All (Nigerian) men have experienced this phenomenon. Except those that are strictly introverted or haven't requested a date.

There are plenty of factors underlying the unresponsiveness of women. Factors can emanate from you or them.

1. Women are more open and emotional to men closer to them. Proximity is how you get the better side of women + become aware of their dark sides.

Before a woman can travel from point A to point B to see you through a long distance you must have first created that emotional attachment.

But why do women travel long distances to meet strangers?

This is based on economies. They do it because of money. A prostitute can't become emotionally attached to her client. If there exists any, it is a facade. By the way, prostitutes have men they love genuinely + freely fvck them.

The evolutionary background: women by nature are weak. They need strong men to provide for them and protect them. A stranger can't be trustworthy. Only men in their community will they submit to because they've known over time.

Sex to women is more of security than pleasure. Sex for men is more of pleasures and ego - the boast of a harem.

So prostitutes are because of the money. Because if there is an availability of men to pay their bills and fulfill all their sincere and nonsensical fantasies, prostitution will be non-existent.

Therefore, in rich and developed nations, women engaged in romance for the sake of romance, love, and emotional attachment.
While in poor and underdeveloped nations women leverage romance to upgrade their socio-economic status and creep out of poverty and deprivation.

2. She might be in a relationship.

3. She's in a tarrying bad mood. And can't willingly share with you because you are a stranger. With time she may. But as a man, you'll become impatient because by nature you're not programmed to wait and beg for sex. You just want to hit and move to the next.

4. She doesn't like you. Every woman has a man they like or fantasize about. If you are not up to that standard they will ignore you.

5. Appearance. Your looks may not be ranked as acceptable. Using that metric, they set you aside and wouldn't want you to bother them.

6. Absence of flamboyance at first meet.

Women are emotional. So they can easily be cajoled by the presence of flashiness. This again is due to their desire for security. That's why celebrities can score many women + have multiple baby mamas at will.

If you don't express or show flamboyance women won't take you seriously.

Only well-trained women who are self-conscious and disciplined follow a man due to his ambitions, character, and intelligence. These women are the outliers.

7. It's a mind game. Women don't want to appear cheap. So they'll play the delayed and boring game till they know if you are genuine or not. They don't want to feel cheap.

8. Other men are on the radar. Some of these men are 10 times better than you. Some of these men you are 10 times better than.

This trooping of men of all ages and categories is the pleasure of all women. Some of the men are making bidding you can't or haven't. They fill her with hopes and promises. Her DM and privacy are a cluster of men persuading her into a romantic relationship.

Don't expect her to leave them for you easily. You are not the first. And more are behind you.

9. They want a long stream of persuasions and promises before they accept your proposal. Until you do this they will continue to remain boring.

From the above factors, the only one you have control over is your appearance. So, before you step out look good, smell nice, and talk well. Be happy and jovial. Be humorous and social. Whether they accept or reject you becomes none of your business. Just do your part.

Getting women is a game of numbers. The more you step out and interact, the more women you'll encounter and get hooked by a number of them.

Meanwhile, as a man, you must go for a woman who likes you genuinely. These women you don't need to cajole or convince. They just like you + want to be in love with you. They will make you wish and pray for an eternal romantic relationship.

Have you seen secondary and university lovers? That's what I'm talking about. Genuine love.

Thanks.

doggedfighter:

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duduade:
They are simply not into you


[/b]Step up your game!!!!![b]

On top one Kpekus say na from heaven she descend?

adaperry25:
Is it a Nigerian thing or something? Met 2 ladies already and its same old stuff.

I initiate all chats and calls. If I don't call..no communication..if I don't chat..no communication.

While chatting..you have to ask all the questions and bring up gists.

They can't call u randomly to ask after you.

I don tire o

Trying foreign ladies might not be a bad idea.

Most Nigerian young ladies are lesbians and prostitutes(95%). If you had offered money or sent them money or if you had used a beautiful girl picture, they would have been the one begging you to meet

Bro, don't waste your precious time chasing those girls, forget them and try others. Majority of them are like that.If a girl does not flow with you, cut her off immediately, you are the price if you don't know. Don't be a SIMP.Just like someone here said just throw money at most of them, they will start pursing you like monkeys do to banana, but don't use money as a bait in the game of chasing women.

adaperry25:
Is it a Nigerian thing or something? Met 2 ladies already and its same old stuff.

I initiate all chats and calls. If I don't call..no communication..if I don't chat..no communication.

While chatting..you have to ask all the questions and bring up gists.

They can't call u randomly to ask after you.

I don tire o

Trying foreign ladies might not be a bad idea.

Just 2?

Reach your conclusion after trying >100 girls.

If you want to meet a one-in-a-million girl, you have to meet a million girls.

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She is just not into you.

Women don't give one word answers to their friends do they?

Jeon:
Try foreign Angels.

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JASONjnr:


Nope, when a woman behaves this way, she's either in a relationship or she doesn't just like you or she doesn't know you.

If you want this to change, meet her physically on a date and if you spoil her well... She might want to have a rethink about how she relates to you.

You don't have to spoil a lady for her to like you.

Jeon:
Try foreign Angels.

I taught you meant "fallen" angels, like incubus and succubus 🤣

adaperry25:
Is it a Nigerian thing or something? Met 2 ladies already and its same old stuff.

I initiate all chats and calls. If I don't call..no communication..if I don't chat..no communication.

While chatting..you have to ask all the questions and bring up gists.

They can't call u randomly to ask after you.

I don tire o

Trying foreign ladies might not be a bad idea.

You met wrong ladies.
A lady who likes u will call u and u will get tired.
There are loads of them in Nigeria.
Meet more.
You don't have to convince a girl to like u.

adaperry25:
Is it a Nigerian thing or something? Met 2 ladies already and its same old stuff.

I initiate all chats and calls. If I don't call..no communication..if I don't chat..no communication.

While chatting..you have to ask all the questions and bring up gists.

They can't call u randomly to ask after you.

I don tire o

Trying foreign ladies might not be a bad idea.

It's you abeg. The change begins with you .

JASONjnr:


Nope, when a woman behaves this way, she's either in a relationship or she doesn't just like you or she doesn't know you.

If you want this to change, meet her physically on a date and if you spoil her well... She might want to have a rethink about how she relates to you.

This is FALSE. Many Nigerian girls have nothing in their brains. They are totally clueless, but there are some exceptions though. Chatting with most girls is extremely boring. Like OP said, you have to always lead the chat because the moment you stop, the chat ends.

adaperry25:

I have tho..i think probably one is an introvert and she's wired that way.

I'm an introvert too so it will be difficult

introverts are mostly boring during conversations

dinachi:
Most Nigerian young ladies are lesbians and prostitutes(95%). If you had offered money or sent them money or if you had used a beautiful girl picture, they would have been the one begging you to meet

U factored in the northern girls too?
U need to expand ur horizon, I wonder where u are caught, I know people like u, they are caught in environments that struggle to breed responsible individuals so all the ladies behave d way u described.

Are u not brought up in naija

When they start calling you, they are about asking for money; especially when there birthday is at the corner ...

adaperry25:
Is it a Nigerian thing or something? Met 2 ladies already and its same old stuff.

I initiate all chats and calls. If I don't call..no communication..if I don't chat..no communication.

While chatting..you have to ask all the questions and bring up gists.

They can't call u randomly to ask after you.

I don tire o

Trying foreign ladies might not be a bad idea.

You are right, na hungry unintelligible ones rrmain, they are chatting with 30 guys at once so they cant hold a single deep convo..

adaperry25:
Is it a Nigerian thing or something? Met 2 ladies already and its same old stuff.

I initiate all chats and calls. If I don't call..no communication..if I don't chat..no communication.

While chatting..you have to ask all the questions and bring up gists.

They can't call u randomly to ask after you.
.

Are you Dangote for them to ask after you.

JagabanB:

U factored in the northern girls too?
U need to expand ur horizon, I wonder where u are caught, I know people like u, they are caught in environments that struggle to breed responsible individuals so all the ladies behave d way u described.

Im im that circle

SoNature:


This is FALSE. Many Nigerian girls have nothing in their brains. They are totally clueless, but there are some exceptions though. Chatting with most girls is extremely boring. Like OP said, you have to always lead the chat because the moment you stop, the chat ends.

Stop forcing urself on girls just as Op narrated, wen girls like u, you would be tired of her disturbances on chats.


Reason why many of u having terrible relationship with women is that. You guys are forcing girls to love you ,by putting enomous pressure on them (spending more than normal, excessive caring etc) meanwhile, woman is not built as such, such woman would end up liking you conditionally and not not genuine love, with that, she won't give you all her heart for u in relationship and that's how toxic relationship starts.

bassdow:


introverts are mostly boring during conversations

Not all.Most extroverts can also be boring during conversations too.

JASONjnr:


Nope, when a woman behaves this way, she's either in a relationship or she doesn't just like you or she doesn't know you.

If you want this to change, meet her physically on a date and if you spoil her well... She might want to have a rethink about how she relates to you.

This isn't a trait of someone interested in you rather you are just bringing an ant infested firewood home.

adaperry25:
Is it a Nigerian thing or something? Met 2 ladies already and its same old stuff.

I initiate all chats and calls. If I don't call..no communication..if I don't chat..no communication.

While chatting..you have to ask all the questions and bring up gists.

They can't call u randomly to ask after you.

I don tire o

Trying foreign ladies might not be a bad idea.

Some girls are introverts but the average Nigerian girl plays not only hard to get bt mannerless and toxic.

They are also not interested in good conversations unless it's about money.

Anytime I'm speaking my grammar these girls can't keep up unless they need money or connection to solve their problems. Others low-key runs girls who only understands money and sex talks nothing intelligent to offer.

it is highly disappointing.

doggedfighter:
Just 2 women and you are already saying Nigerian ladies.


If you meet my type that will use communication
wound you . You will run and say they're clingy.


Try foreign angels like Jeon said.

Foreign ladies are perfect.

Come use communication wound me.
Buh the guy's correct. Now,I've taken it upon myself to block any girl that replies my chats with ok or k or hmm. Na straight blocking. No time.

Men woo women, that is natural. If you're not ready to woo then try being gay.

Crafteck1:



Im im that circle

Doesn't hold true.
I have met people like that, all the girls they have known in their life time are inti hookups, convincing them that it's not the way is difficult.

JASONjnr:


Nope, when a woman behaves this way, she's either in a relationship or she doesn't just like you or she doesn't know you.

If you want this to change, meet her physically on a date and if you spoil her well... She might want to have a rethink about how she relates to you.

Remove the spoil. Why does he need to spoil her on first date. First date should be normal reasonable amount of food and drink and alor of getting to know each other. Thats the way to do it

kingthreat:
Men woo women, that is natural. If you're not ready to woo then try being gay.

Wooing should not be time wasting and energy draining naa.