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DIVINEEVIDENCE:
Sex for a woman is tied to her mind, her emotions, her active imagination.

If thoughts of you, your voice, perfume or presence doesn't make her wet, forget it. You can never give her an orgasm or a fitful sex-induced sleep.

Fake moans, fake orgasms will be your portion while you frantically race towards a heart attack

PstDapo:
While you improve yourself and manage to accrue some resources focusing on your goals, you also become a target of these alpha widows, gold diggers waiting at the finish line for you to come save them while sleeping around with guys they consider superior to you all the years you were building yourself. Either ignore and reject them if you are moral or pump-dump them to their dismay.

PstDapo:
While you improve yourself and manage to accrue some resources focusing on your goals, you also become a target of these alpha widows, gold diggers waiting at the finish line for you to come save them while sleeping around with guys they consider superior to you all the years you were building yourself. Either ignore and reject them if you are moral or pump-dump them to their dismay.

PstDapo:
I agree with you with a lot of things you said until the last sentence. A broke Alpha will not get more sex than a rich simp instead a broke alpha will get the best sex with few ladies than choose him than lackluster sex they give to their rich simps.

Look around you, the sugar daddies and the rich betas are getting more sex than the broke dudes (even if Alpha) because they have the resources to get it, eventho the sex might not be good enough and they come at a ridiculous price. Some rich simps are ready to spend millions for a pussy a broke Alpha gets for free.

The broke Alpha don't necessarily get laid by all the women he comes across, why? He can't attract them all but the few he gets give him mind blowing sex which the rich simp can never get. The rich simp has the resources to get any girl laid even if watery sex is all they have to give him.

The broke Alpha gets few quantity but high quality sex, the rich simp get high quantity but low quality sex.

SPAMBOX7:
Why would someone choose to be a broke alpha. I don't even think it's proper to address someone who hasn't gotten their shit together as alpha sef. Any man that's broke shouldn't put themselves in any category, be it alpha or not.

Get your shit together then you will know if you alpha or not. Cos I have seen many dudes form alpha but when they start getting paid they start wasting and simping on hoes. Now ask me what went wrong with their alphaness. I dunno

Till a man has his shit together you won't know if he's alpha or not. This is because women don't test low value men. High value men get tested the most. I have never seen where they categorized a broke man as high value. So until you have your shit together and the tests start coming and you can pass them that's when you know if you alpha or not. End

kobams:
Good day guys, so there’s this girl I’ve been smashing, then about 2/3 weeks ago she asked me why I haven’t asked her out yet, so I just evaded the question and later at night she messaged me and said she was letting me go, eventually we spoke about it and since then we’ve been having this back and forth mainly about this issue so during this period she started confessing her feelings, telling me how much she really likes me and all, the thing is i like her too, now the issue is that she told me she can’t continue whatever is between us cuz she’s trying to protect herself and her heart, that she’s gonna let go now frfr, so we talked and she said she’s gonna go with her decision because it feels safer for her, so I said No wahala
I don’t want to let go of her yet
Rizzputin pukkalolo and other gurus in the house please what’s my next line of action?

IAmHim1:
SPAMBOX7 talking truthfull

understanding the redpill in relationship alone makes one JUST A BADBOY...NOTHING MORE NOTHING LESS

this is not a redpiller thread...ITS A BADBOY THREAD...languages just confused some people here

imagine a redpiller with a choice eating junk food and eating junk drinks and subsequently having a pot belly and still calling it chubby n cute...lolzzzz...neva av i eva...

or imagine a redpiller that uses viagra to fvck dem gurls...

or imagine a redpiller that easily falls for ponzi scheme...doesnt know or MAKES AN ATTEMPT to know how the monetary system works

imagine a redpiller that doesnt have a good sense of dressing...doesnt know neither is he/she making an attempt

and yes, girls can become redpillers too. trinity, neo's girlfriend, took the redpill too or av u all forgotten

imagine a redpiller with lack of discipline in his/her life....cant stoo eating junk food that makes one obese or cannt stop watching porn or even attempt to stop

THIS IS A BAD BOY THREAD, ALL RESPECT TO GLYCOLISIS...so sad it turned to all these shii being displayed here.

no truth/ research on how to be better in and out of sex ...just sum lame stories of some guys having mommy issues...

imagine having sex and ur finance aint in order...OF COURSE YOU SHOULDNT BE EXPECTING TO LAST LONG...a man cant kiss a girl and drive a car at the same time

ok..youre broke badboy....have you made an attempt to game a rich lonely woman?
where can we find one??
ever gotten one before, HOW DO THEY THINK? DO THEY THINK LIKE MEN SINCE BEING IN THE CORPORATE WORLD FOR LONG CLIMBING THE CORPORATE LADDER FORCES THESE WOMEN TO BRING OUT THEIR LOGIC??

how do they spend money...what are their thought process like when it comes to makingdecisins, family or personal?? tge average pickmeishas or not?? do they correlate with the make up of a pickmeisha?? emotional or logical or mix?? how do we game them

no nothing...just sum great bullshit and less game

kobams:
Good day guys, so there’s this girl I’ve been smashing, then about 2/3 weeks ago she asked me why I haven’t asked her out yet, so I just evaded the question and later at night she messaged me and said she was letting me go, eventually we spoke about it and since then we’ve been having this back and forth mainly about this issue so during this period she started confessing her feelings, telling me how much she really likes me and all, the thing is i like her too, now the issue is that she told me she can’t continue whatever is between us cuz she’s trying to protect herself and her heart, that she’s gonna let go now frfr, so we talked and she said she’s gonna go with her decision because it feels safer for her, so I said No wahala
I don’t want to let go of her yet
Rizzputin pukkalolo and other gurus in the house please what’s my next line of action?

I am terrible with women. Okay, maybe not entirely. I have no problem talking to them and easily make them laugh but escalating with the ones I find attractive is where the problem lies. I don't know how to get sexual/romantic with women. I don't know how to change from normal conversations to romantic ones. It's becoming more troubling the older I get, cos younger me simply do not care.


The strange thing is, women in general actually like me.


Over the past 5 months, I've had 3 good looking girls give strong "greenlight". We'll talk, we'll joke around but on getting sexual, I couldn't go beyond collecting their numbers. With one of the 3 girls the "greenlight" was so intense that at some point I fear she was going to jump me. Still did nothing beyond getting her number and the whole thing fizzled out.


I do score sometimes though but it's usually more chance than delibrate effort. I want this to change. I'll like to know how to transition from having a normal convo to sexual and romantic side of things.


Like currently, I have one sweet 23/24 years old girl showing interest. We live in the same neighbourhood and I collected her number since last week and I've been staring at it. Do I call her? Do I text her on whatsapp? What do I tell her if I call her, what do I say to her on whatsapp beyond the normal chitchat?

allandutch:
Guys, I need your help. I am terrible with women.


Okay, maybe not entirely. I have no problem talking to them and easily make them laugh but escalating with the ones I find attractive is where the problem lies. I don't know how to get sexual/romantic with women. I don't know how to change from normal conversations to romantic ones. It's becoming more troubling the older I get, cos younger me simply do not care.


The strange thing is, women in general actually like me.


Over the past 5 months, I've had 3 good looking girls give strong "greenlight". We'll talk, we'll joke around but on getting sexual, I couldn't go beyond collecting their numbers. With one of the 3 girls the "greenlight" was so intense that at some point I fear she was going to jump me. Still did nothing beyond getting her number and the whole thing fizzled out.


I do score sometimes though but it's usually more chance than delibrate effort. I want this to change. I'll like to know how to transition from having a normal convo to sexual and romantic side of things.


Like currently, I have one sweet 23/24 years old girl showing interest. We live in the same neighbourhood and I collected her number since last week and I've been staring at it. Do I call her? Do I text her on whatsapp? What do I tell her if I call her, what do I say to her on whatsapp beyond the normal chitchat?



Sorry for the long message. Your inputs will be much appreciated.

allandutch:
Guys, I need your help. I am terrible with women.


Okay, maybe not entirely. I have no problem talking to them and easily make them laugh but escalating with the ones I find attractive is where the problem lies. I don't know how to get sexual/romantic with women. I don't know how to change from normal conversations to romantic ones. It's becoming more troubling the older I get, cos younger me simply do not care.



Sorry for the long message. Your inputs will be much appreciated.

allandutch:
Guys, I need your help. I am terrible with women.


Okay, maybe not entirely. I have no problem talking to them and easily make them laugh but escalating with the ones I find attractive is where the problem lies. I don't know how to get sexual/romantic with women. I don't know how to change from normal conversations to romantic ones. It's becoming more troubling the older I get, cos younger me simply do not care.


The strange thing is, women in general actually like me.


Over the past 5 months, I've had 3 good looking girls give strong "greenlight". We'll talk, we'll joke around but on getting sexual, I couldn't go beyond collecting their numbers. With one of the 3 girls the "greenlight" was so intense that at some point I fear she was going to jump me. Still did nothing beyond getting her number and the whole thing fizzled out.


I do score sometimes though but it's usually more chance than delibrate effort. I want this to change. I'll like to know how to transition from having a normal convo to sexual and romantic side of things.


Like currently, I have one sweet 23/24 years old girl showing interest. We live in the same neighbourhood and I collected her number since last week and I've been staring at it. Do I call her? Do I text her on whatsapp? What do I tell her if I call her, what do I say to her on whatsapp beyond the normal chitchat?



Sorry for the long message. Your inputs will be much appreciated.

PstDapo:
I agree with you with a lot of things you said until the last sentence. A broke Alpha will not get more sex than a rich simp instead a broke alpha will get the best sex with few ladies than choose him than lackluster sex they give to their rich simps.

Look around you, the sugar daddies and the rich betas are getting more sex than the broke dudes (even if Alpha) because they have the resources to get it, eventho the sex might not be good enough and they come at a ridiculous price. Some rich simps are ready to spend millions for a pussy a broke Alpha gets for free.

The broke Alpha don't necessarily get laid by all the women he comes across, why? He can't attract them all but the few he gets give him mind blowing sex which the rich simp can never get. The rich simp has the resources to get any girl laid even if watery sex is all they have to give him.

The broke Alpha gets few quantity but high quality sex, the rich simp get high quantity but low quality sex.

Rukevwe999:
Some of what you said are what some fake alphas use to console themselves. Any woman who rolls with a broke man because he is alpha and gives a great sexual experience has issues, and would abandon the relationship when she's had her fill. Understand me, I'm not saying that money should be the only way to attract women, but women have a lower sex drive than we do. Rather they value material security over great sex.
Again the rich simp has an higher advantage over the broke alpha. He can become a alpha tomorrow while the broke alpha would have to work two-times harder to become rich. Being rich has it's advantage in the sexual marketplace: First, the he has more options and can change women as he likes with his financial power. Unlike the broke "alpha" who manages a few women whose loyalty cannot be trusted. Second, with money your environment changes, you can travel to different countries and meet more beautiful women of other races. You can also connect with high valued women, models, actresses, daughters of powerful men etc while the broke fake alpha wears a paper crown, competing with his kind for the low valued women in his locality.

Any man who is broke but prides himself in his ability to attain sex from women effortlessly needs to do some self reflecting.
At the same time any man who is rich and cannot channel his wealth properly to his advantage in sexual market place is like a fool who will always part with his gold.

Rukevwe999:
Some of what you said are what some fake alphas use to console themselves. Any woman who rolls with a broke man because he is alpha and gives a great sexual experience has issues, and would abandon the relationship when she's had her fill. Understand me, I'm not saying that money should be the only way to attract women, but women have a lower sex drive than we do. Rather they value material security over great sex.
Again the rich simp has an higher advantage over the broke alpha. He can become a alpha tomorrow while the broke alpha would have to work two-times harder to become rich. Being rich has it's advantage in the sexual marketplace: First, the he has more options and can change women as he likes with his financial power. Unlike the broke "alpha" who manages a few women whose loyalty cannot be trusted. Second, with money your environment changes, you can travel to different countries and meet more beautiful women of other races. You can also connect with high valued women, models, actresses, daughters of powerful men etc while the broke fake alpha wears a paper crown, competing with his kind for the low valued women in his locality.

Any man who is broke but prides himself in his ability to attain sex from women effortlessly needs to do some self reflecting.
At the same time any man who is rich and cannot channel his wealth properly to his advantage in sexual market place is like a fool who will always part with his gold.

Rukevwe999:
but women have a lower sex drive than we do. Rather they value material security over great sex.
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SPAMBOX7:
Why would someone choose to be a broke alpha. I don't even think it's proper to address someone who hasn't gotten their shit together as alpha sef. Any man that's broke shouldn't put themselves in any category, be it alpha or not.

Get your shit together then you will know if you alpha or not. Cos I have seen many dudes form alpha but when they start getting paid they start wasting and simping on hoes. Now ask me what went wrong with their alphaness. I dunno

Till a man has his shit together you won't know if he's alpha or not. This is because women don't test low value men. High value men get tested the most. I have never seen where they categorized a broke man as high value. So until you have your shit together and the tests start coming and you can pass them that's when you know if you alpha or not. End

Smartb0y:
@bolded

Who told you women have a lower sex drive? Science?.
You really need to wake up.
When you really get to realize that women are pretenders and earthly(they prefer anything that has to bring pleasure over anything else)
Then you'll realize men are still learning 😅

Women just pretend to be sexual prudes,it is how society deemed it from the start else they be shamed.
Part of the reason why we have feminism and sexual liberation aka hoeism.

If you like ,keep deceiving yourself that religious girl is not capable of commiting the worst, OYO is your case.

We advocate for marrying virgins not because they're angelic but because the chances of them not becoming erratic sexually has been greatly reduced compared to not having any restriction aka hymen.

Personally,I aim to attract shy good girls who want to be bad for a particular guy.

Do you know what it feels like when a girl wants to be bad for you,if you don't you're really missing out.

I don't indulge with hoes,I just keep them around . it has its perks.

Understand this young blood Women only show their crazy high sex drive to that guy they want to be bad for aka mister bad boy
I'm not a fan of using the word alpha.

If they reveal their naughty side to every guy,they lose value, opportunity, favour, commitment.
Why?
Because no sensible guy takes a hoe seriously.

I used the word sensible,simps always defy the odds/rules.

Having said all these, don't expect women to reveal that they think about sex every single moment. Instead use it to your advantage.

Bonus part
Women always sexualize everything.
Yes I mean everything ,even what doesn't warrant sexualizing

Why
Sex is the number one thing on their mind and how to capitalize on it.

A common trend I have noticed over a large demography of women
Have you seen a woman walking wearing shirt and trouser/skirt?

They always tend to lift the shirt up so their asses will show.
If the shirt falls off their waist, they tend to lift it up again and again and again

What are they doing or thinking about
Sex,yes they are sexualizing themselves in that very moment.

It is deeply ingrained in their subconscious to sexualize anything.

Because they know sex sells.

Women think more about sex/they have just as equally high sex drive if not even more than men

luminouz:
You nailed it. We may have more testosterone than women but damn...a woman can fuq more times, have faster recovery time and they enjoy sex more than men. If only you know what that prude-looking girl is thinking of, you'd be shocked.

adambeatz:
Bro, stop that capping, how would you say women have lower sex drive than men, it's like you haven't broadened your horizon to understand women get Hot more times than men, ohhh if women had low sex drive why is Nigeria rated 2nd in paternity fraud cases by statistics. If it were so, every woman would be faithful to their man cause their emotions won't flare-up loading them to indluge in sexual escapades that'll make even you question the reality you live in. Bro how many men do you see wanting to do gang bangs compared to women, how you taken time to see this GenZ girls, brother even the devil takes notes from this special generation when it comes to immorality.

Smartb0y:
@bolded

Who told you women have a lower sex drive? Science?.
You really need to wake up.
When you really get to realize that women are pretenders and earthly(they prefer anything that has to bring pleasure over anything else)
Then you'll realize men are still learning 😅

Women just pretend to be sexual prudes,it is how society deemed it from the start else they be shamed.
Part of the reason why we have feminism and sexual liberation aka hoeism.

If you like ,keep deceiving yourself that religious girl is not capable of commiting the worst, OYO is your case.

We advocate for marrying virgins not because they're angelic but because the chances of them not becoming erratic sexually has been greatly reduced compared to not having any restriction aka hymen.

Personally,I aim to attract shy good girls who want to be bad for a particular guy.

Do you know what it feels like when a girl wants to be bad for you,if you don't you're really missing out.

I don't indulge with hoes,I just keep them around . it has its perks.

Understand this young blood Women only show their crazy high sex drive to that guy they want to be bad for aka mister bad boy
I'm not a fan of using the word alpha.

If they reveal their naughty side to every guy,they lose value, opportunity, favour, commitment.
Why?
Because no sensible guy takes a hoe seriously.

I used the word sensible,simps always defy the odds/rules.

Having said all these, don't expect women to reveal that they think about sex every single moment. Instead use it to your advantage.

Bonus part
Women always sexualize everything.
Yes I mean everything ,even what doesn't warrant sexualizing

Why
Sex is the number one thing on their mind and how to capitalize on it.

A common trend I have noticed over a large demography of women
Have you seen a woman walking wearing shirt and trouser/skirt?

They always tend to lift the shirt up so their asses will show.
If the shirt falls off their waist, they tend to lift it up again and again and again

What are they doing or thinking about
Sex,yes they are sexualizing themselves in that very moment.

It is deeply ingrained in their subconscious to sexualize anything.

Because they know sex sells.

Women think more about sex/they have just as equally high sex drive if not even more than men

Rukevwe999:
Didn't see it that way.
But which gender patronises brothels and strip clubs, pay OnlyFans subscription, buy enhancement drugs, goes to PornHub, suffers more from PMO addictions, and gets in trouble for sex related crimes ?