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Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by Nobody: 8:07pm On Oct 30, 2023
NSK4U:
Filled with sxual fantasies. Porn addiction, gets aroused even at sight of my undies; often aims for it at any opportunity, want to s^ck me empty every minute. I think her libid jus too high and it scares

She's not changed yet buh I hope she does soonest
You better runnnnnnnn.
You'll regret it if you marry her.
No matter what you tell yourself to be able to cope with her, she won't change. She can only pretend to.
She's a nympho.
Dump her once you've satisfied your dating craving. That's if you won't be addicted to her by then. But marrying her should not be on the menu.
My 2 cents, though. You don't have to take my advice.

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Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by Nobody: 8:12pm On Oct 30, 2023
Flesh10:
6yrs relationship with my fiancee I can't seem to find any fault with her. I have searched and searched yet that babe is just too perfect in every area. I asked her about my flaws too and where I need to improve she also cannot spot.

We are a perfect match, 6yrs and chasing 7yrs no drama, no fight, no quarrel just both of us loving , making sacrifices and managing our little.

Make sure you wife-her up.
She sounds like a peace-provider from your narration. And peace of mind is all a man needs from his woman. Peace of mind on all fronts.
Love her unconditionally, and never let any other women, no matter how physically appealing and endowed she looks, make you cheat on your lady.
Lucky you. You found a good match.
For me, I'm very selective and I'll wait my turn , no matter how long it takes. I value my joy and peace of mind above everything else.
My latina is somewhere out there in the Americas or in the US. And I'll be united with her once the time arrives. No rush. smiley

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Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by Badadvisor: 8:13pm On Oct 30, 2023
Therock5555:
My major problem is how I ghost my partners for no reason, I could be all mushy and squishy with you today and for the next one week, I won't take your calls.

I do it when I need to expend my energy on a certain problem, all my girls have tried to change me, the more I ghost them.


So we've all come to a compromise, if I ghost them, they wait patiently until I find them again, I fit forget babe for months before reaching out, and I'll act like we have been seeing ourselves since yesterday.


Na only God go help my wife if I marry oh
I'm battling with this exact same shit brother.
It has caused several failed relationships.
I don't know what to do but i know it's not right.
They always leave after trying to change it with my approval and we work towards it together but it always end with us parting ways 🥲
Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by dandig(m): 8:24pm On Oct 30, 2023
operotimi:
Once she’s inside she prefers being on only panties…Now she stopped that .. she prefers staying naked..her complaints, everything inconvenient her
Otuosha!!!!! My kind of woman

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Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by Badadvisor: 8:27pm On Oct 30, 2023
Amayabor1:


Go seek help. Ozuor. Saying it as if it is an achievement. Nonsense attitude!
Very bad character Bro. I'm going through the same shit honestly i have lost many good relationships because of that.
Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by MikeMicheal(m): 8:29pm On Oct 30, 2023
ukaface:

Nyamaaaaaaa
🤮
undecided undecided undecided
Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by Badadvisor: 8:29pm On Oct 30, 2023
Pootle:
she did a good job stopping my drinking and smoking habit, i smoke like a chimney those years she said i choose between smoking or telling my mum and the later means the end of our marraige. i choose the first option cause i knew my mum will be so heartbroken that i did not keep to my promise of quitting smoking. still one of the best decision i make cos it kept me alive, shortly after i quit smoking i had a lungs issue that almost ended my life, pls dont smoke if you have to smoke weed
Which weed smh.
Anything smoke should be cut off completely.
I completely stopped smoking July 1st and that's the best decision i made this year.
Smoked for 6 years
It's not just worth it at all.

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Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by Flesh10: 8:35pm On Oct 30, 2023
Goalminded1:

Make sure you wife-her up.
She sounds like a peace-provider from your narration. And peace of mind is all a man needs from his woman. Peace of mind on all fronts.
Love her unconditionally, and never let any other women, no matter how physically appealing and endowed she looks, make you cheat on your lady.
Lucky you. You found a good match.
For me, I'm very selective and I'll wait my turn , no matter how long it takes. I value my joy and peace of mind above everything else.
My latina is somewhere out there in the Americas or in the US. And I'll be united with her once the time arrives. No rush. smiley

My brother only a fool sees diamond and go for stone.

Only reason we are not married is because I am writing an exam while she is also learning a trade.

I met that girl at home, I was a broke and unkept guy but this girl saw through me and stayed by me.

Now I will say I am comfortable and she is still there. She is my wife for sure and definitely I will wife her once we are done with our training. 2024 may be our last as singles

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Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by thinkmoney(m): 8:47pm On Oct 30, 2023
olanreyman:
Mine used to cheat, she stopped being a cheat and now she's a chronic cheater
Lolz... u no well oh😁

Why is she still your girlfriend then?
Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by ravensckar(m): 8:51pm On Oct 30, 2023
Expecting your partner to change after marriage is like waiting for a ship at an airport. O wrong nau! cheesy cheesy

Back then, mine used to clean the house. Mop everywhere, wash clothes and cook nice meals. Deep down I knew it was a format, so, I enjoyed it while it lasted. After the first child, Hanty changed. I just smiled. After the second child, hanty come bad finish. I just took it upon myself to become the cleaner. As for the cooking, na outside food dey rescue son of Man o.

Then one day I decided to set her up, I invited her dad without her notice. My father in-law saw our house and was shocked. He lambasted his daughter so tey hanty begin dey cry. Since then, hanty come change small. cheesy cheesy cheesy

But in all, my wife is still the most wonderful lady that I've ever known. If I have another opportunity to marry again, I'll still marry her. cheesy cheesy

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Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by AfDapone: 9:08pm On Oct 30, 2023
Kollabo419:
Nna mehnnnn


Which kind wahala talk.be this one

Fuel.is now 650 @ awoyaya fuel.station
Someone is still talking about change

Something that's still going to 1k+. Change is always constant, bro. Embrace it.

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Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by debbydams(f): 9:17pm On Oct 30, 2023
ONEjoblessGUY:


Lol....
How??

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Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by Oyindamolah: 10:26pm On Oct 30, 2023
shocked
debbydams:
when I met him he's everything a lady want but now he's toxic mean extremely toxic
Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by Nobody: 11:56pm On Oct 30, 2023
Flesh10:


My brother only a fool sees diamond and go for stone.

Only reason we are not married is because I am writing an exam while she is also learning a trade.

I met that girl at home, I was a broke and unkept guy but this girl saw through me and stayed by me.

Now I will say I am comfortable and she is still there. She is my wife for sure and definitely I will wife her once we are done with our training. 2024 may be our last as singles
Hallelujah! Praise the Lord, somebody!

Best wishes , Sir. She's a keeper. You too are.

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Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by chccho(m): 12:56am On Oct 31, 2023
meobizy:
I will be back when I settle on someone for a partner.
Come n settle on me
Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by Benki003(m): 5:44am On Oct 31, 2023
Therock5555:
My major problem is how I ghost my partners for no reason, I could be all mushy and squishy with you today and for the next one week, I won't take your calls.

I do it when I need to expend my energy on a certain problem, all my girls have tried to change me, the more I ghost them.


So we've all come to a compromise, if I ghost them, they wait patiently until I find them again, I fit forget babe for months before reaching out, and I'll act like we have been seeing ourselves since yesterday.


Na only God go help my wife if I marry oh

Bro this is me right here 🥺🥺 I thought it was only me that have this situation am happy to see am not alone
Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by EmperorFred: 6:19am On Oct 31, 2023
Pootle:
she did a good job stopping my drinking and smoking habit, i smoke like a chimney those years she said i choose between smoking or telling my mum and the later means the end of our marraige. i choose the first option cause i knew my mum will be so heartbroken that i did not keep to my promise of quitting smoking. still one of the best decision i make cos it kept me alive, shortly after i quit smoking i had a lungs issue that almost ended my life, pls dont smoke if you have to smoke weed
Are you saying weed is better or worst to smoke?
Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by AareGaa: 6:46am On Oct 31, 2023
Hezzyluv:
Sucking my sausage. embarassed

Which one is sausage?
Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by SirMichael1: 7:04am On Oct 31, 2023
Therock5555:
My major problem is how I ghost my partners for no reason, I could be all mushy and squishy with you today and for the next one week, I won't take your calls.

I do it when I need to expend my energy on a certain problem, all my girls have tried to change me, the more I ghost them.


So we've all come to a compromise, if I ghost them, they wait patiently until I find them again, I fit forget babe for months before reaching out, and I'll act like we have been seeing ourselves since yesterday.


Na only God go help my wife if I marry oh

This is exactly my problem too. Once I'm stressed or have something worrying my mind that I need to find solutions to, I ghost everything. I simply withdraw from anything emotional and just want to find solutions to the problem.

When I do this, my ex always feels very sad that I can't tell her what my problems are and how we could fix it together. Honestly, I wish I could tell her but I can't. I just want to be on my own and fix it.

I read somewhere that it's your brain's coping mechanism and somewhat reflection of how your childhood was. Something like people like this were often alone and most times, try to find solutions to things themselves and they grew up with that.

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Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by stanliwise(m): 7:06am On Oct 31, 2023
Therock5555:
My major problem is how I ghost my partners for no reason, I could be all mushy and squishy with you today and for the next one week, I won't take your calls.

I do it when I need to expend my energy on a certain problem, all my girls have tried to change me, the more I ghost them.


So we've all come to a compromise, if I ghost them, they wait patiently until I find them again, I fit forget babe for months before reaching out, and I'll act like we have been seeing ourselves since yesterday.


Na only God go help my wife if I marry oh
I so much relate with this. Anytime anything stress me na to ghost everybody and sort the stress out. Every of my babe don tire for me. Even me sef don tire for my sef lolx. Na God go help me make my wife be so understanding.

Funny thing is when I get back, I go wan start to relate like say we don dey talk since

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Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by stanliwise(m): 7:07am On Oct 31, 2023
Benki003:


Bro this is me right here 🥺🥺 I thought it was only me that have this situation am happy to see am not alone
Me sef join the group o lolz
Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by stanliwise(m): 7:09am On Oct 31, 2023
EmperorFred:
Are you saying weed is better or worst to smoke?
He mean you can smoke anything else but don’t smoke weed
Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by AareGaa: 7:09am On Oct 31, 2023
Flesh10:
6yrs relationship with my fiancee I can't seem to find any fault with her. I have searched and searched yet that babe is just too perfect in every area. I asked her about my flaws too and where I need to improve she also cannot spot.

We are a perfect match, 6yrs and chasing 7yrs no drama, no fight, no quarrel just both of us loving , making sacrifices and managing our little.


I'm happy for both you. You're both lucky.
I will like to meet her.

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Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by Slimplush: 8:57am On Oct 31, 2023
Chevrolet076:



This is one of my fears about people. Because one red flag that you decide to ignore at the initial stage will compound to become worse with time.
Comprehend the message sir, he didn't ignore no red flag, only that the red flag decided to raise itself after...

Fear of marriage, that is!!
Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by Orlatunday11(m): 9:14am On Oct 31, 2023
Late night, she gat home 8-9 pm b4 but now 7 on dot. Likewise me.
Rolling of Eba has stop
Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by Benki003(m): 9:30am On Oct 31, 2023
stanliwise:

Me sef join the group o lolz

Swear bruh it's crazy sometimes even when she calls I'll See it ring but won't pick, If she ask I'll tell her that am not feeling well mood swings😑🌚


Honestly mine happen mostly when am broke and thinking of how to make money.

I also do it to my mom and sis too like am just tired of it but I can't just help🥺

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Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by JohnnA1: 9:33am On Oct 31, 2023
Flesh10:
6yrs relationship with my fiancee I can't seem to find any fault with her. I have searched and searched yet that babe is just too perfect in every area. I asked her about my flaws too and where I need to improve she also cannot spot.

We are a perfect match, 6yrs and chasing 7yrs no drama, no fight, no quarrel just both of us loving , making sacrifices and managing our little.

Hope no be hide and seek mode una dey oh?

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Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by JohnnA1: 9:44am On Oct 31, 2023
ravensckar:
Expecting your partner to change after marriage is like waiting for a ship at an airport. O wrong nau! cheesy cheesy

Back then, mine used to clean the house. Mop everywhere, wash clothes and cook nice meals. Deep down I knew it was a format, so, I enjoyed it while it lasted. After the first child, Hanty changed. I just smiled. After the second child, hanty come bad finish. I just took it upon myself to become the cleaner. As for the cooking, na outside food dey rescue son of Man o.

Then one day I decided to set her up, I invited her dad without her notice. My father in-law saw our house and was shocked. He lambasted his daughter so tey hanty begin dey cry. Since then, hanty come change small. cheesy cheesy cheesy

But in all, my wife is still the most wonderful lady that I've ever known. If I have another opportunity to marry again, I'll still marry her. cheesy cheesy
You are a wise and practical man. Bro, according to you Wetin person should look for, in a woman?

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Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by daddyxavier: 9:58am On Oct 31, 2023
obicoolnino:
As a partner to my spouse,I stopped taking satchet captain jack after she complained I should stop taking it...that thing purge my belle no be small.

So you changed to the big bottle abi? That one no dey purge belle.
Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by rapheal5(m): 10:48am On Oct 31, 2023
Therock5555:
My major problem is how I ghost my partners for no reason, I could be all mushy and squishy with you today and for the next one week, I won't take your calls.

I do it when I need to expend my energy on a certain problem, all my girls have tried to change me, the more I ghost them.


So we've all come to a compromise, if I ghost them, they wait patiently until I find them again, I fit forget babe for months before reaching out, and I'll act like we have been seeing ourselves since yesterday.


Na only God go help my wife if I marry oh
This is me with all my friends, I haven't talk, see or chat with some of them this yea. But if mistakenly jam for road we go vibe like never b4.

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Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by achimendy(m): 12:08pm On Oct 31, 2023
Brandiebird:
I didn’t vote Buhari because I don’t believe in change, you think it’s a woman’s change that will change my mind? 🥴




Hahahahahahahaha
Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by Pootle: 12:53pm On Oct 31, 2023
EmperorFred:
Are you saying weed is better or worst to smoke?

pure weed not the lased one i.e SK,kolos, though i dont smoke anyone anymore

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