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Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by Hassanmaye(m): 5:29pm On Nov 22, 2023
FuckingMachine:
You thought you were indispensable?

And of all things to weaponize you chose sex which means that's all you have to offer and he should see you as an olosho.

You couldn't send him packing, couldn't seize the car you bought him or shut down the business you opened for him because you are broke and worthless, you denied him sex because that's all you have.

You are a leech.
They thought men are fools, They want men to be worshipping them because of pussy only simp do that.. men are wiser now,

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Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by gratefulheart(m): 5:30pm On Nov 22, 2023
You're wicked and better trace your way before you lose him to another woman.


AyoNews:
Do advice her. Either from experience or witness
Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by casualobserver: 5:31pm On Nov 22, 2023
MadamExcellency:


Can you interpret what Jesus Christ was trying to teach from these direct quotes?

Matthew 19:4-6 KJV
And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female, [5] And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh? [6] Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.

That is merely one of those ambiguous texts that people use to justify their actions. There many mentions of adultery in the Bible why so few regarding monogamy? Because polygamy was so normal there is no need to comment on it. If polygamy was frowned upOn just like adultery there would be numerous cautions in the Bible.

Look I am not here to convince you but Christian women and the ones paying the price for this interpretation of marriage. You are the ones who can’t find husbands but are side chicks to married men. You are the ones with fertile women without children, worldwide it is Christians whose populations are dwindling.

As a man it makes no difference to me. It’s actually to my benefit. As a married man, I can have fun with all you single Christian women without responsibilities. In our fathers time I would have 2,3 4 wives if I want to play around and the responsibility of taking care of all those children. But as a good Christian woman even though you are fooling around with a married man I. secret, You know Shame wont allow you to get pregnant for me and men know that .

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Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by boxypane(m): 5:31pm On Nov 22, 2023
She's insane.
Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by Apili: 5:32pm On Nov 22, 2023
Natbrowny:
Alaye is already getting the pussy elsewhere. He's just trying to make moves coz he knws u'll decline.

If he doesn't ask for it. You'll suspect.

Sharp guy
swears
Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by salam8528: 5:33pm On Nov 22, 2023
MadamExcellency:


Christians don't marry two wives because it contradicts the teachings of Jesus Christ himself.

Can you interpret what Jesus Christ was trying to teach from these direct quotes?

Matthew 19:4-6 KJV
And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female, [5] And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh? [6] Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.

Matthew 19:10 KJV
His disciples say unto him, If the case of the man be so with his wife, it is not good to marry.
But there are many versions of the Bible that are silent on this matters and are u saying those Christians who marry more than one wife have sinned?

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Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by MadamExcellency: 5:34pm On Nov 22, 2023
casualobserver:


That is merely one of those ambiguous texts that people use to justify their actions. There are many mentions of adultery in the Bible why so few regarding monogamy? Because polygamy was so normal there is no need to comment on it. If polygamy was frowned upon just like adultery there would be numerous cautions in the Bible.

Look I am not here to convince you but Christian women and the ones paying the price for this interpretation of marriage. You are the ones who can’t find husbands but are side chicks to married men. You are the ones with fertile women without children, worldwide it is Christians whose populations are dwindling.

As a man, it makes no difference to me.

Christians means Christ's followers and not Abraham, the Prophet or the Priest's followers. If Jesus said something directly in his teachings, that is the end of interpretation. Nothing more, nothing less.

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Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by treatise: 5:35pm On Nov 22, 2023
AyoNews:
Do advice her. Either from experience or witness
Has the other person satisfying you lost interest in you? My advice is Kwontiniu
Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by Blazadenise(m): 5:38pm On Nov 22, 2023
Continue turning him down please.... Shea una no they get sense abi
Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by Emeraldkaycee: 5:39pm On Nov 22, 2023
Smile continue denying him, person wey don see another woman wey de give am front and back
Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by MadamExcellency: 5:39pm On Nov 22, 2023
salam8528:
But there are many versions of the Bible that are silent on this matters and are u saying those Christians who marry more than one wife have sinned?

Jesus Christ is the head of the Christian Church. And those are his direct teachings. He was direct and clear. Hence the disciples were terrified and said.

Matthew 19:10 KJV
His disciples say unto him, If the case of the man is so with his wife, it is not good to marry.

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Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by Kblawiy: 5:41pm On Nov 22, 2023
Usmanovic95:
Fear this gender o!
You are depriving him of what he is maritally entitled to,but the man isnt complaining but she is still the one complaining.
Please what does she wants the man to do again?

Lol.... I wonder ooo
Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by Bodexinvest: 5:41pm On Nov 22, 2023
Why are u turning him down in the first place?
Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by Samcent: 5:43pm On Nov 22, 2023
LockDown69:

All your reasons are valid, but you should wax that puna once in a while, if not someone else will do that for you. grin I quote in peace.
I hope that guy will not throw away this your piece of advice.

Except for medical reasons, how can a man not touch his wife for a whole 5 months? abi na me no read wetin em write correctly?

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Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by bigtt76(f): 5:43pm On Nov 22, 2023
So pe baba ti lo cheesy


AyoNews:
Do advice her. Either from experience or witness
Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by brawlings(m): 5:44pm On Nov 22, 2023
Life is not that hard. To every problem there is a solution, Sleep has always been a refreshing alternative to problems since 1 BC.

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Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by Allisgud: 5:45pm On Nov 22, 2023
Fear women,same thing they will do when they know their husband like home made food but can't cook, they will use that to punish the man,same with sex grin angry

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Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by Iamzik: 5:46pm On Nov 22, 2023
BennyDGreat:


Quote scriptures from the Bible that support polygamy for a born again Christian?

Quote scripture that says a man with two wives will go to hell

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Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by Confirm4real(m): 5:46pm On Nov 22, 2023
Atimes I wonder what women want


They deny you sex and you complain wahala.

They deny you sex and you don't complain wahala.



I remember my baby mama asking me the other day...which woman dey sleep with now sef, this is someone that atimes deny me sex grin

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Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by Nobody: 5:47pm On Nov 22, 2023
Shinjawestside:
I wish the Bible allowed men to married two wives...

This our Christian women wahala too much ..

Head slammers women no dey bhave this way...


David, solomon and great men in the Bible married more than one wife. What Bible are you talking about.

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Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by casualobserver: 5:47pm On Nov 22, 2023
MadamExcellency:


Christians means Christ's followers and not Abraham, the Prophet or the Priest's followers. If Jesus said something directly in his teachings, that is the end of interpretation. Nothing more, nothing less.

Carry on. Jesus did not leave a church on earth, The church is a creation of man not Jesus. The Bible is created as a means of control. There are many versions of the Bible depending on the intent on the leaders. When Constantine wanted to control his people he created the Bible included what he wanted and excluded what he didn’t like. The Anglican Church is basically a Roman Catholic Church that excised itself from the Catholic Church because the king (man) wanted to divorce. I can go on and on about how the church and Christianity has been manipulated as a means of control . Jesus is the son of God but he is not God. Christians carry on as if Jesus is God in the same way as they carry on as if their pastors are Jesus or God. The same Bible that says a woman’s voice shall not be heard in Church is ordaining women priests and ministers. There has been too much human intervention and human interpretation of the word of God. The same pastors that go on about 1 man 1 man being a New Testament thing will not tell you there is no mention of tithing in the New Testament

My own interpretation is that if God wanted monogamy he would have stated it expressly without ambiguity the way he expresses adultery almost everywhere in the Bible. I am not questioning God but how do you go forth and multiply if your women can’t find husbands and have children?

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Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by Crowdboom(m): 5:50pm On Nov 22, 2023
Shinjawestside:


Pls don't blaspheme..

Don't cross the redline

Please, give me any verse in the bible where it forbidden a man to marry two or more wives.

I want to learn.
Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by Nobody: 5:51pm On Nov 22, 2023
Shinjawestside:


Pls don't blaspheme..

Don't cross the redline

What line are you talking about, David was one of God's favorite and he married more than one wife.
"I am the Lord, I change not", that is the God of the Bible.

If God accepted David with his many wives and David was even chosen as the lineage of Christ, why would God be against anyone marying more than one wife.

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Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by Nobody: 5:53pm On Nov 22, 2023
That is my kind of man, I will never beg for sex, deny me once without and tangible rason and I will deny you for two months.

No time to waste.
Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by salam8528: 5:53pm On Nov 22, 2023
MadamExcellency:


Jesus Christ is the head of the Christian Church. And those are his direct teachings. He was direct and clear. Hence the disciples were terrified and said.

Matthew 19:10 KJV
His disciples say unto him, If the case of the man is so with his wife, it is not good to marry.
Honnesstly speaking no amount of spirituality or self control will make "some" men stay with only one wife, in that case people with this kind of issues should be allowed to marry more than one wife or else they will end up marrying one wife with plenty concubines outside.
No matter how sexually active that person is 4 wives should be enough for him except he's pocessed sexually thats if he can cater for them o.
Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by 3ice9ce: 5:54pm On Nov 22, 2023
Shinjawestside:

Pls don't blaspheme..

Don't cross the redline

Did the Bible say you should not marry more than one wife?
Show us where it is written in the Bible.

You are shouting don't blaspheme. Meanwhile, you are so ignorant of what the Bible says.
Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by Galadimabawa: 5:57pm On Nov 22, 2023
Honestly I have grown up to that level now, sex is no longer among my need.
I just do it to please my partner.

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Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by progressivekiss: 5:57pm On Nov 22, 2023
Shinjawestside:
I wish the Bible allowed men to married two wives...

This our Christian women wahala too much ..

Head slammers women no dey bhave this way...


The Bible does not stop you from marrying more than one wife
Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by kennethesan(m): 6:00pm On Nov 22, 2023
My sister, he has gotten an alternative that will soon be unfolded with pregnancy.

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Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by Dozzyvirus(m): 6:00pm On Nov 22, 2023
AyoNews:
Do advice her. Either from experience or witness
At this Stage, it's Otilo. He's gone to soon.

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