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Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by Gamesmart: 5:13am On Oct 05, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Yes, the moment you start feeling your husband cannot have female friends and hang out with them, you should not be willing to stay in the relationship. You have pretty much checked out and only looking for a reason to completely exit the situation. Just end it! The moment you refuse to hire a woman as a househelp or nanny because she is quite hot, her body is banging and you worry your husband might end up fancying her and temptation might lead to them having sex so you decide to hire the ugly girl or older past-it woman, you should not be willing to stay in the relationship. You have pretty much checked out and only looking for a reason to completely exit the situation. Just end it! 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by Nextt: 5:16am On Oct 05, 2023 |
Many years ago, a man killed his wife and himself when he discovered that none of his kids belonged to him. I just read that a man beheaded his wife after he discovered that none of all his children belongs to him. The reason he cited for killing her is that she often came to his place of work to embarrass him for child support knowing full well none of the children was fathered by him. There are so many horror storries that attend paternity fraud. My conclusion: save yourself heartache and high blood pressure by performing DNA test on your kids only IF you suspect foul play. Do you now see why it is extremely necessary to seek the face of God before you marry that God may direct your steps to a peaceful and lasting marital relationship filled with mutual trust? |
Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by AngelDo: 5:18am On Oct 05, 2023 |
Why all these fears and drama about DNA ... Families should easily do it if they want....abeg |
Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by Vecta5: 5:23am On Oct 05, 2023 |
Quality20: So what if their father pops up in future to claim his kid(s) who will be embarrassed then? If there is an atom of doubt, kindly go and do your DNA test 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by frozen70(f): 5:46am On Oct 05, 2023 |
pradoyeep: For a father to think of doing a secret DNA test with out the consent or wife knowledge Shows that, the relationship of that union has not been stable both with love and respect If you want to do a DNA test inform the mother and she has to be aware She will have no right to insist on saying no to it But if it comes out with a positive news that the child is yours that means the child is yours Forever and ever both of you will keep having trust problems for ever suspecting her |
Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by Jewessgratitud3: 6:00am On Oct 05, 2023 |
The same you men that go about patronizing olosho will come here condemning them. Without you guys there won't be any olosho so you made them therefore deal with it when you marry one. Any man who patronized an olosho during his single days must marry olosho. No two ways about it because like begat like. It's only someone who married an olosho that will be worried about his childs parternity. Even as a woman, if you know yourself no need to worry if the man says he's going to do a parternity test either secretly or openly. Let him do it. Na him money go waste. Ndi Uch.u 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by Gamesmart: 6:01am On Oct 05, 2023 |
Nextt: While I don't advocate violence in these kind of cases of paternity fraud, I would make exception for this story. That was a good kill! He was justified. 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by Gamesmart: 6:03am On Oct 05, 2023 |
frozen70: Why does a man need to inform her or she needs to be aware? 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by Gamesmart: 6:07am On Oct 05, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3: The Oloshos were raaaped? They could not say no to the request/patronising of the men? It is never you women's fault even when you do wrong or do things out of your own free will, abi? You are NEVER accountable for your actions? It is always men's fault? Selfish beings! 4 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by Nobody: 6:43am On Oct 05, 2023 |
What exist in marriage is Trust not love. When you feel there's a breach of Trust, you have a right to clear your conscience. There's nothing wrong with that provided you don't harm the baby 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by Gamesmart: 6:49am On Oct 05, 2023 |
Imagine this slut, Uzoamaka Ohiri, too refuses to take accountability and instead tries to blame the man. https://www.premiumtimesng.com/entertainment/naija-fashion/483675-i-never-knew-my-sons-paternity-until-dna-was-conducted-nedus-ex-wife.html How can the slut claim she never knew the child was not the man's? You did not know you were sleeping with more than one man during the time you got pregnant? You did not know if you are opening your legs to more than one man at a time, any of them can be the father when you get pregnant, slut? Pure lack of accountability. There is no woman who has engaged in paternity fraud that does not know she was potentially being fraudulent. End of! She then calls him an "insecure man" for doing the paternity test on the bastard she brought into his house for him to raise. Then she tries and turn the tables around on him by claiming emotional abuse and that she is the "victim". A totally selfish gender that hates taking accountability. 4 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by advanceDNA: 7:07am On Oct 05, 2023 |
Kobicove: Which culture will make another person's blood become ur own?? E be like u seff wan collect ojuelegba thunder.. 4 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by kayfx2(m): 7:11am On Oct 05, 2023 |
Jovialjune1:\ Dey play ..you hear 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by Jewessgratitud3: 7:16am On Oct 05, 2023 |
Gamesmart: They are not being raped but you men keep going after them. If they don't get patronage, theyll go out of biz and look for something else to do but no you will always look for them even in their hiding and that is why they no longer stand at the roadside but do it from the comfort of their holes ( homes) and still sell. Hypocrites everywhere. |
Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by Gamesmart: 7:19am On Oct 05, 2023 |
VinnyBaba: Things are so bad now that men think a woman who has slept with about 19 different men is modest. Imagine she is 28 at time of marriage and started having sex at 18, so it is almost 2 different men a year she was 4uucking? During our mothers' times, being with 2 different men before you married already would have qualified for your morals to be seen as suspicious. Then we had this feminism "progress" of women being loose. Hoeflation is real o! 5 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by rajiedreez: 7:20am On Oct 05, 2023 |
Quality20: Their mothers are allowed to embarrass the man that wants to suffer to provide for their needs I guess |
Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by Kobicove(m): 7:20am On Oct 05, 2023 |
advanceDNA: In some cultures any child born under a man's roof automatically become his, try and read wide and update yourself! |
Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by Gamesmart: 7:21am On Oct 05, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3: What about if the women always said "No", will there be any olosho? Accountability is kryptonite to women. Selfish beings! 4 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by realtyson: 7:29am On Oct 05, 2023 |
Quality20:After seeing this comment, i will definitely do a DNA test 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by frozen70(f): 7:30am On Oct 05, 2023 |
Gamesmart: Why does a man need a DNA in the first place |
Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by advanceDNA: 7:31am On Oct 05, 2023 |
Kobicove: I asked u...which culture will make another person's blood turn to ur own.....?? Ur wife cheated and u are talking about culture... Did I say I want another man's child as my own Who wants another man's child when he's not impotent.... Fvck culture 4 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by PaZwoD: 7:32am On Oct 05, 2023 |
pradoyeep: The Woman too should proceed to do her own Secret Maternity test on her kids. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by Jewessgratitud3: 7:34am On Oct 05, 2023 |
Gamesmart: Abeg drop this weak line of defence. You men can never stop and that is why you'll end up paying for your actions in the future. Who dey suffer am Las las? No be men full everywhere dey agitate for parternity test up and down? LoL... You people think you're doing me? You're doing yourselves. Na una go still cry us a river when the time comes. |
Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by advanceDNA: 7:37am On Oct 05, 2023 |
frozen70: because only women get pregnant and the vagina is programmed to receive any kind of male penis and sperm.....and sadly the practice of fvcking multiple partners is now a norm... love or no love ...married or no married... 4 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by addictiv(m): 7:38am On Oct 05, 2023 |
DNA should be necessary after birth. And if the test shows the child is not yours, do a test on the mum to be sure the child is hers before concluding. Men should not be emotionally blackmailed when they say want DNA test. That alone looks like an indication of a guilt on the side of the woman. If she's truly sure of herself, she won't bother. 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by Gamesmart: 7:39am On Oct 05, 2023 |
frozen70: I asked you a question based on your argument, you are asking me a different question? My friend, tell us why you think a man need to inform her or she needs to be aware. 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by Gamesmart: 7:44am On Oct 05, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3: Weak defence line that you, like almost all women, hate to take accountability for your choices and free-will actions but instead like to blame men for these? Who dey suffer las las? WOMEN! Na una dey dey miserable and never get that thing you have dreamed about since you were a little girl: Your dream man, who would cherish you and live with you forever. We just want sex with women we find attractive. Many of us get that. Na una dey dey dumped when you are older and lost your looks, na una dey cry me a river and on anti-depressants. 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by Jewessgratitud3: 7:53am On Oct 05, 2023 |
Gamesmart: Try harder bro. You lost on this one. Argue intelligently next time cos all you said here about the women is not a universal truth, happens to one out of a 100 but my submissions are very very factual and universal cos it is you mens reality home and abroad. Everyday DNA this DNA that and men killing themselves or their spouses after discovering they're not the real father's, all over social media. So? Try again. |
Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by advanceDNA: 7:55am On Oct 05, 2023 |
Gamesmart: Baba rest joor....them no dey argue too much with person wey dey yarn opata....Woman stand for junction dey advertise prostitutión .still come dey blame man wey she entice to pay for her goods.... no be juju be that..?? How Coca cola go dey blame buyers for buying the goods they sent into the market?? Baba... Women no like take responsibility for their actions..na the same reason dem no dey like pay bills... 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by Gamesmart: 7:58am On Oct 05, 2023 |
advanceDNA: Abi o. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by Jewessgratitud3: 8:02am On Oct 05, 2023 |
advanceDNA: And when they say men are dumb/simp, you'll wail. Now you're trying to make us understand that men don't have the will power to refuse evil or something detrimental to their lives? That a woman can offer them poison and they'll gladly accept even with their hard earned money? Smh... No be mumu be that? You just ended up telling us how loose and indiciplined men are and why they can never stop having DNA issues. |
Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by Gamesmart: 8:03am On Oct 05, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3: When your IQ meets minimum threshold, you will realise when someone says "like almost all women", he does not propose a "universal truth". Simple logic! Too much emotions and selfishness ends up leading to you lacking logical reasoning. By the way, less than 1% of children are being raised as paternity fraud. You have more chance of getting breast cancer than a man suffering paternity fraud. 1 Like |
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