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Re: Re: UPDATE Wife Travelling Without Consent ? by Karlifate: 11:11pm On Dec 07, 2023 |
maasoap: He should've asked his wife, whom they live together for better clarifications, not online in-laws that knows little to nothing about their marital life. |
Re: Re: UPDATE Wife Travelling Without Consent ? by jubrilELsudan: 11:14pm On Dec 07, 2023 |
YOUR WIFE IS A CONFAM ASHAWO 1 Like
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Re: Re: UPDATE Wife Travelling Without Consent ? by sisisioge: 11:30pm On Dec 07, 2023 |
Trouble mongering husband. If she had ulterior motive, would she have asked that your brother accompanied her? Dey play 1 Like |
Re: Re: UPDATE Wife Travelling Without Consent ? by Albertone(m): 11:41pm On Dec 07, 2023 |
IamMobisola: Please marry oyinbo or a Nigerian raised abroad. Better still, marry a simp/weak man that doesn't know about leadership in the home or use juju to tie him. You mean a spouse cannot express displeasure over the attendance the SO to an event/trip? |
Re: Re: UPDATE Wife Travelling Without Consent ? by Kobojunkie: 11:42pm On Dec 07, 2023 |
maasoap:According to OP, the wife is on a trip to Kenya with his kids while OP himself in back in the states. Do you know the funny of all of this is that OP doesn't even seem concerned about the welfare of his kids in all of this? His one focus seems to be that his wife wishes to attend a party. I thought his reason would be that the kids would not have a parent with them in the absence of the wife but nothing at all like that. Doesn't that strike you as a bit odd for a man who lives in the United States? 2 Likes |
Re: Re: UPDATE Wife Travelling Without Consent ? by Albertone(m): 11:43pm On Dec 07, 2023 |
sisisioge: Maybe the brother is going to join the wife and that old classmate in a 3 some, who knows? |
Re: Re: UPDATE Wife Travelling Without Consent ? by Kobojunkie: 11:43pm On Dec 07, 2023 |
Albertone:Well, make sure you stay back in Nigeria where this leadership nonsense flies as well. 1 Like |
Re: Re: UPDATE Wife Travelling Without Consent ? by Singhabele: 12:18am On Dec 08, 2023 |
madridguy: Na c finish be dat if u carry sift leg follow woman they go c u finish. If na me tell her to from dere go her papa house. She go do runs period. Let her be runnin nd busy |
Re: Re: UPDATE Wife Travelling Without Consent ? by mukthar2000(m): 2:06am On Dec 08, 2023 |
Albertone:call her on phone to returned back to her father house on her way coming from the party, then u both met their to explained better to her father and Mother. |
Re: Re: UPDATE Wife Travelling Without Consent ? by Capernum: 5:32am On Dec 08, 2023 |
cococandy: Go and read on leadership. I guess you need it like urgently. I already told you that in extreme cases like the op's situation, that is what is needed. Meanwhile any woman who finds her husband's command irritating is a rebellious woman... And that is called witchcraft. Your boss command you at the office, if you're a police woman or military woaman or even a teacher, they command you and you say yes sir, but it's only at home that your husband becomes a weakling and loose his voice and authority. Is that not witchcraft? Ladies don't marry if you're not very submissive. Or marry a weakling like the op. |
Re: Re: UPDATE Wife Travelling Without Consent ? by madridguy(m): 5:33am On Dec 08, 2023 |
If your husband cannot command you, then he is a SIMPson. IamMobisola: |
Re: Re: UPDATE Wife Travelling Without Consent ? by madridguy(m): 5:35am On Dec 08, 2023 |
Madam, so far she is under him as a wife, she must follow his command. Real African man command. I don't know your cultural background, but where I am from, husband commands their wife. cococandy: |
Re: Re: UPDATE Wife Travelling Without Consent ? by Toktee(m): 6:23am On Dec 08, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:I don't know why I so much hates your comments when it's regards women.... You don't live in Africa, this is African and as such you should understand that what the woman did is wrong in every ramifications. Even in the Western world cheating is taken seriously. How can my wife wake-up one day to tell me she's attending an old classmate wedding without permission? Never mentioned such classmate to me before? And you think it's normal? Clearly the woman have been sleeping with the guy all these years. Be real please. |
Re: Re: UPDATE Wife Travelling Without Consent ? by Kobojunkie: 6:31am On Dec 08, 2023 |
Toktee:1. Op and his wife live in the States. His wife is visiting in Kenya, that is what he said. 2. The reason you treat your wife as subhuman -- not your equal --- has to do with your upbringing, and nothing else. Once you leave the shores of Nigeria, you quickly get into trouble exhibiting such foolishness elsewhere particularly in the States. 3. Problem is many who reason as you do think the world of marriage begins and ends with their dick space. 1 Like |
Re: Re: UPDATE Wife Travelling Without Consent ? by IamMobisola(f): 6:46am On Dec 08, 2023 |
madridguy:Yeah right, coming from someone who doesn't know the meaning of the word he just used. Misusing words here and there. Your mates dey military Barack dey command themselves to war, you dey there dey look for woman to command. Mtchww 1 Like |
Re: Re: UPDATE Wife Travelling Without Consent ? by IamMobisola(f): 6:48am On Dec 08, 2023 |
Albertone:You can express displeasure, nothing wrong with that. The issue is COMMANDING her to sit her ass down and not attend is the PROBLEM here and I am wondering why some of you don't see anything wrong there. So if you are attending an event with your pals and your wife says she doesn't want you to go, hope you will stay put? 1 Like |
Re: Re: UPDATE Wife Travelling Without Consent ? by GreatAchiever1: 7:09am On Dec 08, 2023 |
IamMobisola: Can your father command you? If yes, why not your husband? Can you tell your father not to go to an event? If no, why do that to your husband? |
Re: Re: UPDATE Wife Travelling Without Consent ? by IamMobisola(f): 7:49am On Dec 08, 2023 |
GreatAchiever1:Lol, no wonder. E show |
Re: Re: UPDATE Wife Travelling Without Consent ? by madridguy(m): 7:51am On Dec 08, 2023 |
E pain you enter marrow. If you're too big to follow your husband command, then I leave you to your cucumber and other gadget IamMobisola:
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Re: Re: UPDATE Wife Travelling Without Consent ? by Juoflife1(f): 9:58am On Dec 08, 2023 |
Anything outside work is discussed 'very' clearly. The OP made a previous post and a lot of people downplayed his worries. This update shows he's still concerned. As the husband, he tells her not to go, she stays back. That's it. Kobojunkie: |
Re: Re: UPDATE Wife Travelling Without Consent ? by Gboom: 1:41pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
Juoflife1:You are one of the wise women here compared to those unmarried girls here who think they know what marriage without practical experience. The man in this situation should be bold enough to tell his wife not to go |
Re: Re: UPDATE Wife Travelling Without Consent ? by Kobojunkie: 3:34pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
Juoflife1:Ofcourse, he is still concerned since the issue is his ego being bruised and not even the safety of his kids whom he did stated traveled with his wife back to Kenya. Anyways, unless the agreement between both is that they each get to decide these things for each other, I see no reason why he should believe his wife must do as he says simply because. I don't believe adults are meant to "command" or make decisions on behalf of other adults, unless the one is a ward of the other. |
Re: Re: UPDATE Wife Travelling Without Consent ? by Albertone(m): 4:57pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
IamMobisola: I don't subscribe to the commanding term used. You need to understand that this event is not with OP's wife's pals. The situation is a suspicious one. If my wife deems a non compulsory event suspicious and isn't pleased with me going, I'll not go. Now same question to you, If your husband deems a non compulsory event suspicious and isn't pleased with you going, are you still going? |
Re: Re: UPDATE Wife Travelling Without Consent ? by Albertone(m): 4:58pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
mukthar2000: You can't be doing that all the time. If not, you'll be sending her to her father's house every week. |
Re: Re: UPDATE Wife Travelling Without Consent ? by Albertone(m): 5:00pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Only an unwise African man will bring his wife abroad with him. I stay abroad, she stays in Nigeria or we both stay in Nigeria. |
Re: Re: UPDATE Wife Travelling Without Consent ? by Kobojunkie: 5:01pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
Albertone:Lol... yet people like you wonder how you end up raising kids that belong to other men. Na wa oo! |
Re: Re: UPDATE Wife Travelling Without Consent ? by Albertone(m): 5:05pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Is distance an excuse to cheat? If so, then all soldiers wives must be chronic cheats. |
Re: Re: UPDATE Wife Travelling Without Consent ? by Kobojunkie: 5:07pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
Albertone:Does anyone really need an "excuse" to cheat? Who said anything about that? |
Re: Re: UPDATE Wife Travelling Without Consent ? by mukthar2000(m): 5:10pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
Albertone:meaning she has being going out for long time without ur concept, but be a strong man to settled ur home, or u call both families for intervention b4 things get out of hands. 1 Like |
Re: Re: UPDATE Wife Travelling Without Consent ? by IamMobisola(f): 6:19pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
Albertone:How exactly is it suspicious? What if she got the invite late? I still don't get where the suspicion is coming from. My friend is having an event(whether male or female, it shouldn't matter) |
Re: Re: UPDATE Wife Travelling Without Consent ? by Albertone(m): 7:25pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
IamMobisola: Indirectly, you've showed that you don't care whether your man is pleased with you going or not. I maintain my earlier stand, don't marry a typical African man. Peace! |
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