Hi Guys,
I've been so confused and worried lately. I have never met a Virgin girl in my life and I am not praying to meet any either. Been a virgin does not translate to being a good wife or girlfriend.
My girlfriend of 28yrs says she is a Virgin. But I'm finding it very difficult to believe it. Because,
She always wants me to be using my fingers on her clitoris without allowing me to use my dick to penetrate her. At times I wonder if she's a chronic masturbator. If I refuse using my fingers, she'd be angry at me. Why should I be using my fingers when I have a Dick?
Secondly, she always wants me to give her a Mouth Gig. I suck her pussy.
Thirdly, after sucking, she tells me to mount her while she closes her legs. While I mount her, she will tighten her legs and ask me to rub my pennis on her pussy. She will never open/spread her legs for me to penetrate.
I'm really fed up because it is becoming childish to be doing all these nonsense on bed. At the end of the whole thing, I see myself at the receiving end cos I begin to feel pains in my scrotum since I'm always unable to release. What she does is just to lie down like a log of wood. She doesn't reciprocate. I am not her first, second, third or fourth Guy so I can't understand why she claims to be a virgin. I have told her countless times that if she allows me to penetrate and I discover she's a Virgin like she claims, I'll respectably stop asking for sex until after our marriage but she doesn't want to grant me access. I feel I'm been played and manipulated here. I'm not a player and have never double dated. I am a man and can't continue like this anymore.

If I ever get to find out that she's not a virgin, I swear she's gone. I'll so mess her up for all the punishment she has meted out to me in almost two years of our relationship

Just run my brother

Toy, she Don turn you to toy.. Make she dey give u Mouth Gig

Have been down that road before I know where he lead nigga that girl she a hoe niggas she Bleep all the crew nigga but you nigga

Skyller:
Just run my brother

Why did u say so??

this is what a 10 year and 12 year old would do . i wonder how a grown ass nigga will be expecting advice from folks on nairaland you dont need advice . ditch the hoe .and move on .. listen she is a hoe playing silly games with you . pls grow up my gee. you are a handsome guy . tell her the relationship is over .. dont call or pick her calls ditch these hoes bro . forget these hoes they aint shit

mmadu5:
this is what a 10 year and 12 year old would do . i wonder how a grown ass nigga will be expecting advice from folks on nairaland you dont need advice . ditch the hoe .and move on .. listen she is a hoe playing silly games with you . pls grow up my gee. you are a handsome guy . tell her the relationship is over .. dont call or pick her calls ditch these hoes bro . forget these hoes they aint shit

Lmao... I'm surprised too 😹

Ohh damn!! This girl don carry our brother man Handicap 💔

mmadu5:
this is what a 10 year and 12 year old would do . i wonder how a grown ass nigga will be expecting advice from folks on nairaland you dont need advice . ditch the hoe .and move on .. listen she is a hoe playing silly games with you . pls grow up my gee. you are a handsome guy . tell her the relationship is over .. dont call or pick her calls ditch these hoes bro . forget these hoes they aint shit

Focus on goals niggas

Lesbian Man 😂

garriAndsugar:
Lesbian Man 😂

you Sabi the game wella... he has turned the pussy whipped simp into a girlfriend... she just dey use the guy masturbate herself... I don't how you guys even do, she's suppose to be the one giving you MouthAction not the other way round... you're indirectly submitting to her... choke her with Mouth Gig, let her gag.. not you going down on her, never... it signifies submission and she won't respect you... pvssy is meant to be fvcked not sucked... I doubt if she's really a virgin, she's just manipulating you with the sex, na person like you dem dey friendzone for marriage.. you don't even know what you want or let me say you can't even say what you want...

lmao, if virginity doesn't say anything about character, does being a hoe justifies that... this is the lie you guys keep telling yourself when you want to blind yourself with illusions of pleasure... when you guys get burnt, y'll turn to nairaland crying for help... your eyes go soon clear...

Lol shey na after you don spend finish for wedding pepperezi you go con discover say she nor be virgin? You go cry tire... anyways stay away from fornication

Dem don turn you to puppet

mmadu5:
this is what a 10 year and 12 year old would do . i wonder how a grown ass nigga will be expecting advice from folks on nairaland you dont need advice . ditch the hoe .and move on .. listen she is a hoe playing silly games with you . pls grow up my gee. you are a handsome guy . tell her the relationship is over .. dont call or pick her calls ditch these hoes bro . forget these hoes they aint shit

Best advice ever. Thanks so much. Actually I'm very handsome and quite intelligent. I was an 'A' Student in my university days as well and she knows she can't be smarter than me. I'm dumping her for real. Nigerian girls can never be trusted one bit. She will end up not marrying me and I will eventually be the loser

Wotoporiously speaking

Oga sorry o, but you be mumu and you're even more childish than her for allowing this to happen, to spit on your forehead dey hungry me but I no wan waste my saliva.

Keep simping

U got so far to be able to touch the clits, suck the pussssy but cant take the chance to push a finger in for verification? You be mumuuuu

Opanka44:
Hi Guys,
I've been so confused and worried lately. I have never met a Virgin girl in my life and I am not praying to meet any either. Been a virgin does not translate to being a good wife or girlfriend.
My girlfriend of 28yrs says she is a Virgin. But I'm finding it very difficult to believe it. Because,
She always wants me to be using my fingers on her clitoris without allowing me to use my dick to penetrate her. At times I wonder if she's a chronic masturbator. If I refuse using my fingers, she'd be angry at me. Why should I be using my fingers when I have a Dick?
Secondly, she always wants me to give her a Mouth Gig. I suck her pussy.
Thirdly, after sucking, she tells me to mount her while she closes her legs. While I mount her, she will tighten her legs and ask me to rub my pennis on her pussy. She will never open/spread her legs for me to penetrate.
I'm really fed up because it is becoming childish to be doing all these nonsense on bed. At the end of the whole thing, I see myself at the receiving end cos I begin to feel pains in my scrotum since I'm always unable to release. What she does is just to lie down like a log of wood. She doesn't reciprocate. I am not her first, second, third or fourth Guy so I can't understand why she claims to be a virgin. I have told her countless times that if she allows me to penetrate and I discover she's a Virgin like she claims, I'll respectably stop asking for sex until after our marriage but she doesn't want to grant me access. I feel I'm been played and manipulated here. I'm not a player and have never double dated. I am a man and can't continue like this anymore.

If I ever get to find out that she's not a virgin, I swear she's gone. I'll so mess her up for all the punishment she has meted out to me in almost two years of our relationship

Error401:
U got so far to be able to touch the clits, suck the pussssy but cant take the chance to push a finger in for verification? You be mumuuuu

Na ur father be mumu... Ode!

Opanka44:


Na ur father be mumu... Ode!

Shut up you are a Mumu man very foolish indeed

Opanka44:

Hi Guys,
I've been so confused and worried lately. I have never met a Virgin girl in my life and I am not praying to meet any either. Been a virgin does not translate to being a good wife or girlfriend.

If I ever get to find out that she's not a virgin, I swear she's gone. I'll so mess her up for all the punishment she has meted out to me in almost two years of our relationship

Please answer these questions sah:

How Old are You Sir?
Are You Dating her under Duress?
Is it possible the girl is holding your destiny?

Opanka44:


Why did u say so??

You still dey ask ?

Miravik900:


Shut up you are a Mumu man very foolish indeed

Like your mother ba?

Op should be wiped with cord!!! Person wey you go paraaa for which kind rubbish be that one!!! ....

Opanka44:


Like your mother ba?

Like your mama Oya go suck that your girlfriend gutter smell pvssy night don conver so that she fit sleep well before she go vex for you

werey dey dia dey mumu up and down.
To slap u dey hungry me. U over mumu

Opanka44:


Na ur father be mumu... Ode!

Guys any girl wen go want make u suck her puci run away from such girl. You cannot be defiling your tongue and expect God to answer your prayers.

Women,when they want to be wicked they take it to the extreme.
Just look at what this bitch is making this comrade pass thru.
How u go suck pussy, finger pussy nd u no go Bleep? How u want take release? Abi na for wall u the beat ur thing till it calms down.

Have a new girl and make her insignificant.

OP, I thought you once said you are a Private School Teacher with small Salary. 🤔🤨

because, you are way too Focused on Vagina issues!😕😕

Opanka44:


Like your mother ba?

You deserve all the insults you can get on this forum bro. If person still dey vex, take their time to type insult for you, them still like you.

You should bow in shame and learn as much as you can to save yourself from the situation you’re in.

You don’t even have a single person sympathetic to your plight? Put in your thinking cap bro.

You can enter her if she's really wet. You are still learning.
I beg, don't ditch her; enjoy the show as it comes. One day your preek will penetrate her.

Error401:
U got so far to be able to touch the clits, suck the pussssy but cant take the chance to push a finger in for verification? You be mumuuuu

I assume he’s still a learner. He can still use his fingers to verify if she’s virgin or not(feeling the hymen)

But I’m sure she’s not a virgin. She’s just taking advantage of the gentleman

All he needs to do is earn her trust, romance her until she forgets herself completely, she wouldn’t even know when you penetrates.

That’s the only way to know if a girl is virgin or not.

That's true, he is a learner and needs advice from street smart guys. Baba if I can have access to finger u, if i no lash, omo I Bleep up big time be that.
I think he should just romance her well and msitakenly dip a finger in. If it goes in straight. then na OYO OP dey

blackgold2018:
I assume he’s still a learner. He can still use his fingers to verify if she’s virgin or not(feeling the hymen)

But I’m sure she’s not a virgin. She’s just taking advantage of the gentleman

All he needs to do is earn her trust, romance her until she forgets herself completely, she wouldn’t even know when you penetrates.

That’s the only way to know if a girl is virgin or not.