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It should be a crime not to do DNA test. Even if the child looks exactly like you, please do DNA test.

If you give your wife 20k cash, I believe she will count it in your presence to confirm its actually complete. So why does your wife count the money? Does she not trust you??

I pray that someday, scientists will come up with a method to do DNA test once a woman becomes pregnant, so that men will not spend money on Antenatal for another man's child.

Fraud is bad, but the worst type of fraud is paternity fraud.

#sayNOtopaternityfraud

Shalom

Jewessgratitud3:
And when they say men are dumb/simp, you'll wail. Now you're trying to make us understand that men don't have the will power to refuse evil or something detrimental to their lives? That a woman can offer them poison and they'll gladly accept even with their hard earned money? Smh... No be mumu be that?

You just ended up telling us how loose and indiciplined men are and why they can never stop having DNA issues.

Oloshoism is not detrimental to women's lives in your own view?

Now I know what you are like.

So women don't "have the will power to refuse evil or something detrimental to their lives" like oloshoism?

And you refuse to hold them accountable for this because you are a selfish being, right?

Always the men's fault for what women do and the choices they make.

Kobojunkie:
That is it! Once you begin to tamper with trust, you might as well end the relationship there and then.

This is the same person who is saying it is okay for women to check their partner's phone because "if he owns it, then it is hers".

She did not harp about "tampering with trust" then or it should be the "end of the relationship".

She believed the woman should be free to check his phone. But it is a problem for a man to check if his own child is really his.

Selfish beings women are. They only argue to favour their interests.

https://www.nairaland.com/1039872/too-jealous#12082011

Kobojunkie:
You lost me when you claimed that simply having access for knowing sake equates to snooping and insecurity. I don't think like that when it comes to what I believe belongs to me, and what belongs also to my spouse, so I cannot help you. That is like a woman who believes she is stealing when she goes to get money from her husband's wallet to go do grocery shopping or anything. Either you have confidence that it is yours and you have a right to take it and build a relationship where it is OK to get money from your spouses wallet, or you continue to give yourself a complex by thinking negative thoughts like that when you really don't need to, in your own home.

That there are those who snoop does not then mean then that everyone, who accesses data on their spouse, does it with the intention of snooping. If you believe something is yours, you don't snoop when you access it. IT IS YOURS! There are millions of people out there in marriages with no boundaries and these are happy people with no care of what to hide or not hide next.

If you thinking throwing them under the bus for not seeing this as you do means you are better than they are speaks volumes of the delusion you live with, not them. Not everyone has energy to hide things from those they are married to . . some don't even hide things from their kids. That you cannot handle that, is not their problem.

Unbelievable!!!

You can argue your partner's phone is yours and you can check it anytime you like but the child bearing your name is not yours? And you should not be able to check it anytime?

crestedaguiyi:
SIMPle men like you are a problem to other men.

I'm telling you bro and we have them in large numbers,that's the problem.

Jewessgratitud3:
And when they say men are dumb/simp, you'll wail. Now you're trying to make us understand that men don't have the will power to refuse evil or something detrimental to their lives? That a woman can offer them poison and they'll gladly accept even with their hard earned money? Smh... No be mumu be that?

You just ended up telling us how loose and indiciplined men are and why they can never stop having DNA issues.

U can draw any conclusion that makes u sleep well at night from my comment...... That's ur cup of tea....... I am not going into a argue with someone who blames the victim of paternity fraud....it's one thing to fvck around, it's a different thing to pin Mr A's child on Mr B.

When it happens to ur sons or brothers.... Blame them very well for their wife's infidelity and the pinning of another man's child on them.....
.then face their wife, hug her very well and tell her it's not her fault at all.. .because her decision to fvck around is not her own but because the men that fvck her were too weak to say no .....

If you have the opportunity to do a DNA please don’t hesitate, these women are not predictable

AlphaHakimi:
It should be a crime not to do DNA test. Even if the child looks exactly like you, please do DNA test.

If you give your wife 20k cash, I believe she will count it in your presence to confirm its actually complete. So why does your wife count the money? Does she not trust you??

I pray that someday, scientists will come up with a method to do DNA test once a woman becomes pregnant, so that men will not spend money on Antenatal for another man's child.

If you give ur wife money won't she count it?? Hmmm!!.....Baba...no let sense kill you oooo

advanceDNA:
U can draw any conclusion that makes u sleep well at night from my comment...... That's ur cup of tea....... I am not going into a argue with someone who blames the victim of paternity fraud....it's one thing to fvck around, it's a different thing to pin Mr A's child on Mr B.

When it happens to ur sons or brothers.... Blame them very well for their wife's infidelity and the pinning of another man's child on them.....
.then face their wife, hug her very well and tell her it's not her fault at all.. .because her decision to fvck around is not her own but because the men that fvck her were too weak to say no .....

Abi o!

If you want to be a slut, no problem, be.

The real wahala comes when you are daft enough to get pregnant, decide to keep it and then try to allocate to the wrong father.

Don't mind the severely selfish being.

Nonexisting1:
No he is not, even simps will reject him. A simp will ask questions but end up doing nothing because of the "love" for his wife and the understanding that "it can happen to anybody". The nigga you quoted has a problem that is way beyond simping.

Lol guy you are so funny. I dun laf fall for ground, una no go kill person for this nairaland

pricemond1:
As for me ooo

Even before bringing the child home, I will go and do the DNA 🧬 in another hospital, if the child is mine, I will come back to the hospital to pick you and the child. And if reverse is the case, am going home from the DNA centre.
The father of your child will come and discharge you.

Alot of men have died because of the sudden shock of raising another man's child for decades.

They no dey right cheating wife for head, so before you shock me, na me go first electrocute you.

Lolzzzz kai!

Gamesmart:
Weak defence line that you, like almost all women, hate to take accountability for your choices and free-will actions but instead like to blame men for these?

Who dey suffer las las?

WOMEN!

Na una dey dey miserable and never get that thing you have dreamed about since you were a little girl: Your dream man, who would cherish you and live with you forever.

We just want sex with women we find attractive. Many of us get that.

Na una dey dey dumped when you are older and lost your looks, na una dey cry me a river and on anti-depressants.

Gamesmart baba I hail o. I commend how you on how you just dey give this bitches gbas gbos e dey sweet me die.

You are truly a redpilled nigga. A nigga most real niggas should befriend.

pradoyeep:
A virtuous, faithful and loving wife doesn't deserve DNA verification, except for official reasons.
Now as a man, is it right to secretly do DNA test on your kids, even when there are no traces of cheating?

except for official reasons.
Now as a man, is it right to secretly do DNA test on your kids

For whatever reason as long as dna must be done.

Badmashii:
Gamesmart baba I hail o. I commend how you on how you just dey give this bitches gbas gbos e dey sweet me die.

You are truly a redpilled nigga. A nigga most real niggas should befriend.

Thanks, bruv.

I shall keep holding them accountable, giving them reality & facts and crushing their constructed delusions. Not here to pamper their ego or consider their fragile feelings.

pradoyeep:
A virtuous, faithful and loving wife doesn't deserve DNA verification, except for official reasons.
Now as a man, is it right to secretly do DNA test on your kids, even when there are no traces of cheating?

If the husband has an aorta of doubt about the paternity of his child, its ok if he checks .... atleast, before he gets to old age being given the shocker of his life ...

Kobicove:
What he said is true according to some cultures

Those cultures are dumb and will easily lead to self-destruction. It is human nature to be guided by cost-benefit and not right-wrong. If a woman knows that she can have multiple partners secretly and openly have a single partner then she can maximize her net benefits in terms of wealth while paying no allegiance to any of the men in her life. This will make her less of a helper and more of a businesswoman and this will easily destroy the home, lead to more fatherless and delinquent children which would in turn lead to the annihilation of the society. This the phenomenon being weaponized against blacks in the US. At the rate at which they are going they will self-destruct.

Do women not cheat in secret? So asking mumu question?

Do women not cheat in secret? Why must she know about your plans for DNA?

Gamesmart:
She can shove her anger up her ass!

Absolutely.....

pradoyeep:
A virtuous, faithful and loving wife doesn't deserve DNA verification, except for official reasons.
Now as a man, is it right to secretly do DNA test on your kids, even when there are no traces of cheating?

Trust nobody....besides, the test is just a mere information

Kobojunkie:
That is it! Once you begin to tamper with trust, you might as well end the relationship there and then.

You like to present yourself as logical but here you are displaying your true female nature of being led by emotions. A secret DNA test does not tamper with trust because it is, well, secret, meaning the wife would not be aware. If the test points to no issues then the man can rest easy, if not he can end things. There should only be a problem if the child does not belong to the father.

This is the logical pattern to follow, but are you logical? Your comment I quoted would suggest not

Sleekfingers:
I did DNA for my 2 sons, without telling my wife. But she later found out. She was angry, saying all kinda stuffs. I didn't even say a word. Planning to do for my daughter too.
Because Nigeria is the headquarter of paternity fraud. So my advice to any sensible Nigerian is to do DNA oooo.

That's extremely sloppy of you. She shouldn't have had any inkling of your actions since the children are yours.

Kobojunkie:
Well, once a DNA test is necessary to vefying trust it means the relationship itself lacked trust. How many people are willing to remain in a relationship where trust has been proven by the need for DNA verification to lack?

So the moment you start thinking you need to DNA test the kids, it means your have near no trust in the relationship yourself and need the DNA verification to convince you to have some in the relationship. Such a man has pretty much checked and is only looking for a reason to completely exit the situation. Even if the tests prove no unfaithfulness, the man who once has no trust left would need to do work in order to revamp his interest in said relationship.

Why are you so passionate against DNA test confirmation? You think a man isn't entitled to know he's not fetching water into a basket? You're beginning to sound suspicious

Belafonte:
■ Why are you so passionate against DNA test confirmation? You think a man isn't entitled to know he's not fetching water into a basket? You're beginning to sound suspicious

I have never been against DNA testing. Not once have I suggested not doing DNA tests on your kids.

Young man, I suggest you deal with your emotional baggage which many of you on these threads here seem to be carrying a lot of before you come back thinking to engage anyone in sensible conversations, and this is for your own mental good.

Jewessgratitud3:
The same you men that go about patronizing olosho will come here condemning them. Without you guys there won't be any olosho so you made them therefore deal with it when you marry one. Any man who patronized an olosho during his single days must marry olosho. No two ways about it because like begat like.

It's only someone who married an olosho that will be worried about his childs parternity. Even as a woman, if you know yourself no need to worry if the man says he's going to do a parternity test either secretly or openly. Let him do it. Na him money go waste. Ndi Uch.u

Nigerian men are now well aware of the promiscuity of Nigerian wives and this are carrying out paternity tests in drives. I would advise you not to carry another mas child and give your husband. Even if you won't be embarrassed consider the mental health of your children. A word is enough for the wise

Kobicove:
In some cultures any child born under a man's roof automatically become his, try and read wide and update yourself!

There are cultures that kill albinos and there are cultures that give widows their husband's corpse water to drink. Just because something is cultural doesn't mean it cabot be corrected or updated

frozen70:
Why does a man need a DNA in the first place

To confirm he's not being defrauded and raising a bâstard. Super simple logic really, only a fraud would not understand this

Belafonte:
■ You are not against DNA testing but you're chatting irrelevancies about lack of trust and ending of relationships based on unverified trust. Piss one place make your piss foam. How will a secret be known if the holder of the secret doesn't reveal it knowingly or unknowingly?

Go deal with those emotional baggages of yours somewhere else abeg!

Belafonte:
Nigerian men are now well aware of the promiscuity of Nigerian wives and this are carrying out paternity tests in drives. I would advise you not to carry another mas child and give your husband. Even if you won't be embarrassed consider the mental health of your children. A word is enough for the wise

You shouldn't be worried about me because I'm not a public toilet, rather you should be worried about your wife cos you're not sure of her past.

Gamesmart:
While I don't advocate violence in these kind of cases of paternity fraud, I would make exception for this story.

That was a good kill! He was justified.

The woman did overstep the boundaries of inhumanity but NOTHING justifies lawless killing. Nothing. Otherwise, this world would teem with beasts that call themselves intelligent species with murderous intentions at the slightest provocation.

ISIS, Al- Qa'Ida, Boko Haram, Cultists, Taliban, Unknown Gunmen, Iswap, etc...all have this warped idea of taking human lives at will if it suits their sense of justification...and on many occasions - needlessly.

Lawless killing is never justified. The man would have simply initiated legal action against her. Aren't you sick of all the bloodshed in the world? I am.

Nextt:
The woman did overstep the boundaries of inhumanity but NOTHING justifies lawless killing. Nothing. Otherwise, this world would teem with beasts that call themselves intelligent species with murderous intentions at the slightest provocation.

ISIS, Al- Qa'Ida, Boko Haram, Cultists, Taliban, Unknown Gunmen, Iswap, etc...all have this warped idea of taking human lives at will if it suits their sense of justification...and on many occasions - needlessly.

Lawless killing is never justified. The man would have simply initiated legal action against her. Aren't you sick of all the bloodshed in the world? I am.

Nonsense!

There are some evil that justifies killing.

Not only was she aware one kid was not his. She was aware all the kids were not his. Yet, she was making him pay for all them.

One paternity fraud is deeply ruthless and painful enough to 4uck the man up forever. To now make it all the kids he thought were his kids in life?

To top it off, she was ruthless to the point she even tried to destroy him by going to his place of work to embarrass him for money he should not be paying for 4ucking other men. She went there to make him pay for kids she knew were not his.

She is a sadistic, wicked and ruthless psychopath like Saddam, that deserves to die like Saddam.

She had no mercy, he should have no mercy! She deserved to die and the courts would not even have punished her.