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Re: My Fiancee Said We Must Have A House Before Getting Married by NOwazobia: 2:30pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Nataliace:Abeg, repeat am give am. |
Re: My Fiancee Said We Must Have A House Before Getting Married by MultiDot: 2:30pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Bros look before you leap, building a house is a worthwhile project but you need to have the financial strength to embark on it. It also takes time to accomplish as its not an off the shelf activity. 250K support from her is a good sign but that's barely enough to get started. My advice is that you rent a flat first, get married, start a home together and then take things one at a time. |
Re: My Fiancee Said We Must Have A House Before Getting Married by Omoawoke2(m): 2:30pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
250k contribution to build house If you accept that money, your case will be like igbos that came to Lagos and said they built Lagos She will never let you have peace, she will say she built you and developed you 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Said We Must Have A House Before Getting Married by tosyne2much(m): 2:31pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Some things don't seem right Building a house to completion in this economy is a not a child's play and the fact that she says she's willing to wait for as long as it takes else no marriage is where the real concern is She may have good intentions but thread with caution no matter how comforting her advice may seem 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Said We Must Have A House Before Getting Married by Dennisochampa: 2:32pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Too bad she get sense pass you... Level up, build house first.... Marriage can come later... Or at least start the project before you marry...... There is nothing as sweet as living in your own house with your family..... She don see the future on your behalf.... Key into her dream before she change her mind go follow man wen get plan and vision pass you |
Re: My Fiancee Said We Must Have A House Before Getting Married by Menclothing: 2:33pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
250k to build a house how ?? Or u mean contribution towards land |
Re: My Fiancee Said We Must Have A House Before Getting Married by NOwazobia: 2:35pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
LewisHamilton15:You have the money, then what is stopping you from building your house before even proposing. The moment you start paying rentage, especially in hundreds of thousands, you will find out that the you would have eaten into the suppose capital, and the building plan either postponed or entirely cancel. Even the marriage ceremony will first eat into a good chunk of your account, and you will find yourself postponing the necessary until unforseen (which I don't pray for) wreck things. When you have capital to invest, do it immediately, because something else might make that capital unavailable tomorrow. |
Re: My Fiancee Said We Must Have A House Before Getting Married by Bahamas95(m): 2:35pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
OP you need to consult Hakimi ASAP, e get why. |
Re: My Fiancee Said We Must Have A House Before Getting Married by Cutehector(m): 2:36pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
No dey follow woman mouth ooooo |
Re: My Fiancee Said We Must Have A House Before Getting Married by NOwazobia: 2:37pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Greattestman:Why you dey abused am for defending his girlfriend. Must she be like yours? Even her suggestions is not bad. OP no get house, and she dey advice OP to build one, is that not a good idea. |
Re: My Fiancee Said We Must Have A House Before Getting Married by Allisgud: 2:37pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Karen2024:that's why we say women with such wisdom are rare, that's the kind real men want |
Re: My Fiancee Said We Must Have A House Before Getting Married by Solofresh2: 2:38pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Samantha124:mention her |
Re: My Fiancee Said We Must Have A House Before Getting Married by Samuraixx: 2:38pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Then make she buy for una |
Re: My Fiancee Said We Must Have A House Before Getting Married by DestinyNigga: 2:39pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
LewisHamilton15: My brother, make sure that the name on the land document is yours. Don't be fooled. She may lure you to buy a land with her name. After building it, she will invite her main man and chase you out. Becareful of this gender 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Said We Must Have A House Before Getting Married by CedarHoldings: 2:39pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Yes, two house 🏠 |
Re: My Fiancee Said We Must Have A House Before Getting Married by Nobody: 2:40pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Unfortunately, I can't. Solofresh2: |
Re: My Fiancee Said We Must Have A House Before Getting Married by Lance008(m): 2:41pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Karen2024:Mumu she be better lady Marry mak u never build house and see urself in same place next 10years There are blessings that comes been a landlord 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Said We Must Have A House Before Getting Married by Sharpsharp00123: 2:42pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
LewisHamilton15:bro let me give u my own personal experience about issues like this At first she will drop everything she has n she might even take a loan with/without your consent to finance the project She will push( what she calls her own motivation) u beyond your normal boundaries that u will find it hard to do others things again cos u would have invested your last penny on d project Eventually when u are down n u need her to come to your aid she will remind u she’s down too n she’s servicing her loans or doing other things that have been affected due to the project then u will b stranded I will advise u to get a befitting accommodation, furnish it to your taste n if u have d money pay for 3 or 4 years in advance so u can use those period to plan well n not rush d project My 2 cent 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Said We Must Have A House Before Getting Married by GboyegaD(m): 2:42pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Building a house isn't something that is rushed because you need to plan it properly. There's no crime living in a rental apartment while planning/ building. Please, do not rush to build a house. |
Re: My Fiancee Said We Must Have A House Before Getting Married by Scrupulous419(m): 2:43pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Rubyjade: Leave that mumu wen dey talk on a circle, owning a house of your own should comes first. Investment fit get k-leg. Atleast ur shelter go help u gather family well 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Said We Must Have A House Before Getting Married by Entanglement: 2:43pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
LewisHamilton15:which cave all this mumu people dey comot from
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Re: My Fiancee Said We Must Have A House Before Getting Married by mbeast(m): 2:44pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
I wanted to say this but you beat me to it. this is the best comment ever. The guy is just a ho**y dude and obviously not thinking well. Who does joint venture before marriage? You don't even know if your marriage will last one year(of course u will say godforbid) but a lady is already convincing and conditioning you to build a house together with her tiny 250k that can't erect a fence. Mtcheww Bro masturbate and cum so u can come to ur senses. That lady ain't ready to marry yet. Appletek: 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Said We Must Have A House Before Getting Married by Allisgud: 2:45pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Such women are rare,the ones we have now a days,will use that money to get a wig or an iphone,they wount even tell u they have any savings any where talkless of contributing it,some wount even save self,any money that come thier ways na cloth and shoe Bro u are lucky |
Re: My Fiancee Said We Must Have A House Before Getting Married by Solofresh2: 2:48pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Samantha124:Go lokile gona.Na nka hwetša seswantšho sa gago |
Re: My Fiancee Said We Must Have A House Before Getting Married by lanocfoods: 2:48pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
LewisHamilton15:listen to her, you will be thankful in the long run |
Re: My Fiancee Said We Must Have A House Before Getting Married by Nobody: 2:49pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Google translate has suffered...🤣🤣🤣 Solofresh2: |
Re: My Fiancee Said We Must Have A House Before Getting Married by Zooposki(f): 2:50pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
izonborn098: I’m not sure but the lady said she already has money for part of the land. The rent money can also go towards the land. They should crunch the budget and see how feasible it is before they make their next move. |
Re: My Fiancee Said We Must Have A House Before Getting Married by Goldbw122(m): 2:51pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
LewisHamilton15:I must say, she is a wise woman, yeah, in this era that girls are in now, they don't really care about your development of yourself, no they will go ahead and say yes, when there is no foundation to sit on top. Well that her saves is nothing if you want to start building a house so the best advice for you, is tell her that building a house is a process, the future is bright and uncertain, you don't know what will happen tomorrow. Meet someone that is involve in building and ask for the estimate of house that you want to build in future, so that you know what you are preparing for and show her the expenses too so that she will know what it is.. the journey, is not easy I must say yeah.. Is like your girl have this memory of her young self in a rented apartment, so she have experience the mistreatment and the hate, so she does not want to experience that anymore.. |
Re: My Fiancee Said We Must Have A House Before Getting Married by Pcstradamus(m): 2:52pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
You are a daft young man. If you were close to me, I would have flogged you 36 strokes of the cane with fasting for 21 days. You need help cos you have been offered as a burnt offering to your ancestors. How much is that lady’s salary? Does she earn in 7 digits? Even if she earns in 7?digits, do you know how much it will cost you to build a bungalow of 3 rooms? Even the land, how much is a 500sqm sold in your location?That lady doesn’t care about you. Meanwhile, how old are you and how old is she for you to wait until you have completed the building?Please run to OFM, Mountain of Fire, Dunamis Int’l for help LewisHamilton15: 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Said We Must Have A House Before Getting Married by Orderabove(m): 2:52pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
u want to build a house and shes bringing 250k. wait till u get married when she start telling u about building together. run o 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Said We Must Have A House Before Getting Married by Whiteangel1234: 2:53pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Oga to build house nobi moi moi 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Said We Must Have A House Before Getting Married by Sergio101(m): 2:53pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
LewisHamilton15: Bro she's wise, smart and a good girl It's a nice advice if you can afford it. If you marry now and starts having kids. A lot many geared to family responsibilities (school fees and all that). Building will be very hard at that. If you have money for building of own apartment....... please do it now! It's a nice advice |
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