My wife threatened to divorce me if I bring my mama to live with us. My mama is 55 years old and she's not strong.

We have an extra bedroom and I said I can get a nurse to come take care of her and my mamas sisters can stop over to help time to time.

My wife says no and put her foot down that if my mama moves in, she will kick me out. My wife says my mama is dyïng anyways so let her d!e in hospital and not in our house.

I’m torn. What do I do? My mama raised me as a single mom. How can I do this to my mama when my mama need me most?

Please no insults, kindly advise me

So in summary, it's your wife that married you and not the other way around

how many kids Dey una union
Who pays the bills..
You don cross 40?

Forget love..

Consider this .. and take a sharp decision.

Na man you be.

MidasTouch15:
So in summary, it's your wife that married you and not the other way around

Be calming down..

Odin13:


Be calming down..

Na question I ask na. I wan know, 'cos how will your wife be threatening you and you are scared. Or whats the age difference?

This is the same OP whose wife calls her family for everything ...

Now it makes sense ...

Oga please let your mother stay where she is eh, abi do you want to become homeless? ...

MidasTouch15:


Na question I ask na. I wan know, 'cos how will your wife be threatening you and you are scared. Or whats the age difference?

You don’t know much , about his family.. maybe there are other reasons ..wey be say na both of them sabi and he no wan talk..

marvellous2222:
My wife threatened to divorce me if I bring my mama to live with us. My mama is 55 years old and she's not strong.

Oga...if there is no other option for ur mum except ur place.... let her divorce you naaaa.. abi no be u get house??

Fahvvy:
This is the same OP whose wife calls her family for everything ...

Now it makes sense ...

Oga please let your mother stay where she is eh, abi do you want to become homeless? ...

Well from what you've explained, it's not going to end well, because your wife has already showed that she is not ready to care for her and it's good that she didn't not pretend.

If you finally bring her peace may not reign, there would likely be that your relations would start seeing your wife as a bad person for not caring for her. Depends on her condition, not everybody can care for a very sick person because they are not trained like Doctors/Nurses who can face a gury site and still perform their duties no matter the condition of their patients

Again is it proper to treat a sick person at home by a nurse or take the person to hospital for Doctors to do their job, if it's something that native medicine can do then tradomedical Doctor can treat in the village .

Think about these options above and avoid family crisis.

This Op get ment for head do your wife is the one in charge of you... You are a fcking simp

Disgusting simp.
I spit on you in great disgust.

Shame.

For your wife to say she'll kick you out, means she's the one who owns the house you're living in.

marvellous2222:
My wife threatened to divorce me if I bring my mama to live with us. My mama is 55 years old and she's not strong.

We have an extra bedroom and I said I can get a nurse to come take care of her and my mamas sisters can stop over to help time to time.

My wife says no and put her foot down that if my mama moves in, she will kick me out. My wife says my mama is dyïng anyways so let her d!e in hospital and not in our house.

I’m torn. What do I do? My mama raised me as a single mom. How can I do this to my mama when my mama need me most?

Please no insults, kindly advise me

I can never ever ever take any biitch above my mum, fvck her and fvck her again. If I woos am eh.

My own fvcking house

I’d gladly take your mom in if I could.
Even if she’s dying, she deserves love and respect.
Or you can take her to a hospice.

You no get belt



Use am design her buttocks and back so next time she no go open filthy mouth talk that nonsense

In all u do, pray to end up with a gud Nd considerate Partner dat's all!!!!

Pls take care of ur mum, u can only have one mum and remember that she loved and carried u in her tommy n suffered to care for u when u were vulnerable and u can never pay her, u can only try to be good to her. Don't get urself cursed by following ur wife and abandoning ur mother

Shey the wife’s family gave them the house they live in?

It is well…

Fahvvy:
This is the same OP whose wife calls her family for everything ...

Now it makes sense ...

Oga please let your mother stay where she is eh, abi do you want to become homeless? ...

Before I respond professionally,
I would like to know who occupies the position of wife in your family? And which position are you?
Finally, IF you claim to be the husband of the house, did you move into "his" apartment or "he" moved into yours. Answer these, then, we can take each paragraph from there.

E be like say na 2ife family gave OP where he dey stay.
What a shame

I like this lady. I wish I can connect with you. You are my choice of a woman.
+234 Zero eight zero three five zero nine six three four two.
I'm on WhatsApp.

Houseofglam7:
I’d gladly take your mom in if I could.
Even if she’s dying, she deserves love and respect.
Or you can take her to a hospice.

The question Bis,who owns the house you live in??

fyzaila:
For your wife to say she'll kick you out, means she's the one who owns the house you're living in.

His previous post:

"Can't a woman water down her taste to keep her marriage? They don't insult me but I feel not man enough, I feel less of myself, my wife is from a rich home and the house we are living is a wedding gift from her brothers, she's an only daughter and they over pamper her, they don't allow her ask twice."

misreal:
The question Bis,who owns the house you live in??

The house is a Wedding gift from the wife's family.

marvellous2222:
My wife threatened to divorce me if I bring my mama to live with us. My mama is 55 years old and she's not strong.

We have an extra bedroom and I said I can get a nurse to come take care of her and my mamas sisters can stop over to help time to time.

My wife says no and put her foot down that if my mama moves in, she will kick me out. My wife says my mama is dyïng anyways so let her d!e in hospital and not in our house.

I’m torn. What do I do? My mama raised me as a single mom. How can I do this to my mama when my mama need me most?

Please no insults, kindly advise me

Rent your mum a new place and stay with her there to love and cherish her.Let your wife be.Your mum doesnt need any drama from a non challant daughter-in-law.
Have some dignity as a man.There no pride in bringing your mum to stay in your wife's house.Live with your mum in the new place you rent for her and occassionally visit your wife,take your children to visit or stay with your mum once in a while.

cocolacec:

The house is a Wedding gift from the wife's family.

hmmm.A wedding gift to the wife or the couple.Because there maybe some things the Op is not telling us

Odin13:

how many kids Dey una union
Who pays the bills..
You don cross 40?

Forget love..

Consider this .. and take a sharp decision.

Na man you be.

the main line is,he said she will kick her out of the house,it means either they are not living in Nigeria or the wife is the bread winner and owner of the house,in both cases there is no need for advice but to meekly obey his wifeband

Lol I don't believe this story at all, your just catching cruise!

marvellous2222:
My wife threatened to divorce me if I bring my mama to live with us. My mama is 55 years old and she's not strong.

We have an extra bedroom and I said I can get a nurse to come take care of her and my mamas sisters can stop over to help time to time.

My wife says no and put her foot down that if my mama moves in, she will kick me out. My wife says my mama is dyïng anyways so let her d!e in hospital and not in our house.

I’m torn. What do I do? My mama raised me as a single mom. How can I do this to my mama when my mama need me most?

Please no insults, kindly advise me

ItisWell22:
Shey the wife’s family gave them the house they live in?

It is well…

Exactly!
You remember the story too well ...

cocolacec:

Rent your mum a new place and stay with her there to love and cherish her.Let your wife be.Your mum doesnt need any drama from a non challant daughter-in-law.
Have some dignity as a man.There no pride in bringing your mum to stay in your wife's house.Live with your mum in the new place you rent for her and occassionally visit your wife,take your children to visit or stay with your mum once in a while.

Op...i like this advice.


I think this is the best. But don't tell your wife your intention. Just do it..maybe anytime you want to sleep over just tell your wife, you won't be coming back that you will spend the night with your mother.


If she decide to raise eyebrows that you went to see one of your girls... you can do video call and show her a glimpse of your mum. I did not say you should give your mum phone to talk to her. ( coz it seems she don't want to see or have anything to do with your mum)


Never discuss your wife attitude to your mum...coz it might make her develop health issues and die quickly...her concern will be that how will you be faring living in that kind of house and also your mum been in the wrong hands and how she is not been love from someone that is suppose to be her protector.


And most importantly...take this advice very serious. Have a plan B. ( Because of tomorrow)


You can't see you might be lonely during your old age. She is likely not to take care of you or despise you at your old age.


But above all... Your wife is lovely just that she was spoilt by her rich parents.

No big deal. Let your mother live elsewhere. I have alsotold my wife I will not live under the same roof with her mom.