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Re: What Do Women Think When They Do This by 4KNGOATS(m): 1:49pm On Nov 25, 2023

4kgoat na wetin dem ask u b dat?

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Re: What Do Women Think When They Do This by Goalnaldo(m): 1:50pm On Nov 25, 2023

CaptainFM1:
It's both ways, just that men's phycological enchantment/entrapment is often done with flaunting money, husky voice, smelling nice, dangling car key or even calling a business partner and start discussing projects/talking about huge sums of money.

It's a reverse psychology but men don't often know that they are the best at it.

I was in a bar yesterday when this fine babe entered. It was at that point, I quickly bring my two phones and car key from my pocket and place them on the table. Infact, not just placed them, I arranged them in such a way that she must see them.

I wasn't lucky or fast enough. I was taking 33-larger. Meanwhile, one small boy rushed to sit not too far from her table, asked for a bottle of Hennessy. Obviously he couldn't finish it alone, so he asked her to join in the drink. On a normal day, he probably would take his small plastic Alomo bitters.

The wooing game is played by both genders.

lol, you are the most sincere person on Nairaland today 😂

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Re: What Do Women Think When They Do This by 4KNGOATS(m): 1:55pm On Nov 25, 2023

wanna know what think this implies? any girl that does this is directly telling me shes a 4kn whoooooor a 4kn public toilet a deep 4kn borehool where every dick and Harry defecate. ill avoid such girls like covid19
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Re: What Do Women Think When They Do This by Faposky95: 2:04pm On Nov 25, 2023

Once had a bout of ishes with ma mama about the age of 16.
Dad was going through serious ish and she wasn't for real......
I didn't get it so we bouted......and this would define our relationship for years.
She is one of a kind and that's why I love her....but.....
I'm 40+ and just getting grips with why Eve did it and Adam took the fall.
Our God,they say his a woman.....
¿ huh

Re: What Do Women Think When They Do This by Ten06(m): 2:15pm On Nov 25, 2023

Gentlelox:
Some time ago, i was in a public place and a lady sitting next to me was obviously staring at me and drawing his face out anytime I turn.

Eventually, she took her phone and started a call with a guy. Discussing over love. I had the feeling the girl was doing it because of me and that it not to drive me away but to show interest in her.

Happened again at the airport. A girl I was sitting next to asked me to get her something politely as i took permission to go get something. When I arrived, she was obviously into me. But then, she brought her phone out and started a video call with another guy. She does it in a way that will make me notice by fire by thunder. After the call, my demeanor changed and I avoided her and I could see the girl somewhat disappointed. From her looks, she was expecting another type of reaction from me.

A lady friend met me and we talked. She wanted relationship and she was into me But then I asked her if she has a boyfriend and she said yes. Then i changed the topic and she could see my interest has changed. So she said it not a serious relationship and she doesn't even know if it a relationship because she doesn't love the guy... She started telling tales. Las las i nor give am line.

These things happened alot. Maybe because they are all up to marriage age. If a girl thinks that chatting or calling another guy would make a guy interested in them, then they need to rethink. Or maybe she just doesn't like me.

What's your opinion on this.

Maybe they has succeeded in putting a mark in you that is attracting confuse ladies

Re: What Do Women Think When They Do This by naturefellow(m): 2:16pm On Nov 25, 2023

chucks185:
don't waste time on women they ain't worth it

yo momma, sister and daughter inclusive? undecided

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Re: What Do Women Think When They Do This by Dybala11(m): 2:19pm On Nov 25, 2023

Zxcvbnmghtr:
Hahahaha we call it green and red signal. We use it to test a man's CONFIDENCE.

And confidence entails entering a rat race because of a woman??
Can never be me sha, once I know that you're in a romantic relationship with another guy then I disengage sharp sharp.

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Re: What Do Women Think When They Do This by naturefellow(m): 2:19pm On Nov 25, 2023*

Zxcvbnmghtr:
The reality of life says otherwise. Make an objective survey about who we women end up getting married to. Boyfriend or a serious man who comes into the picture from out of the blue who is ready to settle down and responsible enough to build a family. We understand you are a weak gender full of INSECURITIES lol. Hence the test.

Misconception. Improve yourself. Change your thinking and circle. Else keep testing every ma you think, like a tester, because you think you're perfect yourself.

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Re: What Do Women Think When They Do This by Zxcvbnmghtr: 2:19pm On Nov 25, 2023

Emaprince:
And those men that came out of nowhere to marry you are the reason the first born in Nigeria are mostly bastards that belongs to the woman's exes.

When a man will just come out of the blue to propose to a girl who is in relationship. He doesn't care. He just want marriage. And the women in this part are only waiting for an already made man to take. Hence, she will agree but still sleeping with her other boyfriends even on a a night to her wedding, she will still fukcc one of her BFs. The mumu husband will have his first kid as a bastard.

Nobody takes what comes out una mouth serious. You want a confidence man? Well, in a man's world, that type of confident man you described is a foolish and weak man. A very unfortunate man. Check the stats and tell us why over 50% of first kids in Nigeria are bastards. It is because of foolish men like the one you described..who will marry a woman he doesn't have prior knowledge of. That is....he will just come out of nowhere and Marty a street promiscuous woman and believe he is marrying a wife.

Any man that knows you have a man and still coming for you, only wants to fukc you. Nothing else. No man will know that you have another man in your life and take you serious...stop over rating yourself. Well unless such man is the type I described above

The simple reason is because men enjoy having sex with the wives of their fellow men. It's an ego thing among you men. That you are having sex with your fellow man's wife.

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Re: What Do Women Think When They Do This by Dybala11(m): 2:24pm On Nov 25, 2023

frank317:
Who needs a non-confident potential suitor?

Nah, that's not confidence at all. Whatever works for everyone sha.

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Re: What Do Women Think When They Do This by bhouze(m): 2:25pm On Nov 25, 2023

frank317:
Who needs a non-confident potential suitor?

There are better ways to test a man's confidence. I lost interest in so many ladies that used that format. I know I don't lack confidence.

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Re: What Do Women Think When They Do This by Dybala11(m): 2:26pm On Nov 25, 2023

Zxcvbnmghtr:
The reality of life says otherwise. Make an objective survey about who we women end up getting married to. Boyfriend or a serious man who comes into the picture from out of the blue who is ready to settle down and responsible enough to build a family. We understand you are a weak gender full of INSECURITIES lol. Hence the test.

It's the other way round though. If not, why would any lady lie about her relationship status to a man she's interested in just to score a cheap point?

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Re: What Do Women Think When They Do This by Dybala11(m): 2:27pm On Nov 25, 2023

Nazgul:
If you didn't meet her as a virgin, she's definitely in a relationship or a situationship.

Her loyalty towards you should determine how serious you should take her.

Where I would have problem with such girl is if after we've officially agreed to date, she still keep tabs with her ex. That's when I'll cut off.

But if you're expecting to find a girl of about 26 and above without any connection to a man. Bro, it's impossible. Unless you want her to lie to you.

True sha, even their underaged counterparts have both young men and some randy old men trying to woo them.

Re: What Do Women Think When They Do This by Gentlelox(op): 2:28pm On Nov 25, 2023

Angelfrost:
OP... You really need to quit overrating and overestimating yourself... It is unmanly and highly irritating.

If a girl directly and/or indirectly indicates interest in you, the respectable thing is to humbly see it as a compliment, and absolutely nothing more... It shouldn't even get into your head, especially to this narcissistic point of creating a thread about it just to feel good about yourself and debase women.

Make una dey use this thing called Brain well for this Social Media. Mtchewwww!!!

that's ur problem. Boy!

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Re: What Do Women Think When They Do This by Gentlelox(op): 2:29pm On Nov 25, 2023

shedy03:
There must be something about your physical look that attracts them to you, and those fake calls to their guys were like shooting their shots.

maybe it my dreadlock and ear rings

Re: What Do Women Think When They Do This by Zxcvbnmghtr: 2:31pm On Nov 25, 2023

naturefellow:
Misconception. Change your thinking and circle.

It's the reality which you don't want to embrace.

Re: What Do Women Think When They Do This by Zxcvbnmghtr: 2:35pm On Nov 25, 2023

Dybala11:
And confidence entails entering a rat race because of a woman??
Can never be me sha, once I know that you're in a romantic relationship with another guy then I disengage sharp sharp.

The Op was only assuming. Infact he was also only assuming that ladies are into him.

Re: What Do Women Think When They Do This by Amonijosh1: 2:36pm On Nov 25, 2023

no long talk, women are attracted to a guy that has other ladies, so in their mind, they feel men think the same way...

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Re: What Do Women Think When They Do This by Abu4shizo: 2:38pm On Nov 25, 2023

TRUE

Gentlelox:
when a guy observes this. He feels the gal has been taken already and wouldn't want to indulge in a conversation with the gal. Guys like me just naturally get pissed and change sit.

To be honest, most guys think it herculen for them to drag a woman with another man. They would rather just avoid the lady.

Re: What Do Women Think When They Do This by KATERINA80: 2:43pm On Nov 25, 2023

chucks185:
don't waste time on women they ain't worth it

Are you a gay?

Re: What Do Women Think When They Do This by Dybala11(m): 2:45pm On Nov 25, 2023

Zxcvbnmghtr:
Most of you men are kids and irresponsible and immature. The reason why there are too many single mothers this days.

This your assumption is quite wrong, you think it's always the man's fault if a relationship doesn't work out??
You believe that the number of single mothers we have in the society is men's fault alone, don't you? Dey play. 🙄

Re: What Do Women Think When They Do This by jubrilELsudan: 2:45pm On Nov 25, 2023

YOU ARE VERY STUPID

ALL THEY JUST WANTED WAS TO FVCK YOU AND NOTHING MORE

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Re: What Do Women Think When They Do This by kay29000(m): 2:47pm On Nov 25, 2023

ExudeLoveToAll:
Who wastes time chasing ladies already dating someone else? If she can do that to the guy she is dating then she can do that to me , I[b] will just pass unless I don't want to take her serious[/b].

Gbam

Re: What Do Women Think When They Do This by storm001(m): 3:17pm On Nov 25, 2023

Zxcvbnmghtr:
Hahahaha we call it green and red signal. We use it to test a man's CONFIDENCE.

How has it worked out for you ladies.

I can't tell why ladies are always in the mood to manipulate.

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Re: What Do Women Think When They Do This by Zxcvbnmghtr: 3:28pm On Nov 25, 2023

storm001:
How has it worked out for you ladies.

I can't tell why ladies are always in the mood to manipulate.

It's nature. We are naturally intelligent.

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Re: What Do Women Think When They Do This by naturefellow(m): 3:48pm On Nov 25, 2023

Zxcvbnmghtr:
It's the reality which you don't want to embrace.

I don't embrace BS. you're living in a bubble

Re: What Do Women Think When They Do This by shedy03(m): 3:49pm On Nov 25, 2023

Gentlelox:
maybe it my dreadlock and ear rings

Ahhhaaa, am sure plus quality of your dressing too.
Keep it up.

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Re: What Do Women Think When They Do This by Juliearth(f): 3:49pm On Nov 25, 2023

Gentlelox:
Some time ago, i was in a public place and a lady sitting next to me was obviously staring at me and drawing his face out anytime I turn.

Eventually, she took her phone and started a call with a guy. Discussing over love. I had the feeling the girl was doing it because of me and that it not to drive me away but to show interest in her.

Happened again at the airport. A girl I was sitting next to asked me to get her something politely as i took permission to go get something. When I arrived, she was obviously into me. But then, she brought her phone out and started a video call with another guy. She does it in a way that will make me notice by fire by thunder. After the call, my demeanor changed and I avoided her and I could see the girl somewhat disappointed. From her looks, she was expecting another type of reaction from me.

A lady friend met me and we talked. She wanted relationship and she was into me But then I asked her if she has a boyfriend and she said yes. Then i changed the topic and she could see my interest has changed. So she said it not a serious relationship and she doesn't even know if it a relationship because she doesn't love the guy... She started telling tales. Las las i nor give am line.

These things happened alot. Maybe because they are all up to marriage age. If a girl thinks that chatting or calling another guy would make a guy interested in them, then they need to rethink. Or maybe she just doesn't like me.

What's your opinion on this.

I guess we should call that botched reverse psychology... LOL! It just might be a mere coincidence.

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Re: What Do Women Think When They Do This by DrMuzungu(m): 4:01pm On Nov 25, 2023

Cock0mycine deficiency in one's bloodstream can cause such symptoms, lol.

Re: What Do Women Think When They Do This by riczy(m): 4:01pm On Nov 25, 2023

frank317:
Who needs a non-confident potential suitor?

wat do u mean my confident pls? Use confidence go get a high paying job, not one thing dt s dripping!

Re: What Do Women Think When They Do This by ChybuzzDD(m): 4:02pm On Nov 25, 2023

Jewessgratitud3:
Don't be quick to jump into conclusion like that. Do you even know if the girls did that just to discourage or turn you off because they noticed the way you were starring at them and felt you wanted to ask them out?

This is not true.

You go explain tire today grin

Re: What Do Women Think When They Do This by BeigJawnson(m): 4:09pm On Nov 25, 2023*

Gentlelox:
unfortunately many ladies will loose their potential suitors from this.

A woman almost lost her husband becos of this floppy idea... When the guy asked if she is into any relationship, she said yes. But as guy man wey the guy be, he muuuuuved on. Stopped calling the girl for good one month. Guy don dey press button with another lady, but lady never give am better reply, na so this woman call the guy, telling him that he just forget her like that. And the guy told her that since she said she is into relationship, he had to move, she confessed of not having boyfriend ... Now the are married..

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