This piece appears controversial but I fancy the backlash. It is an interesting conversation I would like to start and probably learn from the views of others. It is a 'cruise article' and shouldn't be taken too seriously. It has no intention to denigrate any tribe or race.
There is a huge contrast between dating a white lady in the United Kingdom and dating a Nigerian lady. The values are always different. Let's be sincere, it is the deepest wish of most Nigerian men fresh in the UK to drink from the other river. It is called 'jungle fever'. The problem is that most men would never admit it. Dating a white lady has its pros and cons. This piece will focus on some of the merits of it.

They are explained below:

(1) Loving:

Love is not really an African thing considering the attributes of love. Love is supposed to be blind, selfless, fair, and unconditional. In Africa, a man is loved based on what he can offer. While this might apply to some white women, many of them are in bed with men who are either engaged in blue-collar jobs or making next to nothing. Money is hardly a big factor. From experience, white women are more loving and sacrificial compared to their black counterparts. The only problem is finding the one who is ready to love you and not use you for pleasure.

(2) More Straightforward:

White women are more open about their sexual interests compared to their Nigerian counterparts. They don't fake it. If it is genuine love, you will be informed. If it is lust, you will be told from the onset. In fact, she might tell you she has a boyfriend but wouldn't mind giving you some rounds in the ring like a boxer. If it is love, she gives you her all, but if she notices any hanky-panky, you are in soup. Apologies or constant pleas for forgiveness are often seen as emotional blackmail/manipulation.

(3) Benefits:

Before job sponsorship visas became popular in the UK, the pioneers of Japa who settled in London survived on spousal visas. To date, they are not big on the tier 2 visa. They mixed with locals, had kids with them, and secured their stay. Most Nigerian women wouldn't even save your number on WhatsApp if they get the hint that your visa is about to expire.

(4) Exposure:

If you are tired of the norms and values of a Nigerian relationship, and you fancy the culture shock, crossing to the other side of the street is for you. You will be exposed to foreign meals, strange conversations, new behavioural patterns, accents, dressing, social life, and the rest. This will widen your scope of life and make you more liberal.

(5) Cost-effective:

One thing about white ladies is that they don't 'bill'. This is because they live in a society that doesn't encourage such behaviour which is almost traditional in Nigeria. Most times, when a relationship crashes in Nigeria, the hurt is double for men. The heart breaks and the bank account sheds some significant weight too. The woman easily recruits her bestie for the vacant post and moves on.

(6) Sweetness:

Many veterans I have met in the UK believe that foreign wine is sweeter than palm wine. Some have gone as far as giving some biological and physiological explanations to back up their views. It is a hard one, but one thing is clear, those on the other wing are crazier and more exploratory.

(7) Length:

In the 21st century, you must have realized that a burning candle can even last longer than a Nigerian relationship. This is why most Nigerian women never post their partners on social media. This makes it easy to switch on to the next. Relationships with white women are longer. They are more intentional about love. If you live in the UK, you might realize that your 21-year-old colleague has been dating her boyfriend for the past 5 years. Also, they never rush into marriage.

( Fairytale vibe:

If you are the type who loves to show off on social media, an interracial relationship is ideal for you. It is amusing to people and it creates so much buzz. People create viral content out of this and gain massive followers on social media telling their stories. Imagine you and your Oyinbo babe dancing or vibing to the latest video by Davido and posting it on Instagram. It is so unreal and fascinating. This is even different from the joy of birthing Ramsey Nouah, Van Vicker, or Lilian Bach as mixed children.

In the end, it all bores down to taste and individual preferences. Do what works for you. There are many routes to the marketplace. It is advisable for people to stick to their kind for the purpose of understanding and peaceful coexistence.

(2) More Straightforward:
White women are more open about their sexual interests compared to their Nigerian counterparts. They don't fake it. If it is genuine love, you will be informed. If it is lust, you will be told from the onset. In fact, she might tell you she has a boyfriend but wouldn't mind giving you some rounds in the ring like a boxer.

pocohantas:


White woman has a boyfriend and still wan knack Naija guy.

Naija guy: White women are straight forward. They are open with their sexual expectations. They can just knack you and go. No fake love. #TeamForeignGirls

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Naija girl has a bf and wants to knack Naija guy.

Naija guy: Nigerian women are oloshos. Borehole pùssy. I pity who marries these ones. They can fck for indomie and egg.

Another Naija guy: Which indomie? Useless girls with itchy pù**y. They must want to knack.

Another Naija guy: Then when they are evenings newspapers they will go to Shiloh. Naso one wan trap me enter marriage. I just dey fu** am. Mumu dey wait for ring.

Yet another Naija guy: Once I leave Nigeria, nothing fit make me date Naija girl again. Useless entitled oloshos.

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Dearest Naija women, this too shall pass.

Amen!!!

Persephone1:
Amen!!!

pocohantas:


It is a lot to take in from your own men. I saw a post on NotUrTypicalWoman. She said the myth that black men are the most desired was started by black men and burtressed by black women. But black men would never waste a minute to remind black women that they are gorilla looking and the very least desired. Whereas even the desire they claim foreign women have for them is mostly out of lust/fetish and when it isn't that, these foreign women target the rich athletes, never next door guys. Same basis they deride black women for (sex objects and gold digging).

Anything goes as long it isn't BLACK.

pocohantas:


White woman has a boyfriend and still wan knack Naija guy.

Naija guy: White women are straight forward. They are open with their sexual expectations. They can just knack you and go. No fake love. #TeamForeignGirls

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Naija girl has a bf and wants to knack Naija guy.

Nairaland guy: Nigerian women are oloshos. Borehole pùssy. I pity who marries these ones. They can fck for indomie and egg.

Another Nairaland guy: Which indomie? Useless girls with itchy pù**y. They must want to knack.

Another Nairaland guy: Then when they are evenings newspapers they will go to Shiloh. Naso one wan trap me enter marriage. I just dey fu** am. Mumu dey wait for ring.

Yet another Nairaland guy: Once I leave Nigeria, nothing fit make me date Naija girl again. Useless entitled oloshos.

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Dearest Naija women, this too shall pass.

Persephone1:
Lol it's the way they keep up that narrative despite the fact that everyone knows what they are really desired for and how much they have to sacrifice or proof themselves worthy before they get a long term commitment.
Black men have inferiority complex it is why they always put their women down for some sort of superiority they lack and seek validation from the lowest people of other races.
A black man will say negative things to his wife but will complement random white woman who is no where near his black wife. Little wonder they needed no war to be colonized. Just mirror, guns and money blacks are already in slave trade selling their own. It's crazy, I'm not surprised though.

The craziest is, they project the narrative no one wants black women to discourage their women from dumping them or even think they have choices out there. The same fear technique they use on single moms, divorcees and abused wives. I pray black women work on migrating more and doing things out of norms then they will know how rich they are.

pocohantas:


Na why I no dey answer them again.

If e sure them, they should use their faces for yahoo na.

Why are they using white men pictures?

Make white woman see oily face with receding hairline. She go block im papa join.

Yenyen
- How I made egusi soup for my white gf.
- My white gf tries Nigerian jollof.
- How my white gf poos.
- My gf's father washes his car with me.

Come Naija, tell same man to help you off gas for 1 second, e go say you wan EMASCULATE am.

You and your ways
with words ehn . My stomach ooo

Valid points! If they are so wanted and desired they should be able to use their pictures for their cyber crimes nah . The only time their face matters is when a fossil needs a black man to renew blood . Then his entire generation and community will rejoice and celebrate him for doing something no one has ever achieved (hooking up with a decomposing white baby whale) God forgive me!

pocohantas:


White woman has a boyfriend and still wan knack Naija guy.

Naija guy: White women are straight forward. They are open with their sexual expectations. They can just knack you and go. No fake love. #TeamForeignGirls

---

Naija girl has a bf and wants to knack Naija guy.

Nairaland guy: Nigerian women are oloshos. Borehole pùssy. I pity who marries these ones. They can fck for indomie and egg.

Another Nairaland guy: Which indomie? Useless girls with itchy pù**y. They must want to knack.

Another Nairaland guy: Then when they are evenings newspapers they will go to Shiloh. Naso one wan trap me enter marriage. I just dey fu** am. Mumu dey wait for ring.

Yet another Nairaland guy: Once I leave Nigeria, nothing fit make me date Naija girl again. Useless entitled oloshos.

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Dearest Naija women, this too shall pass.

gaius01:
Arrrrrrrh


I won't be surprised if OP has been charmed by one of this white ladies.

For your information Sir, WOMEN ARE THE SAME IRRESPECTIVE OF THIER RACE Their physiology are the same.

In every good people there exist bad omen, be aware ! No group of race is immune to this because we all are different !

gaius01:
Arrrrrrrh
I won't be surprised if OP has been charmed by one of this white ladies.
For your information Sir, WOMEN ARE THE SAME IRRESPECTIVE OF THIER RACE Their physiology are the same.
In every good people there exist bad omen, be aware ! No group of race is immune to this because we all are different !

pocohantas:




Make white woman see oily face with receding hairline. She go block im papa join.

Persephone1:
You and your ways with words ehn . My stomach ooo

Valid points! If they are so wanted and desired they should be able to use their pictures for their cyber crimes nah . The only time their face matters is when a fossil needs a black man to renew blood . Then his entire generation and community will rejoice and celebrate him for doing something no one has ever achieved (hooking up with a decomposing white baby whale) God forgive me!

Omoluabi16:
plx Follow peace with all MEN and stop this violence. 😂😂

pocohantas:


White woman has a boyfriend and still wan knack Naija guy.

Naija guy: White women are straight forward. They are open with their sexual expectations. They can just knack you and go. No fake love. #TeamForeignGirls

---

Naija girl has a bf and wants to knack Naija guy.

Nairaland guy: Nigerian women are oloshos. Borehole pùssy. I pity who marries these ones. They can fck for indomie and egg.

Another Nairaland guy: Which indomie? Useless girls with itchy pù**y. They must want to knack.

Another Nairaland guy: Then when they are evenings newspapers they will go to Shiloh. Naso one wan trap me enter marriage. I just dey fu** am. Mumu dey wait for ring.

Yet another Nairaland guy: Once I leave Nigeria, nothing fit make me date Naija girl again. Useless entitled oloshos.

---

Dearest Naija women, this too shall pass.

pocohantas:


It is a lot to take in from your own men. I saw a post on NotUrTypicalWoman. She said the myth that black men are the most desired was started by black men and butressed by black women. But black men would never waste a minute to remind black women that they are gorilla looking and the very least desired. Whereas even the desire they claim foreign women have for them is mostly out of lust/fetish and when it isn't that, these foreign women target the rich athletes, never next door guys. Same basis they deride black women for (sex objects and gold digging).

Anything goes as long it isn't BLACK.

pocohantas:


White woman has a boyfriend and still wan knack Naija guy.

Naija guy: White women are straight forward. They are open with their sexual expectations. They can just knack you and go. No fake love. #TeamForeignGirls

---

Naija girl has a bf and wants to knack Naija guy.

Nairaland guy: Nigerian women are oloshos. Borehole pùssy. I pity who marries these ones. They can fck for indomie and egg.

Another Nairaland guy: Which indomie? Useless girls with itchy pù**y. They must want to knack.

Another Nairaland guy: Then when they are evenings newspapers they will go to Shiloh. Naso one wan trap me enter marriage. I just dey fu** am. Mumu dey wait for ring.

Yet another Nairaland guy: Once I leave Nigeria, nothing fit make me date Naija girl again. Useless entitled oloshos.

---

Dearest Naija women, this too shall pass.

Persephone1:
Lol it's the way they keep up that narrative despite the fact that everyone knows what they are really desired for and how much they have to sacrifice or proof themselves worthy before they get a long term commitment.
Black men have inferiority complex it is why they always put their women down for some sort of superiority they lack and seek validation from the lowest people of other races.
A black man will say negative things to his wife but will complement random white woman who is no where near his black wife. Little wonder they needed no war to be colonized. Just mirror, guns and money blacks are already in slave trade selling their own. It's crazy, I'm not surprised though.

The craziest is, they project the narrative no one wants black women to discourage their women from dumping them or even think they have choices out there. The same fear technique they use on single moms, divorcees and abused wives. I pray black women work on migrating more and doing things out of norms then they will know how rich they are.

Say something nice to a white gurl she is most likely to calm down & return the favor BUT mistakenly
compliment a naija gurl , shakara will start nd from there billing fit start as per "soup wey sweet naa money kill am "