacrifice.
Egbami. Was it her fault that she is pregant or when did paying for CS become a sacrifice for belle wey you load with your sperm. You de expect respect for that. Men sha.

Anyways it may be postpartum depression. Show her love and stop whinning...na your responsibility.
thesilentman:

ok i get you-i just mentioned the money aspect as latest in the sacrifices i make for her.I had believed it would make her respect me more.Reason with me.

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Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by jmoore(m): 7:42pm On Sep 05, 2023
Kid forming redpill. Who dash you wife?

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Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Femabol01: 7:42pm On Sep 05, 2023
thesilentman:
My blood is burning now as I write.My wife has now completely changed for bad, a few days after our second child.

An erstwhile submissive woman that i thought i had tamed for life has now become a thorn in the flesh to me. I just parted with over 300k unplanned fund for her C.S. I thought she'd be more respectful to me now but no,she has changed completely!

She dares me to do my worst,she cries over small issues that i wonder if it's witchcraft.Or she thinks I can't quit cos she's got two boys for me? The mind boggles. Am just mad and gobsmacked at the same time as all my Red pill O.T have failed and am even considering divorce right now.

I'm at a bar drinking my sorry ass away, brainstorming the best option for me. What could be outta place?

I need candid advice,folks.
Try to be calming down. You are the one to respect her more.

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Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Romanoff(f): 7:42pm On Sep 05, 2023
Women dey marry rubbish abeg.

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Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Biola67: 7:43pm On Sep 05, 2023
k.
Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Iykip(m): 7:44pm On Sep 05, 2023
thesilentman:

You no read wetin i write ni,abi you dey wain me ni?

Google postpartum depression

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