₦airaland Forum

Persephone1:
Ingrates you say, taken at least these women aren't kicking you out of your homes or stabbing you over being possessive

Don't come here to shout justice for Linsar when you jam wetin pass you. That's if you are outside Nigeria self and the closet you have been to a "white" woman is not facetime.

Most Nigerian men who fall victims of their white wives were at fault. You are in a country where things work: you can't hit women, you can't be caught cheating and go scot free, you can't be a lazy man just because she is independent and many more.

Even you claimed not to be interested in marrying a Nigerian man. You are a big hypocrite(alagabagebe ni e)

bukatyne:
You sound like a clown right now.

Ever heard of garbage in, garbage out?

Those of you moaning about your positive experiences with white women and poor experiences with black women do not realise that it is a function of the energy you brought into those relationships.

You expect a woman you treat with enough love and respect to be same with the one you treated with disrespect and loathing.

Isn't that ment?

There is a correlation between the energy you put in relationships and the outcome, but it is a not so strong correlation.

There are men who love their wives dearly, respect them, but the wives never reciprocate because she's one of the bad Nigerian wives.
Infact, she can even stop loving her husband just because she saw a man with more money.

White women aren't like this. If they love you, they love you. I believe this is part of the point OP made.

1Sharon:
Our fossils? 💀


If they really respected you, they'd give themselves to you at their prime, not when they're fossilised and crystallised with nothing to offer but powdered eggs.

In life, everybody gets in where they fit in. And 'fossils' were all you qualified for.

Fossils can give me papers, properties, and peace of mind. They can't cheat.
What can Nigerian women give?
This is why Nigerian women abroad are single to stupor.

LINSAR:
Fossils can give me papers, properties, and peace of mind. They can't cheat.
What can Nigerian women give?
This is why Nigerian women abroad are single to stupor.

Peace of mind 🤣

Travel first.

Any fresh off the boat immigrant is usually single. Nigerian men and women. Don't you remember how your comrades were creating threads on how they become incels once they travelled?

Maj196:
Lol, I know you secretly wish to date one though but bruh if you ain't got what it takes white girl doesn't give a shit about you. Cuz for starters they don't care about money or whatever. My looks alone gives me any kinda girl I want. White or black

Sighs...Rubbish.

Keep fooling yourself.

mapist:
Lots of whites have mad curves. Until you see for yourself, you ll never believe.

I have seen a lot.

Am not a learner.

bukatyne:
1. A dedicated partner or marriage is potato pothato It is the goal of having a person to yourself. By the way, their laws recognise cohabitation which is common law marriage. Like my people say, if a woman has a child for you, she is no longer a concubine aka she is a wife. A woman claims not to be married yet has kids for a man, stays with him & performs wifey duties. Biko, what is the difference between her and a wife apart from the legality?

Dedicated partner? Really. How many Nigerian women will agree to be dedicated partners? Whatever that means. Will you agree to be a dedicated partner to a man indefinitely.

2. Someone who doesn’t rate something steers clear; you don't keep doing it. That is ment. A person who doesn't rate school doesn’t go for B.Sc, 3 M.Sc and 2 PhDs. You will think the person is crazy. A person who doesn't rate alcohol doesn’t drink it; a person who doesn't rate God doesn’t go from Church to Church. If these people claim not to rate these things and keep on doing them, you would think they have lost their marbles because they really have. Nigerian women fall the pecking order in this same society? No sir; they steer clear from the institution especially when they had bad first experiences.

Someone who rates something takes it seriously and tries to make it work. Not file for divorce at the first opportunity. Comparing PhDs to multiple marriages? You dey whine me If you get a second PhD, do you throw away the first or does you Bsc suddenly become useless? Na wa.

3 & 4. Going to Shiloh is a Nigerian/African way of showing desperation so naturally, the white woman would not do so because it is not her culture. It is the same way desperate Nigerian men flood villages every December for mail order brides or marry pictures; a desperate white man might not do that because it is not his culture. I told you what the desperate white do. Also add dating apps to the mix. You should study your beloved white women more if you do not know that there is a culture of rich daughters going to prestigious universities to snag husbands.

I'm not aware of this culture. I'm sure you're starting to make stuff up. Please if something is a culture, should it not be well known? Provide links talking about this "culture" if you can.

5. You guys are the ones whinning yourselves. Most of you don't even understand the basic culture of the whites. Their women are more inclined to housewifry because they believe to effectively run the home, a wife must stay at home while the husband works. You lots don't also know that your favourite Redpill and 'Men Going Their Own Way' movements are from white men tired of white women who they said are unmarriageable and now embrace marriage tourism.

This culture that only you know again
White women are more inclined to housewifery. Lol. Is that even a word?
In this day and age when you can be canceled for suggesting that women should be housewives? Na really wa.
A simple Google search defines MGTOW as a misogynistic, anti feminist, mostly online movement. Why are you using misogynists to make a case for marriage?

You guys should read up

You should take your own advice.

1Sharon:
Lol you ain't got shit to say

And killing your mother for rituals and waiting for a destiny helper is monkey behavior 🤡🤡

Where are white men in that?

Maybe you can humble yourself and learn from them how to build a functioning society.

You need therapy

ThothHermes:
You need therapy

You need to build your society. The white man hasn't got 2 heads.

Lazy buggers

MadarasBlade:
And yet you're in Japan, why don't you come back and build Africa?

- I am not the one denigrating black or Nigerian women just because I travelled abroad.

- No be me create thread explaining the differences between Nigerian women and overseas women. You don see me put down Nigerian women in comparison to abroad women? Women all over the world are known to be hypergamous. In fact, abroad women are more hypergamous than Nigerian/African women. I was told of an Ivoerien who works for Panasonic who has been unable to save anything substantial because as he is dating a Japanese lady and about to marry her, as he has to provide the same standard of living she would expect from a Japanese man. If na Ivorien woman, you think say him for never save? Would the average Ivorien lady be demanding he spends yanfu-yanfu while being with him in Japan?

- Nigerian nay black men have failed their women. I am ready to die on that hill, any time, any day. https://www.nairaland.com/6643241/nigerian-men-failed-women It is men who develop societies. Black men have been unable to develop their societies so that other men will desire black women. How come no one is rushing Laotian or Bolivian women? Why South Korean or British? Bolivian women no fine ni?

1Sharon:
Peace of mind 🤣

Travel first.

Any fresh off the boat immigrant is usually single. Nigerian men and women. Don't you remember how your comrades were creating threads on how they become incels once they travelled?

Bro I'm not your average Nigerian. Tell that to Nairalanders who have never owned an international passport before.

pocohantas:
White woman has a boyfriend and still wan knack Naija guy.

Naija guy: White women are straight forward. They are open with their sexual expectations. They can just knack you and go. No fake love. #TeamForeignGirls

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Naija girl has a bf and wants to knack Naija guy.

Nairaland guy: Nigerian women are oloshos. Borehole pùssy. I pity who marries these ones. They can fck for indomie and egg.

Another Nairaland guy: Which indomie? Useless girls with itchy pù**y. They must want to knack.

Another Nairaland guy: Then when they are evenings newspapers they will go to Shiloh. Naso one wan trap me enter marriage. I just dey fu** am. Mumu dey wait for ring.

Yet another Nairaland guy: Once I leave Nigeria, nothing fit make me date Naija girl again. Useless entitled oloshos.

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Dearest Naija women, this too shall pass.

We still prefer the white women cos the benefits of being with them surpass being with a Nigerian.

rulin247:
We still prefer the white women cos the benefits of being with them surpass being with a Nigerian.

I swear,only the second passport is enough,even if divorce dey later.no biggie.

LINSAR:
Bro I'm not your average Nigerian. Tell that to Nairalanders who have never owned an international passport before.

Ofcourse. You're also super rich, you have a big dick and you're also very tall 👍🏽

You can be anything online.

Newusername:
I was waiting for your reply.

I appreciate.

BoldBrainz:
Everytime Nigerian girls this, Nigerian girls that! If you don't like them, don't date them! Those of us who can manage their madness will date them like that.

Nice one. "Defending" Nigerian women by being misogynistic to women in general.

'Manage their madness'. Lmao.👍

Eunoiaa:
Nice one. "Defending" Nigerian women by being misogynistic to women in general.

'Manage their madness'. Lmao.👍

You have a very skewered understanding of the concept of "misogyny".

That was me being extremely sarcastic. And even if I wasn't, it is no secret that "every" Nigerian woman has a tinge of momentary madness at any given time..😊.

And to be honest, I can't date a woman who's docile to the point she cowers in my presence, even when I'm wrong. It is idiocy on the part of the woman. Irrespective of our gender advantages, we should be able to scold ourselves, especially in unions.

pocohantas:
White woman has a boyfriend and still wan knack Naija guy.

Naija guy: White women are straight forward. They are open with their sexual expectations. They can just knack you and go. No fake love. #TeamForeignGirls

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Naija girl has a bf and wants to knack Naija guy.

Nairaland guy: Nigerian women are oloshos. Borehole pùssy. I pity who marries these ones. They can fck for indomie and egg.

Another Nairaland guy: Which indomie? Useless girls with itchy pù**y. They must want to knack.

Another Nairaland guy: Then when they are evenings newspapers they will go to Shiloh. Naso one wan trap me enter marriage. I just dey fu** am. Mumu dey wait for ring.

Yet another Nairaland guy: Once I leave Nigeria, nothing fit make me date Naija girl again. Useless entitled oloshos.

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Dearest Naija women, this too shall pass.

God save you say I no fall enter gutter..you are something else I swear. You just narrated everything about Nairaland clout chasers..lolz

BoldBrainz:
You have a very skewered understanding of the concept of "misogyny".

K

Very true.

I hardly read my reply here and that confirm my observation. Like i said given flowers to African lady is waste of space. By the way you could plant the flower and water it for 2 years its all about taken care of it. Never waste your time given African woman a flower. Cheers

1Sharon:
You're pained about what happened in 1998??

And I never knew flowers could last for
6 months??

Lol look at this mumu, Naija women also marry white men but we don't make noise about it, but naija men will be all over the place yapping spittle about glorifying being used for washing plates, washing pants, cooking and cleaning, Naija men are bottom feeders thats why you are proud that they did you a favour by marrying you, you black naija men are a curse to Africa and the whole world, they hate you that's why they kill you in South Africa, you are known all-over the world as drug pushers and fraudsters, your so called president is currently an embarrassment in the world right now, a known drug pusher, you all are a curse to curse itself.

Abi you think say they no dey divorce you slow brain COONS? The witch wey ruin Eboue of Arsenal sotey the nigga dey sleep for homeless shelters for London, no be white woman do am? So many countless videos of Nigerian men sleeping on the streets because they've been used and dumped by white women, you think it's a thing of pride? You all have nothing to offer them, you are just a sex slave that can be used and dumped anytime, they see you naija men as below par dregs that has to be tamed like slaves....nothing more.

Nowhere near as much Nigerian or black men with white or foreign women.

BloomingDale:
This one na just childish rant. Go look at statistics and stop the foolishness.

BW were the least desired.

DonroxyII:
Economy Bro ... A woman Is meant to take care of her people.... So, if you are her man, You will be helping her in helping her home.

Men are meant to respond to the economics of the economy but if you fail to do your job & perform Ya role, That won't stop the opposite gender from asking you for securities... It's African Way ...

If you love the Oyinbos way, then go for the white pvssy bro ....

Some of us like it the African Way ... It Makes us Stronger ..!

Which kind dirty stronger? Go hide

JWtriplex:
This op sha.

I've dated white women before and I can assure you na Dem bill pass


I'll still settle for a Nigerian lady tho

Absolutely delusional no one absolutely no other race of women be it white or Asian or Latina or whatever leeches on their men like African particularly Nigerian women do. It is not even close. Gold digging and leeching is everywhere but it is far worse in Africa especially Nigeria. Only in Nigeria will a girl ask you to fund not just her but her family, entire lineage. The women there are incapable of looking after themselves witbout a man.

Gerrard59:
- I am not the one denigrating black or Nigerian women just because I travelled abroad.

- No be me create thread explaining the differences between Nigerian women and overseas women. You don see me put down Nigerian women in comparison to abroad women? Women all over the world are known to be hypergamous. In fact, abroad women are more hypergamous than Nigerian/African women. I was told of an Ivoerien who works for Panasonic who has been unable to save anything substantial because as he is dating a Japanese lady and about to marry her, as he has to provide the same standard of living she would expect from a Japanese man. If na Ivorien woman, you think say him for never save? Would the average Ivorien lady be demanding he spends yanfu-yanfu while being with him in Japan?

- Nigerian nay black men have failed their women. I am ready to die on that hill, any time, any day. https://www.nairaland.com/6643241/nigerian-men-failed-women It is men who develop societies. Black men have been unable to develop their societies so that other men will desire black women. How come no one is rushing Laotian or Bolivian women? Why South Korean or British? Bolivian women no fine ni?

Nobody is stating that hypergamy, gold diggery or even leeching doesn’t exist abroad but that it is not as bad and that the women abroad are able to look after themselves without help from a man.

mapist:
VERY WRONG move but them better pass whites o or Western women.

Not even remotely. Naija need their men to do everything. Western ones don’t

Adakintroy:
All this write up are just over sabi. Women are women all over the world.

If you go to the huwalulu tribe in somalia. You will see bush women bleeping hunters for bush meat while ignoring the other hunters that can't bring home a good kill. In getho girl lash for indomi and data, while in lekki they lash for shopping mall trips and range rover ride. Its a universal attributes with women but relative. Na ur own you know.

I watch online dating site and see passport bros in america talking about coming to Africa to find decent women. For my mind I just laugh say see mugu. While we here de look to go there to find decent women. Na wetin we de see dem them de see the tin just turn upside down that's all. If you stand am straight, una go see say women na women.

Good de yeye de, na so life be. Start your search early you go eventually find good one. But if he turn out say you no see at all. Chance are you are the yeye person.

Passport Bro is almost entirely Asian or latinas. That’s what western men go for. It’s rarely ever Africa. But it is true women are women everywhere but cultural differences exist.

Sladem05:
Passport Bro is almost entirely Asian or latinas. That’s what western men go for. It’s rarely ever Africa. But it is true women are women everywhere but cultural differences exist.

Cultural difference surpress, it does not alter instinct.

Sladem05:
Which kind dirty stronger? Go hide

That Opinion was written in 2023 and as at this 2026, My Opinion still stands For Me as an African Man ....

If You Love the Oyinbo's way, Go On Then !