"Are we seeing today" is a line used mostly by hookup girls... Shine your eyes or use a friend to set her up and get evidence.

Cloggym:
We started a relationship at the end of August. She was the who wanted a relationship, and I liked her too so I accepted since I’m single.
We live just 1hr apart in 2 different cities in the east. So I wouldn’t completely say it’s a long distance relationship.

She visited, and I happen to check her WhatsApp while she was asleep. I found out she’s sleeping with a few other men, not a relationship cos I didn’t see endearing names or any romantic chats just stuffs like “ where are you? I’m at your house “
Are we seeing today?”

Should I confront her or use her for sex only , with protection of course

One word for you "You are a mumu man" what if the girl is not dating you for real because this babe might just want to use you to pass time till Mr right appeared , and your relationship is barely 3 months are you want to privatize a public h*le. don't rush thing man focus on more productive things and just fvck and go. If I were you I won't take the relationship too serious within just 3 months

Cheat back on her nal

Na to fvck am.
See how I dey relate with my fvck mate if I wan fvck am.
In fact I wan fvck am in less than 24hours from now.

immortalcrown:
To you, "Are we seeing today?", means nothing but sexual intercourse?

Red flag, please run as fast you can

You are of course not the only man in her life. You need to tame her to your taste and completely possess her if you have the means; if not, you are just another cow in her ranch.

Cloggym:


Before her, I wasn’t sex starved. I didn’t start dating her cos of sex. We talked for a month and I felt some connection. I actually like her.

Cloggym:
We started a relationship at the end of August. She was the who wanted a relationship, and I liked her too so I accepted since I’m single.
We live just 1hr apart in 2 different cities in the east. So I wouldn’t completely say it’s a long distance relationship.

She visited, and I happen to check her WhatsApp while she was asleep. I found out she’s sleeping with a few other men, not a relationship cos I didn’t see endearing names or any romantic chats just stuffs like “ where are you? I’m at your house “
Are we seeing today?”

Should I confront her or use her for sex only , with protection of course

Please, how do unmarried people cheat?

talk2hb1:

I can categorically say she is not cheating on you and she has never cheated on you.
She is Cheating with You!
Do Your Do, and move on. Ahbi Una don dey catch feelings?

I'm yet to understand how unmarried people cheat on themselves. I've asked the op this question and I'm gladly anticipating his response.

immortalcrown:
To you, "Are we seeing today?", means nothing but sexual intercourse?

What is she seeing him for

Cloggym:
We started a relationship at the end of August. She was the who wanted a relationship, and I liked her too so I accepted since I’m single.
We live just 1hr apart in 2 different cities in the east. So I wouldn’t completely say it’s a long distance relationship.

She visited, and I happen to check her WhatsApp while she was asleep. I found out she’s sleeping with a few other men, not a relationship cos I didn’t see endearing names or any romantic chats just stuffs like “ where are you? I’m at your house “
Are we seeing today?”

Should I confront her or use her for sex only , with protection of course

Oga 3 months is not a relationship is still situationship

Just dump her

Don't use her as sex object she will infect you someday

Cloggym:

But bro this is Nigeria.. chances of sex is high whenever a girl visits a guy.

smart thinking.

And I am planning of getting a side girlfriend, e be like say I go abort mission.

Bro Na you enter in between wetin she dey do...

If I were you I will stay away from her...

Regular topic on nairaland

RealEzee:
so he shud b giving her small money instead

Yes nah. And be knacking her without mercy

I no know wetin una dey smoke wey make una dey think say una girlfriend no fit cheat on you

immortalcrown:
To you, "Are we seeing today?", means nothing but sexual intercourse?

Won ti ta é ti kpé

"Stick to you alone"...? When the signs are there?...she belong in the street

frankoben:
If you have genuine feelings for her, then love her well enough to make her stick to you alone. Trust me bro.. it works. I have thread this part before.

Oga marry her! Simps like you deserve her kind to teach you a good lesson.

Cloggym:


Before her, I wasn’t sex starved. I didn’t start dating her cos of sex. We talked for a month and I felt some connection. I actually like her.

Dating a girl after just knowing her for a few months is a very bad move that’s quicker than most banks trust people to be staff of their company. Another bad move is she’s in a different city of course other men will be banging her from time to time, she’s a woman omo if you like her and don’t mind sharing her sexually no wahala go ahead but if you mind sharing her sexually which is inevitable anyway then end things. Hopefully you haven’t started washing each others heads with fake I love you comments

Do whatever you like, don't disturb us with all these unserious talks.... Better things to worry about

If the story is true, this one is still a learner.

Cloggym:
We started a relationship at the end of August. She was the who wanted a relationship, and I liked her too so I accepted since I’m single.
We live just 1hr apart in 2 different cities in the east. So I wouldn’t completely say it’s a long distance relationship.

She visited, and I happen to check her WhatsApp while she was asleep. I found out she’s sleeping with a few other men, not a relationship cos I didn’t see endearing names or any romantic chats just stuffs like “ where are you? I’m at your house “
Are we seeing today?”

Should I confront her or use her for sex only , with protection of course

Confront her family and tell them

You wan first dey look girl phone na wa die

Cloggym:


How do I clear my head ?
Will it not be wasting my time further?

It shows you are not emotionally strong.

Its her that is wasting her time not you, you are a man.

But Do anyone your body can carry, if its to confront her or to ignore.. anyone you wish.

Cloggym:
We started a relationship at the end of August. She was the who wanted a relationship, and I liked her too so I accepted since I’m single.
We live just 1hr apart in 2 different cities in the east. So I wouldn’t completely say it’s a long distance relationship.

She visited, and I happen to check her WhatsApp while she was asleep. I found out she’s sleeping with a few other men, not a relationship cos I didn’t see endearing names or any romantic chats just stuffs like “ where are you? I’m at your house “
Are we seeing today?”

Should I confront her or use her for sex only , with protection of course

nah mumu dey love

Cloggym:


So I shouldn’t confront her ?

If you confront her, she would definitely lie.

She might tell you she went but nothing happened, which is of course possible.

It depends on what you want from her anyway, if its sex don't confront her.. if it's love that can lead to marriage.. then you can confront her and hear what she has to say.

But she can only be more careful next time by deleting the chats before coming to your house.

If i were you, i would lay low and still be observing her and see if more things would unfold.

You can be snapping those chats with your phone and be keeping.

Lol.... she go soon pin pregnancy for your head.

Then you will train a child that isn't yours.
Better wise up bro.

I can't stress this enough bro..

My number is on my signature send me a message on whatsapp let meteach you how to read her WhatsApp messages directly on your phone..

So you too can know if you gf or bf is cheating if you should continue the marriage with them or just play along, choice is yours

Everyone is free to text me.
But hold 1k sha.

Cloggym:
We started a relationship at the end of August. She was the who wanted a relationship, and I liked her too so I accepted since I’m single.
We live just 1hr apart in 2 different cities in the east. So I wouldn’t completely say it’s a long distance relationship.

She visited, and I happen to check her WhatsApp while she was asleep. I found out she’s sleeping with a few other men, not a relationship cos I didn’t see endearing names or any romantic chats just stuffs like “ where are you? I’m at your house “
Are we seeing today?”

Should I confront her or use her for sex only , with protection of course

I would strongly advise that you don't confront her yet. She would surely have excuses to counter you. She would even start attacking you cos she knows you haven't caught her. She would then start deleting chats and change her phone passkey. Just lay low and continue investigation till you get proper evidence. Don't mind those guys advising you to keep banging her. If you value your health, suspend it. Once you catch any STI, these same guys would be laughing at you and making jest. My brother went through the same thing. He lay low and continued investigation until he came across a chat where they were talking about their recent s*x in a hotel. When he showed her, she was dumbfounded. She kept begging but his mind was made up. Proper evidence is important in a case like this.

Cloggym:
We started a relationship at the end of August. She was the who wanted a relationship, and I liked her too so I accepted since I’m single.
We live just 1hr apart in 2 different cities in the east. So I wouldn’t completely say it’s a long distance relationship.

She visited, and I happen to check her WhatsApp while she was asleep. I found out she’s sleeping with a few other men, not a relationship cos I didn’t see endearing names or any romantic chats just stuffs like “ where are you? I’m at your house “
Are we seeing today?”

Should I confront her or use her for sex only , with protection of course

Let me tell you something, when you find out your girl is cheating and you are not ready to settle down, just walk away or just play along without any commitment.
I found out that my girlfriend was into hook-up with politicians,I just lock up. Someone told me she saw her pics of introduction with a Ghana burger on Facebook. I didn't ask her either when we saw later. I still gbenshed her. Before then,she knew I was too smart to not know. Long story short,she married the guy and divorced the next year. The younger sister's husband saw me and was telling me all the nonsense and how her marriage hit the rocks. I just told him it's well. When I checked her Facebook back then, she has deleted every pics that had to do with the failed marriage.