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Tayorshd87:
My brother I feel your pain and due to age and since I find it hard to get the once with high IQ and I need a child 🙁 I have to choose one with d hope of changing if I nurture her..

Thank God I have 2 children now
But she is still a dullard and am thinking of divorce soon 😢

😂😂😂😂😂😂..abeg no kill me with laugh. Na normal thing most fine ladies are dumb..empty skull.i get experience with them.they feel the world revolves around their looks.i use dem see shege

This is a fine topic to discuss, but OP should edit the headline to look/sound better.

Now to the topic

I have said this before, Human beings are a creature of Beauty. Everyone likes beauty but over the years, women have mastered the art of beautifying themselves and this makes them more attractive to the opposite sex.

Whatever you feed in life grows and whatever you neglect dies. You don't expect women to feed their outer selves and still be smart at the same time.

My advice to men, please go after only High value women. No woman will settle for you unless she knows she will get something she is incapable of doing for herself from you. If you must sleep with a low value woman, always ensure you make her understand that she is low value and that she is in the vast majority of people of no value.

Shalom

AlphaHakimi:
This is a fine topic to discuss, but OP should edit the headline to look/sound better.

Now to the topic

I have said this before, Human beings are a creature of Beauty. Everyone likes beauty but over the years, women have mastered the art of beautifying themselves and this makes them more attractive to the opposite sex.

Whatever you feed in life grows and whatever you neglect dies. You don't expect women to feed their outer selves and still be smart at the same time.

My advice to men, please go after only High value women. No woman will settle for you unless she knows she will get something she is incapable of doing for herself from you. If you must sleep with a low value woman, always ensure you make her understand that she is low value and that she is in the vast majority of people of no value.

Shalom

You just repeated what someone has already said and added irrelevant parts

And you didn't even do it properly

TimFisher2:
Wow. You must be intelligent.


You explained it all. In fact, you must be Chinua Achebe. It was as if I was reading an interesting novel.


Now back to the topic. I know you will have the answer to this since you gave us a comprehensive problem/ or root cause facing girls of these days.


Now what are the solutions?

Is it still possible for single guys to get married to girls with a high IQ, and if Yes. Where do we find them?


Or are we going to end up with all these dummies littering around?


What does the future hold for us?

Question 1
I already proposed a feasible solution at the end of my write up. I have others but they're basically impossible to implement in our current society

Question 2
Yes, it is very possible to get girls with a high IQ as a guy
The problem is that they're getting more and more scarce nowadays due to being pressured by the other low IQ ones to abandon their wares and then come to join them in their bandwagon of mediocrity
Where to find them? I can't say for sure.
Maybe go after the female doctors and engineers who spend all day staring at anatomical models and equations.


Question 3
Yes, society as a whole is going to end up having these type of women around and they're going to be old, bitter and combative because the entire crux of their life (their looks) has faded away with gravity making things worse by creating sags and wrinkles everywhere.
If you aren't careful you may end up having one as the mother of your kids

Question 4
What does the future hold? I'm not a fortune teller nor am I a magician. All I know is that these girls will be really sad and alone when they advance in age. And it's your job to try your possible best to avoid being in that situation with them because they will 100% try to make it your own problem

Uptheante:
I agree with your submission, but what of girls that are ugly & still dull (unintelligent)?

Any explanation for that?

The word ugly here was used freely so I don't know what type of ugly you're talking about exactly
A girl can have a 3/10 face but have a massive ass and you'll still see men climbing over themselves to simp for her. In that case, my write up still stands because she holds the power in those kinda situations
When I say looks, I'm not talking about pretty face alone
I'm talking about everything, face, shape, body type. The whole 9 yards

speedy0420:
The word ugly here was used freely so I don't know what type of ugly you're talking about exactly
A girl can have a 3/10 face but have a massive ass and you'll still see men climbing over themselves to simp for her. In that case, my write up still stands because she holds the power in those kinda situations
When I say looks, I'm not talking about pretty face alone
I'm talking about everything, face, shape, body type. The whole 9 yards

Let me be more specific, I mean a girl with ugly face, dry ass, flat boobs & generally undesirable physical features

Uptheante:
Let me be more specific, I mean a girl with ugly face, dry ass, flat boobs & generally undesirable physical features

Otto Weininger had stated that no woman ever believes herself ugly. Due to her experiences she may see herself as less attractive in contrast with others, but never ugly.

When these unattractive women cry about being ugly they are simply doing their ritualistic dance to summon sympathy and pity. They don't want beauty for self-esteem but to get what the fine girls are getting from men. That girl that seems special and intelligent, as if to compensate for a lack of beauty, will show a man the ruthless aspects of female nature when he gives her what attractive girls are given.

I'm not sure but I think it was Pukkalolo that made a comment a long time ago about a friend who was dating an unattractive girl just for knacks. He would hype and flatter the girl, until the day they had a quarrel then she started telling him something like she's 'doing him a favor for being with him' lol.
Because she is unattractive doesn't mean she acknowledges that truth. Truth & women are water & oil.

Tayorshd87:
My brother I feel your pain and due to age and since I find it hard to get the once with high IQ and I need a child 🙁 I have to choose one with d hope of changing if I nurture her..

Thank God I have 2 children now
But she is still a dullard and am thinking of divorce soon 😢

You found your match and you're complaining. Smh.

Anny69:
You found your match and you're complaining. Smh.

😂 See this one so u can't even comprehend and understand what the OP is passing through Abi?

You go explain tire 😆
Don't get surprise not even woman a man put at home means he is in love with her most times mistake pregnancy leads to many of them hence will still destroy the home soon 🤣

Aaaaarghmed:
😂😂😂😂😂😂..abeg no kill me with laugh. Na normal thing most fine ladies are dumb..empty skull.i get experience with them.they feel the world revolves around their looks.i use dem see shege

My brother God bless u .. you really understand the vibes inbetween ..dumb girls everywhere even at home now ehn if me and my woman start ehn 😢 all because I was trying to upgrade her IQ he go turn fight...

And I was advised to carry my cross and leave her since I saw it in her before impregnating her 🤔

What advise can u give me 😂😆

Tayorshd87:
😂 See this one so u can't even comprehend and understand what the OP is passing through Abi?

You go explain tire 😆
Don't get surprise not even woman a man put at home means he is in love with her most times mistake pregnancy leads to many of them hence will still destroy the home soon 🤣

You just did the bolded.

LagosG:
One bottle of Glenfiddich for you

my brother but you dey Scotland na! Why you dey busy body for naija girls, because e no affect you na

DKM123:
[b]Likes attract likes.

Instead of you to say you are only attractied to d@ft ladies cos you are obviously d@ft yourself, [/b]you want to use one umbrella to cover millions of women.

Don't you read what your fellow Nairaland men comment and post on a daily basis? Aren't 99 percent of them downright imbeci!c? But the comments no go shock you cos you join dem with thier warped mindset..

Your fellow men from China and US are developing lives and making world discoveries making thier countries superpowers but you Nigerian men only know how to vote bad leaders and bash Nigerian women. So much for being Albert Einsteins.

Like I'm confused. Of how these mens think they are gonna see an intelligent women with how dumb they are.

You are always gonna attract what you are like. It's called "law of attraction". People that aren't the same with you, will never find you attractive.

That explains why 95% of them keep seeing dumb women. Cuz they themselves are the most dumbest of all. Bunch of dullards!

Smh it's a pity, change your class, circle, and the ladies you attract instead of putting everyone in a box,

With all Nigerian men so called High IQ you can't produce anything, the country is dying, nothing is working yet their problem is women? What a pity.

SapaProMax:
Where did it all go wrong?

Fine Naija girls on Insta and X. I go just slide in their dms. It's easy for them to reply me cos the boy is fine and I don Japa tey tey. My problem is this; Many of them can't hold a good conversation. Like they literally have nothing interesting to talk about. Some don't even have short or long term plans. Some of y'all should add words like daft, unintelligent, uninformed or slow to your bio

Your generalization irks me!

Mind you.... you're what you're attracted to...like minds they say.......