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SALLYBERRY01:
How

it comes with a price ...


I should go weite a book on this and sell..


Ilegend comman show me how to go about it..

StraightGaay:
How do you do it?

The secret comes with a price...

Silentgroper:
The secret comes with a price...

Tell me pls

StraightGaay:
Tell me pls

nope ...


I'm sorry....

Silentgroper:
Who says female commit these days.. they just pretend until they're tired of pretending and boom, they disappear.. na you go come they nurse a broken heart ...


Naso my cousin enter toilet locked himself up there and was crying after one girl show am shege .. Since then, guyman no dey do commitment oo .. my guy just dey pack dem upandan until it feels right with one of them...

Tell ur cousin to stop going for street girl, and don't forget to tell him as well to behave like good boy too.

Tell him I tell you, it takes two to tango.

Silentgroper:
nope ...


I'm sorry....

Why?

Beuberry:
Comprehension wey you n boys here don't have?
If there are more rich males here than female it's not significant talk. It's a petty talk. What we are saying is the way males here bash females is awkward!
And you look like those senseless males of this site!

Sisi pepeye calm down, research/survery have shown Men are the most depressed gender, women contribute half of it.
I am not here to justify guyz bashing women, but most of the things said, are they lies

If women start correcting themselves don't you think that bashing from boiz will reduce ??


It is that period of the month, i will advise you don't attempt any of the questions until blood starts circulating back upstairs

There’s no dilemma here. If you’re too scared to commit to a woman in a relationship, you can remain single. It’s not a crime to remain so. Stop putting unnecessary pressure on yourself.


Also, homosexuality is becoming widely accepted these days, you can try committing to a man and who knows, you may get lucky. Please avoid women for your peace’s sake.

All the best

StraightGaay:
Why?

Because it comes with a price ...


Ilegend dey make money from selling informations like this, y cant i..


Mandem needs a side hustle.. yunno

Fiscus105:
Tell ur cousin to stop going for street girl, and don't forget to tell him as well to behave like good boy too.

Tell him I tell you, it takes two to tango.

street girl.. you must be joking..

Girl is as classy as fvck .. what you talking about ...


Nah, you clearly don't kniw what you're talking about...

Silentgroper:
Who says female commit these days.. they just pretend until they're tired of pretending and boom, they disappear.. na you go come they nurse a broken heart ...


Naso my cousin enter toilet locked himself up there and was crying after one girl show am shege .. Since then, guyman no dey do commitment oo .. my guy just dey pack dem upandan until it feels right with one of them...

So it will still feel right with one of them girls last last.

Bunch of jokers who still do not realize that homosexuality is an option that’s available to anyone who’s not interested in the opposite gender.


Shun women and move on, for where.

You guys still run after women while continuing in your endless lamentations. It’s so so tiring tbh

DBestDoc:
There’s no dilemma here. If you’re too scared to commit to a woman in a relationship, you can remain single. It’s not a crime to remain so. Stop putting unnecessary pressure on yourself.


Also, homosexuality is becoming widely accepted these days, you can try committing to a man and who knows, you may get lucky. Please avoid women for your peace’s sake.

All the best

you sound pained

The real problem now is why are you pained

DBestDoc:
So it will still feel right with one of them girls last last.

Bunch of jokers who still do not realize that homosexuality is an option that’s available to anyone who’s not interested in the opposite gender.


Shun women and move on, for where.

You guys still run after women while continuing in your endless lamentations. It’s so so tiring tbh

I still don't get it ... Why are you so pained abt it

CHoccolaTE:
Lwkmd,
You males really think highly of yourselvrs don't you?
What on earth could I possibly need his commitment for?



So females are natural disasters?
You men rob, rape, kill, kidnap, terrorize, loot treasury like no man's business, but females are the natural disasters?

Oga please like I said before, you guys should just have fun and enjoy your delusions.

Tbh don't see why we shouldnt, Is it easy to be an ALFA male or you think paying house rent and school fee naa miomio, check women that do it and ask if they are happy.
My friend wedding is in jan, he as spent 4m still on, the wife & bride family want elaborate buh there contribution no reach 500k
You might not need his own commitm

reddingtonblack:
Sisi pepeye calm down, research/survery have shown Men are the most depressed gender, women contribute half of it.
I am not here to justify guyz bashing women, but most of the things said, are they lies

If women start correcting themselves don't you think that bashing from boiz will reduce ??


[/b]It is that period of the month, i will advise you don't attempt any of the questions until blood starts circulating back upstairs[b]

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phintohlar:
I no read am o cos e too long, but i agree with you

Just make money and stay away from marriage and get a working class baby Mama, very cost effective, no stress, mutual respect and most importantly free life to live.

CHoccolaTE:
You think men give women peace? You really believe women fare better in marriages than men?
If you do then no wahala. I don't even have any interest in arguing.
Enjoy.

If men don't give women peace, how come Men are the most depressed or is that how it works

If women don't fare better in marriages how come wives survive and live longer than there husband in marriage.
How come wives are always looking chubbier and fat in marriage , whereas they look single in there fathers' house ...

i hope someday you find the answers and then you will shower me with blessings.

MikeofKd:
Good day Nlanders, pls I need the wisest counsels of wise Nlanders. I have a problem which is lack of commitment to women, ive been this way since I left uni, and pls know that this isnt due to masturbation or any sorts, cause I havent done that thing since my teenage years.

I meet a woman today , we vibe, connect and all but i'm just damn too scared to commit any woman no matter how good she is. I'm scared that if I continue this way I may likely find it really difficult to get married.

Seeing and experiencing different complains of men in real life and on the forum as made my commitment issues with women only worse. I'm currently working, fair pay, got my own place, I'm doing quite well for myself. Ive met different women this year that were good women, but I fear if I give my heart to them they may switch up, women are too complicated naturally to cope with.

This fear of commitment is seriously holding me back from getting a serious relationship. My only fear is if I continue this way I may not get married. I need the counsels of wise nairalanders to advice me on what to do concerning this commitment issues cause it quite depressing no lies.

I form hard guy, but deep down I really be craving for a romantic relationship, I'm just too scared to give any woman my heart cause ive been hurt in past relationships . So hurt that even when I had a good woman I couldnt see it and I lost her.

Your Wise advice and counsels would be deeply appreciated thanks.

How old are you ?

DBestDoc:
There’s no dilemma here. If you’re too scared to commit to a woman in a relationship, you can remain single. It’s not a crime to remain so. Stop putting unnecessary pressure on yourself.


Also, homosexuality is becoming widely accepted these days, you can try committing to a man and who knows, you may get lucky. Please avoid women for your peace’s sake.

All the best

Op didnt in anyway insinuate he is unsure of his sexuality, dunno why you chose to doubt

Someone said he craves to be with a woman and you are advising him to avoid women

are you sure you are in the right line

Silentgroper:
street girl.. you must be joking..

Girl is as classy as fvck .. what you talking about ...


Nah, you clearly don't kniw what you're talking about...

Ok sir ,she is a church girl oooo. Tell him to keep following church girl sir. And if depressed, he is not the first man to go depression, neither would he be the last.


It is only a fool that would be closely related with another person for months/years and won't know substantial part of her/his characters

Silentgroper:
Because it comes with a price ...


Ilegend dey make money from selling informations like this, y cant i..


Mandem needs a side hustle.. yunno

What's the price?

Fiscus105:
Ok sir ,she is a church girl oooo. Tell him to keep following church girl sir. And if depressed, he is not the first man to go depression, neither would he be the last.


It is only a fool that would be closely related with another person for months/years and won't know substantial part of her/his characters

I'm done here ..

I never said she was a church girl...

But she's not that kind of street girl .. pesin wey her papa get money..

StraightGaay:
What's the price?

will be sold in USD ..

I am incapable of loving a woman.
After the sex, I feel nothing again

I have this same issue. I meet a girl today and i'm all excited about her and chatty but after a week or two, i've lost interest and won't even look forward to talking to this person anymore.

CHoccolaTE:
You think men give women peace? You really believe women fare better in marriages than men?
If you do then no wahala. I don't even have any interest in arguing.
Enjoy.

The issue is from your reply
It shows You don't even understand the whole drift

Successful marriages I see around one important factor you find out is that the women give there Men peace

At least I have successful marriages I have observed of people close to me

It's still same scenario

I have three sisters married my parents first daughter has been married for 16 years
And very successful marriage
Likewise the other ones

The key thing I observed is that she gives her husband complete peace of mind

The husband trusts her because of this

Some couple of years ago when they Developed one of there properties in lekki Lagos

She handled everything about the project from beginning to end
Was just answerable to her husband
He trusted her to release huge funds, allow her control everything

But she must give account for all her spendings


It's only a woman that gives a man peace of mind the man can trust to that level

In fact sensible women know that men are not difficult like that

It's the stubborn, troublesome ones that experience the Lion nature of a Man

Because average Man out there has a Lion nature if you dare the Man

Fiscus105:
Yes but on many occasions you can also know at least, 75% what might come out, if you don't go by way *physical body* but the quality the partners possess that can make the Marriage work. Meanwhile, having got the prerequisites, the two actors still need to guide the Marriage jealously if they want it to succeed.

......and what did I mean by guiding it jealously?

The two of you should endeavour to refrain from what you know can hurt ur partner toooo deep, not that alone,you should also learn how to reach compromise.( I reject some and accept some of my partner's characters)

And where it is only one partner that will guide the union jealously then what happens?


Most times people talk things based on just what they think not what they have experienced

Like the guy you quoted stated
A woman can hide her real personality, till she enters marriage

That's what many Men go through

Although from personal findings
Rugged Men are less likely to see this
Because if woman dey craze a rugged Man dey craze pass am

So she better behave herself or she go collect well well

djon78:
And where it is only one partner that will guide the union jealously then what happens?


Most times people talk things based on just what they think not what they have experienced

Like the guy you quoted stated
A woman can hide her real personality, till she enters marriage

That's what many Men go through

Although from personal findings
Rugged Men are less likely to see this
Because if woman dey craze a rugged Man dey craze pass am

So she better behave herself or she go collect well well

Bold my comment where I wrote a partner should guide the marriage jealously. (Tell people around you to explain the meaning of the *two actors" I wrote in my post)


Perhaps u are a graduate,if you are, how u passed out surprise me.


I won't be surprised if u re having issues in ur relationship, ..........gragra and coconut head would surely bring toxic into relationship

Fiscus105:
Bold my comment where I wrote a partner should guide the marriage jealously.


Perhaps u are a graduate,if you are, how u passed out surprise me.


I won't be surprised if u re having issues in ur relationship, ..........gragra and coconut head would surely bring toxic into relationship

the two actors still need to guide the Marriage jealously if they want it to succeed.

......and what did I mean by guiding it jealously?


You made this statement to the guy you replied

Na you wey no go school self when you can't even remember your own statement again

reddingtonblack:
Calm down miss pepeye ... you can keep hallucinating for all i care BUt OP problem is clearly a commitment issue

Some day you will grow up to understand that "Commitment issue" is a personal glitch that stems from "experience" and not peer pressure or influence
Perhaps what he saw & read on NL corroborated is mindset but NL is definitely not the source of his problem.

Op won't make headway until he looks into his past and identify the "Source" of his problem and open up about it

You're making sense...

Beuberry:
You are a mumuman! You followed advise from rapists, dirty boys wearing one boxer short for one week, sex only brain boys, lazy and unrealistic high expectations boys on this forum. Don't you see that those boys coming here to complain about females have no joy?
They are looking for what their mothers didn't give their fathers and what their sisters didn't do for their husbands. You took wrong advise cos this forum isn't a yardstick to judge all women.

You are still looking for advise from losers. Most of the males here are political jobbers, atheists, antichrists and sex only in the brain boys roaming romance section. They are good at condemning and not offering solutions. They are like DaddyFreeze, Sheikh Gumi, FFK and Reno Omokri. Always eating from pits and defending evil via packaging.


Lol, 😂 you mean you do have erections? 🤣
Stick to masturbation and oloshos naa. Mary both of them or you also get a baby mama. By the grace of God, women are more wiser and I won't tolerate any loser of a man to mess with my life.


See MikeofKd or Michael of Kaduna, you are a joker. You can't receive what you don't have.
Get a well behaved woman to marry. Ignore bad counsels from this site. You sef reason am, go through this thread, have you gotten a good advise except this one I gave you?

Hmm what do you mean by loser of a man?