Zabiboy:

I've got a long epistle on this, but would try to keep it short.
Saying a poor man is "humble" is delusional right? Because you dont really someone until they can afford their temptations..
Same thing for me in this saudi case.
The whole conditioning and society values works yes, but only in their country. Meaning you're most likely living in constant delusion about the person you got married to. If for whatever reason you have to leave that society, are you confident the person's values and behaviours wont change?
Of course, people do change, but for me, i'll feel more confident in someone who knows both sides of the coins and decided to stick to one side ( the good side) than someone who only knows one side or rather someone who is sticking to one side purely because of society.
my opinion

djon78(m):

Yeah I understand your point

But take for our clime
They are all exposed to both sides of the coin
But huge majority can't make better choices and end up messed up

That's where these societies like the Arabs come into play

From another angle
You get the Best from a woman more under conservative lifestyle than liberal one


There was this debate that came online about hijab girls doing bad now, especially from the North.
But plenty men in the end still agreed that hijab women being under conservativism are less exposed to being slutty compared to the liberal ones

Some guys that have been intimate with these hijab ladies confessed that the level of sexual aura they exhibit, they have never experienced it anywhere else

Invariably that's why I always argued that women are not meant to be Left to there whims and Caprice

They should be under guide
Even religious books affirm to this by insisting submission to there make authority

I have never really been keen about this. But looking at the harm female liberation is causing in our society made me speak the way I do now.


Although my argument doesn't support female subjugation and maltreatment
Rather women to play there rightful, respected role in the society.

ALTHOUGH THE THREAD IS NOT A RELIGIOUS ONE BUT I BELIEVE THE REDPILL TOUCHES ALL ASPECT OF HUMANITY NOT JUST GAME BUT PSYCHOLOGY ETC.I TRY MY BEST TO STAY AWAY FROM ANY RELIGIOUS POST CAUSE WHEN RELIGION COMES UP, PPL THROW AWAY LOGIC AND DEAL WITH EMOTIONS.

Not that I'm trying to promote any religion. But if one delves very very deep into the red pill, evident from the likes of Tate, it takes you back to the laws of God written in books of different monotheistic religion (Islam, Judaism, Christianity-- etc). That is for those that believe in God. And in these books contains laws also for the female folks. How a female should dress, act, behave etc likewise other aspects of life.

I believe some arabs=Islam=northerners r the ones that strictly try to enforce those rules in their books against the Western societal norms. You see stuff like Hisbah, Islamic police in far northern Nigeria that try to enforce these laws against alcoholism, promiscuity etc. But even at that, you find out these days the western influence is deep influencing those societies as well from movies, social media etc. In the form of women liberation, oppression, wokeness, feminism etc. Not that, the xtians too don't have these in the books but I believe little to no enforcement. The keyword is, do they practice the laws in the books devoid of Western influence.

One last thing, it is important to know these Arabs or the northerners or Hijab women aren't saints aswell. Some are only good in hiding it. Like if they want to degenerate they do it secretly away from every prying eyes that would scarcely know. And when they want to turn over a new leaf they do it privately aswell and outwardly they push the moral vibe. A guy could have fckd all the whole girls in the street & know one would know or a former alcoholic and no one knows because the environment and society frown at boasting or showcasing it. You dare not dress in a slutty way up north and they come for your head. For those that have served in the core north like Kano you'd observe you might hardly see a guy like directly talking to a girl touching or holding in the streets but somehow they connect at his home or at night away from all eyes.

And if u ask me I'd say it's better for a society to be like that. Degeneracy shouldn't be something to be celebrated openly. For those that believe in history and God what do you think made the people of Sodom and Gomorrah to be phased with such cataclysm? These ppl were openly doing it like in the streets, I watched a documentary, and those ppl have all those sxual inscriptions on their plates, cups, door entrance & much more..like when you compare then and now the one word that separates us is SHAME.

Below is a quote from one of the monotheistic books(Quran).

luminouz:

K

Oooooh Lumi. You dey always give me joy wey no good.

But you sef, why you dey always like wound person pikin with vitamin K? E no good o.

Martinez39s:
Oooooh Lumi. You dey always give me joy wey no good.

But you sef, why you dey always like wound person pikin with vitamin K? E no good o.

Baba Martinez!!! You know me na...why I go dey argue unnecessarily with am.... E no good for my soul biko.

Although, na the vaginarians e dey pain well well. They will even call each other and tag me a coward for not fighting with them. Imagine me fighting online with a feminist, na waste of my attention na. That 'K' dey wound them seriously.🤣

narite:

That lady might have not eaten anything all day and probably there is no hope that something will come at the end of the day. If it turns out that this is the precarious situation she is in, You have no idea the blessings you might have thrown away by not buying her just one Donut.

There is nothing wrong in stretching out a hand to someone you are just seeing for the first time; what or who they are, the things you have heard about them shouldn’t not really matter to you. Good is good and it should be rendered unconditionally. This is the grandeur purpose of everything in existence. A Cup will allow you to drink water with it, whether you are bad or good does not really matter to that cup.

Lastly, simping is not about being brutal to ladies right from day one. Yes! You might need to become brutal but it is only when you are being taken for granted. This is the moment you stop and walk away from her.

A man can be simping to his fellow man, being taken for granted by his friends, not appreciating or seeing any worth in him and taking the things he does for them as nothing. This is where you stop and move on. Move on to those who really values and appreciate the things you do for them and not actually becoming a just brutal person.

One day, those that you left behind will begin to see your true value but they have blown their chance. They probably will want to move back into your life but do not look back. Only then will they truly learn something significant from that experience and you would have helped them grow.

Well said!
Guys let's calm down and chill. Redpill isn't about being too tough or aggressive towards women. The response to the lady was quite harsh. Personally, I'm able to decipher an innocent request vs when I'm being taken for granted. The poster probably responsed based on suspicion the lady might be trying to rip him off.
Be kind, not nice! Take it easy

Rukevwe999:
A mother's love may be unconditional but at the same time can be choking.
A mother's overprotective nature may prevent a man from taking risks and thus the man cannot fully grow. A man too tethered to his mother cannot experience full intimacy with a woman. In fact his woman becomes like a second wife.
It's harder to break from a mother's apron strings than that of any woman, because it holds you mentally and spiritually.
Love your mother wholeheartedly but know the boundaries you must keep with her as you grow.

I agree. A man has not become a man yet when his mother still makes decisions for him. Moms are generally risk averse. When I finished school, I went against several of my mom's wishes and advice which came from a place of fear and being too over protective. I took risks. I made my own decisions and own up to the consequences which a vast majority of those were positive. The only negative one if I recall was my investment losses. She sounded several warnings while investing in agritech crowdfunding. I was convinced I had done thorough due diligence analysis. Omo I lost all of it. It was the one time my mom was right.

IAmHim1:
But the character of 'being responsible' in a woman is like low budget accountability. Almost like you're asking her to be accountable...to be logical...to be man-like... against her very nature as a woman in her emotions

Cus survival is logical and logic is man trait and women in survival mode end up being logical ie female soldiers, girl who grew up in ghetto, women climbing the career ladder (ambitious women)

Also throwing in the fact that female education is like the g-sp0t of the matriarchy...when aroused brings out its inner.

Everything is geared towards making a woman accountountable. Even p1pms trust their bottom bitch to run the stable...to be accountable. how do you make a woman accountable without making her logical?

Cc: ubunja
Caveadallam
Martinez39
Reminderz
Pukkalolo

Ps: these are the names in my head at the moment. Answers towards this question from anyone is highly welcome

PS2: ubunja mentions demanding receipts for your purchases through her AND HER PURCHASES TOO as a way to make a woman accountable with the excuse of exchanging Incase a better version of the purchase is released. Subtle yet good.

PS3(lolz): I understand accountability in a woman comes in a form. You give her money to prepare a pot of stew for you. YOU EXPECT YOUR POT OF STEW. NOTHING ELSE

But how much till she tilts over the side of logic. Is there a way you balance by taking accountability from her in ways not detrimental to you as a man?

This is a very interesting question. Infact, I'll say, this is one of the most important question pertaining handling women.

Because at core, what's the difference between the girl who end up to being highly rebellious, stubborn, insolent to her man VS the girl that ends up being a highly respectful and valuable girlfriend/wife.

Well, the difference is called ACCOUNTABILITY.

If you want a chick to be responsible, respectful and submissive, then you want to make her "account" for any crappy behavior she exhibit.

One of the key skills of being good with women and making them responsible and accountable around you is having the ability to punish women for their crappy behavior.


Let me give you a quick simple example. Last month I was in a conversation on the phone with this new girl who was already gradually falling for me. While we were deep in our fun conversation, suddenly in her background I could hear a dude telling her, "that your toaster on the phone have started deceiving you again."

She laughed and responded to the guy, "go jhor, you are not serious."

At that moment, I immediately hang-up the call.

A minute later, she called my phone. When I picked the call, she said, "why did you just hangout on me like that"

I responded, saying, "talking to another guy while you are on the phone with me is a disrespect to my own fuckin time."

She started explaining that it's her colleague at work and it's nothing special.

She started apologizing seriously.

Anyways, after that incidents, she became more "responsible". I noticed anytime we are talking on the phone, she makes sure she distance herself from people because she doesn't wants anyone disturbing our conversation.

I made her account for her crappy attitude, she became more responsible.

I have hundreds of examples me calling women out on their bullshit behavior and making them apologize and being more respectful towards me.


When a girl misbehave and you call her out on her behavior, you are making her accountable for it. This actually makes her more careful and "submissvely responsible" when dealing with you. And this make her like and respect you more.

There are lots of spoilt, saucy and rude girls out there because most men are allowing these girls get away with being spoilt, saucy and rude attitude.

Every woman around me is totally submissive, feminine and "responsible" because they know I have zero tolerance for bullshit.

Come to think of it, couple of fellas in my social circle offline already know I'm the author of Top G dating secret(shameless approach), so they often closely observe to see how I'm handling the ladies around me. Now imagine I'm caught acting all "beta" around a saucy girl.....

Of course, that will screw up my rep.

You have to set rules/boundaries for certain things you won't accept from women. When you set rules and boundaries, you'll naturally force women to become accountable and responsible for their behavior.

If you want people to be responsible and accountable, set certain rules. That's why schools, company, organization and society have rules of conducts.

Rules is what keep the society together. If there was no rules, the world would be on fire.

Look here on nairaland for example. Nairaland has certain rules that must be adhere to. if you violate any of them, you get ban or something. Those rules naturally motivate all of us to be responsible here.

This is why anytime I see a guy saying things like this: "my woman is too stubborn," OR "my woman wahala too much,"

All I see is a weak dude who has no rules, boundaries or standards.

A weak man will accept bullshit from a woman, then he turns around and complain that's "this woman is giving me headache."

UppaZakum:

I agree. A man has not become a man yet when his mother still makes decisions for him. Moms are generally risk averse. When I finished school, I went against several of my mom's wishes and advice which came from a place of fear and being too over protective. I took risks. I made my own decisions and own up to the consequences which a vast majority of those were positive. The only negative one if I recall was my investment losses. She sounded several warnings while investing in agritech crowdfunding. I was convinced I had done thorough due diligence analysis. Omo I lost all of it. It was the one time my mom was right.

Even that one time she wasn't right. Good one there. I'm so glad you followed your inner voice. No one knows better where you should be than your inner voice. I bet you many ppl don't have the balls to oppose their parents. They're just living their parents lives.

There's no any investment that's a waste. We learn from all investments whether they fail or succeed. That's the mindset of a winner. If not anything you've learnt grit!. When you invest & profit you win; when you fail, you learn. A win-win.

Personally, I don't believe in saving. I take finances like a counter attacking football, less of defense. Than to save, I rather put the money into liquid assets that can be liquidated at will & spend the rest. All those saving BS is bullshit..funny enough the red pill also delves into finance. Show me a man that has billionaire-d his way by saving(fear).

I've virtually opposed all my parents decisions & I'm so much happy; from choice of course, to pressuring me to apply for 9-5, marriage etc. Themselves know, coconut head!

It seems like every other casual conversation I have with men these days drifts into the subject of female nature.

Specifically how women are wicked and ruin men's lives.

What a lot of these men fail to realize is the roles they play. And one way they do this is by putting themselves in the boyfriend zone.

The bf zone is just as bad as the friend zone (maybe even worse). And like the friend zone, guys are the ones that put themselves there.

Now, you probably already know I'm a big advocate of becoming a hook up material rather than bf or husband material. It's a surefire way that makes a girl WANT to fùck you (and do it fast).

It allows her to bring out her slutty side for you. The side she'd usually hide from her bf.

Someone asked me how to avoid falling into this boyfriend zone trap. So, a lengthy answer to that question lies ahead…

To achieve this, there are DOs and DON'Ts. The things to DO to avoid the bf zone and get seen as a Hook up material will be for another day. Personally I use Lust Oriented Topics (LOT) and Frames to achieve this.

However, you can find a good number of the DON'Ts in this post.

And you should pay close attention because many times in seduction, the difference between having a girl see you as a hook up material she loves to fùck OR a bf guy she can bill or manipulate lies in the DON'Ts you should run far away from.

To set the stage, take a good, hard look at these comments:

"I picked her up… someone who hasn't seen 100k in her life. I bought her a car of 4mn. She said it's too small and went for 12mn… yet she left me after her business started doing well"

"When women start making money they misbehave" "I'm scared of women they're such evil and wicked creatures

Each comment you just read captures the sad essence of what it means to be locked up in bf land.

If I asked you to name a common theme amongst them you'd probably say the men invested heavily. And you'd be right. But there's something deeper.

You can find what in this comment: "women are such evil and wicked creatures "

You see, men have egos the size of a football field. Making it easy for us to shift all or most of the blame on someone else. Especially women.

To these men, they're blind to the roles they played in their predicament.

Tattoo this in your brain: A Woman's behavior and actions is the reflection of the man

Write it down on the walls of your room if you have to.

Because if you present yourself as a bf, a bf you will always be. Women adjust their behavior to the man or men they're around.

Weak men in society? Trashy women are created. Weak guy? Cheating gf. Bf zone guy? Billings and manipulation. Hook up material guy? Endless amount of free, passionate knacks.

Before we unpack all the bf DON'Ts you should run away from like Tinubu…

Let's zoom in on why the bf zone is such a bad idea:

---Why the bf zone guy finishes last

● Can you guess at which stage a woman is most manipulative? If you said "in a relationship" you're right

When a girl starts calling you her bf or husband BEFORE she gets sexually intimate with you, she's giving a signal.

That currently, she sees you as someone she can manipulate. So she's in a hurry to lock you down and bill you.

It's like that guy that's wondering why working class girls act independent before dating but suddenly start billing him in a relationship. He is a typical bf zone guy


● Another big reason why the bf zone is a no go area is her slutty side.

You see, girls are not stupid. When you present yourself as bf material she knows she has to live up to the expectation of a gf.

And we all know how much we want our gfs to be presentable and good. Therefore, she'll act (read: pretend) accordingly.

In your mind she's soo happy to make you her bf. But for reasons far different from yours.

You've found a girl you can take to mum. She's found a naive man she can bill and take her mum out of Sapa.

Being a hook up material stops this from happening to you. Because to her you can solve one of her problems: her urge to get fùcked.

● It gives a false sense of hope.

You might think girls don't like the guys they put in the bf zone. They do. Infact, a lot of them are charming and charismatic.

Very few women will pick a total loser to be her bf or husband.

That's why the moment before she makes you her bf is filled with her stroking your ego.

Telling you how much you'd make a good bf. Listing your attractive qualities and making you feel in top the world

Soon, you start falling for her. Believing her manipulation. To her, it's all a game. And she's setting you up as her escape from Sapa plan.

Now, let's dive into those DON'Ts you're probably eagerly waiting to know...

Ready?

---DON'Ts you should avoid from falling into the bf zone

● Taking her on Dinner Dates

Nothing screams "make me your bf pleaseeeee" like carrying a girl on dinner dates.

Sure, it's slightly possible to do it and still be seen as a Hook up material. But it's an uphill battle.

And I have no intentions to make things harder for you or myself. Especially if you met her online.

Dinner dates are just too much: Too much pressure, too much effort, too much investment.

I mean, you just met her and you're suited up to go on a date at a fancy restaurant. And you're surprised she didn't want to Bleep you after spending 30k? Lol

Recently I watched a tiktok where a girl described a rich, handsome guy she met online. They kicked things off fast and 2 nights later they were out for dinner

The guy was dripping. In her words, he looked like he had money. She had already planned on the trips they'd go to in her mind.

Yet when the guy invited her back to his place… her answer? No. Not gonna happen.

If inviting a girl to dinner is bad, inviting a girl to dinner you met online (think Facebook, tinder and whatsapp) is terrible.

Believe it or not, majority of girls active online on those 3 apps are looking to explore their fantasies. They want to experience those fast hookups they read in novels

But only with the right man. That is, the hook up material man. Going out for dinner just puts you several seats back. Almost back to the starting line. Bad move.

Rather than dinners, do a chill bar, lounge or a cinema. Or when possible, straight to your house


● Next up, is trying to impress or impressing her

Some guys are starting to realize why impressing men is a bad idea

Many others are stuck in their old ways of using money, cars etc to get a girl. However, the majority are often surprised why impressing women is such a terrible idea

After all, they hear phrases like these from women: "Money makes me happy" "Money is my love language" "If you don't have money, don't come near me"

The logical brain of a man goes "hmmm she said she wants money so let me impress her"

Only to find out the more he impresses or tries to, the further the coochie goes away

Let me tell you a story, over the weekend I was cock in deep in someone's soon-to-be fiancé when he sent her 25k for the week.

If someone gives me that money in this Tinubu era, I will bless him. But her? She was too concerned about the dìck neatly lodged in her mouth.

After we were done, we went downstairs to spend part of the money. Later on she told me that's how the guy does from the day they met. Always trying to impress her with money or his achievements.

Of course she said she likes the guy. But she doesn't really lust for him(he lacks hook up material vibe)

The biggest problem with impressing women is because they know they are not special. So when you take your hard earned resources (money, time and attention) and spend it on her when you barely know her, her respect for you disappears.

In her mind, how can I trust his leadership when it's easy for him to give up his resources for me.

That's why you hear girls say stuff like: "We just met and you're doing all that" OR "We just met and you're telling me that"

Does it boost her ego? Yes Does it make her feel validated and happy? Yes. But does it make her coochie wet for you? Absolutely NOT.


● Question/Statement Matrix


There are a host of questions and statements that place you neatly into the bf zone.

I'll go over three of them.

The first one: "Tell me about yourself"
No statement makes a girl roll her eyes than this.

If you asked your female friends what's one thing they hate guys saying, 80% of them will pick it

Why? Because they don't even know themselves. And it highlights a lack of experience in a man.


"Where do you see yourself in a serious relationship in the future?"

Imagine you're out with a girl on a date. Then she pops that question.

Whether you like it or not, the thought of her wanting to be in a relationship with you will cross your mind.

That's exactly how she feels when a guy asks that. And to her, it's too early for such pressure.

So what she does is to start evaluating you for bf material when she should be looking at you as someone to hook up with.

Then, the journey to knacking her becomes longer than trekking from Lagos to kano.

"I'd never do that to you…I would support you. Let me help you get that"

You know that moment when a girl starts telling you how badly her exes or besties have treated her?

Then a guy jumps in telling her he'd never do that. Or he'd be different and treat her right.

Or he'd support her no matter what if he was the one. Lol. Doing that puts you in a long list of guys auditioning to be her bf

Sure, she sees you as safe. Like such a sweet guy. She tells you how much your "empathy" makes you a good bf. You're smiling… "I don catch her"

No, she has caught you.

2 months later when your bills and investments have crossed the 200k threshold and she's still cheating, you're wondering where it all went wrong.

Well, it started from those comments.


● Being too available.

Calling her Steady. Texting her a lot. Going on multiple dates with her BEFORE you're sexually intimate with her is a fantastic way to bf zone yourself.

Avoid being too available at her request before knacking her. It's a bad spot to be in.


● Avoid being her therapist

Girls are emotional creatures. And there's a host of things that could potentially trigger sadness in her.

When that happens, she's going to look for a naive man to offload it on.

You do NOT want to be that man. Girls want to have fun because it's easier for it lead to knacks.

Sitting there acting like her therapist to her never-ending problems just delays your progress with her

There was a guy here I advised who was toasting a girl in a relationship.

At first, she was feeling him because he was displaying hook up material qualities. Then he switched to bf zone guy activities and things started to fall off.

I had to bring him back. Make him understand that what she wants is to have fun and Bleep. Not for you to act like a therapist sponge and soak up her negative energy

She wants to forget her problems with you. That's why it's important you avoid dwelling to long on her problems

One or two lines to empathize with her and you change the subject.


So that's it. A bunch of DON'Ts you don't want to get close to.

I'll write about the DOs later.

But coming next is a detailed break down of why women lie and how you can drastically reduce or outright prevent them from lieing to you. So keep an eye out for that

Rizzputin:
It seems like every other casual conversation I have with men these days drifts into the subject of female nature.

Specifically how women are wicked and ruin men's lives.

What a lot of these men fail to realize is the roles they play. And one way they do this is by putting themselves in the boyfriend zone.

The bf zone is just as bad as the friend zone (maybe even worse). And like the friend zone, guys are the ones that put themselves there.

Now, you probably already know I'm a big advocate of becoming a hook up material rather than bf or husband material. It's a surefire way that makes a girl WANT to fùck you (and do it fast).

It allows her to bring out her slutty side for you. The side she'd usually hide from her bf.

Someone asked me how to avoid falling into this boyfriend zone trap. So, a lengthy answer to that question lies ahead…

To achieve this, there are DOs and DON'Ts. The things to DO to avoid the bf zone and get seen as a Hook up material will be for another day. Personally I use Lust Oriented Topics (LOT) and Frames to achieve this.

However, you can find a good number of the DON'Ts in this post.

And you should pay close attention because many times in seduction, the difference between having a girl see you as a hook up material she loves to fùck OR a bf guy she can bill or manipulate lies in the DON'Ts you should run far away from.

To set the stage, take a good, hard look at these comments:

"I picked her up… someone who hasn't seen 100k in her life. I bought her a car of 4mn. She said it's too small and went for 12mn… yet she left me after her business started doing well"

"When women start making money they misbehave" "I'm scared of women they're such evil and wicked creatures

Each comment you just read captures the sad essence of what it means to be locked up in bf land.

If I asked you to name a common theme amongst them you'd probably say the men invested heavily. And you'd be right. But there's something deeper.

You can find what in this comment: "women are such evil and wicked creatures "

You see, men have egos the size of a football field. Making it easy for us to shift all or most of the blame on someone else. Especially women.

To these men, they're blind to the roles they played in their predicament.

Tattoo this in your brain: A Woman's behavior and actions is the reflection of the man

Write it down on the walls of your room if you have to.

Because if you present yourself as a bf, a bf you will always be. Women adjust their behavior to the man or men they're around.

Weak men in society? Trashy women are created. Weak guy? Cheating gf. Bf zone guy? Billings and manipulation. Hook up material guy? Endless amount of free, passionate knacks.

Before we unpack all the bf DON'Ts you should run away from like Tinubu…

Let's zoom in on why the bf zone is such a bad idea:

---Why the bf zone guy finishes last

● Can you guess at which stage a woman is most manipulative? If you said "in a relationship" you're right

When a girl starts calling you her bf or husband BEFORE she gets sexually intimate with you, she's giving a signal.

That currently, she sees you as someone she can manipulate. So she's in a hurry to lock you down and bill you.

It's like that guy that's wondering why working class girls act independent before dating but suddenly start billing him in a relationship. He is a typical bf zone guy


● Another big reason why the bf zone is a no go area is her slutty side.

You see, girls are not stupid. When you present yourself as bf material she knows she has to live up to the expectation of a gf.

And we all know how much we want our gfs to be presentable and good. Therefore, she'll act (read: pretend) accordingly.

In your mind she's soo happy to make you her bf. But for reasons far different from yours.

You've found a girl you can take to mum. She's found a naive man she can bill and take her mum out of Sapa.

Being a hook up material stops this from happening to you. Because to her you can solve one of her problems: her urge to get fùcked.

● It gives a false sense of hope.

You might think girls don't like the guys they put in the bf zone. They do. Infact, a lot of them are charming and charismatic.

Very few women will pick a total loser to be her bf or husband.

That's why the moment before she makes you her bf is filled with her stroking your ego.

Telling you how much you'd make a good bf. Listing your attractive qualities and making you feel in top the world

Soon, you start falling for her. Believing her manipulation. To her, it's all a game. And she's setting you up as her escape from Sapa plan.

Now, let's dive into those DON'Ts you're probably eagerly waiting to know...

Ready?

---DON'Ts you should avoid from falling into the bf zone

● Taking her on Dinner Dates

Nothing screams "make me your bf pleaseeeee" like carrying a girl on dinner dates.

Sure, it's slightly possible to do it and still be seen as a Hook up material. But it's an uphill battle.

And I have no intentions to make things harder for you or myself. Especially if you met her online.

Dinner dates are just too much: Too much pressure, too much effort, too much investment.

I mean, you just met her and you're suited up to go on a date at a fancy restaurant. And you're surprised she didn't want to Bleep you after spending 30k? Lol

Recently I watched a tiktok where a girl described a rich, handsome guy she met online. They kicked things off fast and 2 nights later they were out for dinner

The guy was dripping. In her words, he looked like he had money. She had already planned on the trips they'd go to in her mind.

Yet when the guy invited her back to his place… her answer? No. Not gonna happen.

If inviting a girl to dinner is bad, inviting a girl to dinner you met online (think Facebook, tinder and whatsapp) is terrible.

Believe it or not, majority of girls active online on those 3 apps are looking to explore their fantasies. They want to experience those fast hookups they read in novels

But only with the right man. That is, the hook up material man. Going out for dinner just puts you several seats back. Almost back to the starting line. Bad move.

Rather than dinners, do a chill bar, lounge or a cinema. Or when possible, straight to your house


● Next up, is trying to impress or impressing her

Some guys are starting to realize why impressing men is a bad idea

Many others are stuck in their old ways of using money, cars etc to get a girl. However, the majority are often surprised why impressing women is such a terrible idea

After all, they hear phrases like these from women: "Money makes me happy" "Money is my love language" "If you don't have money, don't come near me"

The logical brain of a man goes "hmmm she said she wants money so let me impress her"

Only to find out the more he impresses or tries to, the further the coochie goes away

Let me tell you a story, over the weekend I was cock in deep in someone's soon-to-be fiancé when he sent her 25k for the week.

If someone gives me that money in this Tinubu era, I will bless him. But her? She was too concerned about the dìck neatly lodged in her mouth.

After we were done, we went downstairs to spend part of the money. Later on she told me that's how the guy does from the day they met. Always trying to impress her with money or his achievements.

Of course she said she likes the guy. But she doesn't really lust for him(he lacks hook up material vibe)

The biggest problem with impressing women is because they know they are not special. So when you take your hard earned resources (money, time and attention) and spend it on her when you barely know her, her respect for you disappears.

In her mind, how can I trust his leadership when it's easy for him to give up his resources for me.

That's why you hear girls say stuff like: "We just met and you're doing all that" OR "We just met and you're telling me that"

Does it boost her ego? Yes Does it make her feel validated and happy? Yes. But does it make her coochie wet for you? Absolutely NOT.


● Question/Statement Matrix


There are a host of questions and statements that place you neatly into the bf zone.

I'll go over three of them.

The first one: "Tell me about yourself"
No statement makes a girl roll her eyes than this.

If you asked your female friends what's one thing they hate guys saying, 80% of them will pick it

Why? Because they don't even know themselves. And it highlights a lack of experience in a man.


"Where do you see yourself in a serious relationship in the future?"

Imagine you're out with a girl on a date. Then she pops that question.

Whether you like it or not, the thought of her wanting to be in a relationship with you will cross your mind.

That's exactly how she feels when a guy asks that. And to her, it's too early for such pressure.

So what she does is to start evaluating you for bf material when she should be looking at you as someone to hook up with.

Then, the journey to knacking her becomes longer than trekking from Lagos to kano.

"I'd never do that to you…I would support you. Let me help you get that"

You know that moment when a girl starts telling you how badly her exes or besties have treated her?

Then a guy jumps in telling her he'd never do that. Or he'd be different and treat her right.

Or he'd support her no matter what if he was the one. Lol. Doing that puts you in a long list of guys auditioning to be her bf

Sure, she sees you as safe. Like such a sweet guy. She tells you how much your "empathy" makes you a good bf. You're smiling… "I don catch her"

No, she has caught you.

2 months later when your bills and investments have crossed the 200k threshold and she's still cheating, you're wondering where it all went wrong.

Well, it started from those comments.


● Being too available.

Calling her Steady. Texting her a lot. Going on multiple dates with her BEFORE you're sexually intimate with her is a fantastic way to bf zone yourself.

Avoid being too available at her request before knacking her. It's a bad spot to be in.


● Avoid being her therapist

Girls are emotional creatures. And there's a host of things that could potentially trigger sadness in her.

When that happens, she's going to look for a naive man to offload it on.

You do NOT want to be that man. Girls want to have fun because it's easier for it lead to knacks.

Sitting there acting like her therapist to her never-ending problems just delays your progress with her

There was a guy here I advised who was toasting a girl in a relationship.

At first, she was feeling him because he was displaying hook up material qualities. Then he switched to bf zone guy activities and things started to fall off.

I had to bring him back. Make him understand that what she wants is to have fun and Bleep. Not for you to act like a therapist sponge and soak up her negative energy

She wants to forget her problems with you. That's why it's important you avoid dwelling to long on her problems

One or two lines to empathize with her and you change the subject.


So that's it. A bunch of DON'Ts you don't want to get close to.

I'll write about the DOs later.

But coming next is a detailed break down of why women lie and how you can drastically reduce or outright prevent them from lieing to you. So keep an eye out for that

The first one: "Tell me about yourself"
No statement makes a girl roll her eyes than this.

If you asked your female friends what's one thing they hate guys saying, 80% of them will pick it

Why? Because they don't even know themselves. And it highlights a lack of experience in a man


Basically you said girls dont even know themselves. Which means there
is something seriously wrong with the female gender. How can a
person not know who he or she really is.
It means she takes on the identity and preferences of the person who
last bleeped her. Women have a sick mind.
Someone on this forum said we men loose who we are because of our penis
I cannot loose who i am because of a person who does not even know herself.
This female gender is sick and stupid.
Forget about this sex, they are not worth chasing.
What is sex anyway? Something they enjoy more than us.
You are just making it obvious the female gender is not to be taken seriously and seen as sex objects
HOW CAN SOMEONE NOT KNOW WHO SHE IS. IS THAT NOT CONFUSION AND MADNESS?
Women seem interested in childish things. So telling her she has sexy lips and you want to kiss it
is better than sounding intelligent.
Women are nonsense if this is how to get them.

Is the Redpill all centered on women?

Redpiller! Redpiller!, when it comes to religion you suddenly throw away logic & embrace emotions. Everybody will go to hell except ur religion.

When it comes to politics or your tribe you throw away logic & act emotional.

Tribalism
News
Sports
Entertainment & much more. Some of these things ppl go to the extent to kill to make a point(emotional) than using logic!

The world is truly bluepilled, you need to go to the religion section of NL and see folks out there in their full emotional state.

See wetin this person post

https://www.nairaland.com/4439590/health-benefits-eating-vaginal-discharge


they talk say licking, sucking and eating punna dey Prevent heart disease and cancer
na wa oo

Streak47:
Is the Redpill all centered on women?

Redpiller! Redpiller!, when it comes to religion you suddenly throw away logic & embrace emotions. Everybody will go to hell except ur religion.

When it comes to politics or your tribe you throw away logic & act emotional.

Tribalism
News
Sports
Entertainment & much more. Some of these things ppl go to the extent to kill to make a point(emotional) than using logic!

The world is truly bluepilled, you need to go to the religion section of NL and see folks out there in their full emotional state.

bro which book is this?

"funny enough the redpill also delves into finance"

Now someone SEES it

Streak47:


Even that one time she wasn't right. Good one there. I'm so glad you followed your inner voice. No one knows better where you should be than your inner voice. I bet you many ppl don't have the balls to oppose their parents. They're just living their parents lives.

There's no any investment that's a waste. We learn from all investments whether they fail or succeed. That's the mindset of a winner. If not anything you've learnt grit!. When you invest & profit you win; when you fail, you learn. A win-win.

Personally, I don't believe in saving. I take finances like a counter attacking football, less of defense. Than to save, I rather put the money into liquid assets that can be liquidated at will & spend the rest. All those saving BS is bullshit..funny enough the red pill also delves into finance. Show me a man that has billionaire-d his way by saving(fear).

I've virtually opposed all my parents decisions & I'm so much happy; from choice of course, to pressuring me to apply for 9-5, marriage etc. Themselves know, coconut head!

Now THIS is something. It covers my question beautifully. Now I have to do a lookback.

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Pukkalolo:




This is a very interesting question. Infact, I'll say, this is one of the most important question pertaining handling women.

Because at core, what's the difference between the girl who end up to being highly rebellious, stubborn, insolent to her man VS the girl that ends up being a highly respectful and valuable girlfriend/wife.

Well, the difference is called ACCOUNTABILITY.

If you want a chick to be responsible, respectful and submissive, then you want to make her "account" for any crappy behavior she exhibit.

One of the key skills of being good with women and making them responsible and accountable around you is having the ability to punish women for their crappy behavior.


Let me give you a quick simple example. Last month I was in a conversation on the phone with this new girl who was already gradually falling for me. While we were deep in our fun conversation, suddenly in her background I could hear a dude telling her, "that your toaster on the phone have started deceiving you again."

She laughed and responded to the guy, "go jhor, you are not serious."

At that moment, I immediately hang-up the call.

A minute later, she called my phone. When I picked the call, she said, "why did you just hangout on me like that"

I responded, saying, "talking to another guy while you are on the phone with me is a disrespect to my own fuckin time."

She started explaining that it's her colleague at work and it's nothing special.

She started apologizing seriously.

Anyways, after that incidents, she became more "responsible". I noticed anytime we are talking on the phone, she makes sure she distance herself from people because she doesn't wants anyone disturbing our conversation.

I made her account for her crappy attitude, she became more responsible.

I have hundreds of examples me calling women out on their bullshit behavior and making them apologize and being more respectful towards me.


When a girl misbehave and you call her out on her behavior, you are making her accountable for it. This actually makes her more careful and "submissvely responsible" when dealing with you. And this make her like and respect you more.

There are lots of spoilt, saucy and rude girls out there because most men are allowing these girls get away with being spoilt, saucy and rude attitude.

Every woman around me is totally submissive, feminine and "responsible" because they know I have zero tolerance for bullshit.

Come to think of it, couple of fellas in my social circle offline already know I'm the author of Top G dating secret(shameless approach), so they often closely observe to see how I'm handling the ladies around me. Now imagine I'm caught acting all "beta" around a saucy girl.....

Of course, that will screw up my rep.

You have to set rules/boundaries for certain things you won't accept from women. When you set rules and boundaries, you'll naturally force women to become accountable and responsible for their behavior.

If you want people to be responsible and accountable, set certain rules. That's why schools, company, organization and society have rules of conducts.

Rules is what keep the society together. If there was no rules, the world would be on fire.

Look here on nairaland for example. Nairaland has certain rules that must be adhere to. if you violate any of them, you get ban or something. Those rules naturally motivate all of us to be responsible here.

This is why anytime I see a guy saying things like this: "my woman is too stubborn," OR "my woman wahala too much,"

All I see is a weak dude who has no rules, boundaries or standards.

A weak man will accept bullshit from a woman, then he turns around and complain that's "this woman is giving me headache."

Streak47:
Is the Redpill all centered on women?

Redpiller! Redpiller!, when it comes to religion you suddenly throw away logic & embrace emotions. Everybody will go to hell except ur religion.

When it comes to politics or your tribe you throw away logic & act emotional.

Tribalism
News
Sports
Entertainment & much more. Some of these things ppl go to the extent to kill to make a point(emotional) than using logic!

The world is truly bluepilled, you need to go to the religion section of NL and see folks out there in their full emotional state.

The defenders of the religious gods will soon storm your mentions. 😂

HARDESTNIGGAINT:



bro which book is this?

from the web. Copy paste part of the text into Google, should take you to the link.

Karlifate:


The defenders of the religious gods will soon storm your mentions. 😂

me sef believe in God. And do religion. But I don't throw away logic. I believe there's a huge disparity between being Godly & Religious. The fact say u no practice my religion no mean say u go enter fire or face condemnation. Or because u no b my tribe, that makes u a lesser human. I believe there's a reason that God made so much variety in the world, imagine everyone in the world have same thought process, same religion, same tribe, same everything...would definitely be a boring place. Why can't we just embrace humanity & find a common ground. You do your own, I do my own but alas no!

All roads leads to the same God.

Is called the pastor cartel

Or the imam cartel

They're basically spinoffs of ubinjas pussy cartel

If there's an expensive good WHICH PEOPLE NEED, a cartel is formed to regulate the value of the good so its value doesn't drop

There's a cartel for cement in Nigeria BUA AND. DANGOTE...

There's a cartel for diamonds in America (google the name)

There's a cartel for education (teachers Union/ASUU
there's a cartel for pussy (pussy cartel)

There's cartel for communications(GLO Airtel Etisalat and MTN)

There's a cartel for drugs (drugs cartel)

There's a cartel on dollar in Nigeria (BDC operators)

The good doesn't have to be limited in actual sense to have a cartel...IT JUST HAS TO APPEAR LIMITED...

Watch all these drug lord movies America gangster etcetera etcetera... they'll have the drugs in excess but ship off to the market in little quantities so as not to flood the market

All women have pussy even old women AND THE POPULATION OF WOMEN IS GREATER THAN THAT OF MEN as ubinjas explained that women are biologically stronger than men so they survive childbirth compared to the boy child...also throw in that women develop faster than men because their time is limited biologically too(menopause kicks in at 45 or thereabouts) despite all these facts, PUSSY IS STILL SCARCE...***APPEARS SCARCE***. WHY?

Carteeeeellll

Cartel hates competition with a passion

Airtel MTN Etisalat and GLO was against Whatsapp call with data when it was up and coming...a compromise was reached with the 'telecommunications giant' that's why it's existing now

Girls are against female sex dolls because of what it stands for ... available pussy that doesn't bill or do shakara or gains weight...

Drug lords hate synthetise version of their'original products' lolz
They're hiding behind a name in America: the FDA/big pharma...

All the drugs that had potential to fight covid was basically brought down...what of cancer treatment or HIV...

Imagine the speed applied on creating a vaccine for a pandemic that was just 2019...compared to cancer and HIV...a patient cured is a customer lost



The biggest problem of religion is not what you think you know. It's what you might have thought of in passing but didn't pay full attention to it... and you're about to know itnow: THE BLOOD OF JESUS CHRIST IN CHRISTIANITY AND 72 VIRGINS IN ISLAM...it takes accountability from its believers...

The Muslim man will easily blow up himself because of the promise of 72 virgins while the christian woman will easily commit all manner of atrocities behind her husband's back because the blood of Christ will make her a new creation

So where's the zeal to change in Christians? After all there's a church that preaches John 3:16 like an anthem before sin

Jesus came to earth to preach his Father's love...for man to get the God's teachings directly from the source...but he was murdered...the parable of the vineyard servant points this out

Them his murder was covered up as a sacrifice for you sinners... implying that God's needs his creation instead of the other way around. The Roman soldiers n politicians that killed jesus then manipulated his teachings to give power to the church and that's the mess we have now

Redeemed, cac, Baptist, dunamis, oyedepo...name it

Jesus was killed unless you're implying he knew knew he was coming to die then committed suicide...

But hey...it's holy suicide rii??

Lolzzzzz

Karlifate:


The defenders of the religious gods will soon storm your mentions. 😂

Rizzputin:
It seems like every other casual conversation I have with men these days drifts into the subject of female nature.

Specifically how women are wicked and ruin men's lives.

What a lot of these men fail to realize is the roles they play. And one way they do this is by putting themselves in the boyfriend zone.

The bf zone is just as bad as the friend zone (maybe even worse). And like the friend zone, guys are the ones that put themselves there.

Now, you probably already know I'm a big advocate of becoming a hook up material rather than bf or husband material. It's a surefire way that makes a girl WANT to fùck you (and do it fast).

It allows her to bring out her slutty side for you. The side she'd usually hide from her bf.

Someone asked me how to avoid falling into this boyfriend zone trap. So, a lengthy answer to that question lies ahead…

To achieve this, there are DOs and DON'Ts. The things to DO to avoid the bf zone and get seen as a Hook up material will be for another day. Personally I use Lust Oriented Topics (LOT) and Frames to achieve this.

However, you can find a good number of the DON'Ts in this post.

And you should pay close attention because many times in seduction, the difference between having a girl see you as a hook up material she loves to fùck OR a bf guy she can bill or manipulate lies in the DON'Ts you should run far away from.

To set the stage, take a good, hard look at these comments:

"I picked her up… someone who hasn't seen 100k in her life. I bought her a car of 4mn. She said it's too small and went for 12mn… yet she left me after her business started doing well"

"When women start making money they misbehave" "I'm scared of women they're such evil and wicked creatures

Each comment you just read captures the sad essence of what it means to be locked up in bf land.

If I asked you to name a common theme amongst them you'd probably say the men invested heavily. And you'd be right. But there's something deeper.

You can find what in this comment: "women are such evil and wicked creatures "

You see, men have egos the size of a football field. Making it easy for us to shift all or most of the blame on someone else. Especially women.

To these men, they're blind to the roles they played in their predicament.

Tattoo this in your brain: A Woman's behavior and actions is the reflection of the man

Write it down on the walls of your room if you have to.

Because if you present yourself as a bf, a bf you will always be. Women adjust their behavior to the man or men they're around.

Weak men in society? Trashy women are created. Weak guy? Cheating gf. Bf zone guy? Billings and manipulation. Hook up material guy? Endless amount of free, passionate knacks.

Before we unpack all the bf DON'Ts you should run away from like Tinubu…

Let's zoom in on why the bf zone is such a bad idea:

---Why the bf zone guy finishes last

● Can you guess at which stage a woman is most manipulative? If you said "in a relationship" you're right

When a girl starts calling you her bf or husband BEFORE she gets sexually intimate with you, she's giving a signal.

That currently, she sees you as someone she can manipulate. So she's in a hurry to lock you down and bill you.

It's like that guy that's wondering why working class girls act independent before dating but suddenly start billing him in a relationship. He is a typical bf zone guy


● Another big reason why the bf zone is a no go area is her slutty side.

You see, girls are not stupid. When you present yourself as bf material she knows she has to live up to the expectation of a gf.

And we all know how much we want our gfs to be presentable and good. Therefore, she'll act (read: pretend) accordingly.

In your mind she's soo happy to make you her bf. But for reasons far different from yours.

You've found a girl you can take to mum. She's found a naive man she can bill and take her mum out of Sapa.

Being a hook up material stops this from happening to you. Because to her you can solve one of her problems: her urge to get fùcked.

● It gives a false sense of hope.

You might think girls don't like the guys they put in the bf zone. They do. Infact, a lot of them are charming and charismatic.

Very few women will pick a total loser to be her bf or husband.

That's why the moment before she makes you her bf is filled with her stroking your ego.

Telling you how much you'd make a good bf. Listing your attractive qualities and making you feel in top the world

Soon, you start falling for her. Believing her manipulation. To her, it's all a game. And she's setting you up as her escape from Sapa plan.

Now, let's dive into those DON'Ts you're probably eagerly waiting to know...

Ready?

---DON'Ts you should avoid from falling into the bf zone

● Taking her on Dinner Dates

Nothing screams "make me your bf pleaseeeee" like carrying a girl on dinner dates.

Sure, it's slightly possible to do it and still be seen as a Hook up material. But it's an uphill battle.

And I have no intentions to make things harder for you or myself. Especially if you met her online.

Dinner dates are just too much: Too much pressure, too much effort, too much investment.

I mean, you just met her and you're suited up to go on a date at a fancy restaurant. And you're surprised she didn't want to Bleep you after spending 30k? Lol

Recently I watched a tiktok where a girl described a rich, handsome guy she met online. They kicked things off fast and 2 nights later they were out for dinner

The guy was dripping. In her words, he looked like he had money. She had already planned on the trips they'd go to in her mind.

Yet when the guy invited her back to his place… her answer? No. Not gonna happen.

If inviting a girl to dinner is bad, inviting a girl to dinner you met online (think Facebook, tinder and whatsapp) is terrible.

Believe it or not, majority of girls active online on those 3 apps are looking to explore their fantasies. They want to experience those fast hookups they read in novels

But only with the right man. That is, the hook up material man. Going out for dinner just puts you several seats back. Almost back to the starting line. Bad move.

Rather than dinners, do a chill bar, lounge or a cinema. Or when possible, straight to your house


● Next up, is trying to impress or impressing her

Some guys are starting to realize why impressing men is a bad idea

Many others are stuck in their old ways of using money, cars etc to get a girl. However, the majority are often surprised why impressing women is such a terrible idea

After all, they hear phrases like these from women: "Money makes me happy" "Money is my love language" "If you don't have money, don't come near me"

The logical brain of a man goes "hmmm she said she wants money so let me impress her"

Only to find out the more he impresses or tries to, the further the coochie goes away

Let me tell you a story, over the weekend I was cock in deep in someone's soon-to-be fiancé when he sent her 25k for the week.

If someone gives me that money in this Tinubu era, I will bless him. But her? She was too concerned about the dìck neatly lodged in her mouth.

After we were done, we went downstairs to spend part of the money. Later on she told me that's how the guy does from the day they met. Always trying to impress her with money or his achievements.

Of course she said she likes the guy. But she doesn't really lust for him(he lacks hook up material vibe)

The biggest problem with impressing women is because they know they are not special. So when you take your hard earned resources (money, time and attention) and spend it on her when you barely know her, her respect for you disappears.

In her mind, how can I trust his leadership when it's easy for him to give up his resources for me.

That's why you hear girls say stuff like: "We just met and you're doing all that" OR "We just met and you're telling me that"

Does it boost her ego? Yes Does it make her feel validated and happy? Yes. But does it make her coochie wet for you? Absolutely NOT.


● Question/Statement Matrix


There are a host of questions and statements that place you neatly into the bf zone.

I'll go over three of them.

The first one: "Tell me about yourself"
No statement makes a girl roll her eyes than this.

If you asked your female friends what's one thing they hate guys saying, 80% of them will pick it

Why? Because they don't even know themselves. And it highlights a lack of experience in a man.


"Where do you see yourself in a serious relationship in the future?"

Imagine you're out with a girl on a date. Then she pops that question.

Whether you like it or not, the thought of her wanting to be in a relationship with you will cross your mind.

That's exactly how she feels when a guy asks that. And to her, it's too early for such pressure.

So what she does is to start evaluating you for bf material when she should be looking at you as someone to hook up with.

Then, the journey to knacking her becomes longer than trekking from Lagos to kano.

"I'd never do that to you…I would support you. Let me help you get that"

You know that moment when a girl starts telling you how badly her exes or besties have treated her?

Then a guy jumps in telling her he'd never do that. Or he'd be different and treat her right.

Or he'd support her no matter what if he was the one. Lol. Doing that puts you in a long list of guys auditioning to be her bf

Sure, she sees you as safe. Like such a sweet guy. She tells you how much your "empathy" makes you a good bf. You're smiling… "I don catch her"

No, she has caught you.

2 months later when your bills and investments have crossed the 200k threshold and she's still cheating, you're wondering where it all went wrong.

Well, it started from those comments.


● Being too available.

Calling her Steady. Texting her a lot. Going on multiple dates with her BEFORE you're sexually intimate with her is a fantastic way to bf zone yourself.

Avoid being too available at her request before knacking her. It's a bad spot to be in.


● Avoid being her therapist

Girls are emotional creatures. And there's a host of things that could potentially trigger sadness in her.

When that happens, she's going to look for a naive man to offload it on.

You do NOT want to be that man. Girls want to have fun because it's easier for it lead to knacks.

Sitting there acting like her therapist to her never-ending problems just delays your progress with her

There was a guy here I advised who was toasting a girl in a relationship.

At first, she was feeling him because he was displaying hook up material qualities. Then he switched to bf zone guy activities and things started to fall off.

I had to bring him back. Make him understand that what she wants is to have fun and Bleep. Not for you to act like a therapist sponge and soak up her negative energy

She wants to forget her problems with you. That's why it's important you avoid dwelling to long on her problems

One or two lines to empathize with her and you change the subject.


So that's it. A bunch of DON'Ts you don't want to get close to.

I'll write about the DOs later.

But coming next is a detailed break down of why women lie and how you can drastically reduce or outright prevent them from lieing to you. So keep an eye out for that

The point you're making is that bf zone is only slightly better than friend zone & the best zone for a guy to be is the hookup zone.
But let me add that it's not completely game over for guys who naively & unfortunately got themselves into the bf zone instead of the hookup zone.
They can still redeem themselves & transit into hookup zone, but how?
Start undoing what they're doing as bf & start flirting & bleeping other bitches to give their woman competition.
When a girl knows that she has rivals & her guy can easily get pussay elsewhere, she will put in her best to to please him, her pussay will be wet for him by force

Streak47:
me sef believe in God. And do religion. But I don't throw away logic. I believe there's a huge disparity between being Godly & Religious. The fact say u no practice my religion no mean say u go enter fire or face condemnation. Or because u no b my tribe, that makes u a lesser human. I believe there's a reason that God made so much variety in the world, imagine everyone in the world have same thought process, same religion, same tribe, same everything...would definitely be a boring place. Why can't we just embrace humanity & find a common ground. You do your own, I do my own but alas no!

All roads leads to the same God.

I like your point.

My boss would say:

"God is not religious".

Pukkalolo:




This is a very interesting question. Infact, I'll say, this is one of the most important question pertaining handling women.

Because at core, what's the difference between the girl who end up to being highly rebellious, stubborn, insolent to her man VS the girl that ends up being a highly respectful and valuable girlfriend/wife.

Well, the difference is called ACCOUNTABILITY.

If you want a chick to be responsible, respectful and submissive, then you want to make her "account" for any crappy behavior she exhibit.

One of the key skills of being good with women and making them responsible and accountable around you is having the ability to punish women for their crappy behavior.


Let me give you a quick simple example. Last month I was in a conversation on the phone with this new girl who was already gradually falling for me. While we were deep in our fun conversation, suddenly in her background I could hear a dude telling her, "that your toaster on the phone have started deceiving you again."

She laughed and responded to the guy, "go jhor, you are not serious."

At that moment, I immediately hang-up the call.

A minute later, she called my phone. When I picked the call, she said, "why did you just hangout on me like that"

I responded, saying, "talking to another guy while you are on the phone with me is a disrespect to my own fuckin time."

She started explaining that it's her colleague at work and it's nothing special.

She started apologizing seriously.

Anyways, after that incidents, she became more "responsible". I noticed anytime we are talking on the phone, she makes sure she distance herself from people because she doesn't wants anyone disturbing our conversation.

I made her account for her crappy attitude, she became more responsible.

I have hundreds of examples me calling women out on their bullshit behavior and making them apologize and being more respectful towards me.


When a girl misbehave and you call her out on her behavior, you are making her accountable for it. This actually makes her more careful and "submissvely responsible" when dealing with you. And this make her like and respect you more.

There are lots of spoilt, saucy and rude girls out there because most men are allowing these girls get away with being spoilt, saucy and rude attitude.

Every woman around me is totally submissive, feminine and "responsible" because they know I have zero tolerance for bullshit.

Come to think of it, couple of fellas in my social circle offline already know I'm the author of Top G dating secret(shameless approach), so they often closely observe to see how I'm handling the ladies around me. Now imagine I'm caught acting all "beta" around a saucy girl.....

Of course, that will screw up my rep.

You have to set rules/boundaries for certain things you won't accept from women. When you set rules and boundaries, you'll naturally force women to become accountable and responsible for their behavior.

If you want people to be responsible and accountable, set certain rules. That's why schools, company, organization and society have rules of conducts.

Rules is what keep the society together. If there was no rules, the world would be on fire.

Look here on nairaland for example. Nairaland has certain rules that must be adhere to. if you violate any of them, you get ban or something. Those rules naturally motivate all of us to be responsible here.

This is why anytime I see a guy saying things like this: "my woman is too stubborn," OR "my woman wahala too much,"

All I see is a weak dude who has no rules, boundaries or standards.

A weak man will accept bullshit from a woman, then he turns around and complain that's "this woman is giving me headache."

Or my wife denies me sex..I have seen topics on the front page where married men lament about being denied sex by wives. I wish those men can read your post. Aside may be after child birth or when she's on her period, I can't wrap my head around why wives will dictate when their man can have sex with them.

Your post is very spot on. Men must set rules and clear boundaries early on in their relationship with women. Call them out when they misbehave and set standards they must comply with if they want to remain in your life. This is an ongoing process and events will come up where one has to show leadership. And if you as a man fails to show leadership, her respect for you will go down. Once she goes outside those boundaries, make sure she's punished accordingly. Punishment in this context doesn't mean beating or violence. It can be a simple thing as withdrawing your time and making it harder to reach you. And once she realizes her mistakes and sues for peace, ask her to cook your favorite dish (with her money of course) and invite you over when it's ready.
I have done this for my babe before. She asked me when I wanted it done and gave her a convenient date I could be available.

I have come to realize that women have deep respect and submit to men who show strong leadership traits. They come online to pretend about hating the redpill and everything associated with redpill but deep down they are attracted to redpillers provided one isn't displaying their redpill awareness in a hateful and aggressive manner.

So most of these men that complain are nothing but pussy niggaz. Women only set rules for weak men. Nature abhors vacuum. Strong women only thrive when they're surrounded by weak men.

Beautiful!

Most of men that complain about women are pussy niggas. Also men that hate women but hide behind the red pill to 'form smart' with women

Imagine promising a girl marriage before she allows you fvck her...then disembarking after sexxing her...
It's fVcked up...

They're subtle variations in this thread n They're littered in this thread and you can actually spot. Them

The reason I hated further maths back then in school was because I didn't understand further maths

I didn't understand it but others were understanding it...so I felt left out AND I HATED FURTHER MATHS

the reason you hate girls is because you don't understand them. Read ubunjas miseducation...read AND JOT...you'll have questions...write them down...the next miseducation or the next would give insight and if no answer still...hop on this thread and Post... we're a family here. You'll get your answers

Don't hate girls and start venting your frustrations on crippled female beggars in the streets begging for alms under the sun

That'd just be premium fvck up on your part

UppaZakum:


Or my wife denies me sex..I have seen topics on the front page where married men lament about being denied sex by wives. I wish those men can read your post. Aside may be after child birth or when she's on her period, I can't wrap my head around why wives will dictate when their man can have sex with them.

Your post is very spot on. Men must set rules and clear boundaries early on in their relationship with women. Call them out when they misbehave and set standards they must comply with if they want to remain in your life. This is an ongoing process and events will come up where one has to show leadership. And if you as a man fails to show leadership, her respect for you will go down. Once she goes outside those boundaries, make sure she's punished accordingly. Punishment in this context doesn't mean beating or violence. It can be a simple thing as withdrawing your time and making it harder to reach you. And once she realizes her mistakes and sues for peace, ask her to cook your favorite dish (with her money of course) and invite you over when it's ready.
I have done this for my babe before. She asked me when I wanted it done and gave her a convenient date I could be available.

I have come to realize that women have deep respect and submit to men who show strong leadership traits. They come online to pretend about hating the redpill and everything associated with redpill but deep down they are attracted to redpillers provided one isn't displaying their redpill awareness in a hateful and aggressive manner.

So most of these men that complain are nothing but pussy niggaz. Women only set rules for weak men. Nature abhors vacuum. Strong women only thrive when they're surrounded by weak men.

luminouz:


Did I just read one man ran away and went to hide in a village in Canada?

Take a close look at the other comments and a shiver of remorse will fly through you (mine was lightning speed). The men on there are busy consoling themselves and measuring their levels of suffering by saying 'me too, na so we see am oh, e follow me join body' and a lot of other self-pitying comments.

Yet when you counsel, beg or threaten these dudes to allow the redpill into their lives, they will hate, backstab, hunt, curse or rat/snitch on you and you will find yourself isolated like a goat-thief caught by a soldier in the barracks.

The word is to vet, vet and still vet any woman in your life. Always be on top of your game and learn to prioritize YOU AND YOUR MUDAFUCKING DREAMS. The day you stop doing all these and rely on the 'loving words' of a woman, you become a living dead!!!

Na me Luminouz talk am.

The best way to love women is to become unemotional.

Philosopher1979:


The first one: "Tell me about yourself"
No statement makes a girl roll her eyes than this.

If you asked your female friends what's one thing they hate guys saying, 80% of them will pick it

Why? Because they don't even know themselves. And it highlights a lack of experience in a man


Basically you said girls dont even know themselves. Which means there
is something seriously wrong with the female gender. How can a
person not know who he or she really is.
It means she takes on the identity and preferences of the person who
last bleeped her. Women have a sick mind.
Someone on this forum said we men loose who we are because of our penis
I cannot loose who i am because of a person who does not even know herself.
This female gender is sick and stupid.
Forget about this sex, they are not worth chasing.
What is sex anyway? Something they enjoy more than us.
You are just making it obvious the female gender is not to be taken seriously and seen as sex objects
HOW CAN SOMEONE NOT KNOW WHO SHE IS. IS THAT NOT CONFUSION AND MADNESS?
Women seem interested in childish things. So telling her she has sexy lips and you want to kiss it
is better than sounding intelligent.
Women are nonsense if this is how to get them.

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You nailed it with your comment.

https://www.nairaland.com/7921809/marrying-lady-met-virgin-doesnt

this was what "rizzputin" was saying bout been a bf, husband material

Nope. He did not

Women are not sick and stupid

You want to know how I know this?

It's because he has a mother...

You hating women because they're emotional should mean you must hate yourself for being logical

Should women hate you for being logical now huh??

It's E-motions ie ENERGY in MOTION

Think of all the emotions in this world worry, fear, hate, love, joy, sadness...now picture it all compressed and placed in a woman's body...
Yes...that's women...like a baby...an adult baby basically


She feels all the E-motions either in one state or another
Because energy can not be created nor destroyed...just converted from ONE FORM TO ANOTHER ie hate to love to anger to pain to joy... rinse n repeat

Now there's STILL a second law mind you...lolz

E-motions can be hacked...you just gotta understand first that's it's different for each woman...it's in a different state... understand there's positive n negative...then you incite the E-motions first...then engineer/tweak to your desired emotions

Ta-da!

Haydens:


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You nailed it with your comment.

chenny360:
I have talked my own here .. one example I gave yesterday.. now sampling random girl on Meta for fun .. see this ..
She want urgent help of noodles ₦700. A girl we just started chatting not more than 5 minuites ago.. she need ₦700 before she can give out her contacts....

I just Dey catch cruises with this gender stupidity

One thing I'm sad about is that some men will fall for this in the name of showing love and emotions...

This girl mood changed immediately she realised I can't give her the 700 she requested...

Understand woman nature guys or perish....

Learn ooooo


Modified

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IAmHim1:
Nope. He did not

Women are not sick and stupid

You want to know how I know this?

It's because he has a mother...

You hating women because they're emotional should mean you must hate yourself for being logical

Should women hate you for being logical now huh??

It's E-motions ie ENERGY in MOTION

Think of all the emotions in this world worry, fear, hate, love, joy, sadness...now picture it all compressed and placed in a woman's body...
Yes...that's women...like a baby...an adult baby basically


She feels all the E-motions either in one state or another
Because energy can not be created nor destroyed...just converted from ONE FORM TO ANOTHER ie hate to love to anger to pain to joy... rinse n repeat

Now there's STILL a second law mind you...lolz

E-motions can be hacked...you just gotta understand first that's it's different for each woman...it's in a different state... understand there's positive n negative...then you incite the E-motions first...then engineer/tweak to your desired emotions

Ta-da!

Trash. Gibberish…

IAmHim1:
Nope. He did not

Women are not sick and stupid

You want to know how I know this?

It's because he has a mother...

You hating women because they're emotional should mean you must hate yourself for being logical

Should women hate you for being logical now huh??

It's E-motions ie ENERGY in MOTION

Think of all the emotions in this world worry, fear, hate, love, joy, sadness...now picture it all compressed and placed in a woman's body...
Yes...that's women...like a baby...an adult baby basically


She feels all the E-motions either in one state or another
Because energy can not be created nor destroyed...just converted from ONE FORM TO ANOTHER ie hate to love to anger to pain to joy... rinse n repeat

Now there's STILL a second law mind you...lolz

E-motions can be hacked...you just gotta understand first that's it's different for each woman...it's in a different state... understand there's positive n negative...then you incite the E-motions first...then engineer/tweak to your desired emotions

Ta-da!

Did I hear you say adult babies ?

Were they same adult babies when they are fucking around and giving birth to bastards upon married ? Giving birth to 4 or 5 bastards to her husband.

Guy, they know what they are doing, when it comes to sex women are more logical than men.

Do you know how logical it takes to keep a secret to a man for giving birth to 4 or 5 that is not her husband's sperm ?