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Purpletee:
hmmmm,most reasons wasn't because the single mums out there are promiscuous but because they trusted too much,loved too much and got disappointed at the end.

So mine was that, i met this guy while in school,we started dating,dated for a year and five months,he was a cheat and I was always forgiving, eventually broke up with him only to find out I was few weeks pregnant,i got misoprostol and mifepristine,but couldn't take the pills,dunno why,was in the hostel then,my roommates kept pestering me if I had taken the drugs but I lied to them,and no,it wasn't fear,my biological mum had me and gave me up for adoption, probably I felt I wouldn't be where I was if she had aborted me,or maybe I still held unto my affections for him and thought that would change him,until today I don't know the reason I decided to keep my baby,but in all,that was one of the best decisions i've taken in this life,though I dropped out of school,and had to get a job ,the journey wasn't easy,but above all I CONQUERED.


To all single mums out there,forget the societal stigmatization,you've carried a child in your womb for nine months,and gave life to that baby,you're awesome, even though it wasn't what you planned for your life,keep strong,it can only get better.

ajakuai:
Just check out!

bukatyne:
@bold:

Are you saying that nature designed women to fall for irresponsible guys?

Really?

Then how did nature intend the family unit to continue?

QuinModah:

bukatyne:
You resurrected this old thread

MzBertty:
I had a relationship that looked serious but he got a new job and he suddenly changed he later asked for a breakup.... I found out i was pregnant few weeks later,i was really sad and thought of d and c, after concluding on going for the d and c..a colleague at work started bleeding seriously at first we thought it was fibroid but we discovered that d babe did d and c but it wasn't done properly ,she lost her womb in d process.. I became scared and thought of having the child.. everyone felt disappointed in me but it really was worth it tho...there were 9t i slept hungry and in pain but it was worth it... birthing a male child as a single mother isn't that easy thought but it is worth it tho... Gotten a good job and someone i can tell bedtime stories too... Being a single mother is tasking but your child makes it worth it.

cerpvad:
At OP, can you also create a thread on Single Father Challenge. Single Fathers too deserve to be listened to

efficiencie:
All these one sided stories that lack the full context could be misleading. We need to hear from the other side.

ajakuai:
Just check out!

Purpletee:
Don't get you

Cutehector:

Hamachi:

Cutehector:
are you a single momma?

IyaTola:
Yes. Are you a single dad?

Cutehector:
are you a single momma?

Hamachi:
Why do you want to know

Alooone:
Mine is more or less of betrayal and man's imminent wickedness...
I got married to my husband in 2013 at the age of 22, then I was still in school... We ttcd for 2years before I gave birth to my daughter in 2015... In 2017 I got pregnant for my son and we packed into our new house (that's where all my problem started).... We had this neighbour that for no reason at all just hated me,...right from day one her complain about me has always been "u too dey pose".....its either you are posing with your husband or you are posing with your child or even your belle..... We nearly packed out because of them.... Shortly before I gave birth I had a dream in which I saw a cat enter into our bedroom and disappeared into my leg... The first attack happened 2weeks after I gave birth to my son then my mum came for omugwo... She was the one that took me to the hospital.... The doctor diagnosed "puperuim psychosis"...after then it has been one attack to the other... When it got to the extent that I have started talking to myself in public unknowingly... I had to run for my dear life... I packed a few of my belongings and RAN with my kids to my parent's house... Now you could ask where was my husband when all this was happening... My people instead of my husband to quench the fire he was busy adding petrol to it... He told whoever that cares to know how I was MAD... According to him he feels "deceived" and "cheated" as he feels my parents knew about my "sickness "before we got married but nobody told him about it. .. It turned to full physical and verbal abuse as he felt saddled with such a liability like me...everyday he reminded me how I was a "regret " to him and told my children how he was going to marry a new mother that will take care of them and was looking for every way possible to frustrate me out of the marriage , because He practically saw it as an "opportunity "
I'm currently staying with my parents and my prayer every day is God should give me the heart to forgive my husband....but it's not easy... Someone we ttcd together and I went through a lot for... as for my neighbour am still praying for her, my God will fight for me... Sometimes I feel like going diabolical cos all these is unfair... I come from a Good,decent Catholic home and prayerful .....just payed for my daughter's school fees (she is an ace student) and saving for my Masters because when I remember all I have passed it further motivates me to aim higher..
Still love my husband though... Sometimes I'm filled with hate for him other times I love him... As for the psychosis ALL the symptoms are gone.
Single motherhood is not what I will wish on my enemy... If you like let it be 500percent the man's fault there will always be a stigma associated with a divorcee....



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DaniDani:
What happened to you was pure witchcraft operation. I read your story and felt like crying, if there's possibility of reuniting with your husband and you wish to, please reply me let me send you a number of a genuine strong pastor that can help you, this is 100% free of charge and there will be no physical meeting if you desire.

Alooone:
Hello Sir... please can you send yours let me call you... please for security reasons

Cutehector:
because i'll like to be friends with one

EreluRoz:
You are still a promiscuous man, when will you change

Cutehector:
na to just ignore you.

EreluRoz:
Ashawoooo man

Cutehector:
i agree

EreluRoz:
You don't have a choice 😂