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Hdanny:
Let me start with this, am not the relationship type, have never been committed to any girl all my life. I don’t go for anything under skirt cause am too selective when it comes to Girls.

I met this girl in Port harcourt at a friends place in early June, she is a single mother and she seems to be a very good and jovial person, we got connected immediately and we had sex the same day, ever since then our sex scenes been great, she do a-lot of things for me, like house cleaning, cooking, doing my laundry and stuffs even when she’s not been told. I told her the first day that I don’t base here and I might travel back to Lagos where I came from very soon, she said it’s fine.

Fast forward to the day I was about leaving, she started begging me to take her along that she needs to take her son to Lagos where her ex boyfriend parents live for the boy to resume school, the ex is not in Nigeria. I felt pity for the poor boy and I told her it’s okay, I gave her money to go take the boy from her mom so we can go Lagos together. I made it known to her that I won’t be responsible for her housing and feeding cause am going back to go hustle. We left Port Harcourt together the next day.

Getting to Lagos, she started lamenting that she hasn’t eaten that I should please send her some money and should try to get her a job, I reminded her of what I told her the day we were leaving, don’t try putting your burden on me here in Lagos. Luckily for her I got her a job close to my work place, just for her to use that in taking care of herself. She started the work the next day and we started seeing again and having sex couple of time at my place, all these time I didn’t promise her marriage or whatsoever. Now here is the problem.


Anytime we have misunderstanding at my work place, before I say one she don talk two even when I tell her to stop she still continue talking, when it happens like that I just get up and find my way out but she never allowed me to go out, she would run after me and lock the door then remove the key, before I know it I would hit her and she won’t even waste time hitting me back, have never hit woman all my life but I can’t just help it, all these happened at my work place most of the time, once we settled she would go on her kneels and start begging me to forgive her for hitting me, it happens over and over again, our last fight was bloody, I had to call it quit few days ago before anything bad happen. She cried and begged me that it won’t happen again but I made her understand that it is not healthy if we continue like this.


Have been by myself these past few days, I must confess I miss her so much, she cook for me and bring to my office everyday, I miss our nights conversations so much, her soft touch on me and the rest. I called her two days ago to come around which she did, I made her sleep at my place, we talked through the night and we ended up having sex and she asked if I was okay with it or if I want more that she knows I miss her so much, I can’t even deny that cause it’s boldly written all over me. She left very early in the morning at 6am. I noticed the feelings wasn’t there anymore, I understand how she feels cause I had to make her leave my place that day we broke up even though she never wanted to leave.

I miss everything about her even though I don’t see any future in us. I feel something is not right, keeping her and still having sex while we already broke up. Should I just let her go or still keep up with her?

Safe pity will kill and destroy your life if you don’t leave her because you don’t love her just safe pity and sex .

Hdanny:
Let me start with this, am not the relationship type, have never been committed to any girl all my life. I don’t go for anything under skirt cause am too selective when it comes to Girls.

I met this girl in Port harcourt at a friends place in early June, she is a single mother and she seems to be a very good and jovial person, we got connected immediately and we had sex the same day, ever since then our sex scenes been great, she do a-lot of things for me, like house cleaning, cooking, doing my laundry and stuffs even when she’s not been told. I told her the first day that I don’t base here and I might travel back to Lagos where I came from very soon, she said it’s fine.

Fast forward to the day I was about leaving, she started begging me to take her along that she needs to take her son to Lagos where her ex boyfriend parents live for the boy to resume school, the ex is not in Nigeria. I felt pity for the poor boy and I told her it’s okay, I gave her money to go take the boy from her mom so we can go Lagos together. I made it known to her that I won’t be responsible for her housing and feeding cause am going back to go hustle. We left Port Harcourt together the next day.

Getting to Lagos, she started lamenting that she hasn’t eaten that I should please send her some money and should try to get her a job, I reminded her of what I told her the day we were leaving, don’t try putting your burden on me here in Lagos. Luckily for her I got her a job close to my work place, just for her to use that in taking care of herself. She started the work the next day and we started seeing again and having sex couple of time at my place, all these time I didn’t promise her marriage or whatsoever. Now here is the problem.


Anytime we have misunderstanding at my work place, before I say one she don talk two even when I tell her to stop she still continue talking, when it happens like that I just get up and find my way out but she never allowed me to go out, she would run after me and lock the door then remove the key, before I know it I would hit her and she won’t even waste time hitting me back, have never hit woman all my life but I can’t just help it, all these happened at my work place most of the time, once we settled she would go on her kneels and start begging me to forgive her for hitting me, it happens over and over again, our last fight was bloody, I had to call it quit few days ago before anything bad happen. She cried and begged me that it won’t happen again but I made her understand that it is not healthy if we continue like this.


Have been by myself these past few days, I must confess I miss her so much, she cook for me and bring to my office everyday, I miss our nights conversations so much, her soft touch on me and the rest. I called her two days ago to come around which she did, I made her sleep at my place, we talked through the night and we ended up having sex and she asked if I was okay with it or if I want more that she knows I miss her so much, I can’t even deny that cause it’s boldly written all over me. She left very early in the morning at 6am. I noticed the feelings wasn’t there anymore, I understand how she feels cause I had to make her leave my place that day we broke up even though she never wanted to leave.

I miss everything about her even though I don’t see any future in us. I feel something is not right, keeping her and still having sex while we already broke up. Should I just let her go or still keep up with her?

This is easy - Quit while ahead.

Uou said you’re not the relationship type. Yet she cooks, clean, and sleeps with you . You even have fights. That is clear that you are in a relationship even though you call it something else.

you are even missing her. Clearly, you have feelings for her.

There are two choices
1. If you are not ready for a relationship CUT HER LOOSE. Do not pass Go . Do not collect N200.

2. If you still want to pursue her, you have restart the relationship- get to know her , her temperament. Things both of you have to work on.

theophilusj31:
If all this redpill guys start calling you simp,you will pick offense.

How does this sound in your ear

Very smelly like 4 day old shiit!!!

Would it kill these guys to read the redpill thread ni?

Leaving her will be extremely hard bro, reasons are
1) You don't have any other girl as back up.
2) By the time she decides to be with another guy, you will be very much pained and that is when u will discover that you have already loved and have feelings for her without you even knowing.
3) Getting her a job very close to you means she has access to you anytime she feels which translates to the fact that you guys can't go "NO CONTACT" for some period of time.
4) You brought her with u to Lagos.
I always believe that only another girl can cure the pains of losing a girl, if u don't have an option of a better girl then my bro, nothing tangible can come out of all these pieces of advice. It's very difficult for a man to move on without options of having back ups. You have already developed feelings and love for her and she has sensed it, they are very good at detecting that.

U can't let go of d sex that is d problem u having

rickleye:
This is easy - Quit while ahead.

Uou said you’re not the relationship type. Yet she cooks, clean, and sleeps with you . You even have fights. That is clear that you are in a relationship even though you call it something else.

you are even missing her. Clearly, you have feelings for her.

There are two choices
1. If you are not ready for a relationship CUT HER LOOSE. Do not pass Go . Do not collect N200.

2. If you still want to pursue her, you have restart the relationship- get to know her , her temperament. Things both of you have to work on.

Thanks for this man, have chosen the first choice and am working on myself not to look back on her.

tetralogyfallot:
Leaving her will be extremely hard bro, reasons are
1) You don't have any other girl as back up.
2) By the time she decides to be with another guy, you will be very much pained and that is when u will discover that you have already loved and have feelings for her without you even knowing.
3) Getting her a job very close to you means she has access to you anytime she feels which translates to the fact that you guys can't go "NO CONTACT" for some period of time.
4) You brought her with u to Lagos.
I always believe that only another girl can cure the pains of losing a girl, if u don't have an option of a better girl then my bro, nothing tangible can come out of all these pieces of advice. It's very difficult for a man to move on without options of having back ups. You have already developed feelings and love for her and she has sensed it, they are very good at detecting that.

You are very much right my bro, just like you said it is not easy to move on without backups but am ready to let go of her and focus on the way forward.

Odin13:
That one done catch you keep.. leave her na by mouth?

Just go pay dowry ..

You no leave her when you suppose do.. she manipulate you enter Lagos .. get job close to her .. ah..

Now tell us honestly.. you don loot any girl aside her ?

You see why i say make you go pay dowry.. weda you see future or not ..

Single mothers ba?

Jones her .. see stabbing

Hdanny:
Bro this ain’t a matter of simp, I don’t even waste time when it comes to women but this one choke me, my mistake was bringing her to Lagos.

Bringing her to lag was your bloody mistake. Na Ph everything for end. As e be now e go hard for you to chase her away.


If not for single motherhood shiit i for say make you marry her.

Hdanny:
Let me start with this, am not the relationship type, have never been committed to any girl all my life. I don’t go for anything under skirt cause am too selective when it comes to Girls.

I met this girl in Port harcourt at a friends place in early June, she is a single mother and she seems to be a very good and jovial person, we got connected immediately and we had sex the same day, ever since then our sex scenes been great, she do a-lot of things for me, like house cleaning, cooking, doing my laundry and stuffs even when she’s not been told. I told her the first day that I don’t base here and I might travel back to Lagos where I came from very soon, she said it’s fine.

Fast forward to the day I was about leaving, she started begging me to take her along that she needs to take her son to Lagos where her ex boyfriend parents live for the boy to resume school, the ex is not in Nigeria. I felt pity for the poor boy and I told her it’s okay, I gave her money to go take the boy from her mom so we can go Lagos together. I made it known to her that I won’t be responsible for her housing and feeding cause am going back to go hustle. We left Port Harcourt together the next day.

Getting to Lagos, she started lamenting that she hasn’t eaten that I should please send her some money and should try to get her a job, I reminded her of what I told her the day we were leaving, don’t try putting your burden on me here in Lagos. Luckily for her I got her a job close to my work place, just for her to use that in taking care of herself. She started the work the next day and we started seeing again and having sex couple of time at my place, all these time I didn’t promise her marriage or whatsoever. Now here is the problem.


Anytime we have misunderstanding at my work place, before I say one she don talk two even when I tell her to stop she still continue talking, when it happens like that I just get up and find my way out but she never allowed me to go out, she would run after me and lock the door then remove the key, before I know it I would hit her and she won’t even waste time hitting me back, have never hit woman all my life but I can’t just help it, all these happened at my work place most of the time, once we settled she would go on her kneels and start begging me to forgive her for hitting me, it happens over and over again, our last fight was bloody, I had to call it quit few days ago before anything bad happen. She cried and begged me that it won’t happen again but I made her understand that it is not healthy if we continue like this.


Have been by myself these past few days, I must confess I miss her so much, she cook for me and bring to my office everyday, I miss our nights conversations so much, her soft touch on me and the rest. I called her two days ago to come around which she did, I made her sleep at my place, we talked through the night and we ended up having sex and she asked if I was okay with it or if I want more that she knows I miss her so much, I can’t even deny that cause it’s boldly written all over me. She left very early in the morning at 6am. I noticed the feelings wasn’t there anymore, I understand how she feels cause I had to make her leave my place that day we broke up even though she never wanted to leave.

I miss everything about her even though I don’t see any future in us. I feel something is not right, keeping her and still having sex while we already broke up. Should I just let her go or still keep up with her?

I swear eheeehn, e better make i born THIEF than to Born MUMU like you Your biggest mistake was ever agreeing to bringing her to Lagos no matter how touchy her story was You're a MAN for crying out loud, you should Learn how to Reason with your BRAIN not your EMOTIONS DI_CK!

She even knows you'll miss her and it's just a matter of little time before a Sex-Starved FOOL like you will call her

Oh, I now get why you agreed to bring her to lagos. So you'd be using her to satisfy your sexual urges while Avoiding Commitment with her

BUT

Let me tell you how all these while end;

1: You'll end up impregnating her or she'll pin someone else's pregnancy on you (And ofcourse a Fool like you would accept because sex has beclouded your sense of reasoning)

2: You'll have no choice than to marry her and she'll FULLY move-in with you

3: When she finally moves-in, a day will come when you guys will have a very serious fight that will lead to you stabbing her to death or hitting her with a Pestle or she'll be the doing that or even Poison you

Until then, I patiently await you on your next thread (That's if you'll still be alive to share your experience)

YOU WILL LEARRRRN AND IN THE HARD WAY

Hdanny:
Thanks for this man, have chosen the first choice and am working on myself not to look back on her.

Kudos to you . Easier said than done. What I do is move onto the next person . ( but that’s just me )

I used to have one single mother banny too, but I used to invite her to come around to my place for some days before returning back (she was staying in a different state).

I clearly defined what we were doing to her from the onset, and she knew and understood that she wasn't my girlfriend despite all the knacks and closeness.
She tried several times to always manipulate me into falling for her whenever she came around, and she was always in her best behaviour and was always doing a perfect job in my house anytime she visited.

Omoh along the line, I noticed I started developing feelings and falling gradually into her trap, but I quickly gisted one of my friends, and with his help and the help of my other friends, I was able to cut her off completely, it's been months now since I last invited her to my place and I have gotten a serious and more better lady that I'm presently in a relationship with.

Bro the mistake you made was to take her along to Lagos. These kind of ladies are better off very far from where you are, so you can merely invite them over and they return to their place.

Anyway, just look beyond all the benefits you think you derive from her, there are millions of ladies in Lagos that can do same, RUN from this particular lady..
Any lady that engages in a fight with her guy is a big red flag, remember that "Hell has no fury than a woman's scorn".

Get yourself a more decent and submissive lady, you will be endangering your precious life hanging around such a violent lady, one day she can act out of annoyance and just silently poison you or even stab you after a serious quarrel, no carry your leg enter fire wey don already dey burn...

We have seen and heard a lot of times of ladies killing their guys, don't allow yourself to become the next victim abeg oo, kill whatever feelings you think you have for her, your life is way more precious.

And try to stop having continuous sex with her, because if it continues, and you eventually found someone else and attempt to settle down, this same lady would just appear from nowhere and hurt you badly for "Using" her. Make person no go pour you acid or hurt your future wife tomorrow ontop this matter.

Hdanny:
Let me start with this, am not the relationship type, have never been committed to any girl all my life. I don’t go for anything under skirt cause am too selective when it comes to Girls.

I met this girl in Port harcourt at a friends place in early June, she is a single mother and she seems to be a very good and jovial person, we got connected immediately and we had sex the same day, ever since then our sex scenes been great, she do a-lot of things for me, like house cleaning, cooking, doing my laundry and stuffs even when she’s not been told. I told her the first day that I don’t base here and I might travel back to Lagos where I came from very soon, she said it’s fine.

Fast forward to the day I was about leaving, she started begging me to take her along that she needs to take her son to Lagos where her ex boyfriend parents live for the boy to resume school, the ex is not in Nigeria. I felt pity for the poor boy and I told her it’s okay, I gave her money to go take the boy from her mom so we can go Lagos together. I made it known to her that I won’t be responsible for her housing and feeding cause am going back to go hustle. We left Port Harcourt together the next day.

Getting to Lagos, she started lamenting that she hasn’t eaten that I should please send her some money and should try to get her a job, I reminded her of what I told her the day we were leaving, don’t try putting your burden on me here in Lagos. Luckily for her I got her a job close to my work place, just for her to use that in taking care of herself. She started the work the next day and we started seeing again and having sex couple of time at my place, all these time I didn’t promise her marriage or whatsoever. Now here is the problem.


Anytime we have misunderstanding at my work place, before I say one she don talk two even when I tell her to stop she still continue talking, when it happens like that I just get up and find my way out but she never allowed me to go out, she would run after me and lock the door then remove the key, before I know it I would hit her and she won’t even waste time hitting me back, have never hit woman all my life but I can’t just help it, all these happened at my work place most of the time, once we settled she would go on her kneels and start begging me to forgive her for hitting me, it happens over and over again, our last fight was bloody, I had to call it quit few days ago before anything bad happen. She cried and begged me that it won’t happen again but I made her understand that it is not healthy if we continue like this.


Have been by myself these past few days, I must confess I miss her so much, she cook for me and bring to my office everyday, I miss our nights conversations so much, her soft touch on me and the rest. I called her two days ago to come around which she did, I made her sleep at my place, we talked through the night and we ended up having sex and she asked if I was okay with it or if I want more that she knows I miss her so much, I can’t even deny that cause it’s boldly written all over me. She left very early in the morning at 6am. I noticed the feelings wasn’t there anymore, I understand how she feels cause I had to make her leave my place that day we broke up even though she never wanted to leave.

I miss everything about her even though I don’t see any future in us. I feel something is not right, keeping her and still having sex while we already broke up. Should I just let her go or still keep up with her?

My dear, you have been bewitched. The spirit of lust is in control. She is possessed. She might not even know it

Hdanny:
Let me start with this, am not the relationship type, have never been committed to any girl all my life. I don’t go for anything under skirt cause am too selective when it comes to Girls.

I met this girl in Port harcourt at a friends place in early June, she is a single mother and she seems to be a very good and jovial person, we got connected immediately and we had sex the same day, ever since then our sex scenes been great, she do a-lot of things for me, like house cleaning, cooking, doing my laundry and stuffs even when she’s not been told. I told her the first day that I don’t base here and I might travel back to Lagos where I came from very soon, she said it’s fine.

Fast forward to the day I was about leaving, she started begging me to take her along that she needs to take her son to Lagos where her ex boyfriend parents live for the boy to resume school, the ex is not in Nigeria. I felt pity for the poor boy and I told her it’s okay, I gave her money to go take the boy from her mom so we can go Lagos together. I made it known to her that I won’t be responsible for her housing and feeding cause am going back to go hustle. We left Port Harcourt together the next day.

Getting to Lagos, she started lamenting that she hasn’t eaten that I should please send her some money and should try to get her a job, I reminded her of what I told her the day we were leaving, don’t try putting your burden on me here in Lagos. Luckily for her I got her a job close to my work place, just for her to use that in taking care of herself. She started the work the next day and we started seeing again and having sex couple of time at my place, all these time I didn’t promise her marriage or whatsoever. Now here is the problem.


Anytime we have misunderstanding at my work place, before I say one she don talk two even when I tell her to stop she still continue talking, when it happens like that I just get up and find my way out but she never allowed me to go out, she would run after me and lock the door then remove the key, before I know it I would hit her and she won’t even waste time hitting me back, have never hit woman all my life but I can’t just help it, all these happened at my work place most of the time, once we settled she would go on her kneels and start begging me to forgive her for hitting me, it happens over and over again, our last fight was bloody, I had to call it quit few days ago before anything bad happen. She cried and begged me that it won’t happen again but I made her understand that it is not healthy if we continue like this.


Have been by myself these past few days, I must confess I miss her so much, she cook for me and bring to my office everyday, I miss our nights conversations so much, her soft touch on me and the rest. I called her two days ago to come around which she did, I made her sleep at my place, we talked through the night and we ended up having sex and she asked if I was okay with it or if I want more that she knows I miss her so much, I can’t even deny that cause it’s boldly written all over me. She left very early in the morning at 6am. I noticed the feelings wasn’t there anymore, I understand how she feels cause I had to make her leave my place that day we broke up even though she never wanted to leave.

I miss everything about her even though I don’t see any future in us. I feel something is not right, keeping her and still having sex while we already broke up. Should I just let her go or still keep up with her?

..
Do you Bleep her raw

Hdanny:
You are very much right my bro, just like you said it is not easy to move on without backups but am ready to let go of her and focus on the way forward.

letting go of that girl without you having a backup might not be so easy bro, get a backup first then it will be a bit easy. Reason because if konji hold u and no backup u may be tempted to call n even beg just to cure the konji. Sometimes we keep girls we don't even want just to cure our konji when it spikes pending the better one we want is achieved!

This one don enter trap wey them set for am.
Him don realise say them bin set trap for am, but because of toto and laziness, him still chose to stick to the trap.
Mtchew!

This one don fvck you finish sotey your brain don format. Chai...her toto is sweet

When MEN say, RUN from single mothers
You will say they are just toxic, they don't understand the sweetness of sex, they are dulling.

When they tell you to RUN AWAY from baby mama's and damaged woman, you will think you are a sharp guy

Now see your life.

You are even saying you miss her, she does this and that. You are not sure if to let her go, and If they call you a bloody simp now, you will wail and curse.

That should even be the least of your problems.
I'm sure you fk her raw, oxytocin has beclouded your brain, you have sink into the damn hole.

How do you know she has NOT visited the baby daddy and been blown from behind.
You are sleeping with another person's woman and thinking she's yours?

What if she's just using you to get back at the guy? And the guy stays in Lagos too o

Until one day she brings the baby daddy to come break your head because you had hit her, that's when you'd understand life.

Well, you are lucky you still have a little time in your hands to set things right.

I'm gonna give you just ONE advice.
Discard her IMMEDIATELY.

I mean in totality, disappear from her life NOW.
You are already in so much trouble with out knowing yet, and if you like keep wasting time.

We would read your story on instablog.

Odin13:
That one done catch you keep.. leave her na by mouth?

Just go pay dowry ..

You no leave her when you suppose do.. she manipulate you enter Lagos .. get job close to her .. ah..

Now tell us honestly.. you don loot any girl aside her ?

You see why i say make you go pay dowry.. weda you see future or not ..

Single mothers ba?

Jones her .. see stabbing

Mr op don mad, the banny toto right and sweet no be small and her bed skills don throwaway my man.. Weldon bro

single mothers are evil because they're damaged..

Hdanny:
No be lie bro, anytime fight occurs, she can do and undo, ever since have noticed that behaviour, I made her leave my house before it gets out hands.

Another killaboi in the making..
You're romancing toxicity now.
She has turned you to a woman beater already..

U go stab am soon.
U no go fit change your passport like killaboi Maka idi broke

Westerhoffe:
Anny69, come and carry your neighbor.

My neighbor how?