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Re: Court Marriage Without Paying Bride Price by obaidan: 3:25pm On Nov 20, 2023
Icrave4u:
If you marry a lady via court wedding and you didnt pay her bride price are you legally married to her.
It depends on who is looking at the case, if its her family, you are not married to her, if its the law you are so so so married to her.

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Re: Court Marriage Without Paying Bride Price by Amah101(m): 3:25pm On Nov 20, 2023
Icrave4u:
If you marry a lady via court wedding and you didnt pay her bride price are you legally married to her.

The court will asked, if you have satisfied the bride's parent (by paying bride prize) before proceeding the court marriage.
Re: Court Marriage Without Paying Bride Price by Hugotee: 3:26pm On Nov 20, 2023
SUPERPACK:
Yes, you are legally married. Court marriage don't require bride price nor consent from family members.

But for the sake of peace and avoidance of future wahala pls pay the bride price before going ahead with the court marriage or even after.

I don't know where you are from but here in igboland they don't joke with bride price, it is important and will be talked about for ages. Your children could be regarded as outcast to the extended family too.

But if you get a very understanding family that agree to court marriage only then no issue as they have the right to wave it or make it very affordable even down to just #50 so you will have no issues.

My community here in Enugu will most times say bring #100,000 and when it is presented they will take only one note from the whole money and return the rest to the groom's family. They will tell you that there daughter is not for sale and if maltreated they will take her back.

If the family insist on bride price please do not force your way through with the court marriage as it could be risky, the tussle is not worth it.

They will soon marry your sister or daughter without pay any thing. Goat.
Re: Court Marriage Without Paying Bride Price by ednut1(m): 3:26pm On Nov 20, 2023
Yes you are.
Re: Court Marriage Without Paying Bride Price by jackie111(m): 3:27pm On Nov 20, 2023
That's how one woman married her church member because her husband ( the pastor of the church) did not pay bride price.

She went as far as changing the children's name to the new husband's name.

Without confusing and convincing you, make sure you do both so that they will not use your matter to do nlfpmod
Re: Court Marriage Without Paying Bride Price by airsaylongcome: 3:28pm On Nov 20, 2023
Abrahamweb:

Bride price is a most.
Court wedding is a foreign concept and not compulsory.
If you want respect from your in-laws,pay bride price first and court wedding after.
You want to carry their daughter with asking for their blessings ni?

No where in Africa is dowry a must. It is recommended and highly encouraged, but if the couple both say they want to marry and damn any dowry, nobody will stop them. Highest they get cut off from their family

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Re: Court Marriage Without Paying Bride Price by oluwaseyi0: 3:28pm On Nov 20, 2023
immortalcrown:
I am not sure but I believe the court respects tradition and may insist on payment of bride price before conducting the court marriage. On the other hand, legality is different from tradition. What is traditional may be illegal and what is legal may be untraditional.

Nope

There's no such thing as bride price in court wedding or custom

All they need is willingness and readiness of both couple to marry, even parent and family consent ain't needed, just one married witness from groom and a married witness from bride

That's all

Marriage hold when court joins you and only death or divorce can separate you every other thing is optional or at your discretion

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Re: Court Marriage Without Paying Bride Price by Hugotee: 3:28pm On Nov 20, 2023
GenderMix:


This is not correct. You can do court wedding without paying bride price. Infact when i did mine, only 2 of my friends were present to sign as witness. Our parents were absent because we felt it was unnecessary but for them to travel down.

However, bride price /traditional wedding is what our culture recognize. It has to do with recognition of the couples by the families. It's the most important as far as nigerian families are concerned. You may be deprived of certain traditional benefits if you're not traditionally married. Although those benefits will not prevent you from living your normal lives.

If you are a fan of African traditional culture, then you need to do it to promote the culture

Oga stop this nonsense!!!, the court recognize tradition. You must pay Bride prize before court marriage.

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Re: Court Marriage Without Paying Bride Price by BluntCrazeMan: 3:28pm On Nov 20, 2023
Icrave4u:
If you marry a lady via court wedding and you didnt pay her bride price are you legally married to her.



Can the court wed someone (or some people) without the consent of their own people??
(Both the people from the man's side and the woman's side)

If it can ever be possible,, especially when these people are alive,, then the answer to your question is YESS.

If not, then the answer is NO
Re: Court Marriage Without Paying Bride Price by obaidan: 3:29pm On Nov 20, 2023
immortalcrown:
I am not sure but I believe the court respects tradition and may insist on payment of bride price before conducting the court marriage. On the other hand, legality is different from tradition. What is traditional may be illegal and what is legal may be untraditional.
Your belief is not correct.

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Re: Court Marriage Without Paying Bride Price by Hugotee: 3:31pm On Nov 20, 2023
Icrave4u:
If you marry a lady via court wedding and you didnt pay her bride price are you legally married to her.

What you just did is stealing and any court that weddz you is not a court may be another thing.
Re: Court Marriage Without Paying Bride Price by Hugotee: 3:33pm On Nov 20, 2023
airsaylongcome:


No where in Africa is dowry a must. It is recommended and highly encouraged, but if the couple both say they want to marry and damn any dowry, nobody will stop them. Highest they get cut off from their family

Big lie from hell!!!. Dowry is a MUST. Every religion recognized it. Don't say what you don't know pls.

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Re: Court Marriage Without Paying Bride Price by oluwaseyi0: 3:34pm On Nov 20, 2023
Hugotee:


Oga stop this nonsense!!!, the court recognize tradition. You must pay Bride prize before court marriage.

You are the one that should stop this nonsense, which court ever mention bride price, which constitution?

I recently got married (though I did court, traditional and church)

I'm surprised how easy it is to get married in our court you don't even need parent or family consent

Just the couple willingness and ready with one married witness on both side (witness can be any damn body)

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Re: Court Marriage Without Paying Bride Price by Nokio2: 3:34pm On Nov 20, 2023
Dey dia dey speak legal

Go try am for Benin na

Wen ur left scrotum swell reach golf ball
U go find where to pay dowry...
U wan use CSu format for tradition oya na..

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Re: Court Marriage Without Paying Bride Price by oluwaseyi0: 3:36pm On Nov 20, 2023
Hugotee:


Big lie from hell!!!. Dowry is a MUST. Every religion recognized it. Don't say what you don't know pls.

You keep repeating this nonsense even when me that go married last month keep telling you reality, they are just mere frivolity as far as the court is concern, you can't sue a man for not paying dowry in as much as both couple are okay with each other

The court will throw away your stupid case

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Re: Court Marriage Without Paying Bride Price by 82man: 3:37pm On Nov 20, 2023
Yes , you need to pay bride price fully before proceed with court marriage!
Re: Court Marriage Without Paying Bride Price by Blitzking: 3:38pm On Nov 20, 2023
You can rent parent authentication registry sef..but if u love that woman pay her bride price.
Re: Court Marriage Without Paying Bride Price by MSN1(m): 3:38pm On Nov 20, 2023
Icrave4u:
If you marry a lady via court wedding and you didnt pay her bride price are you legally married to her.
NEVER!
The ONLY legal way of marriage is;
Paying her diary to her family any other thing, na extra.
Re: Court Marriage Without Paying Bride Price by Kobojunkie: 3:38pm On Nov 20, 2023
Amah101:
■ The court will asked, if you have satisfied the bride's parent (by paying bride prize) before proceeding the court marriage.
Stop lying! undecided

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Re: Court Marriage Without Paying Bride Price by Kobojunkie: 3:39pm On Nov 20, 2023
82man:
Yes , you need to pay bride price fully before proceed with court marriage!
Lies! undecided

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Re: Court Marriage Without Paying Bride Price by oluwaseyi0: 3:39pm On Nov 20, 2023
MSN1:

NEVER!
The ONLY legal way of marriage is;
Paying her diary to her family any other thing, na extra.
quote author=BluntCrazeMan post=127072037]


Can the court wed someone (or some people) without the consent of their own people??
(Both the people from the man's side and the woman's side)

If it can ever be possible,, especially when these people are alive,, then the answer to your question is YESS.

If not, then the answer is NO

100% yes

The court will wed people without even asking for your people, all they will ask is one married witness from groom side and one witness from bride side and wedding will take place

You can quote me to provide my court wedding certificate if you are confused

Not even once did anyone ask for my parents or family nor my bride family

Wedding happened at shomolu registry

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Re: Court Marriage Without Paying Bride Price by Kobojunkie: 3:39pm On Nov 20, 2023
MSN1:
NEVER! The ONLY legal way of marriage is; Paying her diary to her family any other thing, na extra.
Stop Spreading lies! undecided

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Re: Court Marriage Without Paying Bride Price by Kobojunkie: 3:40pm On Nov 20, 2023
BluntCrazeMan:
Can the court wed someone (or some people) without the consent of their own people??
(Both the people from the man's side and the woman's side) If it can ever be possible,, especially when these people are alive,, then the answer to your question is YESS. If not, then the answer is NO
Why should the court concern itself with whether others consent, or not, to the rights of two individuals in the marriage? undecided

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Re: Court Marriage Without Paying Bride Price by doyin01: 3:40pm On Nov 20, 2023
immortalcrown:
What stuff did I make up?

No court will ask for bride price to be paid before court marriage ..does that even sound sensible to you...what concerns court of law with your bride price

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Re: Court Marriage Without Paying Bride Price by oluwaseyi0: 3:42pm On Nov 20, 2023
Hugotee:


What you just did is stealing and any court that weddz you is not a court may be another thing.

Dey play

Stealing from who?
The lady is a full citizen and that supercede all other form of relationship

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Re: Court Marriage Without Paying Bride Price by Kobojunkie: 3:42pm On Nov 20, 2023
Hugotee:
Big lie from hell!!!. Dowry is a MUST. Every religion recognized it. Don't say what you don't know pls.
Stop Spreading lies! undecided undecided

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Re: Court Marriage Without Paying Bride Price by Kobojunkie: 3:43pm On Nov 20, 2023
Nokio2:
Dey dia dey speak legal Go try am for Benin na Wen ur left scrotum swell reach golf ball
U go find where to pay dowry...
U wan use CSu format for tradition oya na..
Stop Spreading lies! undecided

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Re: Court Marriage Without Paying Bride Price by oluwaseyi0: 3:44pm On Nov 20, 2023
Amah101:


The court will asked, if you have satisfied the bride's parent (by paying bride prize) before proceeding the court marriage.

Nonsense

Which court, I got married last month at shomolu registry, no one will ever ask that

They never asked of my family or parents neither do they ask of my bride

Only one witness and that's all

Marriage by the court is between 2 adults any other third party is considered interloper

You can ask for my marriage certificate in a dry thread

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Re: Court Marriage Without Paying Bride Price by doyin01: 3:44pm On Nov 20, 2023
Hugotee:


Oga stop this nonsense!!!, the court recognize tradition. You must pay Bride prize before court marriage.

If we live in a sane society , someone like you will be arrested for "public misinformation "...

And the most irritating part is that you are even still confidently spreading false information...

Mention one court in nigeria that said you must pay bride price before they give you your marriage certificate and watch the court get into trouble from ministry of justice ...

No court in the world will insist that you must pay bride price before court wedding ....

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Re: Court Marriage Without Paying Bride Price by MSN1(m): 3:45pm On Nov 20, 2023
Kobojunkie:
Stop Spreading lies! undecided
Bros. Tell us d truth, supported with references (Scriptural).

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Re: Court Marriage Without Paying Bride Price by Kobojunkie: 3:45pm On Nov 20, 2023
jackie111:
That's how one woman married her church member because her husband ( the pastor of the church) did not pay bride price. She went as far as changing the children's name to the new husband's name. Without confusing and convincing you, make sure you do both so that they will not use your matter to do
No court will hand over custody to another man if the marriage was legally registered in the courts. All that "who owns the kids" nonsense only comes into play when there was no court registration of the marriage. undecided

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