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Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by skuribeebo: 2:13pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
Animals must act like animal. It is natural. We want random sex. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by chocboi78(m): 2:14pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
People no longer marry because they’re in love. Women marry who is ready financially and men marry just because they feel it’s time to hence no bond shared. Also women tend to loose shape and beauty due to the rigors of child birth and also exhibit a drop in hygiene level. Lastly , some men are generally promiscuous. They discuss round a table full of beer with the their bottle of beers and discuss how many girls they’ve conquered and use em to keep scores. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by mariahAngel(f): 2:14pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
theInfinity: When couples don't put each other first, and take each other's side first, situations like that are bound to happen. Also, wives should stop acting like they have more rights to the children than their husbands. Couples should put each other first, and raise their children as a team. (Let the children see and know it because children can be manipulative) Couples should also be selfish once in a while, and create time for each (just themselves) as often as possible. Their lives shouldn't just revolve around the children. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by Emma1Oj(m): 2:14pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
BXNX:A man onces said "if no be children, I for no marry" that at time he feel like chasing his wife away but for the kids. |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by BloomingDale(f): 2:14pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
theInfinity: That’s because he believes he has caged you with children and you are going nowhere, hence he just puts in the minimum effort required to make sure you at least cook for him, wash his clothes, clean his house and maybe have sex with him occasionally. Getting a nanny , cook, housekeeper, prostitute etc will cost him more, so he will rather keep you for those duties while he has his fun outside. Also he has the perks of being a married man which raises his status in society and gives him more opportunities to progress, cos people see him as more responsible as a married man. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by Tonytonex(m): 2:15pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
Nwodosis:exactly. This is the plan truth. |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by guysbewise: 2:15pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
It is the women that become jealous as the husband's love is now shared between the wife and the kids and women don't like this as they want full attention from the man all the time |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by frankson1(m): 2:16pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
adolfHitler1934: You're right. Seeing the way some women look in the mornings will make me wanna 🤮 and I always think if their husbands don't see them coming out looking the way they do. Most of them practically stop caring properly for themselves. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by soccerlite: 2:17pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
That's if the wahala of the wife is too much, especially if she's of no assistance |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by cococandy(f): 2:17pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
The fact that you found it so funny Jewessgratitud3: 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by Iamzik: 2:17pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
Emma1Oj: You still believe this lie in 2023? Smh |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by Tonytonex(m): 2:18pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
bukatyne:Why do people get married? |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by GreatAchiever1: 2:18pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
Things wey I go discuss during dating/courtship, must ladies go run, but it will prevent things like this from happening, because I don't want such. |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by Jewessgratitud3: 2:20pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
cococandy: The way he put it was what made it funny not like I was laughing at what he said in context. |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by Jewessgratitud3: 2:21pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
smasher1: Is there any man who's not adulterous in nature? E dey all of una body. Forget! 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by GreatAchiever1: 2:23pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
Iamzik: I no even understand wetin the guy wan write. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by cococandy(f): 2:24pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3:okay |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by frankson1(m): 2:24pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
MySexyMoni: It's time your gender sit back and really think through and give their husbands who truly care for the family a break. Believe me, it's not easy out there especially for those doing field jobs. I believe that not every man tell their wives in details the risks associated with the nature of some of their jobs. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by DjAduba(m): 2:24pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
Fountainofyouth:Madam leave matter.... Who told u that we dont care for the kids? The truth is SEE FINISH that causes it all... women dont like to be held accountable so they twist the matter to avoid blames... We know ur games...Yes men may appear not having quality family time because we are foccused on the hustle to meet up with bills. Some Women at the other hand having known that we have to prepare the family & kids for greatness tend to concentrate on them (With claims of loving them) to manipulate/brain wash the kids to see her as their guardian Angel and the father a careless man. An investment they hope to havest in the future... their actiins are intentional and calculative.. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by MySexyMoni(f): 2:26pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
frankson1: Ok.. Can you report my gender to ministry of women affairs then ? |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by Nobody: 2:26pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
SmartPolician: Ideally Speaking there should be enough Love to go Round. |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by MrNipplesLover(m): 2:27pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
This is why olosho and runs girls will forever remain relevant in this world... 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by winner37(m): 2:28pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
Sometimes the wife might be the cause , alot of women when they start giving birth they pay less attention to themselves like personal hygiene.. |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by bjdon: 2:30pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
YoungLionken: Louder for those at the back of the class! This is exactly what I've seen in most cases. The woman becomes 100% a mother totally ignoring the man. Is it any wonder that the man's eyes start to wander? If women only knew how EASY it is to keep their man. Just pet him now and again and ensure the house is a tranquil place, where he's at peaceand is well fed. Trust me that man will pet and care for such a woman to the excusion of all smallies and side chicks. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by GreatAchiever1: 2:31pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
DjAduba:Na em be say such man wey marry that kind woman don carry problem be dat. Little wonder why sometimes respect and obedience to fathers is on the decline. |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by alizma: 2:34pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
theInfinity:Lol, are you married. If yes, do you consider yourself as bias or unbias? |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by Tyktoker: 2:37pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
Result of the perception(purpose) of marriage both had before going in-- they may include things like age limit, money, bodily features, crowning achievement after school, making babies, all which are very great reasons to be married and settle down but things can go downhill pretty fast and all these would become meaningless for some just a year or two! Getting married and staying married happily is beyond just the surface! theInfinity: |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by EducasionMe(m): 2:39pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
because when mens sees wife he shall goes for anodar marry |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by eepeepook: 2:40pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
Everything make front page in this trash pile. Mscheew. |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by simfrost90210: 2:42pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
Because their wives change towards their husbands after they have kids... It's simple!!! 😏😏😏😏 You people should come and eat oo 3 Likes
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Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by fayomim: 2:43pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
Fountainofyouth: It's very important to care for your kids. However, leaving your spouse behind and not caring for him/her is a disaster in the making If you are interested to know, ask me why 1 Like |
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