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Opanka44:
Good evening House, I'm fazed, perturbed and downcast at the moment. I can't sleep. My eyes are heavy. I am depressed and I need all the counsel I can get.

In year 2020, I made a Beautiful girl(22yrs old). I asked her out same day I met her, we vibed so well and became lovers. It was during the COVID-19 period. I met this girl when I left my base at Lagos to Cross river(my place). The lady told me that she was a 200level student of Kogi state university and that she was home due to the lockdown.
Our love grew so strong and I was taken to her house to meet her parents. Very lovely people. We loved each other so much that we had already planned on getting married. We stupidly took blood Oath after a few months of dating cos the lady claimed that she had experienced lots of heartbreaks in the past and she was finding it difficult to trust me, she then suggested we took blood Oath. I accepted and it was done.
After the Oath, I discovered this girl only lied to me that she was an undergraduate. She was never!. She had just had her NCE. Her dad was the one that told me this, he never knew that her daughter had already lied to me that she was an undergraduate. I was so shocked to learn about this lie. After this discovery, I began to study her closely. But I never revealed my findings to her. She was so materialistic, but never demanding from me.
The main issue started when she discovered that I wasn't as rich as she had thought the first day she met me. She started to misbehave and was giving me unhealthy attitude. This lady at age 21, already had three abortions and terrible public image. I was so shocked.
To cut the long story, we eventually broke up. But some years back, she would always chat me up on Facebook wanting to see me and all that . But I have cut ties with her and I can't go back again. She's very rude, disrespectful and stubborn(Her parents confirmed this). Now, I want us to find a way of breaking this Oath, but each time I call to say this, she keeps throwing insults. And I can't withstand it. Sometimes when she insults, I also give it back to her in commercial quantity. But how long will dis continue? I haven't seen her since we parted.
I have already informed my mum about the Oath. But her own parents are not aware. I intend calling her parents but I have lost their contacts since we broke up. I only confided in one of her friends, but the friend isn't as sensible and responsible as it should. I really need help pls.
I'm scared of getting married now ... It's even much worse whenever I watch some contents online regarding such circumstance.

Moderators, pls move this to front Page ASAP.
Sorry I Posted it here. My apologies pls.

Grow up man, this isn’t the movies. She lied to you, that alone has broken the oath.

NB: Blood oath, verbal oath, sex oath, all na the same. Just send her a text saying the words… I hereby sever ties with you and break the oath we took due to your insincerity and toxicity, you have nothing over me and I have nothing over you. Adios

iLoveYouToo:
Grow up man, this isn’t the movies. She lied to you, that alone has broken the oath.

NB: Blood oath, verbal oath, sex oath, all na the same. Just send her a text saying the words… I hereby sever ties with you and break the oath we took due to your insincerity and toxicity, you have nothing over me and I have nothing over you. Adios

You are funny

iLoveYouToo:
Grow up man, this isn’t the movies. She lied to you, that alone has broken the oath.

NB: Blood oath, verbal oath, sex oath, all na the same. Just send her a text saying the words… I hereby sever ties with you and break the oath we took due to your insincerity and toxicity, you have nothing over me and I have nothing over you. Adios

I appreciate your input, but it's way beyond that sir. I really messed up going into the oath. God should pls forgive me. I regret it

Move ahead oga... This isn't 1850... Leave her and the oath

How was the oath done? Can you share so we'll know if it is real or you both were just messing around because considering her reaction, she out to be more concerned as the lady.

Also, look at the way she played with your intelligence and you fell for it; don't you think this is part of what she want you to believe?

I'm not saying you should forget about the blood oath o, all I'm saying is for you to think of how the blood oath was done to be sure if you were played or it's actually real.

Shelter100:
The blood is null and void since it was based on lies. I confirm you free.

Amen o

Are you a prophetess?

Opanka44:
Ok. Thanks.
Her name is Faith

Is she a festac girl

Opanka44:
I appreciate your input, but it's way beyond that sir. I really messed up going into the oath. God should pls forgive me. I regret it

It’s ‘in your head’, don’t let anyone fool you. I’ve been around long enough to know it means nothing.

We’re slaves to what we believe, set yourself free

Taylor92:
Invite her for a makeup

Pretend like ever since she left you couldn’t get a replacement of her

Gift her and send her money spoil her from afar

Convince her you’re missing her so much that she should come over

When she comes over carry boys mount outside till una remove the oath

Baba, na sure plan be this but on a second thought, they never accused you of reap before.. Let him find another way like pressing every Mumü buttons he got.

Why did you foolishly take oath without trying to find out the person, you're just painting yourself good guy you aren't so try to find how you can contact her cos this shit is real.

001Lotion:
Move on with your life, nothing like blood oath exists. Its just a delusion.

It does ooo
Its so strong
They can never marry any other person

Opanka44:
Good evening House, I'm fazed, perturbed and downcast at the moment. I can't sleep. My eyes are heavy. I am depressed and I need all the counsel I can get.

In year 2020, I made a Beautiful girl(22yrs old). I asked her out same day I met her, we vibed so well and became lovers. It was during the COVID-19 period. I met this girl when I left my base at Lagos to Cross river(my place). The lady told me that she was a 200level student of Kogi state university and that she was home due to the lockdown.
Our love grew so strong and I was taken to her house to meet her parents. Very lovely people. We loved each other so much that we had already planned on getting married. We stupidly took blood Oath after a few months of dating cos the lady claimed that she had experienced lots of heartbreaks in the past and she was finding it difficult to trust me, she then suggested we took blood Oath. I accepted and it was done.
After the Oath, I discovered this girl only lied to me that she was an undergraduate. She was never!. She had just had her NCE. Her dad was the one that told me this, he never knew that her daughter had already lied to me that she was an undergraduate. I was so shocked to learn about this lie. After this discovery, I began to study her closely. But I never revealed my findings to her. She was so materialistic, but never demanding from me.
The main issue started when she discovered that I wasn't as rich as she had thought the first day she met me. She started to misbehave and was giving me unhealthy attitude. This lady at age 21, already had three abortions and terrible public image. I was so shocked.
To cut the long story, we eventually broke up. But some years back, she would always chat me up on Facebook wanting to see me and all that . But I have cut ties with her and I can't go back again. She's very rude, disrespectful and stubborn(Her parents confirmed this). Now, I want us to find a way of breaking this Oath, but each time I call to say this, she keeps throwing insults. And I can't withstand it. Sometimes when she insults, I also give it back to her in commercial quantity. But how long will dis continue? I haven't seen her since we parted.
I have already informed my mum about the Oath. But her own parents are not aware. I intend calling her parents but I have lost their contacts since we broke up. I only confided in one of her friends, but the friend isn't as sensible and responsible as it should. I really need help pls.
I'm scared of getting married now ... It's even much worse whenever I watch some contents online regarding such circumstance.

Moderators, pls move this to front Page ASAP.
Sorry I Posted it here. My apologies pls.

You whine yourself ? You claimed that you have lost the contact of her parents but how did you meet her dad? How did you get to know from her dad that she is an NCE holder? 😏

Truvelisback:
You whine yourself ? You claimed that you have lost the contact of her parents but how did you meet her dad? How did you get to know from her dad that she is an NCE holder? 😏

Kai... I really sympathise with you. I hope you don't ever waste money going school. Your comprehension skill is extremely low

Opanka44:
Kai... I really sympathise with you. I hope you don't ever waste money going school. Your comprehension skill is extremely low

Your cooked up stories just to get to FP.

Jozilinn:
Why did you foolishly take oath without trying to find out the person, you're just painting yourself good guy you aren't so try to find how you can contact her cos this shit is real.

If u have nothing meaningful to say, then stop being senseless in your comment Pls. I never painted myself as good except you have issues with your comprehension ability. Making mistakes doesn't make anyone look 'foolish' just as u insulted me up there, it is repeating same mistake that makes same person foolish. Mr perfect, I'm sure you haven't made a mistake or two before in your entire existence. You're more foolish than your comment

Kingcalls:
Is she a festac girl

Ogoja girl in crossriver

Truvelisback:
Your cooked up stories just to get to FP.

Who FP help Oga? Are you a dunce or something? Pls Bleep off

Opanka44:
Good evening House, I'm fazed, perturbed and downcast at the moment. I can't sleep. My eyes are heavy. I am depressed and I need all the counsel I can get.

In year 2020, I made a Beautiful girl(22yrs old). I asked her out same day I met her, we vibed so well and became lovers. It was during the COVID-19 period. I met this girl when I left my base at Lagos to Cross river(my place). The lady told me that she was a 200level student of Kogi state university and that she was home due to the lockdown.
Our love grew so strong and I was taken to her house to meet her parents. Very lovely people. We loved each other so much that we had already planned on getting married. We stupidly took blood Oath after a few months of dating cos the lady claimed that she had experienced lots of heartbreaks in the past and she was finding it difficult to trust me, she then suggested we took blood Oath. I accepted and it was done.
After the Oath, I discovered this girl only lied to me that she was an undergraduate. She was never!. She had just had her NCE. Her dad was the one that told me this, he never knew that her daughter had already lied to me that she was an undergraduate. I was so shocked to learn about this lie. After this discovery, I began to study her closely. But I never revealed my findings to her. She was so materialistic, but never demanding from me.
The main issue started when she discovered that I wasn't as rich as she had thought the first day she met me. She started to misbehave and was giving me unhealthy attitude. This lady at age 21, already had three abortions and terrible public image. I was so shocked.
To cut the long story, we eventually broke up. But some years back, she would always chat me up on Facebook wanting to see me and all that . But I have cut ties with her and I can't go back again. She's very rude, disrespectful and stubborn(Her parents confirmed this). Now, I want us to find a way of breaking this Oath, but each time I call to say this, she keeps throwing insults. And I can't withstand it. Sometimes when she insults, I also give it back to her in commercial quantity. But how long will dis continue? I haven't seen her since we parted.
I have already informed my mum about the Oath. But her own parents are not aware. I intend calling her parents but I have lost their contacts since we broke up. I only confided in one of her friends, but the friend isn't as sensible and responsible as it should. I really need help pls.
I'm scared of getting married now ... It's even much worse whenever I watch some contents online regarding such circumstance.

Moderators, pls move this to front Page ASAP.
Sorry I Posted it here. My apologies pls.

That shit doesn't work when you do it yourself....
Move on with your life nothing will happen

If you need advise, you also need to be open with the events of the oath.

But then, unless there is more to this than you put out here, that oath was made on basics which you found out to be all lies and false, that nullifies and voids it.

07kjb:
What is more binding on Earth than blood? talk more of human blood

How most of you reason sometimes baffles me

So u think that oath has a binding..

Then your spiritual understanding is ur problem.

Taylor92:
Invite her for a makeup

Pretend like ever since she left you couldn’t get a replacement of her

Gift her and send her money spoil her from afar

Convince her you’re missing her so much that she should come over

When she comes over carry boys mount outside till una remove the oath

Bruhhhhhhhhhhhhhh 😂

Was it you that invented native sense?😂😂

davillian:
That shit doesn't work when you do it yourself....
Move on with your life nothing will happen

Ok sir

Opanka44:
Ok sir

If you had gone to a native doctor or those white garment churches it would have been potent

davillian:
If you had gone to a native doctor or those white garment churches it would have been potent

Thank God I didn't

Opanka44:
Good evening House, I'm fazed, perturbed and downcast at the moment. I can't sleep. My eyes are heavy. I am depressed and I need all the counsel I can get.

In year 2020, I made a Beautiful girl(22yrs old). I asked her out same day I met her, we vibed so well and became lovers. It was during the COVID-19 period. I met this girl when I left my base at Lagos to Cross river(my place). The lady told me that she was a 200level student of Kogi state university and that she was home due to the lockdown.
Our love grew so strong and I was taken to her house to meet her parents. Very lovely people. We loved each other so much that we had already planned on getting married. We stupidly took blood Oath after a few months of dating cos the lady claimed that she had experienced lots of heartbreaks in the past and she was finding it difficult to trust me, she then suggested we took blood Oath. I accepted and it was done.
After the Oath, I discovered this girl only lied to me that she was an undergraduate. She was never!. She had just had her NCE. Her dad was the one that told me this, he never knew that her daughter had already lied to me that she was an undergraduate. I was so shocked to learn about this lie. After this discovery, I began to study her closely. But I never revealed my findings to her. She was so materialistic, but never demanding from me.
The main issue started when she discovered that I wasn't as rich as she had thought the first day she met me. She started to misbehave and was giving me unhealthy attitude. This lady at age 21, already had three abortions and terrible public image. I was so shocked.
To cut the long story, we eventually broke up. But some years back, she would always chat me up on Facebook wanting to see me and all that . But I have cut ties with her and I can't go back again. She's very rude, disrespectful and stubborn(Her parents confirmed this). Now, I want us to find a way of breaking this Oath, but each time I call to say this, she keeps throwing insults. And I can't withstand it. Sometimes when she insults, I also give it back to her in commercial quantity. But how long will dis continue? I haven't seen her since we parted.
I have already informed my mum about the Oath. But her own parents are not aware. I intend calling her parents but I have lost their contacts since we broke up. I only confided in one of her friends, but the friend isn't as sensible and responsible as it should. I really need help pls.
I'm scared of getting married now ... It's even much worse whenever I watch some contents online regarding such circumstance.

Moderators, pls move this to front Page ASAP.
Sorry I Posted it here. My apologies pls.

You tatsed the honey before the moon, now you're lamenting. Why rush to make promises to a lady you are just meeting all in the name of infatuation and boredom.

That corona period ehnn, most guys made a mistake that will last a lifetime all in lieu of boredom that their brain tragically denoted as love

What kind of blood oath did you guys do, is it that you guys cuts yourself and cross lick your blood then promise never to separate.
Or
You guys went to shrine or visit native doctor to do the blood oath for you?
Let me know the type you did so that I can tell you what to do

Chineke meehhh😂 covenant bind by blood is usually very strong. Una for just use only mouth do or talk am and not exchange blood

ghettochild:
So u think that oath has a binding..

Then your spiritual understanding is ur problem.

U don't know the power blood possesses

Even the blood of animals are fucking strong talk more of human blood

Opanka44:
If u have nothing meaningful to say, then stop being senseless in your comment Pls. I never painted myself as good except you have issues with your comprehension ability. Making mistakes doesn't make anyone look 'foolish' just as u insulted me up there, it is repeating same mistake that makes same person foolish. Mr perfect, I'm sure you haven't made a mistake or two before in your entire existence. You're more foolish than your comment

Just take a look at this fool from your reply alone it shows just how stupid you sound in reality, still trying to justify your actions right,so just because I said you foolishly did something you got angry and started voicing out trash,men like you are never ready to learn from others always going high over nothing I wouldn't be shocked if the said girl became frustrated,and rude because of your attitude, get and learn how to humble because if you know a lot about foolishness like you said up here,then you would know you ain't make any sense I pray God pulls you out of this one even though... get a church to do the needful because this shit like I said up here is real.

Jozilinn:
Just take a look at this fool from your reply alone it shows just how stupid you sound in reality, still trying to justify your actions right,so just because I said you foolishly did something you got angry and started voicing out trash,men like you are never ready to learn from others always going high over nothing I wouldn't be shocked if the said girl became frustrated,and rude because of your attitude, get and learn how to humble because if you know a lot about foolishness like you said up here,then you would know you ain't make any sense I pray God pulls you out of this one even though... get a church to do the needful because this shit like I said up here is real.

You're more foolish, senseless and stupid than you can ever imagine. So you believe in church, yet so Indecorous, crass, rude, disrespectful, callous and insensitive towards people's plight.
Were you forced to comment on this post? Since u cannot be respectful to people , pls avoid my post. Nonsense!

Stubborn82:
What kind of blood oath did you guys do, is it that you guys cuts yourself and cross lick your blood then promise never to separate.
Or
You guys went to shrine or visit native doctor to do the blood oath for you?
Let me know the type you did so that I can tell you what to do

We cut our thumbs and licked the blood and promised never to leave each other. Not in a shrine or native doctors place

Oracleee:
You tatsed the honey before the moon, now you're lamenting. Why rush to make promises to a lady you are just meeting all in the name of infatuation and boredom.

That corona period ehnn, most guys made a mistake that will last a lifetime all in lieu of boredom that their brain tragically denoted as love

I swear Bro. I really messed up big time