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dkidd:
I got a very disturbing text yesterday and it got me really laughing because I could smell the raw anger,pains, bitterness and hatred she has developed for me over time. I can understand if u don't like me anymore but why the deep hatred for something that ended long ago. Like I'm not really friends with me exes but doesn't mean we are enemies.. this one took the hatred to another new level. Which brings me to the question. Ladies, why are some of u still nursing bitterness forever after things go south? Why can't they just grow up and accept reality

Reading her message still cracks me up 😂 😂

TemplarLandry:
Why asking about what you already know?

brain54:
Sometimes depends on the circumstances…

That led to the breakup.

As I guy I have ex’s I still feel bitter about !

Zonefree:




An average Nigerian girl is naturally bittered. You'll get to know this when you walk away from a toxic relationship.

Rejection is the only tool that can wreck even the strongest woman on earth. Hell has no fury like a scorned and rejected woman.

Men should learn to reject women that are not adding any value to them.

advanceDNA:
Na normal woman behavior naaaa....

And it's largely because women overestimate their worth in a man's life ... They assume by just agreeing to date u and sex is all u need to be happy and fulfilled .... hence should never have reason to break up ..

.... but they are the only ones that have the right to break up when they are tired of u or find someone richer or better.....

dkidd:
Why? Is there any need to be bitter about it?

brain54:
Sure…

We are all humans with feelings.

Sometimes we may feel betrayed, pained or whatever due to a relationship that went sour. That’s why I said depends on how it ended.

Some of these redpillers started from relationships they felt bitter about.

It’s just their way of handling/grieving the situation!

sillysally:
Maybe you did her very wrong. I will rather be civil and matured about it than vent my anger on any ex for that matter. She probably has energy to waste on you. Waste of energy on someone probably not worth it

dkidd:
I understand u sha.. but no need dwelling on that. Life's lessons learned applied on the next. I wonder why u included the bold... From what I know, TRP basically teaches how to avoid female manipulation and if a bitter man wants to get better isn't it good for everyone? It's a way of life not a coping mechanism bro.
I think ur mixing things up

brain54:
I think what you should say…

Is that the ideal thing to do is move on. Maybe use the lessons learned to better understand and improve the next relationship.

But remember… not everyone can handle issues same way.

Besides remember I emphasized the fact that it depends on the circumstances resulting in the breakup.

That aside… most of the redpillers I come across on this space seem to me like bitter people , with issues from past relationships. Who use every opportunity to bash and be hateful to women, demean and denegrade them.

Well maybe they are those hiding under the canopy of the real redpillers. I wouldn’t know.

Have a good day!

Purvan:
Men are like that also


They go to the gym , smoke loud, watch movie , listen to depressing songs when a girl they love so much break up with them

You happen to be one of those niggers that haven't experienced love with a woman

Na pipe and down


When your mama die that kin pain way go pain you is the same as the heart break a girl that you love gives you

Anny69:
😂You suprise me, Eric.

Purvan:
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Hmm

Are you on crack??

Purvan:
Men are like that also


They go to the gym , smoke loud, watch movie , listen to depressing songs when a girl they love so much break up with them

You happen to be one of those niggers that haven't experienced love with a woman

Na pipe and down


When your mama die that kin pain way go pain you is the same as the heart break a girl that you love gives you

Nonexisting1:
First they pretend the breakup doesn't hurt them, then they start fuccking around to pepper you. Next the new guy they replaced you with dumps them too, then they start checking your updates on facebook and WhatsApp. Then they find out you were never affected by the breakup at all because you are balling, then they get angry. Next, they see you with another vaginarian more beautiful than they are, then they wish combination of evil and death to you. Nwachineke nothing dey happen, move ahead ahead .

Samantha124:
Funny enough, there's this girl on WhatsApp who's in the same group chat as I am... We were having some sort of discussion and the discussion was law related when the girl all of a sudden started using her baby daddy as an example.

She started trash talking him and talking of how he's childish, then I asked her how come she still went ahead and had a baby with him if indeed he's childish?

She never did answered me... I think some of these ladies are bitter because they're heartbroken, as a result, they fail to control their emotions.

But personally speaking, I hate it when people start bad mouthing their exes after a breakup as if we're the ones who forced them to go into that failed relationship or marriage in the first place... In most cases it's my gender who do it and I don't like it... I prefer we learn from our mistakes and move on.

dkidd:
Exactly... No need badmouthing or spoiling anyone. It's just uncontrolled emotions. And it's childish anyway and funny I still laugh remembering her message. Ur gender funny sha 😂

Samantha124:
But then again, maybe I'm saying all this because I haven't been properly dealt with in the dating world.

dkidd:
Lol.. by "properly dealt with" I presume u mean heartbroken?