Silentgroper:
will be sold in USD ..

MikeofKd:
Good day Nlanders, pls I need the wisest counsels of wise Nlanders. I have a problem which is lack of commitment to women, ive been this way since I left uni, and pls know that this isnt due to masturbation or any sorts, cause I havent done that thing since my teenage years.

I meet a woman today , we vibe, connect and all but i'm just damn too scared to commit any woman no matter how good she is. I'm scared that if I continue this way I may likely find it really difficult to get married.

Seeing and experiencing different complains of men in real life and on the forum as made my commitment issues with women only worse. I'm currently working, fair pay, got my own place, I'm doing quite well for myself. Ive met different women this year that were good women, but I fear if I give my heart to them they may switch up, women are too complicated naturally to cope with.

This fear of commitment is seriously holding me back from getting a serious relationship. My only fear is if I continue this way I may not get married. I need the counsels of wise nairalanders to advice me on what to do concerning this commitment issues cause it quite depressing no lies.

I form hard guy, but deep down I really be craving for a romantic relationship, I'm just too scared to give any woman my heart cause ive been hurt in past relationships . So hurt that even when I had a good woman I couldnt see it and I lost her.

Your Wise advice and counsels would be deeply appreciated thanks.

StraightGaay:
Out with it bro

CHoccolaTE:

I wish men like the OP would simply avoid marriage and avoid women totally.
Let him not use his sexist mindset and behaviour to torment one innocent woman.

[/b]I don't even know what these males want.[b] They think females are terrible and problematic but they are here giving advice on how to stay with the same problematic females.

All of you should just avoid us females altogether.

Thanks.

Beuberry:

If car no jam you this week, police ll catch you, or make dog bite you, amen.
Except if I no dey on my menstruation na hin my curse no go catch you!

Fiscus105:



When you are a sexist, you are suffering from psychological problems. It's natural phenomenon for a man to like woman, but when you are now hating women for no tangible reasons, you are going abnormal.

There is correlation between sexism and psychological.

Revolva:
Oga u wan ho co.mit your self for nigerian girls i laugh you ....dem wey no no anytin baout live and commitment

Den go use u play , this mode you are is the best mode ever be a player

AlphaHakimi:



Here is my sincere advice to you.

1) When you see a woman, treat whatever relationship you have with her as transactional.

2) Make sure any woman you decide to date invest something tangible in your life. I don't mean sex, let her invest her money, skills and time in your life.

You see, women are loyal to their emotions. A woman does not really care about what you have done for her in the past, if you cannot help her presently, you are useless to her. This is why I said she has to invest in you and openly ask her for it the same way they ask you for money for wig, shoes and cloth. A woman is only loyal to her sacrifice. Once she knows she has sacrificed something that is not easy to come by e.g Money, she will be loyal to you.

Here is how you do it, if you have a car and you want to go for maintenance and you know it will cost you like 15k, openly tell her that your car is due for maintenance and that she should give you 15k for it (Not borrow).

So whenever she collects money from you, collect an equal amount of money from her. This is transactional relationship. So that the day she decides to leave, she will remember all that she has invested in you and that will keep her.

Don't crave for love, it will find you and when it does make sure you are getting as much as you are giving.

Shalom

Stevenbright:


You are just unnecessarily being hard on yourself. You have not met a woman you want. If and when you do, you will be committed to her without forcing it.

CHoccolaTE:
This topic has to be a joke.
Both the original post and the comments from other males.

I don't know how you clowns have succeeded in convincing yourselves that you are victims of females.
Females are the greater recipients of domestic violence, absentee partners in marriage, infidelity in relationships, females give up their names and identities to get married, the kids they spend their whole lives raising are not even theirs;[/b]because children belong to their fathers side of the family[b], women are under greater pressure to tolerate bad marriages because of stigma of divorce so they stay and put up with all sorts of rubbish from their husbands.
Women are the worst sufferers of bad inlaws.
Many men don't even provide shit. They do the barest minimum and have their wives substitute for the rest and then they still don't appreciate her for it.
But somehow, males have convinced themselves that they are the victims and marriage favors women.

Let me leave this thread for you deluded creatures. Please enjoy your delusions.

MikeofKd:
Good day Nlanders, pls I need the wisest counsels of wise Nlanders. I have a problem which is lack of commitment to women, ive been this way since I left uni, and pls know that this isnt due to masturbation or any sorts, cause I havent done that thing since my teenage years.

I meet a woman today , we vibe, connect and all but i'm just damn too scared to commit any woman no matter how good she is. I'm scared that if I continue this way I may likely find it really difficult to get married.

Seeing and experiencing different complains of men in real life and on the forum as made my commitment issues with women only worse. I'm currently working, fair pay, got my own place, I'm doing quite well for myself. Ive met different women this year that were good women, but I fear if I give my heart to them they may switch up, women are too complicated naturally to cope with.

This fear of commitment is seriously holding me back from getting a serious relationship. My only fear is if I continue this way I may not get married. I need the counsels of wise nairalanders to advice me on what to do concerning this commitment issues cause it quite depressing no lies.

I form hard guy, but deep down I really be craving for a romantic relationship, I'm just too scared to give any woman my heart cause ive been hurt in past relationships . So hurt that even when I had a good woman I couldnt see it and I lost her.

Your Wise advice and counsels would be deeply appreciated thanks.

Magnoliaa:


But they will not stop rushing into it, and complaining about a lack of intimacy from women.

I honestly don't understand this thread nor its point. Stay alone and save yourself the hassle of being with a woman na. What's hard there?

MikeofKd:
Good day Nlanders, pls I need the wisest counsels of wise Nlanders. I have a problem which is lack of commitment to women, ive been this way since I left uni, and pls know that this isnt due to masturbation or any sorts, cause I havent done that thing since my teenage years.

I meet a woman today , we vibe, connect and all but i'm just damn too scared to commit any woman no matter how good she is. I'm scared that if I continue this way I may likely find it really difficult to get married.

Seeing and experiencing different complains of men in real life and on the forum as made my commitment issues with women only worse. I'm currently working, fair pay, got my own place, I'm doing quite well for myself. Ive met different women this year that were good women, but I fear if I give my heart to them they may switch up, women are too complicated naturally to cope with.

This fear of commitment is seriously holding me back from getting a serious relationship. My only fear is if I continue this way I may not get married. I need the counsels of wise nairalanders to advice me on what to do concerning this commitment issues cause it quite depressing no lies.

I form hard guy, but deep down I really be craving for a romantic relationship, I'm just too scared to give any woman my heart cause ive been hurt in past relationships . So hurt that even when I had a good woman I couldnt see it and I lost her.

Your Wise advice and counsels would be deeply appreciated thanks.

Silentgroper:
sweetheart ... Lets get married..

Magnoliaa:


But you were claiming you don't come into my Mentions the other day, and you were calling me a toxic prostitute who sleep with yahoo boys.

Are the electrical pathways in your brain malfunctioning? Does your thirsting and stalking speak well of someone who comes from a home where love and friendship exists? Were you not brought up with self-worth? Is Nairaland your only medium of talking to a woman and getting a feel of what it means to be a 'man?'

Do I give you wet dreams? Or do you find my moniker erotic? You fantasise about me minutes before you sleep and wake up -- as that is when you are mostly quoting me?

If none of these are true, I fail to see the reason for being this pathetic persistent pest that you are to me.

If a "good morning" has gotten you all like this, calling me "sweetheart" and already having wedding jitters, I can imagine what a proper, talking stage with a woman who likes you will do to you.

It will not be from me, just so you know. It will not (I mean, you people always bring up NL people marrying. And you wonder why some Nairalanders aren't getting married. You want to know the ones who have, and that is because somewhere deep in your minds, you guys hope something good can come out of all the fighting and flirting, and arguments and insults).

You will call me an attention-seeker and say I take NL seriously and whatnot but the persons who keep parasocial relationships with faceless women as crutches for the lack in their lives is as clear as day. But sure, mask it under 'cruise' for plausible deniability, as if your INABILITY TO IGNORE me doesn't stem from the subconscious part of you.

Silentgroper:
Cause making a joke is a good way of letting off some fragment of the negative energy that has consumed you .

Silentgroper:
you sound pained

The real problem now is why are you pained