Masturbation is silently ruining young and old lives especially men.

When i first heard about the spiritual implication of this act, I doubted it and went online to look for some justification.

My Real life story.

1. I never enjoyed sex with my first wife. NEVER!!! After sex, i will still masturbate. I enjoyed the act more than being with her.

2. My purpose in life diminished. At that time, I couldnt even write down what i want in life. My mind and soul were filled with sexual acts and images.

3. I remained stagnant in life and became a very unhappy person.

4. I started looking older than my age due to excessive unhappiness and worry.

5. I became a chronic sex addict. All i think of was sex and masturbation. I started sleeping with different women. My body count was almost 300 women. No joke!! I will never want to sleep with a woman twice. I wonder how i never went broke because i was paying N20-30k per sex. After having sex with them, I will still go home and masturbate. That was the utmost satisfaction i was getting in life.

6. Women became sex objects. I look left and right while driving or walking to access boobs and asses.

7. I lost my marriage, friends and close family members. I had no kids in my first marriage (masturbation was a contributing factor). I became a chronic introvert.

8. My business struggled. I would even masturbate in the office when I couldnt control the urge.

I was alone in that masturbating world for 25years. Not a single soul knew this unholy act. My ex wife thought i was very faithful because I could go 2-3months without having s3x with her. She is not a sex freak. At some point, I would rather masturbate than have sex with her. She hardly approached me for sex and the few times she did, i had already masturbated earlier hence no enjoyment.

I made several attempts to stop during those 25years but to no success. I had gone 2 months without porn or masturbation but still i will fall again. I prayed and fasted, i still failed. I even went for psychotherapy, I still failed. I joined several churches, instead ladies in church propelled my urge due to their looks and dressing. All my time in church, i would be looking at boobs and asses.

I had to STOP!!! The urge was sweet but I had to STOP!!! This demonic act was obviously destroying my life.

MASTURBATION will deal with you spiritually. Please dont doubt this. This is my real life story!!!!

WHAT DID I DO

Firstly, I wrote down all my triggers. It took my 3days to be sure of these triggers.

Secondly, I pondered over these triggers over and over again and found out that one trigger led to another.

My number 1 trigger was SOCIAL MEDIA / MY PHONE!!! Before now, it would have been porn magazines.

I would not masturbate without images or videos. The escort sites always led me to have illicit sex with several women. So i had to deal with the temptation from my phone.

I deleted all my social media accounts, downloaded a paid block site app on my phone and added all apps, porn and escort sites. I even deactivated whatapp status. I made my phone for just calls and reply messages.

I was very very intentional to stop. It was difficult at first but i knew if i deal with the trigger, i 'd be free.

Its been 1year now,
no illicit sex,
no porn,
no masturbation.
I am expecting a child with my new partner
I am much happier now
I can focus now
I sleep better now
I feel very light and energized
My business turned around for good
Havnt joined a church yet but I pray and fast without any guilt.

I love my life now.

You have to be very intentional to stop masturbation.

You can do this too!!!

people with different issues in life, anyway thank God ur done with urs, some are not even masturbate but worse almost everyone got issues i also got mine...not an addiction
but wrong step.. God help me through

Masturbation is evil and diminishes the human body and spiritual life, especially the men folks

This shameful act dishonors both God and your ancestors.

Glad you did

Elobolo:
Masturbation is silently ruining young and old lives especially men.

When i first heard about the spiritual implication of this act, I doubted it and went online to look for some justification.

My Real life story.

1. I never enjoyed sex with my first wife. NEVER!!! After sex, i will still masturbate. I enjoyed the act more than being with her.

2. My purpose in life diminished. At that time, I couldnt even write down what i want in life. My mind and soul were filled with sexual acts and images.

3. I remained stagnant in life and became a very unhappy person.

4. I started looking older than my age due to excessive unhappiness and worry.

5. I became a chronic sex addict. All i think of was sex and masturbation. I started sleeping with different women. My body count was almost 300 women. No joke!! I will never want to sleep with a woman twice. I wonder how i never went broke because i was paying N20-30k per sex. After having sex with them, I will still go home and masturbate. That was the utmost satisfaction i was getting in life.

6. Women became sex objects. I look left and right while driving or walking to access boobs and asses.

7. I lost my marriage, friends and close family members. I had no kids in my first marriage (masturbation was a contributing factor). I became a chronic introvert.

8. My business struggled. I would even masturbate in the office when I couldnt control the urge.

I was alone in that masturbating world for 25years. Not a single soul knew this unholy act. My ex wife thought i was very faithful because I could go 2-3months without having s3x with her. She is not a sex freak. At some point, I would rather masturbate than have sex with her. She hardly approached me for sex and the few times she did, i had already masturbated earlier hence no enjoyment.

I made several attempts to stop during those 25years but to no success. I had gone 2 months without porn or masturbation but still i will fall again. I prayed and fasted, i still failed. I even went for psychotherapy, I still failed. I joined several churches, instead ladies in church propelled my urge due to their looks and dressing. All my time in church, i would be looking at boobs and asses.

I had to STOP!!! The urge was sweet but I had to STOP!!! This demonic act was obviously destroying my life.

MASTURBATION will deal with you spiritually. Please dont doubt this. This is my real life story!!!!

WHAT DID I DO

Firstly, I wrote down all my triggers. It took my 3days to be sure of these triggers.

Secondly, I pondered over these triggers over and over again and found out that one trigger led to another.

My number 1 trigger was SOCIAL MEDIA / MY PHONE!!! Before now, it would have been porn magazines.

I would not masturbate without images or videos. The escort sites always led me to have illicit sex with several women. So i had to deal with the temptation from my phone.

I deleted all my social media accounts, downloaded a paid block site app on my phone and added all apps, porn and escort sites. I even deactivated whatapp status. I made my phone for just calls and reply messages.

I was very very intentional to stop. It was difficult at first but i knew if i deal with the trigger, i 'd be free.

Its been 1year now,
no illicit sex,
no porn,
no masturbation.
I am expecting a child with my new partner
I am much happier now
I can focus now
I sleep better now
I feel very light and energized
My business turned around for good
Havnt joined a church yet but I pray and fast without any guilt.

I love my life now.

You have to be very intentional to stop masturbation.

You can do this too!!!

Thank God for your freedom.You have really fought and finally conquered.

Thank God for your freedom sir, the only thing I want to stop now is how to stop being broke.
Make una teach am abeg.

I sell herb for sexual enhancement tho

Self control is key to everything.

If you ask me...which addiction is hard to stop

I will say is masturbation....it's demonic and it will keep you stagnant unless you stop it. And when you eventually stop it...things will begin to change for good in your life.


Congratulations sir....I'm happy for you

lol your left hand for don get height by now

Self control.is the key if you like deactivate your account the way girl dress can make the urge rise again.

I struggle with this.

Elobobo you said nothing but the truth. Some persons always console themselves that masturbation is not bad just so they can keep on that demons & evil spirits filled habit. I am happy for you. What a relief!

Many men & women in today's world masturbate. Many ain't making any plan to stop it. They are caged.

Once you stop it, it will leave you. But is not going to be easy that initial time. You will fail many times by going back to it. It's not easy brother.

Many brothers in the lord do this thing. And they use it to console themselves that it's not fornication so no wrong in doing it.

They don't know it's worse than the real fornication.

Thank God you stopped.

Kaido:
I struggle with this.

Make plans to stop bro. I have been there. If care is not taken, your manh⁰⁰d will file.

Masturbation is the savior of humanity

It’s good to the health and have many benefits

DestinedForGrea:

You're either new to it or not addicted. You probably don't even masturbate. Some became addicted before they knew it. Trust me, you don't want to become an addict to masturbation, you don't.

Addiction is foolishness, if you find yourself addicted in anything you’re very foolish and brainless

You shouldn’t blame poor masturbation for the woes you inflicted on yourself out of foolishness.

Masturbation is a good thing

Mcslize:
Elobobo you said nothing but the truth. Some persons always console themselves that masturbation is not bad just so they can keep on that demons & evil spirits filled habit. I am happy for you. What a relief!

Many men & women in today's world masturbate. Many ain't making any plan to stop it. They are caged.

Once you stop it, it will leave you. But is not going to be easy that initial time. You will fail many times by going back to it. It's not easy brother.

Many brothers in the lord do this thing. And they use it to console themselves that it's not fornication so no wrong in doing it.

They don't know it's worse than the real fornication.

Thank God you stopped.

You were making sense until the bolded. To fornicate is a graver sin. You better stop both.

And yet The Negroes remains inside the Abyss.

Awon wereey, Won ti koyin leru tan.

The countries that masturbates the most are at the forefront of the world leading in all fields. Yet useless good for nothing negroes think natural urge is their problem lol.

Black man is truly Cursed and they can never get headway in life. Awon oloriburuku dede

This masturbation of a thing is originated from white as I knew including porn that we inherit here in naija,but how was white people doing great with all their immorality and we are going backwards in naija with our holy holy.

you can help end that with a cup of tea and milk every morning.

Schrodinger2:


You were making sense until the bolded. To fornicate is a graver sin. You better stop both.

You didn't read my post very well to understand my point, did you?

My point is if you are masturbating as a brother in the Lord with the intention of as far as you are not engaging in actual sex, so you term it as you not committing a sin, such a person is deceiving him or herself.

Both masturbation and fornication have same gravity of sin. None outweigh the other.

It doesn't make sense for one to masturbate and go on to preach against fornication. Double standards. Flee from both if you can. That's my point.

Kaido:
I struggle with this.

I gat you on this bro

Keep fighting by not evening thinking about relasping or not. Dont even think of your sucessful days or weeks. Dont even think of your struggle with it.

Consider it a won battle and a done deal.

Rewire your mind with other thoughts. Engage your mind at all times.

This world is bleeped up but dont make it bleeped up for your life. Life is very very sweet without masturbation. Trust me!!!

You can fucking do this bro!!!

obinna58:
Masturbation is the savior of humanity

It’s good to the health and have many benefits

This was the fucking thing i kept reading online. I kept looking for every reason to masturbate.

This is the same fucking way the Whites are justifying homosexuals and trying to impose it on us. This world is bleeped up bit dont make it bleeped up for your life.

Life is very very sweet without masturbation. Trust me!!!

Masturbation is bad for your soul same way fornication does.

The earlier you win this battle in your mind the better for your self development, life progress and health in general

Elobolo:


This was the fucking thing i kept reading online. I kept looking for every reason to masturbate.

This is the same fucking way the Whites are justifying homosexuals and trying to impose it on us. This world is bleeped up bit dont make it bleeped up for your life.

Life is very very sweet without masturbation. Trust me!!!

Masturbation is bad for your soul same way fornication does.

The earlier you win this battle in your mind the better for your self development, life progress and health in general

Stop condemning things over your personal view
If them ask you now why masturbation is not good, you no go know wetin to talk

obinna58:

Stop condemning things over your personal view
If them ask you now why masturbation is not good, you no go know wetin to talk

Read my post bro... i battled masturbation for 25 fucking years and it almost ruined my life.

Masturbation is bad for humanity and should never be encouraged.

FF

Elobolo:


Read my post bro... i battled masturbation for 25 fucking years and it almost ruined my life.

Masturbation is bad for humanity and should never be encouraged.

Masturbation should be encouraged and make mandatory by the government


25yrs that’s almost my age and you’re still alive, I’m sure you’ll still be alive 50yrs more of doing it

Thank God for you OP. You just highlighted what I'm going through right now.
Please which paid app did you use?

My number 1 trigger was [b]SOCIAL MEDIA / MY PHONE!!! Before now, it would have been porn magazines.

I would not masturbate without images or videos. The escort sites always led me to have illicit sex with several women. So i had to deal with the temptation from my phone.

I deleted all my social media accounts, downloaded a paid block site app on my phone and added all apps, porn and escort sites. I even deactivated whatapp status. I made my phone for just calls and reply messages.

I was very very intentional to stop. It was difficult at first but i knew if i deal with the trigger, i 'd be free.

Its been 1year now,
no illicit sex,
no porn,
no masturbation.
I am expecting a child with my new partner
I am much happier now
I can focus now
I sleep better now
I feel very light and energized
My business turned around for good
Havnt joined a church yet but I pray and fast without any guilt.

I love my life now.

You have to be very intentional to stop masturbation.

You can do this too!!!

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Babaalajo:
This masturbation of a thing is originated from white as I knew including porn that we inherit here in naija,but how was white people doing great with all their immorality and we are going backwards in naija with our holy holy.

👍👍👍

obinna58:

Masturbation should be encouraged and make mandatory by the government


25yrs that’s almost my age and you’re still alive, I’m sure you’ll still be alive 50yrs more of doing it

Crazy dude 😅🤣😂