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They say,

'a leopard cannot change it's spots.'

But is it fair? I mean, we are talking about humans here not animals.

I know people hardly change, but saying everyone doesn't change is a big generalization and stereotypical.

To every rule, there's always an exception.

Now, before I get carried away and digress, let's stick to the topic.

What bad habit or character did your partner later stop?

For the ladies, did your guy stopped

gambling?
Womanizing?
Alcohol?
Smoking?



For guys, which one did she change, is it
Dirtiness?
Disrespect?
Chronic lying?
Ungratefulness?


Share your experiences, I believe there's a lot of good news out there, to bring back positive approach towards relationships!

Hmm.


I'm interested in knowing too oo

I didn’t vote Buhari because I don’t believe in change, you think it’s a woman’s change that will change my mind? 🥴

Nice topic

My own changed for the worse, when we started, she was very neat, she used to mop the floors 2 times a week. 2 years down the line, I am the one cleaning the bathroom walls , floors and toilet. I realised its earlier to just do it myself instead of complaining about it

Brandiebird:
I didn’t vote Buhari because I don’t believe in change, you think it’s a woman’s change that will change my mind? 🥴

Change doesn't care whether you believe in it. The whole Nigeria has been changed

From bad to worse

🤣🤣🤣🤣

Let the lies keep coming, chinedu give me 2bottles of Heineken and goat meat

As a partner to my spouse,I stopped taking satchet captain jack after she complained I should stop taking it...that thing purge my belle no be small.

Mine has changed for the worse.
Very disrespectful and ungrateful

I will be back when I settle on someone for a partner.

Mine used to cheat, she stopped being a cheat and now she's a chronic cheater

Being angry at the slightest provocation.

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Scratching anus and sniffing it.

Newdawn30:
Nice topic

My own changed for the worse, when we started, she was very neat, she used to mop the floors 2 times a week. 2 years down the line, I am the one cleaning the bathroom walls , floors and toilet. I realised its earlier to just do it myself instead of complaining about it

This is one of my fears about people. Because one red flag that you decide to ignore at the initial stage will compound to become worse with time.

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Newdawn30:
Nice topic

My own changed for the worse, when we started, she was very neat, she used to mop the floors 2 times a week. 2 years down the line, I am the one cleaning the bathroom walls , floors and toilet. I realised its earlier to just do it myself instead of complaining about it

Ladies can only change for the worse

🤔

Telling me she want to suck my dick!! Very Bad habit...

Sucking my sausage.

Snoring & farting intermittently.
Ishilove almost killed me.

Nna mehnnnn


Which kind wahala talk.be this one

Fuel.is now 650 @ awoyaya fuel.station
Someone is still talking about change

Old habits die hard.

That’s why after some moments of assumed change, the habits resurface even worse than they were.

Except and unless a true encounter happens and in most cases; a life changing experience.

For my partner , He stopped staying out late, clubbing and drinking often
Now occasionally He does it .I secretly think it's because He is very rich right now..I pray when He has more money, He will no longer be interested
We will go for Shiloh on the 5th Dec..working on how to make sure He is there..that will help cement things

olanreyman:
Mine used to cheat, she stopped being a cheat and now she's a chronic cheater

How can you marry a cheater ? Or maybe she is the breadwinner

Newdawn30:
Nice topic

My own changed for the worse, when we started, she was very neat, she used to mop the floors 2 times a week. 2 years down the line, I am the one cleaning the bathroom walls , floors and toilet. I realised its earlier to just do it myself instead of complaining about it

Do you both have kids now?
It's may have been easier for her then to be 100% top notch clean. But when kids start trickling in, it becomes kinda tough to maintain that same perfect neatness record. If this is the case, don't be quick to judge her.

Breathing

Once she’s inside she prefers being on only panties…Now she stopped that .. she prefers staying naked..her complaints, everything inconvenient her

olanreyman:
Mine used to cheat, she stopped being a cheat and now she's a chronic cheater

Werey