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Myer:
A valuable woman/man is worth the wait.
Unfortunately such women/men are hard to come by in this generation.

When you meet what you've been searching for in a man/woman, you'll understand.
And please, this is not about money or good sex. But the things that matter more.

This guys own case is different. he has not met her bfr or know a flinch bout her

JustPowerApps:
In a plot twist that could only be described as Shakespearean mixed with a touch of Marvel superhero origin story, our oga has defied the odds, conquered the abyss of rejection, and emerged victorious in the game of love!

While mere mortals might have thrown in the towel after a week of being ignored, our man strapped on his cape of resilience, donned his armor of determination, and charged headfirst into the battlefield of unrequited affection for half a decade!🤣🤣🤣🤣

Witnesses said he dodged rejection bullets, leaped over barriers of indifference, and somersaulted through the flaming hoops of emotional distance, all in pursuit of the elusive lady's heart!

Experts are now considering whether he should be nominated for a Nobel Prize in SIMPING or awarded the title of 'The Unbeatable SIMP.' Either way, the man who turned a five-year snub into a lifetime commitment has earned his place in the Hall of Epic SIMPS Stories! 💑🏆

This is not just a marriage; it is a symphony of persistence in the face of indifference, and a lesson to us all: Never underestimate the power of someone crazy enough to wait for a girl for half a decade.

Stay tuned for the next chapter in this extraordinary love saga, as our hero now navigates the uncharted territory of marital bliss after half a decade of relentless pursuit!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Lol🤣🤣, Your literary eloquence is commendable, I'm just surprised that nairaland guys see true love as a simpleton affair, so you guys mean Romeo and Juliet, sleeping beauty, Cinderella, snow white, and all those fairytale heroes and heroine we grew up reading about are nonsense, love is actually a beautiful thing and everyone responds to love not to talk of a woman, by the time the so called simple man has married the beauty queens and decent women, the so called red piller male will be left with prostitutes and worthless females because while the red piller guy is busy forming the simple guy is busy buying flowers and gifts, the girls mother and friends will encourage her to go for the caring simple guy, dey play.

Iamblessed85:
Why are they always hell bent on convincing their spouse to japa? Even the ones with good paying jobs

1. Potentially better income.
2. Gynocentric laws. Consequences for most of the sh*t men get away with here.
3. Better quality of life.
4. Bragging points.
5. The man is most likely paying the lion share of the relocation expense.

For the woman in the OP, emigrating will tilt the relationship dynamics firmly in her favor.
It's the perfect insurance plan that covers all her bases.

-Lord

I'm sure most women have experienced this as I also have, a guy in your DM saying hello for several years, wishing you seasonal wishes etc which you ignored because you are in a relationship or married, I have had several and still have some but in case something happens to the relationship you are in, the natural thing is to give the dm guy a chance and if you discover he is gold you hold on to him, I don't know why nairaland guys find it painful, I'm sure the guy is very happy. I wish both of them happiness forever

Offpointng:
This guys own case is different. he has not met her bfr or know a flinch bout her

Initially yes. But we don't have enough information to know if she is worth the wait or not.lol

Bruh, you know how long Jacob labour just because of Rachael for bible? 14 whole years!
He no feel the long years because he saw what was worth waiting for.

Five years wey Dem take dey chase degree na you carry chase woman, na wa o

Na money bring them together!

oguns222:
■ No, she agreed because all her other options were not ready or have married other better girls and age is catching up with her, just as age us catching up with you.

How do you know this for a fact?

oguns222:
■ She decided to marry him because her other options were no more available.

If we are being honest, do men and women not equally marry the who that is available when they are ready?

excanny:
■ Not everyone will end up like you.

I don't want everyone to be like me, thank you!

Never simp for any woman! There are just too many fish in the river and too many in the ocean. Be a man. Be rich. Be successful. Never run after any woman and if you must do that, never do it for too long. Let women run after you. Be bold to get a better looking woman if one is trying to be arrogant. Go for it.

Kobojunkie:
If we are being honest, do men and women not equally marry the who that is available when they are ready?

I'm this case, she only chose to marry him because all other options have been eliminated.

Kobojunkie:
How do you know this for a fact?

This is what you women do.

oguns222:
■ I'm this case, she only chose to marry him because all other options have been eliminated.

This could have been the same thing in his case as well.

oguns222:
■ This is what you women do.

And it is the same thing men do too.

Hezmatosky:
Worship women?
Make i kuku blow your mind. I love woman pass money, especially those with massive endowments. I can do anything to get them. Because of woman, i leave monday work follow woman go church and the end justifies the sacrifice. Try and heal yourself from this virus of hating women ok. They're gorgeous. In fact, woman is one of the best gifts of God to mankind. Love them, chase them, [/b]steal them from anybody and run with them. They worth every sacrifice[b]. Thats why men go on their kneels to propose to them. They're angels on earth. [/b]Always love women so that your life will be long [b]

😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣 and dem waste Fanta and Cabin biscuits for this one naming Ceremony , Chai ....... If only dem know say he go later waste him life on top kpekus , dem for use as am doing money rituals ,, ewwww

No lady goes back to her 6 year old dump unless she has been used, exploited and dumped. She has exhausted all her options hence her settling for the dregs in the barrel and the man is too stupid to know. Don't ever choose anyone who regards you as the last option. It never ends well.

SHAME ON YOU BRO!!! YOUR FELLOW NIGGAZ WHO THEM BABE SAID YES WHEN YOUR LovePeddler SAID NO..ARE NOW FOUNDATIONALLY MARRIED WITH THREE BEAUTIFUL KIDS AND ALL IN SCHOOL...

AND YOU WASTED ALL THOSE YEARS WAITING ON A LovePeddler TO GET DUMPED....YOU LESS THAN A MAN..YOU BELONG TO BURNT SCRAPS FROM THE BOTTOM OF THE POT.

Kobojunkie:
I don't want everyone to be like me, thank you!

Who wants to be a miserable old witch?

Hezmatosky:
Worship women?
Make i kuku blow your mind. I love woman pass money, especially those with massive endowments. I can do anything to get them. Because of woman, i leave monday work follow woman go church and the end justifies the sacrifice. Try and heal yourself from this virus of hating women ok. They're gorgeous. In fact, woman is one of the best gifts of God to mankind. Love them, chase them, steal them from anybody and run with them. They worth every sacrifice. Thats why men go on their kneels to propose to them. They're angels on earth. Always love women so that your life will be long

Whatever rocks your boat, all I know is only men without there own personal interests takes women serious!, people that'll bail out within a twinkle of an eye once you worth nothing?, 😆 🤣, I reiterate whatever rocks your boat

Mhizzard:
what is the trashe you quoted??

You are the trash 😆 🤣

Dennisochampa:
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This is what's wrong with the world today...
We have our lives to live and choices to make but we condemn that of others....
I'm sure you have made some very funny decisions in life that no one insulted you for....
If he is comfortable waiting for the woman of his dreams, then let's wish him well...
Personally for me, I can't wait for a woman's response for more than 1 day... I grow uninterested no matter how pretty she is but that is me....
I can't call someone who decided to spend his time to wait foolish...... The same thing applies to religion... We want to force our ways and beliefs on others which should not be

We have our lives to live and choices to make but we condemn that of others.... hence we have wise and foolish choices!, well I understand your point of you trying to say we should mind our businesses because its his choice, but in the real sense did he mind his own before broadcasting it on the Internet like it's an amazing feat he achieved, anything posted online is subjected to different opinions and that's my opinion concerning his choice, next time he should learn to keep his choices to himself!, I'm a realist and blunt, I'm not diplomatical or sugar coating in nature, finally I reason and say things logically not emotionally!

minasu190:
After many trials.
Na man you be, congratulation!

Which man? That nigga is a simp with zero self respect.

Caleycash:
We have our lives to live and choices to make but we condemn that of others.... hence we have wise and foolish choices!, well I understand your point of you trying to say we should mind our businesses because its his choice, but in the real sense did he mind his own before broadcasting it on the Internet like it's an amazing feat he achieved, anything posted online is subjected to different opinions and that's my opinion concerning his choice, next time he should learn to keep his choices to himself!, I'm a realist and blunt, I'm not diplomatical or sugar coating in nature, finally I reason and say things logically not emotionally!

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He posted the story... Not to ask for anyone's opinions but to share his happy moments.....
It's simple, what doesn't make sense to you makes sense to another.. That's how this world is designed.... As long as it makes him happy and doesn't hurt you in any way, then you have no right to judge or condemn him.... Especially given that he didn't call anyone's name when making the post....... Instead of abusing him for the choices he's made.... U can choose to ignore the post entirely

Dennisochampa:
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He posted the story... Not to ask for anyone's opinions but to share his happy moments.....
It's simple, what doesn't make sense to you makes sense to another.. That's how this world is designed.... As long as it makes him happy and doesn't hurt you in any way, then you have no right to judge or condemn him.... Especially given that he didn't call anyone's name when making the post....... Instead of abusing him for the choices he's made.... U can choose to ignore the post entirely

Well I understand your stance, but you and I know we all have perspectives in this life and thats hard to change, makes us humans and unique, I like the way we have this conversation without insults though 😉

SweetBuns:
I wish them nothing but the best

All the messages there were in 2019...
So how you mathematically reach 5years

excanny:
■ Who wants to be a miserable old witch?

If that is what you are, that is OK by me too.

Holluwhakemmy:
E saanu mi o e ma naa mi o. Goat meat for Christmas then Cow for new year

Wasere!!!!

Invite me jare...😃

She will still give him other men’s kids. Stop playing!

GloriousGbola:
I have know you for two years. 3 more years to go

You still won't beat the record set by one simp who pursued me from the time I was about 18/19. He graduated into stalking me later on when his pursuits proved futile.

Lol, 5yrs chasing after a lady. You for study her as a course for uni nah. Nawa for some men o