I have 2 kids (boy and girl) with my wife in a marriage of 6 years , and I needed another child but my wife doesn’t (she went for family planning) what should I do?

Advice please

Why doesn’t she want another one.
She needs to explain herself,we need to hear from her.
Childbirth is no joke for women

misreal:
Why doesn’t she want another one.
She needs to explain herself,we need to hear from her.
Childbirth is no joke for women

She said it will affect her cause she’s into modeling

Didnt u guys agree on the number of children to have b4 marriage

Always looking for a way to end marriage. But men will be pissed off when a woman didn't consider /reconsider marriage.

Leave her alone.. Since you knew it will affect her. Yes, it will affect her and you be the same person complaining about sagged breast and stretch marks making her to be less attractive to you. The next thing is to spy outside and cheating begins
.

End the Marriage if you can't deal with it.

Jeon:
leave her alone.. Since you knew it will affect her.

Pinky brains.

Condensed milk brain.

Should you End the marriage? Yes end it make everybody rest!!

So you want to end the marriage because of this small issue.
Oga the problem is you, even though what she did was wrong but truth be told you lack authoritative frame in the marriage, that's why your wife went for family planning without your consent. There's no respect, because there is no head.
I think you're one of those that believe in equality in marriage.
DON'T DARE END THAT MARRIAGE BECAUSE OF THIS.

Infact, you need to start building up your Masculinity and take up headship in your marriage.

onobire83:
I have 2 kids (boy and girl) with my wife in a marriage of 6 years , and I needed another child but my wife doesn’t (she went for family planning) what should I do?

Advice please

You don dey mad abi! Please get off this space. We are expecting people who have genuine challenges not greedy, ridiculous and mofos like you.

If you like, destroy your marriage, I only pity the unfortunate woman married to you.

Idiot.

onobire83:


She said it will affect her cause she’s into modeling

She went for family planning without your consent? And her reason for not wanting another child is not because you can't take care of them, but because she thinks it will "affect her body"? ...

Regardless...
No be every small thing wey sup na it suppose cause divorce oga ...

I don't think that an issue like this should lead to a divorce as it can be resolved by communication (unless there's something other than this) ...

And besides, you need to consider your children now, cause growing up in a broken home will affect your children ...

So try marriage counseling first ...

onobire83:


She said it will affect her cause she’s into modeling

You went and marry a pretty model and you want her to destroy her shape?


Aside the economy of the country, how are you faring financially? Are you taking good care of your family? Are you investing and saving for their future?

Have you called a family meeting to involve her family on your intentions for a third child? Did you promise her that you won't have many kids?

onobire83:


She said it will affect her cause she’s into modeling

That means she can have later when the career collapse. Be watching and accept it. A customer of mine had such issues. see! Most times when things like this happen let them please themselves. Just improve on your capacity to earn and avoid distraction. Take care of yourself. More children is actually more responsibility for you. Try being agreeable on situations they expected you not to and you get more time to plan. That my customer told her he is adopting 2 young boys 4 year Olds madam says why. Na baba say they look so much like him. Aunty change o. Be less available to sometimes.

onobire83:


She said it will affect her cause she’s into modeling

Then wait for her t be ready na.
She won’t model forever.
Moreover,didn’t you know she was a model before attempting to marry her?

Don’t leave her oh,no one can tell what wahala your next wife will carry

Jeon:
Always looking for a way to end marriage. But men will be pissed off when a woman didn't consider /reconsider marriage.

Leave her alone.. Since you knew it will affect her. Yes, it will affect her and you be the same person complaining about sagged breast and stretch marks making her to be less attractive to you. The next thing is to spy outside and cheating begins
.

End the Marriage if you can't deal with it.

If your son's or brother's wife do family planing behind your son or brother, will you be happy about it?

onobire83:
I have 2 kids (boy and girl) with my wife in a marriage of 6 years , and I needed another child but my wife doesn’t (she went for family planning) what should I do?

Advice please

She has given you two children in 6 years. What do you still want? Are you thinking about her own welfare or you think about your own welfare alone. Please let her be and show her all the affection you can muster. Don't be stingy to her abeg

onobire83:
I have 2 kids (boy and girl) with my wife in a marriage of 6 years , and I needed another child but my wife doesn’t (she went for family planning) what should I do?

Advice please

She did the right thing by doing family planning, the only issue is not telling you but she did the right thing.

Pregnancy isnt easy, she isnt a machine, at the end, it takes a toll on the woman body

Let her be and let her pursue her dreams

You're a man, you wife can't decide for you..
Take another wife..

onobire83:
I have 2 kids (boy and girl) with my wife in a marriage of 6 years , and I needed another child but my wife doesn’t (she went for family planning) what should I do?

Advice please

Try and fork her , try all means to score goal


If you're luckily e go enter


Or find one mumu girl give am belle

You sure sat they never teargas you sha. Use your head oooo

In this economy brother

Two children is enough for you

God has already done it for you (A boy and a Girl)

We have enough population worrying this country pls

misreal:

Then wait for her t be ready na.
She won’t model forever.
Moreover,didn’t you know she was a model before attempting to marry her?

Don’t leavbe her oh,no one can tell what wahala your next wife will carry

Wisely counsel.

onobire83:
I have 2 kids (boy and girl) with my wife in a marriage of 6 years , and I needed another child but my wife doesn’t (she went for family planning) what should I do?

Advice please

Though she might have a silly reason cos of her career, i would like you to hear this.
It is not the number of children that matter but your emotional, ethical and finanancial capacity... and if you're already rich then consider your emotional and ethical capacity.
Now the kids are young they're cute and cuddly, once they're of teenage years know that you're going to be challenged with their upbringing and things that go with it.
It's a herculean task I assure you as life is full of challenges irrespective of your financial standing...
Be wise, maintain the 2 you have and give them the best of yourself especially! Cheers

What is ur economic strength ? Marriage is not all about giving birth sir . She has her reason

No! you too carry the belle and born.the time nurturing and also running around don tire the woman and with your question you don't seems like someone who understands and see other perspectives. Ask for her reasons and will you be there for her

OYO

onobire83:
I have 2 kids (boy and girl) with my wife in a marriage of 6 years , and I needed another child but my wife doesn’t (she went for family planning) what should I do?

Advice please

This is one of the ass.holes getting Nigeria overpopulated. Mehn! Why am I in the same nation with mad people?

onobire83:
I have 2 kids (boy and girl) with my wife in a marriage of 6 years , and I needed another child but my wife doesn’t (she went for family planning) what should I do?

Advice please

Nothing, aside, consider, a mutually agreed adoption.

Having a child doesnt only happen genetically

_{Personal text: Jesus is not a theologian. He is God who told stories.}

Yes and no!

Yes, because before you brought the topic here, you'd already contemplated it. So I'm just supporting you to follow your mind.


No, because when your actions backfires in the future, you wouldn't say its Kenny of Nairaland that gave you the advice.

Meanwhile, how do you guys feel bringing family discussion to Nairaland? God abeg o!

Yugoslavia247:


Pinky brains.

Condensed milk brain.

Isn't too harsh lol